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The Question of Female Friendship in Shirley and Villette
The Question of Female Friendship in Shirley and Villette
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"It flashes on me at this moment how sisters feel toward each other. Affection twined
with their life, which little quarrels can only trample an instant... affection that no
passion can ultimately outrival, with which even love itself cannot do more than
compete in force and truth. Love hurts us so, Shirley: it is so tormenting, so rack?
ing. .. in affection there is no pain and no fire?only sustenance and balm. I am sup?
ported and soothed when you-that is, you only are near, Shirley."2
"I feel indignant; and that is the long and short of the matter," responded Miss
Keeldar. "All my comfort... is broken up by his maneuvers. He keeps intruding be?
tween you and me; without him we should be good friends. ..." (I, 288)
Again and again Bronte shows the attractions of friendship between in?
telligent women who live in accord with those "feminine" values of which
she approves. Shirley and Caroline offer each other durable affection,
emotional support, mutual appreciation of nature and books, and the
"sympathy" which almost all the men in the book?Reverend Helstone,
Mr. Yorke, even Robert Moore?either lack entirely or are deficient in.
When Caroline is depressed, she realizes she needs activity and tells her
uncle she wants to be a governess. He completely fails to grasp the
seriousness of her condition and, laughing at the whimsies of women,
assures her he will provide for her financially after his death and gives her
two guineas to buy a new dress. Caroline almost tells him that she wishes
he were more "sympathizing" but checks herself because her uncle would
"have laughed if that namby-pamby word had escaped her" (I, 212). Thus
Bronte calls attention to the connotations of "sympathy," a word which
by usage had become feminine, and which meant the willingness to im?
agine another person's perspective on life. Caroline and Shirley, so dif?
ferent from each other and in such different material situations, are per?
fectly capable of grasping each other's points of view and make a serious
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"I often wonder, Shirley, whether most men resemble my uncle in their domestic
relations; whether it is necessary to be new and unfamiliar to them in order to seem
agreeable...." (I, 235)
They muse on the subject of what men are like, noting that at least before
marriage a woman tends to think the man she loves is an exception: "Of
sterling materials; we fancy it like ourselves; we imagine a sense of har?
mony" (I, 236).
Throughout the novel marriage is presented in a negative light.
Reverend Helstone rapidly lost interest in his wife and, even though years
have passed since her death, continually rants against matrimony; Mr.
and Mrs. York have a workable arrangement, but it is clear that they are
not soul-mates, and Mrs. York speaks bitterly about marriage; Caroline's
parents were wretchedly unhappy, and her mother, Mrs. Pryor, compares
marriage with a marsh: "a green tempting surface," with a "slough
underneath."
In contrast, as I have indicated, women are shown to be capable of
satisfying relationships with one another. We are told of Caroline and
Shirley: "The minds of the two girls being toned in harmony, often
chimed very sweetly together" (I, 245). Early in their acquaintanceship,
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[A] deep, hollow cup, lined with turf as green and short as the sod of this common;
the very oldest of the trees, gnarled mighty oaks, crowd about the brink of this dell:
in the bottom lie the ruins of a nunnery" (I, 232).
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I don't know why I chose to give my bread rather to Ginevra than to another; nor
why, if two had to share the convenience of one drinking-vessel, as sometimes hap?
pened?for instance, when we took a long walk into the country, and halted for
refreshment at a farm?I always contrived that she should be my convive, and rather
liked to let her take the lion's share, whether of the white beer, the sweet wine, or
the new milk: so it was, however, and she knew it; and, therefore, while we wrangled
daily, we were never alienated (I, 296).
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She had no notion of meeting any distress single-handed. In some shape, from some
quarter or other, she was pretty sure to obtain her will, and so she got on?fighting
the battle of life by proxy, and on the whole, suffering as little as any human being I
have ever known (II, 291).
