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Nalain ko pero…uhm sa I feel inconvenient, but time Loneliness Loneliness

pagdugay nahimo nang passed by this is normal for
1.1 How does it feel
normal para sa amoang both of us in this situation, it iss
having a
duha ang…ing-ani nga because we used to be like this
relationship with
sitwasyon tungod kay way of living, that is how we act
your biological
naanad mi ani na ing-ani together everyday so, we
father?
lang ang…among pagtagad accepted the situation even
kada-adlaw so, mao to na… how hard it is, we keep figthing.
nadawat ra namo ang
amoang sitwasyon bisag
lisod man pero kayahon.

Katong gibiyaan mi sa akong When my Mother left us, me Financial Financial

Mama, kami duha pareha and my Father felt loneliness, problem
1.2 How did you problem
nakabati ug kamingaw… even we did not wanted her to
engage in that
bisan gustohon man namo work abroad because we are
relationship and
na dili siya paabrodon kay not ready yet to accept the
why?
dili me gusto na malayo sia reality that my mother will left
sa amua…pero wala mi us.. but we have no choice,
mabuhat, tungod kay gipit because due to financial crisis,
man mi ug wala may and my Father has no decent
desente nga trabaho si papa work to get a enough salary
para makakuha ug dako nga and my Mother is also having
sweldo mao to…si Mama the same situation like my
pud pareha ra sila ug Father who did not have a
sitwasyon ni Papa…nga permanent work, that is why
wala poy permanenteng my Mother left, after she left,
trabaho mao to nibiya si loneliness is the only thing we
Mama, sa pagbiya ni Mama felt in a since she left, I
kamingaw lang ang amo celebrate my birthday without
nabati sa pila ka tuig namo her, and also other occassions
na pagpuyo nga wala siya, that she is not here, the one
ug pila ka bday nako nga and only, stay by my side is my
wala siya , ug…sa uban pa father and ready to help
nga okasyon, akong kauban anytime when I need it, so
lang kay ang akong Papa that’s the time passed by, my
nga naa permente sa akong feelings starts develop more
 kilid na andam motabang sa deeper, it’s because his
tanang oras na neverending taking good care
nanginanghanlan ko ug of me.
kauban, so mao to na
kadugayan nadevelop ang
ako feelings sa iya tungod
man pud sa iyang walay
katapusang pag-amping
kanako.

Loneliness Loneliness

1.3 When did your Nagsugod ang amo relasyon Our relationship starts after my
relationship starts katong nilakaw si Mama aron Mother left to work abroad,
and how? mag-abrod, mao ra japon same answer to your question
akong tubag sa imong just now that, my Mother
pangutana sa ako karon lng abroad to gain some salaries,
na ni abrod si Mama para after a long time she abroad,
lang magkakwarta, pero sa we felt loneliness, many
kadugay sa iyang pag-abrod occassions we attended,
nakabati mi ug grabing roaming around, celebrating,
kamingaw sa astang just enjoying to forget the
daghanang okasyon kami ra loneliness we felt, after a long
duha naglaag-laag, time we continue doing this
nagcelebrate, nag-enjoy things all over again until the
para lang makalimot sa time came that I felt awkward
kamingaw na amoang to my feelings to my father , I
nabati, sa kadugay sa understand that loving another
panahon nagpadayon na person, is still has the same
namo ning ginabuhat process even whoever it is,
hangtud sa ni-abot ang time even relative or not.
na nakahuna-huna ko na
murag lain naman ako gibati
para sa ako amahan, nga
murag naibog ko ba…
nasabtan man pud nako na
ang paghigugma sa isa ka
tawo pareha ra na ug
process bisan kinsa pa na,
bisan kadugo man o dili.

