Questions Bisaya English Sub Final

Themes Themes
Nalain ko pero…uhm sa I feel inconvenient, but time Loneliness Loneliness
1.1 How does it feel pagdugay nahimo nang passed by this is normal for
having an normal para sa amoang duha both of us in this situation, it iss
relationship with ang…ing-ani nga sitwasyon because we used to be like this
your biological tungod kay naanad mi ani na way of living, that is how we act
father? ing-ani lang ang…among together everyday so, we
pagtagad kada-adlaw so, accepted the situation even
mao to na…nadawat ra how hard it is, we keep figthing.
namo ang amoang sitwasyon
bisag lisod man pero
kayahon.

Katong gibiyaan mi sa akong When my Mother left us, me Financial Financial

1.2 How did you Mama, kami duha pareha
engage in that nakabati ug kamingaw…
relationship and bisan gustohon man namo
why? na dili siya paabrodon kay dili
me gusto na malayo sia sa
amua…pero wala
mabuhat, tungod kay gipit
man mi ug wala
desente nga trabaho si papa
para makakuha ug dako nga
sweldo mao to…si Mama
pud pareha ra sila
sitwasyon ni Papa…nga wala
poy permanenteng trabaho
mao to nibiya si Mama, sa
pagbiya ni Mama kamingaw
lang ang amo nabati sa pila
ka tuig namo na pagpuyo
nga wala siya, ug pila ka
bday nako nga wala siya ,
ug…sa uban pa
okasyon, akong kauban lang
kay ang akong Papa nga naa
permente sa akong kilid na
andam motabang sa tanang
oras na nanginanghanlan ko
and my Father felt loneliness, problem problem
even we did not wanted her to
work abroad because we are
not ready yet to accept the
reality that my mother will left
mi us.. but we have no choice,
because due to financial crisis,
may and my Father has no decent
work to get a enough salary
and my Mother is also having
the same situation like my
ug Father who did not have a
permanent work, that is why
my Mother left, after she left,
loneliness is the only thing we
felt in a since she left, I
celebrate my birthday without
her, and also other occassions
that she is not here, the one
and only, stay by my side is my
nga father and ready to help
anytime when I need it, so
that’s the time passed by, my
feelings starts develop more
deeper, it’s because his
neverending taking good care
 ug kauban, so mao to na of me.
kadugayan nadevelop ang
ako feelings sa iya tungod
man pud sa iyang walay
katapusang pag-amping
kanako.
Loneliness Loneliness
1.3 When did your Nagsugod ang amo relasyon Our relationship starts after my
relationship starts katong nilakaw si Mama aron Mother left to work abroad,
and how? mag-abrod, mao ra japon same answer to your question
akong tubag sa imong just now that, my Mother
pangutana sa ako karon lng abroad to gain some salaries,
na ni abrod si Mama para after a long time she abroad,
lang magkakwarta, pero sa we felt loneliness, many
kadugay sa iyang pag-abrod occassions we attended,
nakabati mi ug grabing roaming around, celebrating,
kamingaw sa astang just enjoying to forget the
daghanang okasyon kami ra loneliness we felt, after a long
duha naglaag-laag, time we continue doing this
nagcelebrate, nag-enjoy para things all over again until the
lang makalimot sa kamingaw time came that I felt awkward
na amoang nabati, sa to my feelings to my father , I
kadugay sa panahon understand that loving another
nagpadayon na namo ning person, is still has the same
ginabuhat hangtud sa ni-abot process even whoever it is,
ang time na nakahuna-huna even relative or not.
ko na murag lain naman ako
gibati para sa ako amahan,
nga murag naibog ko ba…
nasabtan man pud nako na
ang paghigugma sa isa ka
tawo pareha ra na ug
process bisan kinsa pa na,
bisan kadugo man o dili.

