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 Copyright © 2016 by Emeka NOBIS

“Don't steal this work.”

“Don't reproduce it without permission.”
“Don't sell it and keep the proceeds.”

Seemed like I just barked commands, but I've been on this earth
one score and a decade to know that when you dish a “Don't do ….”
command, people do exactly the opposite.

But, I'll bark anyway.

If you do the opposite, you hate humanity!

It's your call.
To all humanity...
This is not a book. It is a tool.
Why?

ANOTHER DIMENSION is a tool designed to help you review

the beliefs on which the peg of your destiny hangs. They will help
you deal with orthodox beliefs that may stultify your transformation
into higher phases of your existence.

I'm not handing over to you a mechanical device, if that's your

conception of what a tool is. I'm handing you questions.

These questions cover relationship, career, business, mind dynamics,

and spirituality.

The answers you find to these questions will, more often than not,
come from you.

Pay heed. Reflect. Ponder. And find your answers.

 what'slifetoyou?

Have you ever taken water in gulps and it ran down the wrong lane
in your gullet and you gasped desperately for breath?

What's life to you? What's your notion about life?

Your answer and meaning will determine how you appreciate the
breath in your nostrils every waking hour. Much more than that, the
life in others, too.

Your answer will determine your experience!

Your answer will determine your experience! business, mind
dynamics, and spirituality.

The answers you find to these questions will, more often than not,
come from you.

Pay heed. Reflect. Ponder. And find your answers.

 willyoutrulyforgive?

Your trusted friend lured your beloved sweetheart into her 'lair' when
you took her to visit him. What's more, he married her and left you
drooling with tears!

Your boss told you to lie and he left you in limbo when the chips
went down and shit hit the ceiling. He had to save his head and you
had to exit the gates of the company without any remuneration after
working for six years!

The student-doctor gave a wrong prognosis and your blood pressure

blew the roof. On second analysis of the samples, it was discovered
that it wasn't HIV/AIDS or malignant cancer.

That pastor in whom you confided about your marital infidelity

turned it into a sermon, spilling the details with such accuracy that
you regretted ever going to see him.

What's your notion of forgiveness? This will help you deal with
ghosts from your past still stalking the horizons of your destiny!

Your answer will determine your experience!

 onfaith

“How's your boy doing?”, he asked me. “My boy is doing great!”, I
replied.

“I'm gonna have a boy soon too!”, he said ecstatically.

There he was, a university undergrad, unmarried, living with sickle

cells that were threatening to decimate the fun in his life.

He said to me some other day too : “Added one more thing to my

bucket list. I'm gonna win a Pulitzer.”

His statements filled me with waves of faith each time he shared his
thoughts on Twitter.

What's faith? Does basking in the hope of a luxury future fill you
with streams of faith?

Your answer will determine your experience!

 onGod

Irrespective of your affiliation and beliefs, who do you think God is?

A bearded old man wielding a big stick, ready to whip the hell out of
us for our bad boy or bad girl acts?

One who is incomprehensible from a physical perspective, needing

doses of faith and personal experiences to relate with, many times
dumbing down our propensity to connect your belief with the
tangible?

In the Kingdom, there are many bad dudes and damsels gone good,
doing exploits!

Do you think you're a bad boy or damsel, plagued by your guilt,

unacceptable by God? Read 1st Corinthians 6 : 9-11

What you see written in there and your interpretation of it will

determine your experience!
 ondeath

This may be quite scary!

Omego slept when he returned home after one of his foreign trips.
By morning he was no more.

“Died in his sleep,' the medics said. Death had struck the household.
Gloom pervaded as he had left behind his young wife and three kids.

SOSOLISO air crash decimated the life of popular televangelist

Bimbo Odukoya, whose messages had blessed many souls. DANA
AIR crash splintered a hundred bodies and dreams into a million
'irresurrectable' shards.

What is your notion about death? A phenomenon never to be

thought of since it is a long distant land in your life?

At the mention of death we look like scared bunnies!

“….,Except a corn of wheat fall into the ground and DIE, it abideth
Your answer will determine your experience!
 ondeath

alone: but if it DIE, it bringeth forth much fruit” ~ John 12:24

Seriously, what's your notion about death? A picky-choosy idiot who

strikes without warning? A necessary route or a path for rebirth?

Your answer will determine your experience!

 ondefaults

Growing up as kids something was so common amongst the traders

in my vicinity. Whenever asked, “How was market today?”, they'd
reply, “Market no good today!”

The next day, same reply. Whole month, same reply. It was a default
reply. When will market ever be good?

Also, when people were complimented for their good looks, the
answer always skirted around some demeaning response : “Me, ke?
This way I'm looking, with the harsh economy this way?”

People often 'rejected' nice compliments as if it was a crime. It

became a norm amongst us as kids to 'reject' nice compliments; a
nice, appealing self-destruct paradigm carved to help us fit into the
society!

What's your perception of yourself ? What do you see in the mirror

when you stand before it?

What adjectives fill your psyche? Healthy? Progressive?.....