Enjoying Enjoying
1.4 What are your Ahh…enjoy kaayo mi sauna
experiences before katong wala pa nilakaw si
engaging in that Mama naglisod man mi sa
romantic penansiyal, uhm…na-enjoy
relationship? nako ang time na share nako
sa ila, wala man mi sud-an
sa mga kaon namo, palagsa
wala man gani wala mi kaon
pero mangita permi si Papa
ug paagi aron lang
makautang para lang na
makakaon mi. Naglisod man
mi sauna pero naenjoy namo
ang time na kompleto mi, dili
pareha aron na…kami-kami
lang duha diria.
1.5 What are your Ahh…katong time nga ni-uli
painful experiences si mama…uhm, daghan na
when you engage in nakabalo diri sa amoa na
this kind of karelasyon nako ang ako
relationship? papa. Nakabalo si Mama sa
amoang relasyon tungod sa
mga istorya-istorya sa amo
mga silingan kay… nakabalo
naman sila sa amo
sitwasyon. Excited mi ni
Papa na makita si Mama,
excited na nakulbaan tungod
sa amo relasyon. Pero mao
jud toh ang resulta nahibal-
an ni Mama, pagkahuman
nasuko si Mama, naglagot,
nangasaba siya ni-abot sa
point na, gipapili mi kung
mulayas ba mi o ipakulong
ang akong Papa tungod sa
iyang pang-abuso tungod
kay bata pa ko para musulod
We enjoyed the moments when
my Mother was here, even we
have difficulties in financial, we
enjoyed the time I spend with
them, even we have no foods
for our meals, sometimes we
did not eat but my Father finds
a way to borrow money to buy
some foods for us.. Even we
have difficulties before but I
enjoyed the moments when we
are complete but now just to of
us stays together.
When the time has come my Anxious Anxious
Mom went back home, some of
my neighborhoods knows that
I have a relationship with my
Father. My Mother was aware
of this because of the
gossiping of my neighbors
because they are already know
our situation. Were both
excited, excited and also
nervous at the same time
because we did a very big
mistake. And the result, my
Mother go through, That is why
my Mother angry, and starts
nagging, to the point my
Mother gives us an option
which is “We have to eloped
from the house or my father will
be arrested because I am still a
minor to engage in this kind of
relationship, one more thing,
 sa ing-ani na relasyon, usa
pa sa iyang pinakalagotan
kay ngano ako pa
kadaghan-daghang
sa palibot, ngano na ako pa
jud na iyang anak ang iyang
nahimong karelasyon.
2.1 Based on your Sa pagkadaghan sa akong
experiences, how na-encounter na problema
did you solve the dugangan pa nang among
problems that you silingan na tsismosa, tungod
encountered as a kay kabalo man ko na layo
daughter and wife? man si Mama, gina-ingon ra
nako sarili na
malampasan nako ni tungod
kay naa pirmi si Papa na…
motabang nako
kinanghanlan nako siya kay
nakabalo man ko
molaban siya para sa akoa
tungod kay love man ko niya.
Maong para makapadayon
ko ug ma solve
problema gina baliwala ra
nako ang mga problema.
2.2 How did you Dili man sayon ang mga
overcome all problema na na-encounter
struggles in this nako pero kabalo ko na
relationship? kailangan nako ni lamposon
kini nga problema kay kaya
ra nako ni, kanang murag I-
push nalang nako ako sarili
para malampos nako ni na
problema bisan lisod pero
kayahon nako ni, tungod kay
naa permi si Papa na ready
that makes her more angry is
that, why it has to be me, there
sa are many girls around here,
babae why me, his own daughter
become his partner.
Many of the problems that I Fighting Fighting
encountered, in addition, the
Spirit Spirit
talkative neighbors, because I
know that my Mother is far
away from us, so I just say to
myself that “I can overcome
… this because my Father is
always there to help me if I
needed him.” because I know
kung he loved me. That is why for
me to go on and to solve that
na kind of problem, instead of
thinking of it I set aside my
problems to survive.
ang
The problems I encountered Supportive Supportive
are not easy, but I know that I
Father Father
have to overcome this problem
because I know that I can, just
like I push myself to overcome
these struggles, even if it is
difficult, but I can do it because
my Father is always beside me
to help and support me all the
time.
 motabang ug mo-suporta sa
akoa sa tanang oras.

