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similarinterests.Themoretwopeoplethinkthesamethebetterthe
match.
Mynameissandrasmith .Iwasborninwiscousin,on june4,1981.
IhavelivedinVirginiaBeachsinceIwasfour.Iamtheonly
daughterofthefamilyandistruggletosurviveonmyown.Igota
brandnewEscaladejeepwhenIturned22.Ihavealwaysbeenavery
activeperson.Icheeredforsixyears,dancedforfive,beforeigot
intocateringjob.Ihaveadaughter (Isabella)of4yearsoldliving
goodwithme.ihavebeensingleforabout2yearsandineverfinda
truerelationshipafter igotseperatedwiththefatherofmy
daugther.Imethimwheniwasinschoolandidocareforhimalot
andlaterthingswentwellforusnottillafterwelivetogetherasa
couplesbeforeiknewtheytypeofGuyhewas.
Ihavebeenhurtalotinpastandevenidontliketorememberthis
sillystorybutiliketotellyoupartifitbecauseiamseeingyou
asacaringandtruthfulfellowtotalkto.
IgotacateringcontractinGermanyforabout6monthsandileft
theretoworknotjusttobelazy.Afterigotworkdoneiwaspayed
about100,000USDineverknewthiswiillhappenandisenthim
70,000USDtogetnewhouseforusandwestartagoodbusiness
together..Ididnottellhimyetwheniwascomminghomeyetjust
becauseihavebeenhearingssomerumorsabouthim.Myflightarrived
atnightthatdayandihavetowaittillmorningbeforeigethome
andonmygettinghomeicaughthimRedhandedwithmyFriendMarythe
sameapartmentwerentedhavingsexandifaintedspentabout3daysat
hospitalbeforeiwakeupandafterthenOurrelationshipnotworking
outwellagain.sowehavetoputastop
canyoutellmelittleaboutyouaswellandyourrelationship?
Ilostmyfatherinafatalaccidentjuly26th2008andthathasbeen
abaddayforme..sadsadsadrememberingthisandafterthismeand
mymotherstrugglehardtosurvivebecausemymumhadcancerforabout
14yearsilostheraswellfebruary9th2012.iknowwhatcauseher
deathwasbecausofmylateFatherfamilytheytreatingusalot
becausetheywantallDadpropertiesfromusandmymumsaidnothey
canonlygetpartofitnotall.
wellIwillsaymyFatherwastheBestmanihaveeverLovedheisso
caring,loving,Godfearing,respectfulandresponsiblefatherbuti
trustedandBelieveinGodandIknowGodisDoingisThingsInhis
Ownway.ihavelearnTobeaStrongwomanhavehardworking.aswell
asmymum.
Whatdoyoudoforliving?
whatdoyoudoforfun?
howdoyoufinditeasytolivealonewithnowomanwithyou,whodid
cookingandhomecleaning
Formeihavenotbeenfindingiteasyagainnowtolivealonebecause
iliketoseesomeoneilovebesidemeandsharefeelingsandtalkto
..youknowwhatimean..
Ienjoyexercisingdailywhicheitherinvolvesweighttrainingor
aerobics.Ithinkitisimportanttoexerciseandeatingveryhealthy
meals.Ilovetogooutdancing,toniceromaticdinnersandshopping
atlargemallsliketheMallofAmerica.Ienjoyromanticmusicand
slowdancingaswellanfastdancing.Ipreferromantic,attractive,
affectionatemen.Ibelievethatromanceisaveryimportantpartof
therelionship.Ienjoymenwhoareconfidentwiththemselvesandare
notafraidtoexpressthemselvesinadiplomaticway.
Ithinkitisveryimportantthattwopeoplewantthesamethingina
relationship.Ibelievethatthisshouldbediscussedandcommunicated
clearlywhentwopeoplefirstmeet.Idonotbelieveinwastingmy
timeortheotherpersonstimebecauselifeistooshort..Ibelieve
eachpersonshouldbeallowedtobewhotheyareandtobefreeto
givetheirbestforeachothersmutualbenefit.Idonotlike
controllingmenwhodonotcommunicatewellandhaveagendasor
excessivepreviousbaggage.IlikemenwhoIcanhaveagood
conversationwithandwecancommunicateinamutuallybenefitialway.
....
Ilikemenwhoareinterestedinexerciseandphysicalfitness.Ilike
menwhoreadtoimprovethemselvesandfindvalueinselfhelpbooks.
Ialsolikemenwhoareeitherspiritualbutnotnecessaryreligious.
Ialsoenjoyattendingagoodchurchthatleavesyoufeelingbetter
aboutyourselfwhenyouleave..
Ihavebeenonlotsdatingsitebutidontthinkiwilleverdothat
againimetaguyfromNetherlandneverknowheonlywantmymoney
afterhetoldmelotliesandlaterisenthimmoneytocomeherealso
hetoldmewanttogetnewtruckthatishouldsendhimsomemoneyto
addupandpromisetosendbacktomeinsomeweeksandafteridid
thathisnottalkingtomeagainevenamstillindebtheretryingto
getloanpayedbecauseihavetogetloanforhimbecauseofthelove
ihaveforhim..
