UNRAVELING THE TANGLES OF ANXIETY – IBIBA GEORGE

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CONTENTS

Introduction………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………3

Chapter 1 – Understanding Anxiety…………………………………………………………………………………………..4

• Defining Anxiety……………………………………………………………………………………………………………4
• Exploring Different Forms Of Anxiety…………………………………………………………………………….4
• The Mind-Body Connection…………………………………………………………………………………………..5
• Unraveling The Causes…………………………………………………………………………………………………..6
• Challenging Misconceptions………………………………………………………………………………………….7

Chapter 2 – Mapping The Tangles……………………………………………………………………………………………….8

• Identifying Anxious Thoughts…………………………………………………………………………………………8
• Cultivating Mindfulness And Awareness………………………………………………………………………..9
• Embracing Emotions……………………………………………………………………………………………………..11
• Uncovering Triggers……………………………………………………………………………………………………….12
• Unraveling The Physical Sensations……………………………………………………………………………….13

Chapter 3 – Tools For Untangling Anxiety…………………………………………………………………………………..16

Chapter 4 – Building Resilience And Finding Inner Peace……………………………………………………………17

• Building Resilience…………………………………………………………………………………………………………17
• Finding Inner Peace……………………………………………………………………………………………………….17

Chapter 5 – Embracing The Journey Of Self Discovery……………………………………………………………….19

• Celebrating Your Progress And Finding Joy In The Pursuit Of Inner-Peace.…………………….19

Conclusion…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………21

Supplementary Materials…………………………………………………………………………………………………………..22
• Diets……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..22
• Activities……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….23
• Activities To Reduce Or Completely Stop………………………………:……………………………………..23

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INTRODUCTION

A tangle of emotions, thoughts, voices in your head, physical sensations. Ohhh! You can hear the
loud murmurs of your heart. Your heart beating so fast as though it’s on a marathon. Some days it
feels like your heart is forcefully pulling itself out of your body. The voices in your head calls out to
you, you’re gonna die, immediately you start feeling your chest getting cold, you can feel the oxygen
in your lungs drying out. The voices screams louder, you begin to tremble, your joints starts feeling
weak, you start to hold your chest and cry out loud because you feel helpless. Now take a deep
breath! Another deep breath! Another deep breath! Another deep breath! Another deep breath!
Another deep breath! Another deep breath! Ohhhh yeah! You just realized you’re not truly dying.

In 2021, I encountered a terrible phase of my life, in my health. It drove me into anxiety. I constantly
felt like death was knocking on my door. I was scared like I’ve never felt my entire life. For several
months anxiety took hold of me, I became a frightened little child. After a year of giving myself up to
anxiety, I made the decision to heal my mind. November 2022, I embarked on the journey
‘DETANGLING MY RESTLESS MIND’. A journey that has completely changed my life. It elevated my
mind and my thoughts. I am on the 8th month of my journey and my results have been
heartwarming.

Anxiety is a common and normal human emotion that we all experience at various points in our
lives. It can serve as a helpful response to potential threats, motivating us to take action and protect
ourselves. However, when anxiety becomes excessive, and interferes with daily life, it can be
indicative of an anxiety disorder.

Anxiety can sometimes feel like a tangle of emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations. This can be
extremely challenging and overwhelming. Anxiety can manifest in different ways, including persistent
worrying, restlessness, racing thoughts, physical symptoms like rapid heartbeat or sweating, and
difficulty concentrating. It may impact negatively on our relationships with people, at work, and
overall well-being.

It is important to know that anxiety is not a sign of weakness or a personal failing. It is a complex
interplay of genetic, environmental, and psychological factors. Remember you are not alone on this
journey. On this ebook I will help you find your way to a calmer and more peaceful state of being.
Dive in with me, let me hold your hands and walk you through DETANGLING your RESTLESS mind.

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CHAPTER 1:

UNDERSTANDING ANXIETY
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Part A – Defining Anxiety: Anxiety is a state of heightened worry, fear, nervousness, or unease about
future events or potential threats. It is a natural response that evolved to keep us safe, alerting us to
danger and preparing us to react appropriately. While occasional anxiety is a normal part of life,
chronic and overwhelming anxiety can interfere with daily activities and impair our overall quality of
life.

Anxiety is a complex and multifaceted emotion that influences our thoughts, emotions, and physical
sensations. In this chapter, we will dive deeper into the concept of anxiety, exploring its various
types, manifestations, underlying causes, and how to overcome it. By debunking myths and
misconceptions surrounding anxiety, I hope to foster a more empathetic and informed perspective
on this prevalent mental health issue.

Exploring Different Forms Of Anxiety: Understanding the different forms of anxiety disorders is
crucial in recognizing its diverse presentations.

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

It is a common anxiety disorder characterized by excessive and persistent worry and anxiety about
various aspects of everyday life. People with GAD often get excessively worried and tensioned about
multiple areas of their life, such as work, health, family, finances, and everyday responsibilities. The
worry is persistent, difficult to control, and often disproportionate to the actual likelihood or impact
of the feared event.

Panic Disorder (PD)

Panic disorder is an anxiety disorder characterized by recurrent and unexpected panic attacks. A
panic attack is an intense episode of fear or discomfort that reaches its peak within minutes and is
accompanied by various physical and psychological symptoms. Panic disorder is different from
normal anxiety or occasional panic attacks, as it involves repeated and unexpected episodes that can
significantly impact a person's life. They are often accompanied by intense physical sensations, such
as a racing heartbeat, chest pain or discomfort, shortness of breath, dizziness or lightheadedness,
sweating, trembling, and a sense of impending doom or loss of control.

Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD)

Social anxiety disorder, also known as social phobia, is an anxiety disorder characterized by an
intense fear or anxiety about social situations and the fear of being accessed, judged, or
embarrassed by others. It involves a persistent fear of social interactions, leading to avoidance of
social situations or enduring them with significant distress. People with social anxiety disorder have
an overwhelming fear of social situations, particularly those involving unfamiliar people or potential
scrutiny. Common fear-inducing situations can include public speaking, participating in group
activities, meeting new people, or being observed while performing tasks.