Struggling? Underrated? Up-to-no-good sloppy bloke just doing the
motions of life?

Your answer will determine your experience!

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theboxanditscompartment

“Think outside the box,” they say. But, was I really inside the box to
warrant my getting out? What's inside the box that makes it
unpalatable for me to stay in?

Who designed the box in the first place? How is the box like, which
defines its supposed limitations?

Why's the box even comfortable to make someone want to lounge

within and not get out to stretch?

I'm not screwing your brain. Don't mind the box! I'm simply asking
you about your questioning process path that aids your rebirth. Some
paradigms on which we hang the pegs of our destiny need be trashed
or reviewed.

It's good not to bite more than you can chew, but for me, I think
doing so makes me reach for the extraordinary!

Personally, I think the “Don't bite more than you can chew”
paradigm can be reviewed. Do you question to expand your
awareness or accept without qualms?

Your answer will determine your experience!

 you,agod,orGOD

“You are gods and children of the Most High” ~ The Bible

Even if you don't believe the Bible, let's take it that you are a god.

If you truly were a god, the way you are now, do you think you'll have
adherents? Who will be really inspired to worship you?

Your answer determines your experience!

 yourwakinghours

Every morning, a man wakes up in a part of the globe, goes into the
woods and communes with the Creator, gets answers to bugging
questions of his heart and pens them down in a book. He appreciates
the approach of dawn. He is fulfilled.

At the other part of the globe, a woman rises joyfully and sets to
nurture kids in her care, setting them on the right path. She loves the
approach of dawn. She is fulfilled too!

Do you despair to wake up in the morning when you sleep at night?

What do you think is your original design and unique assignment?

How you see the dawn of every morning will determine how you
treat your waking hours.

Your answer will determine your experience

 onlife’srealities

Afalanke had been a virgin all her life till she married Droy. Her slate
was clean, having pledged her life to God and to the man of her
dreams.

Several years down the line, her desire to nurse a child remains in
tatters, despite all medical records that showed she was fertile.

Amobria had aborted ten times before 'hooking' up with Zenk. Her
system had gotten so many pricks that many thought she was
'wasted.' One pop on nuptial night and Amobria had her joy nine
months later.

Does this point to the prerogative of the mercies of God?

What about Saul to Paul experience?

What do these tell you about life?

Your answer determines your experience!

 andcinderellalosthersandals

I saw this quote “Cinderella lost her sandals, not her virginity. Ladies,
you don't need to have sex in your search for a prince.”

Sadly, most of us lost ours in our search for the prince or princess and
later, the adventure smacked us in the face.

However, there's a route for the return.

Do you think the misadventure blurred your love experience? Do

you think this re-route is possible in a bid to paint your slates clean?

That's the splendour of the decision.

Your answer determines your experience.

 ChurchPastorsTithesOfferings

“I don't like church,” she said to me during one of my counselling

sessions. “Pastors preach too much about tithes and offerings and not
the real truth. Also there are many skanks in church”

What's your notion about church? A tabernacle of congregation or

simply a place of worship? A place where bad-boys-gone-good,
broken, despondent pretenders come for healing or a place for
'perfect' beings to prove their righteous mettle wearing
sanctimonious mien?

Do you think the Majesty should be worshipped in a place as tiny as

a building?
Do you think a KING reigns in His palace and reverence is given to
Him in there?

Your answers determine your experience.

 onbodyparts

After an operation on my broken left femur, I couldn't lift it. I had to

be carried by a female nurse into the toilet to pooh-pooh. I tore to
shreds whatever male ego I felt I had as she beheld my nudity.

That day, I realized the value of my limbs!

How do you appreciate your body organs? Your heart, your limbs,
your liver, your eyes?

They are worth celebrating. Ask a man who lost his feet stepping on
a landmine and desires to wear shoes!

Your answer determines your experience.

 onbusiness

In Nigeria we say, “Leave wetin dem write for motor, enter motor.”
This has muted the breath of many businesses, unknowingly.

In this era, books are mostly judged by their covers.

Every customer willing to do business with you is already deciding as

soon as the voice comes over the line or when he walks in through
the doors!

Do you think this is right or wrong? Prove it so!

What's BUSINESS to you?

Your answer determines your experience.

 onmarriage

What's your notion of marriage? A contraption for instilling warmth

in the loins? A name tag to be worn to be accepted by the society?

Is it a God-ordained ministry to express His purposes? What

purposes?

Your answer determines your experience.

 afewwordsaboutme?

I'm all about helping people like you. For downloading this book and
reading it to this point, I'm so sure that you want you life to mean
something.

After working as an engineer for ten years I resigned from my job to

focus keenly on helping individuals like you to gain clarity in your
message to the world, build a platform for the communication of the
same, and earn profitably by setting up effective processes and
systems.

I'd love to help you, if you let me. That's why I have delivered this
tool in your hand.

I live in Port Harcourt, Nigeria with my pretty wife, Joy and

children, Best and Adaeze.
Want to connect with me? That would be really cool.
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