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She compares Mrs. Bretton to "a stately ship cruising safe on smooth
seas," and herself to a lifeboat which only puts to sea in stormy weather:
"No, the Louisa Bretton never was out of harbour on such a night ... so
the half-drowned life-boatman keeps his own counsel, and spins no
yarns" (I, 227). Thus Bronte acknowledges the enormous gulf which
separates women like Lucy from women whose lives have been lived in
the protective shelter of men. The community of women had been rup?
tured by the presence of surplus women whose lives were not part of the
cycle of marriage and reproduction, a pattern which paradoxically
formed the basis of the world of love between women. Differences in
material situation do not cut Shirley and Caroline off from each other,
but both of them are single and idle.
The natural ally for a woman like Lucy would seem to be Mme. Beck,
who lives independently and supports herself. It is clear that Lucy would
like her to be a role-model; significantly she perceives her face to be
"motherly" at their first encounter. However, Lucy's employer Mme. Beck
is admirable but not warm. "Her mouth was hard; it could be a little grim;
her lips were thin" (I, 86). Madame is benevolent and rules mildly, but
sentiment never gets in the way of efficiency. Lucy is chilled but also
impressed:
Mme. was a very great and a very capable woman. The school offered for her powers
too limited a sphere; she ought to have swayed a nation.. . . Wise, firm, faithless;
secret, crafty, passionless; watchful and inscrutable; acute and insensate ?withal per?
fectly decorous-what more could be desired? (I, 89)
What more indeed? At their first interview Madame looks at Lucy with
"never a gleam of sympathy or a stroke of compassion" (I, 78). The
qualities which society has assigned to women, many of which Bronte
values, are conspicuously lacking.
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At that instant she did not wear a woman's aspect but a man's. Power of a particular
kind strongly limned in all her traits, and that power was not my kind of power:
neither sympathy, nor congeniality, nor submission, were the emotions it
awakened. ... I suddenly felt all the dishonor of my diffidence?all the pusillanimity
of my slackness to aspire (I, 94).
Lucy clearly identifies herself with supposedly feminine virtues, and feels
the ability to wield power over others to be masculine, alien to her very
being. Yet as the English instructor she finds she can exert power over
unruly students and enjoys learning a new kind of strength from the ex?
perience. Villette may be the first English novel which deals with the
heroine's work as an integral part of her life. It is Mme. Beck, then, who
makes it possible for Lucy to broaden her notion of self: to recognize for
the first time that strength needn't be only the traditionally feminine self-
control but can be self-assertion, competence, ambition. But as Lucy's
sense of self expands, she must deal with the question of womanliness. Is
she becoming a man?
The difficult question of identity with which Lucy grapples is embodied
symbolically in the vaudeville scene in which she is asked to play a male
role. She is willing to play the part but at first she flatly refuses to be
dressed like a man. Compelled by life to play a role considered masculine
by society, she earns her own living and enjoys it, even aspiring to rise in
the world of work. But how far can a woman go without compromising
her womanliness? We have already seen that she has perceived Mme.
Beck, because of her love of power, as a man in woman's clothing. She
reconsiders the matter of how much men's attire she will wear and then
takes her stand: "'You do not like these clothes?' he asked pointing to the
masculine vestments. 'I don't object to some of them, but I won't have
them all'" (I, 173). Lucy goes on stage wearing a woman's dress but with a
man's vest, collar and cravat. She will expand her conception of feminin?
ity but she will not give up what she considers essential to her
womanhood. She will aspire to become mistress of her own school, like
Mme. Beck, but unlike her she will not regard such an achievement as en?
tirely fulfilling. She asks:
[I]s there nothing more for me in life ?no true home?nothing to be dearer to me
than myself, and by its paramount preciousness, to draw from me better things than
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Thus Lucy articulates values which lie at the heart of the nineteenth cen?
tury definition of womanhood, values to which she remains committed
despite the fact that she lacks anyone for whom to live and in spite of the
fact that she has come to value the autonomy which has been thrust
upon her by her isolation. The inherently hierarchical nature of hetero?
sexual love in the Victorian period means that the two facets of Lucy's
development ?her progress towards competent self-sufficiency and her
growing awareness of her need for emotional and sexual fulfill?
ment?clash head on, producing the novel's ambivalent and clumsy
ending.