Phobia Anxiety Disorder (PAD)

Phobia anxiety, or specific phobia, is an anxiety disorder characterized by an intense, irrational, and
persistent fear or anxiety related to a specific object, situation, or activity. People with phobias
experience an overwhelming and often excessive fear response that is triggered by their specific
phobic stimulus. Common phobias include fear of animals (e.g., spiders, snakes), natural
environments (e.g., heights, water), situations (e.g., flying, public speaking), or medical procedures
(e.g., injections, blood).
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Health Anxiety Disorder (HAD)
Health anxiety, also known as illness anxiety disorder or hypochondriasis, is an anxiety disorder
characterized by excessive and persistent worry or fear about having a serious medical condition or
illness. Individuals with health anxiety are preoccupied with the idea that they have, or will develop,
a severe medical condition, despite reassurance from medical professionals and lack of significant
evidence of such an illness.People with health anxiety often interpret minor bodily sensations or
normal bodily changes as signs of a severe illness, leading to heightened anxiety and distress. For
example, a mild headache may be perceived as a brain tumor, or a minor rash may be interpreted as
a sign of a life-threatening skin condition. This here was the anxiety disorder I suffered from . It was
so bad that I would constantly check my body for even the slightest of symptoms, go on the internet
to match what ever I feel with a disease, even when it was a minor body rhythm. As a result, my
body constantly replicated symptoms of illness I didn’t have .

Agoraphobia
Agoraphobia is an anxiety disorder characterized by an intense fear or anxiety about being in
situations where escape may be difficult or where help might not be available in case of a panic
attack or other distressing symptoms. As a result, individuals with agoraphobia tend to avoid certain
places or situations that they perceive as potentially dangerous or anxiety-provoking. Agoraphobia is
typically associated with specific situations or places, such as crowded spaces, public transportation,
open areas, enclosed spaces (e.g., elevators), or being far from home. These situations are often
avoided or endured with intense anxiety.

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, is a psychological disorder that can occur in individuals who have
experienced or witnessed a traumatic event. It is characterized by a range of distressing symptoms
that persist beyond the initial traumatic event and significantly impact a person's daily functioning
and quality of life. PTSD typically arises following exposure to a traumatic event, such as combat,
natural disasters, physical or sexual assault, accidents, or witnessing a traumatic event. The traumatic
event involves actual or threatened death, serious injury, or a threat to the physical integrity of
oneself or others.

Separation Anxiety Disorder (SAD)

Separation anxiety disorder is one of the most common type of anxiety. It is when someone
experiences distress when separated from someone else or an object. Separation anxiety disorder
primarily affects children, though it can also occur in adolescents and adults. It is characterized by
excessive and developmentally inappropriate fear or anxiety about being separated from attachment
figures or from home. The fear of separation leads to significant distress and impairment in daily
functioning. Individuals with separation anxiety disorder have an intense fear of being separated
from their attachment figures or worry excessively about potential separation. They may become
visibly distressed or exhibit clingy behaviors when separation is imminent or anticipated.

Part B - The Mind-Body Connection: Understanding how anxiety affects our thoughts, emotions, and
physical well-being is an important step to DETANGLING the mind. Anxiety is not limited to just our
thoughts and emotions; it has a profound impact on our physical well-being as well. The mind-body
connection highlights how anxiety can affect our entire being.

When experiencing anxiety, our thoughts become consumed by worries, often fixating on potential
threats or negative outcomes. These thoughts can be intrusive, repetitive, and challenging to control.
Emotionally, anxiety can lead to feelings of restlessness, irritability, fear, and a sense of impending
doom. As well, anxiety can manifest physically, leading to a wide range of symptoms.
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 include rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, muscle tension, headaches, gastrointestinal issues,
dizziness, sweating, and fatigue. Understanding the mind-body connection helps us grasp the holistic
nature of anxiety and recognize that addressing both the psychological and physical aspects is vital
for comprehensive treatment.

During my worst anxiety phase, I had an experience that gave me a clear understanding of the body –
mind connection. On one occasion when I was feeling oxygen drying out of my lungs, I started feeling
shortness of breath, fear gripped me and my brain began to tell my body that I was dying, I was
already falling to the ground. At that moment I fearfully screamed ‘I am not dying’. Suddenly I felt
some sort of breath again in my lungs, immediately I continued screaming I am not dying, gradually I
saw myself no longer screaming, this time I was talking to my body, telling my body the words ‘I am
not dying’. I did this for several minutes, I swiftly began to feel alive. When I felt alright, I carefully
analyzed my experience, then I realized our mind is our power house. Our mind constantly sends
impulses to our brain. Our brain in turn tell our body what to do. When I was consumed with fear,
my mind sent a fright impulse to my brain. My brain then sent an instruction to my body it was dying
and my body started exhibiting the symptoms of a dying person. Immediately I gained control of my
mind and told my body that it wasn’t dying, my body repelled the death instructions from my brain,
as a result I started to feel alright. That is to say one way to DETANGLING our mind is to constantly
speak positive thoughts to our mind, this will send positive impulses to our brain. Our brain will
further send a message to our body that we are fine.

Part C – Unraveling The Causes: Examining the factors that contribute to anxiety, such as genetics,
environment, and life experiences. Anxiety arises from a combination of genetic factors,
environmental factors, neurological damage, and individual factors. It is crucial to unravel and
understand these contributing factors to gain insights into the development and maintenance of
anxiety.

Genetics play a role in predisposing individuals to anxiety disorders. There is evidence to suggest that
anxiety disorders can run in families, indicating a genetic predisposition. Certain genes may influence
the way the brain and body respond to stress and regulate anxiety.

Environmental factors include upbringing, family dynamics, traumatic events, chronic stress, and
exposure to anxiety-inducing situations. Childhood experiences, such as parental attachment styles
and exposure to stressful or traumatic events, can shape the development of anxiety later in life.

Neurotransmitters in the brain, such as serotonin, norepinephrine, and gamma-aminobutyric acid

(GABA), play a crucial role in regulating mood and anxiety. Imbalances in these neurotransmitters can
contribute to the development of anxiety disorders.

Individually we can also inflict anxiety on ourselves through our lifestyle. Prolonged exposure to
stress can affect the body's stress response system, leading to increased vulnerability to anxiety.
Chronic activation of the stress response can disrupt neurotransmitter balance, impact hormonal
regulation, and contribute to a state of heightened anxiety. Also not getting enough sleep can disrupt
neurotransmitter balance in our brain, thus leading to an anxiety disorder. During my self healing
process, I started a sleep routine of 8 hours everyday. I made sure to stay off my phone immediately
it was 9pm, made sure to sleep and wake by 5am, then listen to a calming song for 1 hour just seated
on my sofa.

