Name: Darimbang, Al-Amar G.
FPE1O1 PEACE RELATING TO REAL PERSONAL LIFE EXPERIENCE
Date Situation/Events
April 15, It was summertime, the day of my teenage,
2014 when I argued and a fight broke between me
and my older brothers and sisters, it was
against all between me. Then, suddenly I got
slapped by my oldest brother, I was stupid
thinking that I am above everyone else hence,
my dearest kuya slapped me hardly. That
almost broke my cheeks.
December An argument between my father, it was the day
10, 2015 of December an early Christmas break from
school which I lived in Iligan city. A crucial
mistake of mine when I did my household
chores. My family had a tradition to do chores
every weekends. I suddenly slept too long that
time. I missed my chores hence my father
disciplined me verbally.
July 15, I was on the way to farming site, which my
2016 teacher Technical Livelihood Education
assigned to us to plow. I was wearing my
colored teacher that time when I passed thru to
the principal office. Our principal saw me and
punished me through cutting my hair inside.
The principal looked to happy that time that my
temper went high.
July 20, When I failed my entrance exam in college of
2019 business administration and accountancy, it
broke my heart because I really did my best. I
went to Iligan rushed, night travelling.
Suddenly, my dearest grandpa who spoiled me
a lot, passed away that night at the same die I
failed my exam.
Instant/spontaneous response
(discussion)
I hold my cheeks, watching the faces of my
brothers and sisters worrying about me.
While my kuya hands instantly hold for a
second and hugged me. Then left the
scenario, I shut myself in room about a
week.
I was too hurt deeply of his word that my
inner temper heated. Leading to an
argument, insulting my father of his
background especially his educational
attainment. As a result, my father became
silent for a moment, it hurt him too much. I
was too reckless and ignorant at that time,
that I didn’t even think twice when I say
those words.
I suddenly struck the table with a fist owned
by our principal; I was so shocked with
myself. Hence, I had to go to guidance
counselor. It was also my first time in my
schooling. This time I listened and made an
oath to not to do it again.
It was my worst day of all days I
experienced. I almost tears with blood
because of my sadness. I almost suicide
because of sadness and failure. It was my
dream to succeed my dream course
witnessed by my own grandparents.
Strategic/logical/wise response
(discussion)
Upon pondering things, thinking
about my point in the argument I
slowly realize my mistakes as a
younger brother to them. I became
so boastful being a favorite child of
my mom. Hence, changing myself
raised my sincere apology to them.
My feelings also dissipated for a
moment when I realized that I
become so disrespectful. my tears
kept flowing that time, instantly
hugged my father. I said to him it
has never been my intention to
hurt him, but to fight with my rights.
Although, I made a promise my
feelings never gone. A hatred was
developed in my heart. Later, on
the day of my high school
graduation. I realized that they
mold us to a better person. I did go
to my principal and made a sincere
sorry.
I slept whole day, I become thinner
and thinner due to not eating well.
My appetite has gone, until
suddenly my parents broke tears
because of my situation. A sudden
realization to me comes to my
mind. It was never too late, a ton of
my loved ones still waiting for my
success and nailing for me.
Final result (discussion) Duration (until
solution
Achieved
I became very intuitive, wise, 1 week
and careful with my words. Not
to hurt everyone with my
actions, lowering myself when
times elderly talks. This gives
me a realization of karma goes
on.
Later on, I realized that to insult 30 minutes
a parent is a blasphemy to God,
and to the morality. Hence, one
of my worst experiences I had
is to become unfilial child. I
became sweeter and closer to
my parents up to these days
and soon forever.
Nowadays, my principal nailed 5 months
with my success. Every time I
go to Iligan I never forgot my
alma matter and just enjoy my
school.
I pursued my second dream 1 month
course; I took engineering
entrance exam and finally pass
the exam. It gave my life a
second chance hence, doing
my best until now. I want to see
my parents smile so big and be
proud to me again.