Enjoying Enjoying
1.4 What are your Ahh…enjoy kaayo mi sauna We enjoyed the moments when
experiences before katong wala pa nilakaw si my Mother was here, even we
engaging in that Mama naglisod man mi sa have difficulties in financial, we
romantic penansiyal, uhm…na-enjoy enjoyed the time I spend with
relationship? nako ang time na share nako them, even we have no foods
 sa ila, wala man mi sud-an
sa mga kaon namo, palagsa
wala man gani wala mi kaon
pero mangita permi si Papa
ug paagi aron
makautang para lang
makakaon mi. Naglisod man
mi sauna pero naenjoy namo
ang time na kompleto mi, dili
pareha aron na…kami-kami
lang duha diria.
1.5 What are your Ahh…katong time nga ni-uli
painful experiences si mama…uhm, daghan na
when you engage nakabalo diri sa amoa na
in this kind of karelasyon nako ang ako
relationship? papa. Nakabalo si Mama sa
amoang relasyon tungod sa
mga istorya-istorya sa amo
mga silingan kay… nakabalo
naman sila sa
sitwasyon. Excited mi
Papa na makita si Mama,
excited na nakulbaan tungod
sa amo relasyon. Pero mao
jud toh ang resulta nahibal-
an ni Mama, pagkahuman
nasuko si Mama, naglagot,
nangasaba siya ni-abot sa
point na, gipapili mi kung
mulayas ba mi o ipakulong
ang akong Papa tungod sa
iyang pang-abuso tungod kay
bata pa ko para musulod sa
ing-ani na relasyon, usa pa
sa iyang pinakalagotan kay
ngano ako pa sa kadaghan-
daghang babae sa palibot,
ngano na ako pa jud na
iyang anak ang iyang
for our meals, sometimes we
did not eat but my Father finds
a way to borrow money to buy
some foods for us.. Even we
lang have difficulties before but I
na enjoyed the moments when we
are complete but now just to of
us stays together.
When the time has come my Anxious Anxious
Mom went back home, some of
my neighborhoods knows that
I have a relationship with my
Father. My Mother was aware
of this because of the
gossiping of my neighbors
because they are already know
amo our situation. Were both
ni excited, excited and also
nervous at the same time
because we did a very big
mistake. And the result, my
Mother go through, That is why
my Mother angry,and starts
nagging, to the point my
Mother gives us an option
which is “We have to eloped
from the house or my father will
be arrested because I am still a
minor to engage in this kind of
relationship, one more thing,
that makes her more angry is
that, why it has to be me, there
are many girls around here,
why me, his own daughter
become his partner.
 nahimong karelasyon.
2.1 Based on your Sa pagkadaghan sa akong
experiences, how na-encounter na problema
did you solve the dugangan pa nang among
problems that you silingan na tsismosa, tungod
encountered as a kay kabalo man ko na layo
daughter and wife? man si Mama, gina-ingon ra
nako sarili na … this
malampasan nako ni tungod
kay naa pirmi si Papa na…
motabang nako kung
kinanghanlan nako siya kay
nakabalo man ko na molaban
siya para sa akoa tungod kay
love man ko niya. Maong
para makapadayon ko ug ma
solve ang problema gina
baliwala ra nako ang mga
problema.
2.2 How did you Dili man sayon ang mga
overcome all problema na na-encounter
struggles in this nako pero kabalo ko na
relationship? kailangan nako ni lamposon
kini nga problema kay kaya
ra nako ni, kanang murag I-
push nalang nako ako sarili
para malampos nako ni na
problema bisan lisod pero
kayahon nako ni, tungod kay
naa permi si Papa na ready
motabang ug mo-suporta sa
akoa sa tanang oras.
2.3 Who helps you Akong papa, kay naa permi
to enlighten your sa ako kilid na… andam
feelings? In times mosuporta sa akoa samot na
of your needs? sa mga gusto nako makaon
Many of the problems that I Fighting Fighting
encountered, in addition, the Spirit Spirit
talkative neighbors, because I
know that my Mother is far
away from us, so I just say to
myself that “I can overcome
because my Father is
always there to help me if I
needed him.” because I know
he loved me. That is why for
me to go on and to solve that
kind of problem, instead of
thinking of it I set aside my
problems to survive.
The problems I encountered Supportive Supportive
are not easy, but I know that I Father Father
have to overcome this problem
because I know that I can, just
like I push myself to overcome
this struggles, even if it is
difficult, but I can do it because
my Father is always beside me
to help and support me all the
time.