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Part D – Challenging Misconceptions: Addressing common myths and misconceptions surrounding
anxiety.
Society often holds misconceptions about anxiety, perpetuating stigma and misunderstanding.
Addressing these misconceptions is crucial for fostering empathy, support, and effective treatment.
One common misconception is that anxiety is just "worrying" or being overly anxious about trivial
matters. In reality, anxiety disorders involve more than everyday concerns and can significantly
impact an individual's life and well-being. Let me share one of my experiences on this misconception
topic. During my worst anxiety phase, I thought to share what I was going through with my mum,
sadly, she didn’t really understand how deep of a mess I was in. All she said was ‘you are just being
unnecessarily worried’ and she went on to say ‘overthinking doesn’t solve a problem’. At that
moment I realized so many persons are unaware of the fact that anxiety is a serious mental problem.
Just like my mum, many people have the misconception that anxiety is just an unnecessary worry.

Another misconception is that anxiety is a sign of weakness or lack of willpower. Anxiety is not a
personal failing but rather a complex interplay of biological, psychological, and environmental
factors. It is also essential to dispel the notion that individuals with anxiety can simply "snap out of
it" or control their anxiety with willpower alone. Anxiety disorders are legitimate medical conditions
that often require professional help and evidence-based treatments.

By challenging these misconceptions and promoting accurate information about anxiety, we can
create a more supportive and understanding environment for individuals struggling with anxiety.

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CHAPTER 2:

MAPPING THE TANGLES

In this chapter, we will focus deeper into understanding the intricate web of anxiety by exploring the
various components that contribute to its complexity. By gaining insight into anxious thoughts,
emotions, triggers, and physical sensations, we can begin to unravel the tangles and find effective
strategies to manage anxiety more effectively.

Part A – Identifying Anxious Thoughts: The first step to mapping the tangles of the mind is to
identify anxious thoughts by recognizing the patterns of negative thinking and cognitive distortions
that fuel anxiety. We will explore common thinking traps, such as exaggerating, overgeneralizing, and
all-or-nothing thinking, which contribute to anxious thoughts. By becoming aware of these patterns,
we can challenge and reframe them, replacing them with more realistic and balanced thoughts.

Identifying anxious thoughts is a crucial step in understanding and managing anxiety. Our thoughts
have a powerful influence on our emotions and behaviors, and anxious thoughts can contribute to
the perpetuation of anxiety. By learning to recognize and challenge these thoughts, we can gain
control over our anxiety and develop more balanced thinking patterns. Here are some strategies for
identifying anxious thoughts:

Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs):

Automatic Negative Thoughts are repetitive and intrusive thoughts that occur automatically in
response to triggers or stressful situations. They are often self-critical, pessimistic, and focus on
perceived threats or potential negative outcomes. ANTs can intensify anxiety by reinforcing negative
beliefs and contributing to a cycle of worry and rumination. A way to combat ANTs is to constantly
reassure your mind that you are fine.

Core Beliefs:
Core beliefs are deeply ingrained beliefs that individuals hold about themselves, others, and the
world. In the context of anxiety, negative core beliefs can contribute to feelings of insecurity,
vulnerability, and a heightened sense of threat. For example, if someone holds a core belief that they
are fundamentally unlovable or incompetent, they may interpret everyday situations as confirmation
of these beliefs, leading to increased anxiety. Always reframe your mind for negative beliefs.

Self-Fulfilling Prophecy:
Our thoughts and beliefs can also influence our behavior, which can then reinforce our initial
thoughts and beliefs. In the context of anxiety, if someone believes that they will fail in a particular
situation, they may exhibit avoidance behaviors or engage in self-sabotaging actions, increasing the
likelihood of a negative outcome. This cycle can perpetuate anxiety and reinforce negative thinking
patterns. Always reassure yourself with positive thoughts.

Keep A Thought Journal:

Start a journal where you can record your anxious thoughts. Whenever you notice yourself feeling
anxious or having negative thoughts, write them down. Include the specific situation or trigger, the
thoughts that arise, and the resulting emotions. This helps create awareness and provides a record to
analyze later. Ohhh how I loved this strategy. The amazing experience I had with this strategy is that
in the process of writing down my thoughts, my brain immediately begins to relax. It just works like
magic.

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Recognize Cognitive Distortions:
Cognitive distortions are irrational or biased ways of thinking that contribute to anxiety. Common
distortions include exaggerating, (expecting the worst outcome), black-and-white thinking (seeing
things as all good or all bad), and overgeneralization (drawing broad negative conclusions from a
single event). Learn to identify these distortions in your thinking patterns. Let me give you an
highlight of my experience with on this topic. I suffered from health anxiety hence, I constantly
exaggerated some body rhythms, I would have slight headache as a result of stress and I would begin
to overthink it as a brain tumor. Yes you heard me right a brain tumor, possibly the worst thing to
think of , that was constantly my exaggerated thoughts. Also I would have pre mensural cramps and
start to think I have developed some kind of pelvic inflammatory disease. One time I had a breast
cramp, I entirely forgot it was my ovulation period, I started to panic that I may have developed a
breast cancer. I went on to book an appointment with a doctor. Even when the doctor did physical
examination on my breast and confirmed I was fine and it was an hormonal cramp, I still insisted on
undergoing an advanced breast scan. I can go on and on about lots of times I over exaggerated
normal body rhythms and we may not go unto the next chapter. All I am saying is that recognize
when you are having exaggerated thoughts and tell yourself ‘ I am just exaggerating’, ‘I am
completely fine’. This will send an impulse to your brain, and you will almost immediately start to feel
good again.

Challenge Your Thoughts: Once you have identified anxious thoughts and cognitive distortions,
challenge them by examining the evidence and generating alternative, more balanced thoughts. Ask
yourself questions like "Is this thought based on facts or just my anxiety?" or "What is the worst-case
scenario, and how likely is it to happen?" This process helps you gain perspective and develop more
realistic and rational thinking. I often used this strategy and I am still using it presently, in my journey
of DETANGLING my restless mind.

