Last Name 1

[Name]

[Course Title]

[Instructor Name]

[Date]

Factors Promoting Higher Divorce Rates.

Marriage is a legal bond between two people to spend the entire life together and to

remain on each other’s side in all situations. Many of the marriages that take place are successful

and both the partners live together till the end of their lives very happily. But in some cases this

legal bond in which many promises are made during the time of marriage are shattered and

broken down into pieces within a fraction of time, usually because of petty issues (Jasper,

Margaret, 12-23). When the husband and wife are spending major part of the time of the day

with each other there are chances that they may start to quarrel on small issues which otherwise

have no significance; it is at that moment when any one of the partner must show sensibility and

finish over the fight. But it is usually in these circumstances that no one is ready to compromise

and solve the issue and this small issue turns into a huge fight and it may even sometimes result

in divorce. However in some cases divorce can have many other reasons other than the small

petty fights (Hetherington, 45-67).

Divorce is the legal separation or ending of the relation known as marriage. After the

divorce the wife has no right or responsibility over the husband or the husband has any rights or

responsibility over the wife. The government has also passed some laws in order to make the

matters of divorce satisfactory and acceptable with both the parties and no one is left deprived or

treated with some injustice. Without legal work in this matter there were many possibilities that
 Last Name 2

the stronger party would take advantage of the weak party and would do certain injustice to the

weaker party. The matter of divorce is very critical and a serious issue and requires serious

pondering over the court to handle the matter with equity and justice so that no one can take

undue advantage of the other. Divorce has many adverse effects on the children, on the separated

wife and husband as well, financial conditions, mental conditions, lifestyle, living conditions,

and every bit of life changes due to the divorce. Divorce is the worst act that has been allowed

legally (Jasper, Margaret, 34-56).

There are a number of reasons that can lead to divorce among the two parties. The reason

can be petty fights to huge serious fights. Husband and wife is a relation that is full of small

issues and these small insignificant issues must be solved with mutual consences and

compromise by both. In the relation of marriage it is extremely necessary that there must be good

understanding between them and that they should learn to compromise on small matters and also

learn to listen to each other then only the relation can survive and it is usually due to these

factors that are not obeyed and followed by the partners that result in divorce. Another major

reason of divorce is the violence that the husband does on his wife. Men who suffer from

depression or some mental illness are usually involved in such violent activities and when this

act of violence becomes unbearable the wife is forced to take divorce. In certain cases the wives

are so weak that they spend their entire life getting beaten up and being under the violence of

their husbands and those wives which are a bit strong and are able to take stand and they get

themselves freed from the tyranny. In these cases divorce is taken in in order to gain security and

protection and live a secure life (Levinger, George, and Oliver , 25-67).

In certain cases divorce can take place due to the financial crisis and uncertainty in the

family. There are possibilities that a time comes when the family comes under serious crisis, it is
 Last Name 3

at this time that the actual test of abiding to all the promises made at the time of the marriage be

fulfilled but at this critical time major fights spring up and these fights ultimately result in the

destruction of this strong bond and divorce takes place. Financial crisis majorly occur due to

unemployment which results in financial crisis and this is the major reason of all fights and

ultimately divorce (Murphy, Patricia, 47-58).

Divorce can also take place because of the workaholic nature of the husband or the wife.

Workaholic is a person for whom the only thing that exists in the world is their work and job and

nothing else. These people are so involved in their work that no relation matters to them and the

only thing around which their life revolves is their work. To spend life with such a person is

almost impossible and this ultimately results to divorce. Such relations can only remain intact for

a short period of time and ultimately the relation can no longer remain intact and the only

solution left is divorce. Another reason which also results in divorce is that when any one of the

partner becomes addicted to drugs he or she no longer remains himself or herself and gradually

the relation get degraded with time and ultimately results in divorce. When a person gets

addicted to drugs the person no longer remains concerned about his relations or his or her

responsibilities which ultimately results in the ending of the relation by a divorce. Divorce can

also result due to misunderstanding between husband and wife and these misunderstandings

occur due to lack of communication, distrust between the partners and not ready to understand

each other (Bagshawe, 45-78).