My Father, because he is
always beside me and ready to
support me especially to the
foods that I want to eat and
 ug…mga butang nga gusto
nako paliton. Naa siya permi
sa ako kilid bisag sa tanang
mga tsismis na
nadungog, iyaha ko
depensahan kay di
gusto na masakitan ko.
2.4 After knowing Lisod man para sa akoa pero
by your parents kabalo man ko dako nga
your situation, how kaayong sala ako gibuhat
did you accept the pero tungod kay love nako
reality that this ang ako Papa nabuhat nako
unusual to. Pero bisag-unsaon man
relationship must nako ug huna-huna
not continue? japoy makausab
kamatuoran na mali
nabuhat, wala nakoy laing
choice, pero kailangan nako
mag-move on kay wala man
koy mabuhat bisag ikapila pa
ko ug ampo sa isa ka adlaw.
2.5 As a Daughter Naglisod man ko sa ako
and Wife, how do pagpuyo tungod sa daghang
you cope with the problema pero kabalo man
problems you ko na walay tao na walay
encountered problema, gi-encourage
everyday? nalang nako ako sarili na
“ahh kaya nako ni dili ko
magpadala-dala sa ing-ana
na problema” niya isa man
pud ako Papa kato nga time
na ready mo suporta sa akoa
biskan kanusa, so mao to
na…sa walay pagduha-duha
nakaingon ko na kaya ra
nako ni.
things that I want to buy. He is
always at my side even the
gossips I’ve heard, he
ako protected me because he did
gi- not want to hurt me.
niya
It is too hard for me but I know
that I have a big sin because of
what I’ve did, but it is because I
loved my Father, that’s why I
did that. But whenever I think
about it, it didn’t still change the
wala fact that what I’ve did was
sa wrong, I have no choice, but I
ako have to move on because I
can’t undo it even how many
times I pray in a day.
It is hard for me to live,
because the lot of problems but
I know that there are no people
having no problems, I
encourage myself that “ I can
do it I will not go with the flow
of that certain problems” and
that time my father is the one
who are ready to support me
anytime, so that’s it…without
unquestioned I told myself that
I can do this.
3.1 What is your Isip usa ka anak karon pa
insight as a nako uhm…narealize
daughter and wife nga butang na ako gi-buhat
in this relationship? kay dako kaayo nga sala,
siguro wala nako nahuna-
hunaan nako kini sa una
tungod kay gamay pa ko ato
wala pa sa tamang edad
para makahuna-huna
tarong, kung unsay tama o
mali kay ang bata dali ra man
matintal, pero
narealize nako na ang katong
ako gibuhat sauna kay dako
nga mali, na untay wala nay
musolod sa ingon ani nga
relasyon sulod sa usa ka
pamilya.
3.2 Based on your Ang pinakasakit para sa akoa
insight what are the kay…ang hatol sa akong
most painful kadugo tungod kay kabalo
judgement? ”The sila na naa ko niini nga
judgement in your sitwasyon pero dili
surrounding or the masabtan ngano naa ko ini
judgement in your ug dili man lang
relatives? Why? paminawon ang akong rason
kung ngano nasulod ko ini
nga relasyon ang mas sakit
pa jud ana kay katong time
na…gi-palayas mi sa akong
Mama katong nakabalo na
siya sa among relasyon
human niadto mi sa balay sa
ako lolo ug lola pero pareho
ra sila gipahawa
tungod daw kay wala mi
buot, wala man lang ko nila
As a daugther..I realize that
kini this thing I do is a biggest sin,
maybe I don’t think what might
be the possible outcome of my
doing because that time. I am
young on that time to think
enough, of what is good and
bad because a young age, its
ug very easy in temptation, but
now I realize that those I’ve
done before is a big mistake,
karon that others may not enter on
this relationship on their family.
The most painful for me is the
judgement made by my
relatives because they know
that I am here in this kind of
nila situation but they didn’t
understand my situation and
nila they didn’t listen my reasons on
how I enter this kind of
relationship and the most
painful is those time that…my
mother made me cast out when
the time that she know our
relationship with my father,
after that we go the house of
my grandpa ang grandma and
my lola’s and lolo’s also made
dayon me cast out because according
to them we are very trivial and
they didn’t listen my side and
 gi-paminaw man lang mao to
ni-adto mi didto sa balay sa
barkada sa ako Papa.