Seek Support: Share your anxious thoughts with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist.
Verbalizing your thoughts can help you gain a fresh perspective and receive support in challenging
negative thinking patterns. Others can provide insights, reassurance, and alternative viewpoints that
may help you reframe your anxious thoughts. I had a friend that understood what I was going
through. When ever I had panics over a mere symptom, my friend would talk me out of the thought
and constantly made me dwell on the thought that the symptoms are not real, that they are mere
body rhythms.

Practice Cognitive Restructuring: Cognitive restructuring is a technique used in cognitive-behavioral

therapy (CBT) to challenge and replace negative thoughts. Once you have identified a negative
thought, actively work on replacing it with a more positive, realistic, or helpful thought. Repeat the
new thoughts regularly to reinforce positive thinking patterns.

Remember, identifying anxious thoughts is an ongoing process. It takes practice and patience to
become more aware of your thinking patterns and challenge negative thoughts effectively. With time
and effort, you can develop the skills to recognize and replace anxious thoughts, leading to a
reduction in anxiety and a more positive mindset.

Part B – Cultivating Mindfulness And Awareness: Cultivating mindfulness and awareness can be
particularly helpful in managing anxiety. Anxiety is a common mental health condition characterized
by excessive worry, fear, and a sense of unease. By practicing mindfulness and awareness, individuals
can develop skills to better understand and respond to their anxiety. I will share all the steps I took
and how I applied mindfulness and awareness in my journey of fighting health anxiety.
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Observing Anxiety:
Mindfulness involves observing thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations without judgment. When
anxiety arises, instead of fighting or resisting it, bring your attention to the present moment and
observe your anxiety without trying to change or suppress it. Notice where you feel the anxiety in
your body, the quality of your thoughts, and the accompanying emotions. This practice allows you to
develop a more objective and compassionate relationship with your anxiety.

Non-Identification:
Often, people with anxiety tend to fuse their identity with their anxious thoughts and feelings.
Mindfulness helps create a distance between you and your anxiety. Recognize that anxiety is a
passing experience and not a fundamental part of who you are. By adopting a non-identifying stance,
you can prevent anxiety from defining your sense of self. This right here is very important. When I
first developed anxiety disorder, I would constantly dwell on it, often times I would flare up and yell
at anyone around me, I constantly yawned for pity and allowed my anxiety define my personality. I
became a version of myself that was uncontrollable. It was a very tough phase of my life. When I
began my journey of entangling my mind, I began to see anxiety from a different perspective, instead
of seeing it as a part of me, I rather saw it as a mere cold that would pass after the cold season, and
that enhanced my progress level in fighting my health anxiety.

Grounding In The Present:

Anxiety often pulls attention into the future, ruminating on what might go wrong or catastrophizing
potential outcomes. Mindfulness redirects your focus to the present moment, helping you break free
from anxious thoughts. Use anchoring techniques, such as focusing on your breath or grounding
yourself through sensory experiences, to bring your attention back to the here and now. Future
thoughts always fought me during my anxiety phase. I would continuously ponder on the future,
wondering if I would get sick tomorrow. Somedays I would over think and wonder if I would make it
to the end of the year. When I began my journey of DETANGLING, I started grounding my mind in the
present, when I start to panic about the future, I would immediately ground my mind to remember
that I am alive right now and that’s all that matters. That often gave me a reassurance that I am fine.

Rethinking Anxious Thoughts:

Mindfulness can help you examine your anxious thoughts with greater clarity and objectivity. Rather
than automatically accepting anxious thoughts as true, question their validity. Ask yourself if there is
evidence supporting or contradicting those thoughts. This process of inquiry helps challenge
irrational or distorted thinking patterns associated with anxiety. For instance, if you’re having panic
attack and it feels like you can’t breath, you may feel like you are dying. Immediately rethink your
thoughts, ask yourself am I truly dying, tell yourself ‘I am not dying’ ‘it’s just a thought’. Repeat this
for several minutes, you would almost immediately that feeling air again.

Mindful Coping Strategies:

Engage in activities that promote relaxation and well-being. These may include meditation, yoga,
journaling, spending time in nature, or engaging in creative pursuits. When participating in these
activities, focus on the present moment and fully immerse yourself in the experience, allowing it to
serve as a reprieve from anxious thoughts. You can engage in activities like hiking, cycling,
therapeutic massage, attending musical concerts, seeing therapeutic movies and lots more.

Mindfulness-Based Therapies:
Consider seeking professional help from therapists who specialize in mindfulness-based approaches,
such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) or Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy
(MBCT). These therapeutic modalities incorporate mindfulness practices and techniques into
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structured interventions specifically designed to address anxiety and related symptoms. By
cultivating mindfulness and awareness, individuals with anxiety can develop a greater capacity to
manage their symptoms. Mindfulness helps create a mental space that allows for more intentional
and skillful responses to anxiety, leading to increased resilience and well-being. It's important to note
that while mindfulness can be beneficial, it is not a substitute for professional help, and individuals
experiencing severe anxiety should consult with a qualified mental health professional

Part C – Embracing Emotions: Emotions play a crucial role in anxiety. In this section, we will explore
the connection between thoughts, emotions, and anxiety. Embracing emotions involves developing
the ability to recognize, accept, and express our emotions in healthy ways. Many people with anxiety
tend to suppress or avoid their emotions, fearing that they will become overwhelmed or that their
emotions will intensify their anxiety. However, by learning to embrace and work through our
emotions, we can foster emotional well-being and reduce anxiety. Here are some ways to elaborate
on embracing emotions:

Emotional Awareness: Start by cultivating emotional awareness, which involves paying attention to
your emotions in the present moment. Notice the physical sensations, thoughts, and behaviors
associated with different emotions. Mindfulness practices can help you become more attuned to
your emotional experiences.

Identifying Emotions: Develop the ability to accurately identify and label your emotions. Sometimes,
anxiety can mask other underlying emotions, such as fear, sadness, or anger. By discerning the
primary emotion beneath the surface, you can gain a deeper understanding of your emotional
landscape.

Normalizing Emotions: Recognize that all emotions are a natural and essential part of being human.
It is normal to experience a wide range of emotions, including those that are uncomfortable or
distressing. Understanding that emotions serve a purpose and are not inherently good or bad can
help reduce anxiety around experiencing certain emotions.

Validating Emotions: Give yourself permission to feel and acknowledge your emotions without
judgment. Validate your emotional experiences, recognizing that they are valid and deserving of
attention and care. Avoid minimizing or dismissing your emotions, as this can lead to increased
anxiety and emotional suppression.