There are a lot many reasons due to which divorce can occur. Day by day the rate of

divorce is increasing in almost all countries and this is an alarming situation. It should be noted

by the concerned authorities that they take some serious steps in order to prevent this increasing
 Last Name 4

havoc which result to a great disaster in the society which will certainly have quite adverse

effects on the future generation of the society which will indirectly effect the country.
 Last Name 5

Annotated Bibliography

1. Hetherington, E M. Coping with Divorce, Single Parenting, and Remarriage: A Risk and

Resiliency Perspective. Mahwah, N.J: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1999. Internet

resource.

This is an extremely good resource which helped a lot in gathering the information to write this

essay. The resource although did not contain the necessary information that was required for the

essay but it provided me with the basic knowledge and information without which it would not

have been possible to properly write the essay. The information that the resource provided was

quite true and evident and it had no loop holes in it. The material that was written was quite

simple and straight forward. It helped a lot in writing the essay. To write a good essay it is

necessary that we have the background information so that we can first understand the topic and

then work on it. This resource in this context was an excellent book to refer to get all the

background and basic knowledge and information regarding marriages, divorce and separation. It

helped a lot in the study.

2. Jasper, Margaret C. Marriage and Divorce. New York: Oceana, 2008. Print.

This resource is also a wonderful and extremely knowledgeable resource for the essay. It served

a great deal in the writing process of the essay. For every essay a good and informative

introduction is very necessary so that the readers can get attracted and are tempted to read the

entire essay. For this purpose we need to a have a good resource to provide us with all these

information and knowledge. This source indeed provided me with the basic knowledge that was

required to be mentioned in the introduction of the essay. Without this information the essay

would have remained incomplete. It provided with the basic knowledge on marriage and divorce

and in detail discussed the causes and reasons behind the divorce. It was a real help for the essay.
 Last Name 6

It contained the information related to the topic in great detail and every information was

explained very well in easy and understandable language.

3. Levinger, George K, and Oliver C. Moles. Divorce and Separation: Context, Causes, and

Consequences. New York: Basic Books, 1979. Print.

The resource is one of the best resources for writing this essay as it provided with great deal of

knowledge and information on divorce. It contained all the information that was required to write

the essay. To write a good essay it is necessary that the person is able to find some resources

those are in great depth and detail regarding the topic so that we can get a great deal of

knowledge about the topic. This would considerably ease the task of writing the essay as it will

help to enhance our knowledge on the topic and then we would be able to write about the topic

nicely. The resource contains all the information in quite detail and depth and has discussed quite

a number of reasons behind the divorce and separation. The material in the resource is written in

quite simple and easily understandable language and is a very beneficial resource to gain the

basic knowledge.

4. Murphy, Patricia J. Divorce and Separation. Chicago, Ill: Heinemann Library, 2008.

Print.

The resource is an extremely knowledgeable resource and provided with the basics of divorce.

The resource starts with the basic knowledge of divorce, its definition, what in actual a divorce is

and then slowly and gradually it starts to move on to discuss the other important topics related to

the topic of divorce like reasons behind the divorce, the different types of divorce, the effects of

divorce and it also discusses about the separation that takes place between the families. It is a

very good resource and helped quite a lot to provide with the basic knowledge that was necessary

to write the essay. It was quite an enlightening book.

 Last Name 7

5. Bagshawe, Louise. For All the Wrong Reasons. New York: St. Martin's Press, 2002.

Print.

This is a very nice resource. Although it did not directly contain the information that was

required to write the essay but it contained information in a very nice and interesting manner. It

was quite an interesting resource to read and extract the information. The resource contained the

reasons behind the separation and divorce. The resource includes a large variety of probable and

possible reasons that can result in either divorce or separation. The reasons have been mentioned

in quite detail and depth and are very informative. The resource is very informative and helped a

lot in writing the essay. It enlightened the mind with quite a lot of new and detailed information

regarding the topic of divorce.