2.3 Who helps you Akong papa, kay naa permi My Father, because he is
to enlighten your sa ako kilid na… andam always beside me and ready to
feelings? In times of mosuporta sa akoa samot na support me especially to the
your needs? sa mga gusto nako makaon foods that I want to eat and
ug…mga butang nga gusto things that I want to buy. He is
nako paliton. Naa siya permi always at my side even the
sa ako kilid bisag sa tanang gossips I’ve heard, he
mga tsismis na ako protected me because he did
nadungog, iyaha ko gi- not want to hurt me.
depensahan kay di niya
gusto na masakitan ko.

2.4 After knowing Lisod man para sa akoa pero
by your parents kabalo man ko dako nga
your situation, how kaayong sala ako gibuhat
did you accept the pero tungod kay love nako
reality that this ang ako Papa nabuhat nako
unusual relationship to. Pero bisag-unsaon man
must not continue? nako ug huna-huna wala
japoy makausab sa
kamatuoran na mali ako
nabuhat, wala nakoy laing
choice, pero kailangan nako
mag-move on kay wala man
koy mabuhat bisag ikapila pa
ko ug ampo sa isa ka adlaw.
It is too hard for me but I know
that I have a big sin because of
what I’ve did, but it is because I
loved my Father, that’s why I
did that. But whenever I think
about it, it didn’t still change the
fact that what I’ve did was
wrong, I have no choice, but I
have to move on because I
can’t undo it even how many
times I pray in a day.

2.5 As a Daughter Naglisod man ko sa ako It is hard for me to live,

and Wife, how do pagpuyo tungod sa daghang because the lot of problems but
you cope with the problema pero kabalo man I know that there are no people
problems you ko na walay tao na walay having no problems, I
encountered problema, gi-encourage
everyday? nalang nako ako sarili na
“ahh kaya nako ni dili ko
magpadala-dala sa ing-ana
na problema” niya isa man
pud ako Papa kato nga time
na ready mo suporta sa akoa
biskan kanusa, so mao to
na…sa walay pagduha-duha
nakaingon ko na kaya ra
nako ni.
3.1 What is your Isip usa ka anak karon pa
insight as a nako uhm…narealize kini
daughter and wife nga butang na ako gi-buhat
in this relationship? kay dako kaayo nga sala,
siguro wala nako nahuna-
hunaan nako kini sa una
tungod kay gamay pa ko ato
wala pa sa tamang edad
para makahuna-huna
tarong, kung unsay tama o
mali kay ang bata dali ra
man matintal, pero karon
narealize nako na ang
katong ako gibuhat sauna
kay dako nga mali, na untay
wala nay musolod sa ingon
ani nga relasyon sulod sa
usa ka pamilya.
3.2 Based on your Ang pinakasakit para
insight what are the akoa kay…ang hatol
most painful akong kadugo tungod kay
judgement?” The kabalo sila na naa ko niini
judgement in your nga sitwasyon pero dili nila
encourage myself that “ I can
do it I will not go with the flow
of that certain problems” and
that time my father is the one
who are ready to support me
anytime, so that’s it…without
unquestioned I told myself that
I can do this.
As a daugther..I realize that
this thing I do is a biggest sin,
maybe I don’t think what might
be the possible outcome of my
doing because that time. I am
young on that time to think
enough, of what is good and
bad because a young age, its
ug very easy in temptation, but
now I realize that those I’ve
done before is a big mistake,
that others may not enter on
this relationship on their family.
sa The most painful for me is the
sa judgement made by my
relatives because they know
that I am here in this kind of
situation but they didn’t
surrounding or the masabtan ngano naa ko ini
judgement in your ug dili man lang nila
relatives? Why? paminawon ang akong rason
kung ngano nasulod ko ini
nga relasyon ang mas sakit
pa jud ana kay katong time
na…gi-palayas mi sa akong
Mama katong nakabalo na
siya sa among relasyon
human niadto mi sa balay sa
ako lolo ug lola pero pareho
ra sila gipahawa dayon
tungod daw kay wala mi
buot, wala man lang ko nila
gi-paminaw man lang mao to
ni-adto mi didto sa balay sa
barkada sa ako Papa.
3.3 What is your Ang ako lang maingon kay,
message to other kung kinsa man ang
people who nagplano ug sulod ing-ani
planning to have nga relasyon unta huna-
this kind of unusual hunaon ninyo na kini ba
relationship? relasyon kay maayo ba ang
epekto niini? Dili sayon ang
mga problema na ako na-
experience katong kami pa
sa akong Papa pero nakaya
namo pero para sa ako ayaw
na mo ug sulod ing-ana na
relasyon o I-undang na nang
inyohang relasyon kay wala
moy makuha kundi problema
lang ana nga relasyon…naa
pa may time para inyoha
aron makakita ug tarong nga
pares kanang tao nga dili
nimo kadugo niya mas
understand my situation and
they didn’t listen my reasons on
how I enter this kind of
relationship and the most
painful is those time that…my
mother made me cast out when
the time that she know our
relationship with my father,
after that we go the house of
my grandpa ang grandma and
my lola’s and lolo’s also made
me cast out because according
to them we are very trivial and
they didn’t listen my side and
bacause of that we went to the
house of my father’s friends.
This I can tell to those people
who planning to have this kind
of unusual relationship, I am
hoping that before you enter
this kind of relationship you
need to think first what might
be the possible effect. The
problem that we experience is
not easy when those time that
we have a relationship with my
father but we coped it, and for
me, you don’t need to have this
kind of relationship and if you
have, you must to stop it…you
have a time to find a perfect
person that is not your relative
and much better to him and
more gentle, this is I can say,
there are more than million
people in the world that much
 arangan o mas gentle, ang better and deserving for you.
ako lang maingon kay
milyon-milyon ang tao sa
kalibutan naa pay much
better o deserving para sa
inyo.