Expressing Emotions: Find healthy outlets for expressing your emotions. This could involve talking to
a trusted friend or family member, journaling, engaging in creative activities, or seeking professional
therapy. Expressing emotions can help release emotional tension, gain insights, and foster emotional
well-being.

Emotion Regulation Strategy: Develop a toolkit of emotion regulation strategies to help manage
intense emotions associated with anxiety. These strategies can include deep breathing exercises,
progressive muscle relaxation, meditation, engaging in hobbies or activities that bring you joy, or
seeking support from a therapist trained in emotion-focused techniques.

Self-Compassion: Practice self-compassion in relation to your emotions. Treat yourself with kindness,
understanding, and acceptance, especially during times of emotional distress. Remember that
everyone experiences emotions, and it is okay to struggle at times. Treat yourself with the same
compassion and empathy you would offer to a loved one.

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By embracing emotions, you create space for self-reflection, growth, and resilience. Emotions
provide valuable information about our needs, values, and experiences. Developing a healthy
relationship with your emotions can lead to greater emotional intelligence, increased self-awareness,
and a reduction in anxiety as you learn to navigate and process your emotions effectively.

Part D – Uncovering Triggers: Uncovering triggers is another important step in understanding and
managing anxiety. Triggers are specific situations, people, or events that activate or worsen anxiety
symptoms. By identifying your personal triggers, you can develop strategies to cope effectively and
minimize the impact of these triggers on your anxiety. Here are some ways to uncovering triggers:

Self-Observation: Start by observing and reflecting on your own experiences. Pay attention to
situations or events that consistently elicit anxiety or intensify your anxious feelings. Notice any
patterns or commonalities among these situations. Keeping a journal or diary can be helpful in
recording and analyzing your experiences. For me the trigger was seeing, or hearing of a terminal
illness, either see someone with a terminal illness on the street or hear of someone rushed to the
ICU. When I understood those were part of my trigger, I trained my mind to acknowledge that it will
not be my case, and that those persons will come out strong . That is a process of challenging my
thoughts and reframing my mind.

Emotional And Physical Cues: Notice the emotional and physical cues that accompany your anxiety.
When you feel anxious, pay attention to the thoughts, sensations, and behaviors you experience in
that moment. These cues can provide valuable information about the triggers that contribute to your
anxiety.

Reflect On Past Experiences: Reflect on past situations or events that have caused you significant
anxiety. Consider whether there are any recurring themes, specific types of situations, or common
triggers that are present in these experiences. This retrospective analysis can help you identify
potential triggers in your present or future situations.

Cognitive Associations: Examine any cognitive associations that you have developed between certain
situations or events and anxiety. For example, if you have experienced a panic attack in a crowded
space, you may develop a fear of similar situations. Recognize these associations and consider
whether they are still valid or if they can be challenged and reframed.

Sensory And Environmental Factors: Consider how sensory stimuli and environmental factors
contribute to your anxiety. Loud noises, crowded spaces, bright lights, or certain smells may act as
triggers for some individuals. Pay attention to your sensitivity to these factors and how they impact
your anxiety levels. For me dirty environment often triggered a panic attack. Once I encounter a dirty
environment, sometimes a trash beside the road, I would start to shiver, my heart would begin to
beat very fast, I would start to hear voices in my head yelling ‘this you will fall sick, you will die ‘. It
was a really terrifying experience but once I uncovered my triggers, I became conscious of my
thoughts and constantly reframed my mind.

Social Interactions: Reflect on social interactions that may trigger your anxiety. Certain types of social
situations, such as public speaking, meeting new people, or engaging in confrontations, can be
anxiety-provoking for many individuals. Identify the specific aspects of these interactions that trigger
anxiety for you.

Traumatic Experiences: Traumatic experiences can have a significant impact on anxiety triggers. If
you have experienced trauma in the past, certain situations or reminders of the trauma may trigger
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anxiety symptoms. Recognize the connection between your traumatic experiences and your anxiety
triggers, and consider seeking professional support if needed.
Gradual exposure: Once you have identified your triggers, consider gradually exposing yourself to
them in a controlled and supportive manner. This technique, known as exposure therapy, can help
desensitize you to the triggers and reduce anxiety over time. Seek guidance from a mental health
professional who specializes in anxiety disorders to assist you with this process.

By uncovering your triggers, you gain insight into the specific situations or events that contribute to
your anxiety. This knowledge empowers you to develop strategies for coping effectively. With time
and practice, you can implement techniques such as relaxation exercises, cognitive reframing, and
self-care practices to manage and reduce anxiety when faced with these triggers.

Part E – Unraveling The Physical Sensations: Unraveling the physical sensations associated with
anxiety is an essential aspect of managing anxiety effectively. Anxiety often manifests in physical
symptoms such as a rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, muscle tension, dizziness, or
gastrointestinal discomfort. Understanding and addressing these physical sensations can help
alleviate anxiety and promote a greater sense of well-being. We will explore some relaxation
techniques on unraveling the physical sensations:

Recognizing Physical Manifestations: Recognizing the physical manifestations of anxiety is an

important aspect of untangling anxiety. Anxiety can manifest in various physical symptoms, and
being able to identify them can help you understand when you're experiencing anxiety and take
appropriate steps to manage it. Pay attention to how anxiety manifests in your body. Notice any
changes in your breathing, muscle tension, heart rate, or other bodily sensations that occur when
you feel anxious. Mindfulness practices can be helpful in cultivating this awareness. Here are some
common physical manifestations of anxiety:

Increased heart rate: Anxiety can cause your heart to beat faster or feel like it's pounding. You may
notice palpitations or a sensation of your heart racing.
Shortness of breath: Anxiety can lead to shallow or rapid breathing, making you feel like you can't
take a deep breath. This can result in a feeling of breathlessness or tightness in the chest.

Muscle tension: Anxiety often causes muscle tension and stiffness. You may feel tightness in your
neck, shoulders, back, or jaw. This tension can sometimes lead to headaches or jaw pain.
Gastrointestinal issues: Anxiety can affect the digestive system, leading to symptoms such as
stomachaches, nausea, diarrhea, or an increased urge to urinate.

Sweating: Anxiety can trigger excessive sweating, even in situations where it's not physically hot. You
may notice your palms getting sweaty or perspiring more than usual.