IhavebeeninseriousproblemherewithstillwithlateDadbecause
hisfamilystillwanttogetallfromme..sinceidonthaveanyone
againtohelp..
Whatdoyouliketomeetinawoman?
whatdoyouseekinarealtionship?
areyouwillingtohaveanotherwomanifyoufindanygoodone?
idontevenwanttogetmarriedagainorgointoanyrelationship
becauseidontthinkthereisanyonerealagaintohelpalljustwant
moneyandsexnoonereadyforaseriousrelationship..
Areyouachristian?
doyoubelieveinGod?
Howoftendoyougotochurch?
whatdoyoulikedoingatleisuretime?
Ilovepoetry,books,walksonthebeachandcozycandlelightdinners.
Ienjoymovies,television,music,traveling,thedesert,the
quietnessofthemountains,theocean,sunrisesandsunsets.Iama
veryoutgoingperson,wholovestodineouttravelandenjoythe
simplelife.Imahopelessromanticandveryaffectionate.Ihavea
goodsenseofhumorandIliketomakeyoulaugh.Iliketochillout
withagoodbookorwatchandmovieanditsevenmorefunwhenyou
haveaspecialsomeonetodothiswith.Imveryeasytogetalong
withandaverygoodlistener..IloveToshareMyTimewithPeopleI
Loveandcare..
whatihopetofindinaman
Iamlookingforaspecial,lovingrelationshipwithauniqueManwho
isaffectionate,Handsome,withashapelyfigure,sincere,easygoing,
withinterestsandcharacteristicssimilartomine...someonewhowants
ameaningful,serious,long-termrelationship...notjustafewdates.
AreyouthatspecialMan?
Iamlookingforsomeonewhohasagreatsenseofhumorandbigheart,
iscuriousaboutnewthingsthatwouldliketosharenewexperiences
oroldhabits.
Iamlookingforsomeonewhobelievesthatatrueintimatepartner
looksoutfortheotherandviceversa.Whilenavigatinglife
together,wearecaringandconcernedforeachother'swell-being
becausewemakeeachothersohappyandweloveeachothervery
much.Butidontthinkanyoneagaincanmakethishappenagainforreal
Igotsomethingtotellyoubutiamscaredifyoutruelyhonestwith
menotlikeothersimeethere..pleaseareyousafetheretalkingto
meoriwaittillmaybewemeetforrealbecauseithinkthatisthe
bestwaytodiscussprivateissue.
Dontworryiwilltellyouaboutthislateramscared..
okwaitamtellingyounow
PLEASEDONTLETANYONEKNOWTHISIFYOUCANPROMISEMEIWILLTELL
MyfatherhadsomeinvestmentinNijeriameandmumonlyknowsabout
thisandhetoldnottotellanyoneaboutthisbecauseitsmeantfor
mewhenigetmarriedsoicanhaveagoodlivingwithmyfamilyjust
becausethelovehehaveformenotknowingdeathwilltakehimyoung
sosadcryiinghere...
Alreadyhisfamilysoldallhehaseven6acresoflandhehasin
floridaincludinghispropertiesevenhousealltheyknowsaboutand
theydidnotgiveusapennyoutofthis.Thethinkingtakeawaythe
lifeofmymum
Soyoucanseeihavebeenstrugglinghardtosurvive
wishicanfindamanthatwillmakemeandandmydaughterhappyand
forgetallthispast
Hegotalawyertherethathasalldocumentsanddetailshowamgoing
togetallisinvestmentoutformeanditriedtotalktohimbutall
issayisNObecauseMydadtoldhimbeforeisdeathheshouldonly
claimallthisformeafteramfullymarriedwithmymariage
certifaicateandotherssoicanmakesomethingoutofthis
ThatheartlessGuyimeetfromnetherlandalreadygetoutofthiswe
plantotalktolawyerwithfakecertificateandweclaimtobe
marriedtogetherifnotGodthatsafemehewillhavegetallandrun
away.
ijustneedtotrustyoumoreandthinkmaybeweplanformeetingand
knoweachotherbetterandknowifthingswillworkoutforusidont
justwanttogethurtagainplease..
Howsureamiifyoutruelyreadyforagoodrelationshipnotlikeothers
ijustneedsomeonethatwillhelpmeoutgetthisevenjustafriend
notrelationshipandiwillgivehimsomeofit..Ihavetriedallway
totalktolawyertohelpmeoutbetweenmeandhimbuthesaidNohe
wantgoodformeasthepromisehemaketomyfatherbeforeisdeath..
ifyouwillhelpmeouticantalktohimandyoualsotalktohimas
husbandandwifewejusthavedontlethimknowwelivefaraway
..justpleaseyouhavetobetruthfulwithme..
afteritalktohimigiveyouhiscontactoremailsoyoucantalkto
himpleasebehonestwithmeanddontletanyonetoknowaboutthis
justbecauseofDadfamilytheymaytrytogetthisagain..Thanksfor
thehonestandcaring..