3.3 What is your Ang ako lang maingon kay,
message to other kung kinsa man
people who nagplano ug sulod ing-ani
planning to have nga relasyon unta
this kind of unusual hunaon ninyo na kini ba
relationship? relasyon kay maayo ba ang
epekto niini? Dili sayon ang
mga problema na ako na-
experience katong kami pa
sa akong Papa pero nakaya
namo pero para sa ako ayaw
na mo ug sulod ing-ana na
relasyon o I-undang na nang
inyohang relasyon kay wala
moy makuha kundi problema
lang ana nga relasyon…naa
pa may time para inyoha
aron makakita ug tarong nga
pares kanang tao nga dili
nimo kadugo niya mas
arangan o mas gentle, ang
ako lang maingon
milyon-milyon ang tao sa
kalibutan naa pay
better o deserving para sa
inyo.
3.4 What can you Ang ing-ani nga relasyon kay
advice to other komplikado…libog
people so that they kung sabton pero kung huna-
can avoid this kind hunaon ug pag-ayo…naa
of unusual man poy rason kung…ngano
relationship? nasulod sila niini
sitwasyon, naa man
deay pulos pero halata man
bacause of that we went to the
house of my father’s friends.
This I can tell to those people
ang who planning to have this kind
of unusual relationship, I am
huna- hoping that before you enter
this kind of relationship you
need to think first what might
be the possible effect. The
problem that we experience is
not easy when those time that
we have a relationship with my
father but we coped it, and for
me, you don’t need to have this
kind of relationship and if you
have, you must to stop it…you
have a time to find a perfect
person that is not your relative
and much better to him and
more gentle, this is I can say,
there are more than million
people in the world that much
better and deserving for you.
kay
much
This kind of relationship is
kaayo complicated, it is hard to
understand but if we think
deeper on it, it still has reason,
why they are involve in this
nga situation, there is still purpose
pud but it is obvious that this
relationship is a bad influence
 pud na mali kini nga relasyon because it is a big sin in the
tungod kay dako kini nga eye of the law. Think first the
sala sa mata sa balaod. possible outcome when you
Huna-hunaa una ang are planning to engage in this
puwede mahitabo kung kind of relationship but only
mosulod mo ani nga relasyon problems you will get in that
pero problema lang ang kind of relationship so, from
kadaghanan na imo madawat now on I discourage you to
ana nga relasyon so, karon engage in that kind of
pa lang gi discourage tamo relationship because regret is
nga mosulod ana nga always at the last part.
relasyon kay naa permi ang
pagmahay sa iwit.

3.5 What are the Ahh…ang nakutlo nako na The learnings that I get from
lessons that you learnings ani nga this romantic relationship is that
can get in this romantikong relasyon kay dili “We have to be careful to our
romantic dapat ta careless sa tanan decisions in our life” because
relationship? natong desisyon sa ato every little slip to your
kinabuhi kay bisag sa gamay decisions makes a big changes
lang na sipyat sa imohang to your life. Example you are
desisyon dako na kaayo going home after going home,
nang epekto sa imo you immediately roam around,
kinabuhi…example kanang as if you didn’t do your
nagdali-dali ka ug uli, human assignments or projects. You
nilaag dayon ka pag-abot sa didn’t submit, so you have
balay wala na nimo nabuhat failing grades . Just like that
ang mga assignments ba situations but if you think first
diha…o projects? Niya wala just like you submit all of it,
kapasa so, nabagsak. Mga your mother or father seen it,
ing-ana na sitwasyon pero their proud to you, even in that
kung huna-hunaon nimo una simple way, it gives us a better
niya napasa nimo ang mga life.
projects so, napasar ka
walay bagsak, nakakita pa
jud imo mama o papa sa imo
high grades, proud kaayo sila
sa imo kanang simple lang
na paagi na pag-proseso kay
maghatag kanato maayong
kinabuhi.