Dizziness or lightheadedness: Feeling dizzy or lightheaded is another physical manifestation of

anxiety. It may feel like you're unsteady on your feet or that the room is spinning.

Fatigue or restlessness: Anxiety can lead to a sense of restlessness or feeling on edge. On the other
hand, it can also cause fatigue and a lack of energy, making it difficult to concentrate or complete
tasks.

Sleep disturbances: Anxiety can disrupt sleep patterns, causing difficulty falling asleep, staying
asleep, or experiencing restless sleep. This can lead to feeling tired and irritable during the day.
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It's important to note that these physical symptoms can also be associated with other medical
conditions, so it's essential to consult with a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying
issues. If you consistently experience these physical manifestations in association with anxiety, it can
be helpful to track your symptoms and discuss them with a mental health professional who can
provide guidance and support.

By recognizing the physical manifestations of anxiety, you can become more attuned to your body's
signals and take proactive steps to manage and untangle anxiety effectively.

Understanding Your Mind: Recognize the bidirectional relationship between your mind and body.
Anxiety triggers physiological responses in the body, and these physical sensations can, in turn,
intensify feelings of anxiety. Understand that the physical symptoms you experience are often a
result of the body's natural stress response, and they do not necessarily indicate a medical
emergency. Here are some key points to consider when it comes to understanding your mind:

Thoughts and Beliefs: Your mind is constantly generating thoughts, which can greatly influence your
emotions and behaviors. Paying attention to your thought patterns can provide valuable insights into
your mental landscape. Notice the content of your thoughts, their frequency, and whether they tend
to be negative or positive. Recognize any patterns or recurring themes that may contribute to anxiety
or other challenges. Understanding your beliefs, both conscious and subconscious, is also important
as they shape your perception of the world and influence your responses.

Cognitive Processes: Becoming aware of cognitive processes can help you understand how your mind
works. For example, cognitive biases are tendencies to think in certain ways that can distort your
perception of reality. Common cognitive biases include confirmation bias (favoring information that
confirms existing beliefs), catastrophizing (exaggerating the negative aspects of a situation), or
overgeneralizing (drawing broad conclusions based on limited evidence). By recognizing these
cognitive processes, you can begin to challenge and modify unhelpful patterns of thinking.

Emotions and Feelings: Understanding your emotions is key to untangling anxiety. Emotions provide
valuable information about your internal state and can serve as signals for identifying triggers and
underlying issues. Practice mindfulness by observing your emotions without judgment, and try to
label and describe them. This can help you gain clarity on the emotions you're experiencing and their
causes. Additionally, exploring the connection between thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations
can deepen your understanding of how they interrelate.

Self-Reflection and Self-Inquiry: Engaging in self-reflection and self-inquiry can help you delve deeper
into your mind. Take time to introspect and ask yourself meaningful questions, such as "What are my
core values and beliefs?", "What patterns or habits contribute to my anxiety?", or "What do I need to
feel fulfilled and content?". Journaling, therapy, or engaging in meaningful conversations with trusted
individuals can facilitate self-reflection and provide insights into your inner world.

Mindfulness and Meditation: Mindfulness practices, such as meditation, can enhance your
understanding of your mind. By practicing mindfulness, you develop the ability to observe your
thoughts, emotions, and sensations without judgment or attachment. This cultivates a sense of
awareness and helps you recognize the transient nature of your mental experiences. Regular
mindfulness practice can also increase your capacity to stay present, reduce rumination, and foster a
greater sense of peace and clarity.

Seeking Knowledge: Continuously seeking knowledge about the mind, psychology, and personal
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development can deepen your understanding. Read books, listen to podcasts, or attend workshops
that explore topics related to anxiety, emotions, cognitive processes, and mindfulness. This
knowledge can provide you with new perspectives, tools, and strategies for untangling anxiety and
promoting mental well-being.

Remember everyone’s experience of physical sensations during anxiety is unique. Also, know that
understanding your mind is an ongoing process. It may take time to find the strategy that works best
for you, it requires patience, self-compassion, and a willingness to explore and learn. By developing
a deeper understanding of your thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and cognitive processes, you can gain
valuable insights and empower yourself to untangle anxiety and cultivate a more stable and fulfilling
life.

By addressing these key aspects of anxiety, we can begin to untangle the complexity of our anxious
experiences. Through self-reflection, self-awareness, and practical strategies, we can gradually
develop a toolkit to manage anxiety more effectively. Understanding the role of anxious thoughts,
emotions, triggers, and physical sensations empowers us to take proactive steps towards finding
relief and reclaiming control over our anxious minds. Remember, it is a journey, and each step
forward brings us closer to a calmer and more balanced state of being.

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CHAPTER 3:

TOOLS FOR UNTANGLING ANXIETY

Untangling anxiety can be a complex process that often requires a combination of tools and
strategies. Here are some tools that can be helpful in managing and untangling anxiety:

Self Awareness: Developing self-awareness is an essential tool for untangling anxiety. It involves
recognizing and understanding your thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations associated with
anxiety. Mindfulness practices, such as meditation, can help cultivate self-awareness and provide
insights into your anxiety triggers and patterns.

Deep Breathing Exercise: Deep breathing exercises can help regulate the body's stress response and
induce a sense of calm. Techniques like diaphragmatic breathing or box breathing involve taking slow,
deep breaths to activate the body's relaxation response and reduce anxiety. This is an exercise I have
cultivated and will always be a part of me. Outside anxiety attack it also helps to reduce stress of the
mind

Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is a therapeutic approach that focuses on identifying and
challenging negative thought patterns and beliefs that contribute to anxiety. It helps individuals
reframe their thinking and develop healthier, more balanced thoughts. CBT often involves keeping a
thought journal and engaging in exercises like cognitive restructuring.

Relaxation Techniques: Various relaxation techniques can be useful in untangling anxiety. Progressive
muscle relaxation just as yoga, guided imagery, or listening to calming music are examples of
techniques that can help promote relaxation and reduce anxiety symptoms.

Exercise And Physical Activities: Engaging in regular physical activity has been shown to have a
positive impact on mental health. Exercise releases endorphins, which are natural mood boosters,
and can help reduce anxiety levels. Find an exercise or physical activity that you enjoy, whether it's
walking, dancing, yoga, or any other form of movement.