3.4 What is your Ang ing-ani nga relasyon kay This kind of relationship is
advice to other komplikado…libog kaayo complicated, it is hard to
people so that they kung sabton pero kung understand but if we think
can avoid this kind huna-hunaon ug pag-ayo… deeper on it, it still has reason,
of unusual naa man poy rason kung… why they are involved in this
relationship? ngano nasulod sila niini nga situation, there is still purpose
sitwasyon, naa man pud but it is obvious that this
deay pulos pero halata man relationship is a bad influence
pud na mali kini nga relasyon because it is a big sin in the
tungod kay dako kini nga eye of the law. Think first the
sala sa mata sa balaod. possible outcome when you
Huna-hunaa una ang are planning to engage in this
puwede mahitabo kung kind of relationship but only
mosulod mo ani nga problems you will get in that
relasyon pero problema lang kind of relationship so, from
ang kadaghanan na imo now on I discourage you to
madawat ana nga relasyon engage in that kind of
so, karon pa lang gi relationship because regret is
discourage tamo nga always at the last part.
mosulod ana nga relasyon
kay naa permi ang
pagmahay sa iwit.

3.5 What are the Ahh…ang nakutlo nako na The learnings that I get from
lessons that you learnings ani nga this romantic relationship is that
can get in this romantikong relasyon kay dili “We have to be careful to our
romantic dapat ta careless sa tanan decisions in our life” because
relationship? natong desisyon sa ato every little slip to your
kinabuhi kay bisag sa gamay decisions makes a big change
lang na sipyat sa imohang to your life. Example you are
desisyon dako na kaayo going home after going home,
nang epekto sa imo you immediately roam around,
kinabuhi…example kanang as if you didn’t do your
nagdali-dali ka ug uli, human assignments or projects. You
nilaag dayon ka pag-abot sa didn’t submit, so you have
balay wala na nimo nabuhat failing grades. Just like that
ang mga assignments ba situations but if you think first
diha…o projects? Niya wala just like you submit all of it,
kapasa so, nabagsak. Mga your mother or father seen it,
ing-ana na sitwasyon pero their proud to you, even in that
kung huna-hunaon nimo una simple way, it gives us a better
niya napasa nimo ang mga life.
projects so, napasar ka (DWQ3.5)
walay bagsak, nakakita pa
jud imo mama o papa sa imo
high grades, proud kaayo
sila sa imo kanang simple
lang na paagi na pag-
proseso kay maghatag
kanato maayong kinabuhi.