Lucy is indeed in a difficult position. By the end of Villette she is
psychologically free to love and be loved by M. Paul, having relaxed the
fanatic discipline in which she has previously "held the quick of [her]
nature," but Bronte knows that marriage would have to diminish the part
of Lucy that has come to cherish independent adulthood. But emotional
satisfaction cannot come from women either: the women Lucy knows
will always be partial strangers. Yet Mme. Beck does become something
of a role-model, and regardless of the sinister part she plays in trying to
prevent Lucy's romance with Paul Emmanuel from prospering, there is
mutual respect and understanding between them. Bronte seems to be sug?
gesting that as women enter public life, feminine identity will be a difficult
problem which each woman will handle in her own individual way. Some
will wear only a man's hat, others will don only the vest, collar and cravat
which Lucy accepts, and still others like Mme. Beck, will not hesitate,
metaphorically, to garb themselves entirely in masculine attire. No longer
watching life from the sidelines (as Caroline and Shirley watch the attack
on Robert's mill), women will no longer form a coherent subculture, and
love between them will be more difficult. Lucy, at the end of the novel, is
economically successful but alone (the possibility that M. Paul will return
is offered only as a sop to those of "sunny imaginations").
Charlotte Bronte's picture of what the future holds for sisterhood is
prophetic. Middle-class women who entered public life as professionals in
the last years of the nineteenth century and the first half of the twentieth
often condescended to women who adhered to traditional roles, or at
least felt alienated from them, and tended to view other women profes?
sionals as competitors, looking to men for intellectual and emotional
satisfaction.8 George Eliot was to write to Sarah Hennell in 1852: "I wish I
could throw myself heartily into the love of other women besides you and
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NOTES
1 Dinah Muloch Craik's chapter on "Female Friendship" in her handbook for spinsters
Woman s Thoughts About Women (1858), provides a glimpse of the idealistic fervor wh
female friendship sometimes evoked in this period. At the same time the chapter sugg
some of the ambivalence women evidently felt towards emotional intimacy wit
another. See Dinah Muloch Craik, A Woman's Thoughts About Women (New York: Fo
Foster and Co., 1864).
2Charlotte Bronte, Shirley, Vol. I of Shakespeare Head Bronte, ed. T.J. Wise and J.A.
ington (Oxford: Shakespeare Head Press, 1931-38), p. 289. All further quotations fr
Shirley (I) and Villette (II) will be taken from this edition and cited within the text.
3According to Aristophanes, the character in the Symposium who tells the story, hu
beings were originally complete in themselves but were cut in half by Zeus in a fit of a
sexuality is the search for the missing half.
4According to the story there were originally three wholes: all male, all female, and
drogynous" (male and female); thus each person seeking his or her other, original half m
be in search with equal likelihood for someone of the same or the other sex.
5Erich Neumann, The Great Mother: An Analysis of the Archetype (New York: Panth
Books, 1955), pp. 55-59. Adrienne Rich points out Bronte's use of the moon to symb
the matriarchal spirit in her essay on Jane Eyre. See Adrienne Rich, "Jane Eyre: The T
tations of a Motherless Woman," On Lies, Secrets and Silence (New York: W.W. No
1979), p. 102.
6Women's fiction of the 1840's and 1850's assumes the goal of life is "tranquility,"
"serenity," "repose," "peace"?the synonyms spring off the pages. See Mrs. Stirling, Fanny
Hervey; or The Mother's Choice (London: Chapman and Hall, 1849); Mrs. Burbury, Florence
Sackville; or Self-Dependence; Mrs. Gaskell's Mary Barton, and many others.
7For an excellent discussion of Shirley's unsatisfactory conclusion, see Sandra M. Gilbert
and Susan Gubar, The Madwoman in the Attic (New Haven &l London: Yale University
Press, 1979), pp. 395-98.
8The women's rights movement of the nineteenth and early twentieth century afforded
middle-class women who had entered professional life the opportunity to feel close with one
another.
9The George Eliot Letters, ed. Gordon Haight (New Haven: Yale University Press, 1955),
II, 38.
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