Social Support: Talking to trusted friends, family members, or joining support groups can provide
valuable emotional support when untangling anxiety. Sharing your thoughts and concerns with
others who may have experienced similar challenges can help alleviate feelings of isolation and
provide new perspectives.

Stress Management Techniques: Learning effective stress management techniques can be

instrumental in reducing anxiety. This may include practicing time management, setting realistic
goals, prioritizing self-care, and incorporating activities that promote relaxation and enjoyment into
your daily routine.

Professional Help: If anxiety significantly impacts your daily life and becomes difficult to manage on
your own, seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. They can
provide guidance, support, and specialized interventions tailored to your specific needs.

Remember, it's essential to be patient with yourself throughout the process of untangling anxiety.
Different strategies work for different people, so it may take some trial and error to find the tools
that resonate with you. A combination of self-help techniques, support from others, and professional
assistance, if needed, can empower you to untangle anxiety and cultivate greater well-being.
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CHAPTER 4:

BUILDING RESILIENCE AND FINDING INNER PEACE

Building resilience and finding inner peace are interconnected processes that can greatly support
your ability to navigate and untangle anxiety. On this topic we will plunge deep into building
resilience towards our inner war and find peace with our mind.

Part A – Building Resilience: Building resilience to our persistent negative thoughts is a strong
repellent to anxiety. This is a way of controlling our mind and sending positive impulses back to our
brain . Now let’s dive into several ways we can build resilience towards our mind and our thoughts.

Positive Mindset: Cultivating a positive mindset involves focusing on gratitude, optimism, and
resilience. Practice reframing negative thoughts into more positive or realistic perspectives.
Challenge self-limiting beliefs and develop a growth mindset that views challenges as opportunities
for growth and learning.

Self-Care: Prioritize self-care activities that nourish your physical, emotional, and mental well-being.
This includes getting enough sleep, eating nutritious meals, engaging in regular exercise, and
engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation.

Social Support: Build and maintain strong relationships with supportive friends, family, or
communities. Seek social connections that provide understanding, empathy, and encouragement.
Engaging in open and honest communication with loved ones can help share burdens and foster
resilience.

Emotional Regulation: Learn healthy ways to manage and express emotions. Practice emotional
regulation techniques, such as deep breathing, mindfulness, or journaling, to process and navigate
difficult emotions effectively.

Problem-Solving skills: Develop effective problem-solving skills to tackle challenges and setbacks.
Break down problems into manageable steps, brainstorm solutions, and take proactive actions.
Learning from past experiences and adopting a solution-oriented approach can enhance resilience.

Part B – Finding Inner Peace: Inner peace is the trophy for fighting anxiety. Inner peace refers to. “a
state of calm, serenity and tranquility of mind that arise due to having no sufferings or mental
disturbances such as worry, anxiety, greed, desire, hatred, ill-will, delusion and/or other defilements.
Let’s look at several ways we can achieve this inner peace.

Mindfulness And Meditation: Engage in mindfulness practices, such as meditation, to cultivate

present-moment awareness and reduce anxiety. Regular meditation can help quiet the mind, foster
inner calmness, and enhance self-awareness.
Letting Go And Acceptance: Practice letting go of things beyond your control and accepting the
present moment as it is. Embrace the concept of impermanence and recognize that change is an
inherent part of life. This can alleviate unnecessary suffering and promote inner peace
.
Self-Compassion: Treat yourself with kindness, understanding, and compassion. Practice self-
compassion by acknowledging your imperfections and offering yourself support and forgiveness
during challenging times. Replace self-criticism with self-nurturing and self-encouragement.
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Finding Purpose and meaning: Reflect on your values, passions, and what gives your life a sense of
purpose. Engage in activities that align with your values and bring a sense of fulfillment. Connecting
with your purpose can provide a deeper sense of meaning and contribute to inner peace.

Gratitude And Mindfulness In Daily Life: Cultivate a practice of gratitude by regularly acknowledging
and appreciating the positive aspects of your life. Practice mindfulness in your daily activities,
bringing awareness to the present moment and savoring the simple joys of life.

Seeking Inner Reflection And Solitude: Create moments of solitude to connect with your inner self.
This can involve engaging in introspective activities like journaling, taking nature walks, or engaging
in hobbies that promote self-reflection and introspection.

Remember that building resilience and finding inner peace are ongoing journeys. It takes time, effort,
and self-compassion to develop these qualities. Be patient with yourself and celebrate the progress
you make along the way. Consider seeking guidance from therapists, counselors, or support groups
to assist you in your journey toward resilience and inner peace.

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CHAPTER 5:

Embracing The Journey Of Self Discovery – Celebrate Your Progress and Finding Joy In The Pursuit
Of Inner Peace)

Celebrating progress and finding joy in the pursuit of inner peace is essential for maintaining
motivation and cultivating a positive mindset. Here's how you can embrace these practices:

Recognize And Acknowledge Milestone:

Take time to acknowledge and celebrate the progress you've made on your journey towards inner
peace. Reflect on the steps you've taken, no matter how small, and recognize the effort and growth
involved. Whether it's overcoming a specific challenge, developing a new habit, or gaining a deeper
understanding of yourself, each milestone is worth celebrating.

Practice Gratitude:
Cultivate a sense of gratitude for the progress you've made and the positive aspects of your life.
Regularly reflect on what you're grateful for, whether it's relationships, experiences, personal
qualities, or moments of peace and contentment. Gratitude shifts your focus towards what's going
well and fosters a sense of joy and appreciation.

Embrace The Journey, Not The Destination:

Remember that the pursuit of inner peace is a continuous journey rather than a fixed destination.
Embrace the process and the learning opportunities it offers. Instead of fixating solely on the end
goal, find joy in the present moment and the growth and self-discovery it brings. Each step you take
on this journey is an opportunity for personal development and self-compassion.

Find Joy In Self-Care Practices:

Engage in self-care practices that bring you joy and nourish your well-being. It could be spending
time in nature, engaging in hobbies, practicing mindfulness or meditation, indulging in creative
pursuits, or connecting with loved ones. These activities not only enhance your sense of joy but also
contribute to your overall inner peace.

Cultivate Mindfulness In Everyday Life:

Integrate mindfulness into your daily routines and activities. Engage in tasks with full presence and
awareness, whether it's savoring a meal, appreciating the beauty of nature, or fully listening to
someone. By being mindful, you can find joy in the simple moments that might otherwise go
unnoticed.

