Professional Documents
Culture Documents
In Partial Fulfillment
of the Requirement for the Subject
Social Science and Philosophy
Prepared By:
Jonalyn Acaso
Mikaela Comeda
Christian Jay Dagaas
Gabriel Luiz Leuterio
Jether Manabat
Mark Ferdinand Manuel
Angeline Oronan
Maybeline Pines
Introduction
This study aimed to give information about toxic masculinity, the problem with
them, possible solutions to toxic masculinity, and recommendations.
Problem
It has been normalized that “men do not cry,” because once they do, they were
considered and teased as “gay.” Men were taught since they were a child to not cry
which cause them to suppress their emotions whenever they were sad. In the
Philippines a boy was often asked “Bakit ka umiiyak? Bakla ka ba?” or “Di ka ba
nahihiya kalalaki mong tao iyakin ka” when he was seen crying. This has been
unfortunately standardized as masculinity not only in the Philippines but worldwide.
The term toxic masculinity, according to Michael Flood (2022), was vague in the
1900s and early 2000s, but became widespread around 2015 in the discourse of men
and gender. This refers to the malign masculinity for men, and detrimental for other
people around them. Toxic masculinity points out stereotypical masculinity traits such
as, toughness, superiority, inability to understand or manage their emotions, sexual
entitlement, and aggression to women.
As reported by Amy Morin (2022), “there are three core elements of toxic
masculinity: toughness, antifemininity, and power. Toughness is the beliefs that men
should be physically powerful, emotionally strong, and violent in behavior. Antifemininity
is the concept that men should not act as feminine, particularly expressing feelings, and
seeking assistance. Power is the impression that men must strive for social and
financial status as well as authority in order to earn other people’s respect.
Why is it a problem?
Toxic masculinity can have a significant impact on the personal lives of men, their
relationships, and their mental health. It can contribute to controlling behavior, emotional
manipulation, and verbal or physical abuse, which can lead to the breakdown of their
relationships with partners, family members, and friends. Toxic masculinity can also lead
to mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and substance abuse.
In accordance with Coach David Brockway (2019), there are many negative
outcomes of toxic masculinity for women and girls, as well to the boys and men. The
leading consequence would be mental illness and suicide. Suicide rates in the
Philippines for male are evidently higher than female, with rates of 3.1 for male, and 1.2
for female. Conforming to International Association for Suicide Prevention (2023), men
commit suicide at a rate that is more than twice as high as women do worldwide. In view
of the fact that “boys struggle to articulate their feelings, accept emotional vulnerability,
and acknowledging any kind of weakness.”
Solution 1
Luke (2022) stated that “Having someone else, especially other males to talk to
is very helpful since they are likely to have a similar emotion. The matter lies in the fact
that every individual has a mind and, as a result, feels emotions. All such standards are
based on out-of-date gender norms, and they’ve driven so many problems, even
deaths, among boys and men, so let us work together to guarantee that these
presumptions refrain from causing any further issues. Furthermore, to dismiss the toxic
masculinity in community, we must put into effect the message that “It’s okay not to be
okay.”
Conforming to Sam Dekin (2020), to express emotions you should be open and
truthful about your feelings. An excellent strategy to engage your emotions is to discover
passions that enable you to consider your sentiments. One of the great methods for
males to learn to express their emotions is through visiting a therapist. Don’t let toxic
masculinity dictate how you live your life. If you’re struggling and need help, reach out to
a therapist to talk. This is especially important if you’re in recovery for a mental health or
substance abuse problem. Therapy can also help you understand the effects of toxic
masculinity on your own well-being and develop healthier coping strategies for dealing
with emotional distress.
Psychologists can talk to boys and men about the thoughts and feelings they are
sending, and about avoiding affection from other males. To comprehend how aspects of
traditional masculinity like emotional stoicism, homophobia, failing to demonstrate
weakness, self-reliance, and competitiveness might prevent them from developing
genuine connections with male peers. In that mentality, psychologists work to help boys
and men gain a better awareness of the various positive ways they might express their
masculinity in relationships with other people. (APA Guidelines for Psychological
Practice with Boys and Men, 2018)
Solution 2
Positive role models, such as parents, educators, and local authorities, can serve
as role models for healthy masculinity and advance gender equality. Role modeling can
aid in changing societal expectations and fostering more accepting attitudes toward
women and non-binary individuals.
APA Guidelines for Psychological Practice with Boys and Men (2018) said that
the preferences that parents and other relevant adults have concerning how their son
should be handled and how he ought to act influence the development of gender
identity before birth. Boys and girls start to categorize males and females in their early
years, and they increasingly attribute specific connotations to being male depending on
their experiences with gender socialization. Boys’ gender identities solidify over time
and have a bigger impact on their behavior. When a man approaches adulthood, he
tends to should exhibit actions that are appropriate for his ethnicity, culture, and various
definitions of masculinity.
To gain insight from those who exemplify a different type of identity, make friends
with women and nonbinary persons. If you want to become a better person, listen
without passing judgment. Try several viewpoints as a psychological exercise.
Solution 3
A good start is learning how to recognize toxic behavior. When you see it, don’t
be complicit and call it out. Holding others accountable for their actions sends a clear
message that toxic masculinity is not okay. It is also important to hold toxic men
accountable for their behavior and to challenge toxic masculinity wherever it arises. By
working together to promote healthier attitudes and behaviors, we can create a safer
and more equal society for everyone.
The way that men perceive emotional vulnerability may be altered by having a
casual discussion about mental health difficulties. Men's emotions can be openly
discussed online in many places, but certain organizations are providing this discussion
to those who need it most. One group has made it their goal to bring the topic of mental
health awareness to the barbershop, a place where men may openly discuss their
issues. One such group that prioritizes men's mental health dialogues for wellness is
The Confess Project. In order to encourage men to express their concerns and connect
them with mental health resources, the project intends to train barbers as mental health
supporters. (Kortge, Z. 2021)
Final Solution
If you really want to help society rid itself of toxic masculinity, then you need to
educate the other men in your life about the harm it can do to others. You can lead in a
way that is not masculine, feminine, or representative of any gender role, but in a way
that is inclusive, supportive, and healthy for all. If you see other men displaying toxic
masculinity through aggression, sexism, oppression, or any other means please stop
and speak up. Let them know that this is not how anyone should treat another person,
no matter what gender they are. You don't need to use your fists to do this.
Many of the taboos that support toxic masculinity are being challenged by today's
society. Recognize that traditional male ideals are not absolute and faultless. Gender
identification is a personal matter, and gender standards change along with society. It is
important to approach the ability to evaluate toxic masculinity's negative impacts with
the intention of aiding people who are affected by it.
It's critical to remember that combating toxic masculinity calls for the
collaboration of individuals, communities, and organizations. A more equal and inclusive
society will take time and work to develop, but it is a goal worth pursuing.