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vvadamant about not having a gun in the house, especially when she had children.

Her
husband, a Marine, is a firm believer in the right to bear arms. Scarpulla’s story first appeared
on CNN iReport.

STORY HIGHLIGHTS

Tracy Scarpulla used to be adamant about not having guns in the house

Her husband, a Marine, firmly believes in the right to bear arms

After a decade, she's changed her view and supports gun ownership

Have a personal essay to share with the world? Submit at CNN iReport

CNN —

I am the mother of three amazing children. Before having children, I was a firm believer that
guns were dangerous. But I did nothing to educate myself about guns or gun safety. I feared the
unknown and the danger guns seemed to possess.

But after 10 years, I now have a gun in my home. Listening to President Obama’s news
conference on Thursday marking 100 days after Sandy Hook, and the whole gun control
debate, prompted me to get my viewpoint across.

I married a U.S. Marine. He of course was a firm believer in his right to bear arms. This posed
no issue until our son was born. I was adamant that no gun be allowed in our home, while he
felt quite the opposite. We agreed on one gun locked in a safe, and his other hunting guns were
stored at his parents.’

Tracy Scarpulla with her daughter, Georgia

Courtesy Tracy Scarpulla

Slowly over the years, I became more and more fearful of being home alone on the nights he
worked, especially after I had children. We were living in Maryland on a farm in the middle of
nowhere. One night, I got a call from my husband telling me to lock all doors and windows as he
had just spoken with a sheriff down the road who was looking for an escaped convict.

I was terrified.
We had that one gun, but I had no idea how to use it. That changed very quickly over the
following weeks, as we went out for target practice. I learned how to shoot and for the first time
in years, I slept well. I finally felt safe at night.

Over the 11 years of our marriage, I slowly learned about guns. I began to accept that the gun
itself posed no danger – any danger was in the hand and heart of the beholder. I learned there
were safe ways to teach your children about guns. Guns were a tool like any tool; they have
multiple purposes and uses. I learned more about our Constitution and our rights as U. S.
citizens. I learned I had nothing to fear and a lot to gain from owning a gun.

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I think mothers need to educate themselves and learn how to best educate their kids. I work
with a lot of other mothers, and many of them are shocked that I was taught how to shoot. I
understand because I was there at one point – I was scared of guns. But I no longer fear them.

Marine to senator: I won’t ‘register my weapons’

So Mr. Obama and your gun control advocates: I am not physically capable of stopping a
200-pound man from raping me or my daughters. I am not physically capable of stopping a
200-pound man from entering my home and doing what he may. However, my gun is very
capable of stopping such a criminal if such an act were to occur.

Parents defend right to keep guns in the home

We live in a society where no one is there to protect us. The police come after the crime, not
before. I do not have 24/7 armed protection like you do, Mr. President. Neither do my children.

So until you can explain to this nation why your old city of Chicago has rising murder rates by
guns, despite some of the strictest gun control laws in the country, I will continue to support the
NRA, I will continue to urge others to support the Second Amendment and I will continue to vote
for those politicians that support my views. I will also support the notion of placing armed police,
veterans, etc. in our schools.

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Why should your children, Mr. President, be of the select few children in this country who are
protected by armed guards? Why are your children more special than mine?

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The fact is they are not. All children are special and have the right to be cared for and protected.

I am a mom, and I am proud to support the NRA and my right to bear arms.

The opinions expressed in this commentary are solely those of Tracy Scarpulla.

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adamant about not having a gun in the house, especially when she had children. Her husband,
a Marine, is a firm believer in the right to bear arms. Scarpulla’s story first appeared on CNN
iReport.

STORY HIGHLIGHTS

Tracy Scarpulla used to be adamant about not having guns in the house

Her husband, a Marine, firmly believes in the right to bear arms

After a decade, she's changed her view and supports gun ownership

Have a personal essay to share with the world? Submit at CNN iReport

CNN —

I am the mother of three amazing children. Before having children, I was a firm believer that
guns were dangerous. But I did nothing to educate myself about guns or gun safety. I feared the
unknown and the danger guns seemed to possess.

But after 10 years, I now have a gun in my home. Listening to President Obama’s news
conference on Thursday marking 100 days after Sandy Hook, and the whole gun control
debate, prompted me to get my viewpoint across.

I married a U.S. Marine. He of course was a firm believer in his right to bear arms. This posed
no issue until our son was born. I was adamant that no gun be allowed in our home, while he
felt quite the opposite. We agreed on one gun locked in a safe, and his other hunting guns were
stored at his parents.’

Tracy Scarpulla with her daughter, Georgia

Courtesy Tracy Scarpulla

Slowly over the years, I became more and more fearful of being home alone on the nights he
worked, especially after I had children. We were living in Maryland on a farm in the middle of
nowhere. One night, I got a call from my husband telling me to lock all doors and windows as he
had just spoken with a sheriff down the road who was looking for an escaped convict.

I was terrified.
We had that one gun, but I had no idea how to use it. That changed very quickly over the
following weeks, as we went out for target practice. I learned how to shoot and for the first time
in years, I slept well. I finally felt safe at night.

Over the 11 years of our marriage, I slowly learned about guns. I began to accept that the gun
itself posed no danger – any danger was in the hand and heart of the beholder. I learned there
were safe ways to teach your children about guns. Guns were a tool like any tool; they have
multiple purposes and uses. I learned more about our Constitution and our rights as U. S.
citizens. I learned I had nothing to fear and a lot to gain from owning a gun.

Why would someone own a military-style rifle?

Join us on Twitter and Facebook

I think mothers need to educate themselves and learn how to best educate their kids. I work
with a lot of other mothers, and many of them are shocked that I was taught how to shoot. I
understand because I was there at one point – I was scared of guns. But I no longer fear them.

Marine to senator: I won’t ‘register my weapons’

So Mr. Obama and your gun control advocates: I am not physically capable of stopping a
200-pound man from raping me or my daughters. I am not physically capable of stopping a
200-pound man from entering my home and doing what he may. However, my gun is very
capable of stopping such a criminal if such an act were to occur.

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We live in a society where no one is there to protect us. The police come after the crime, not
before. I do not have 24/7 armed protection like you do, Mr. President. Neither do my children.

So until you can explain to this nation why your old city of Chicago has rising murder rates by
guns, despite some of the strictest gun control laws in the country, I will continue to support the
NRA, I will continue to urge others to support the Second Amendment and I will continue to vote
for those politicians that support my views. I will also support the notion of placing armed police,
veterans, etc. in our schools.

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Why should your children, Mr. President, be of the select few children in this country who are
protected by armed guards? Why are your children more special than mine?

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The fact is they are not. All children are special and have the right to be cared for and protected.

I am a mom, and I am proud to support the NRA and my right to bear arms.

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