Surround Yourself With Positive Influences:

Surround yourself with people who support your journey towards inner peace and celebrate your
progress. Seek out communities, groups, or like-minded individuals who share similar goals and
values. Interacting with positive influences can inspire and uplift you, making the pursuit of inner
peace more enjoyable and fulfilling.

Practice Continuous Self Compassion:

Always be kind and compassionate towards yourself throughout the process. Recognize that setbacks
and challenges are a natural part of the journey. Instead of dwelling on mistakes or perceived
failures, offer yourself understanding, forgiveness, and encouragement. Embracing self-compassion
allows you to find joy in your growth and fuels your motivation to continue on the path towards
inner peace.
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Reflect On The Positive Impacts:
Regularly reflect on the positive impacts of your pursuit of inner peace. Notice how it has positively
influenced your well-being, relationships, resilience, and overall quality of life. Celebrate the positive
changes and remind yourself of the value and significance of the journey.

By celebrating progress and finding joy in the pursuit of inner peace, you create a positive feedback
loop that fuels motivation, resilience, and a sense of fulfillment. Remember that finding inner peace
is a lifelong journey, and finding joy along the way is just as important as reaching the destination.

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CONCLUSION:

Congratulations on completing “Unraveling The Tangles Of Anxiety”. Remember, untangling a

restless mind is a personal and ongoing journey.

With the knowledge and strategies provided in this ebook, you are fully equipped to navigate the
challenges, find inner peace, and cultivate a more balanced and fulfilling life.

Embrace the process, be patient with yourself, and embrace the transformative power of self-
discovery and self-care as you untangle the knots of your restless mind. Cheers!!!!

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SUPPLEMENTARY MATERIALS:

I thought it important to add these supplementary materials to help you on this journey. This
supplementary materials consists of foods and activities I engaged in during my DETANGLING
process.

Diets:
I adjusted my eating habits. I ate more healthy meals. Reason is because our foods play a crucial role
in our lifestyle, good food not only heal our body, it equally heals our mind and the wellness of our
mind is very important in this journey.
Here are some diets I consumed regularly:
• Tea: I took tea trice a day. The teas I consumed regularly were green tea, chamomile tea,
hibiscus tea, peppermint tea, ginger tea, turmeric tea, and lavender tea. What these teas
have in common is that they are hydrating, they all have antioxidant effects, they all have
relaxing and calming effect, they all are refreshing. Lastly, they all have aromatherapy effects.
They all contain active ingredients that compact anxiety, hence their importance in this
journey.

Note; you can browse more on the contents of these tea, also seek the consent of your
medical doctor before consuming, if you have any underlining health issue.

• Water: I always made sure to stay hydrated. Hydration is very important in this journey
because your entire body can not function properly when you are dehydrated.

• Magnesium Rich Foods: Magnesium plays two important roles in combating anxiety. It limits
the release of cortisol, which is the primary stress hormone and prevents it from reaching
the brain. It also blocks the activities of more neurotransmitters and binds to calming
receptors, resulting in a more peaceful and resting state. Some magnesium rich foods are;
bananas, dark chocolate, spinach, avocado, pumpkin seeds, leafy vegetables, cashew nuts,
salmon, brown rice, greek yoghurt, almond, sun flower seeds. There may be more, but these
are the primary foods I customized into meals. I will soon release an ebook on different
meals to combat anxiety. It will have detailed recipes on several foods that help relief anxiety
discomfort. Stay alert to grab a copy when it comes out.

Don’t forget to always contact your doctor before consuming any food if you have an
underlying medical condition.

• Omega-3 Fatty Acids Rich Foods: Omega-3 fatty acids, particularly EPA (eicosapentaenoic
acid) and DHA (docosahexaenoic acid), are essential fats that play a crucial role in brain
function and overall mental health. Omega-3 fatty acids are also involved in the regulation of
neurotransmitters in the brain, including serotonin, dopamine, and gamma-aminobutyric
acid (GABA). These neurotransmitters play a key role in mood regulation and anxiety
management. By promoting a balanced neurotransmitter function, omega-3s may help
alleviate anxiety symptoms
Some Omega -3 rich foods are consumed; fatty fishes like sardine, mackerel, salmon and
tuna. I also consumed seeds like flax seeds, chia seeds, hemp seeds. Other omega-3 rich
foods I consumed were walnuts, soybean, oysters.

Some other foods I consumed; eggs, blueberries, turkey, soybean, canola oil, alga oil,
Brussels sprouts, and lots of vitamin c fruits.
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Activities:
I also adjusted my everyday activities. Here are some physical activities I constantly engaged in.

Walking: Simple yet effective, walking is an accessible exercise that can be done almost anywhere. A
brisk walk outdoors can provide fresh air, exposure to nature, and a chance to clear your mind. I
walked around beautiful parks, watched beautiful views and it often calmed my mind.

Running / Jogging: I did running and jogging on several occasions. For those looking for a more
intense workout, running or jogging can be a great option. The release of endorphins during cardio
exercises can help improve mood and reduce anxiety.

Yoga: Yoga combines physical movements, controlled breathing, and meditation, making it an
excellent activity for reducing anxiety. It promotes relaxation, flexibility, and mindfulness. One trick
I often applied during yoga is affirmation trick. I often affirmed my mind by talking to my inner-self
and reassuring myself that I will win this phase.

Dancing: Dancing is not only a fun and enjoyable activity but also a great way to release tension and
boost your mood. It can be done in the privacy of your home or in a social setting like a dance class.

Cycling: I do not know how to ride a bicycle so I did a stationary cycling with a fitness bike. This low -
impact exercise can help reduce stress and improve cardiovascular health.

Group Sports And Games: I participated in regular group sports and games more like a community.
Participating in team sports or group fitness classes provide me with social support and a sense of
community, which helped me gained a sound progress in reducing feelings of isolation.

Remember, finding the right physical activity for anxiety management depends on your individual
preferences and physical abilities. Start with activities you enjoy and gradually incorporate them into
your routine. Aim for regular exercise, as consistent physical activity has cumulative benefits for
reducing anxiety over time.

Always consult with a healthcare professional before starting a new exercise regimen, especially if
you have any pre-existing health conditions.

Activities To Reduce Or Completely Stop:

During episodes of anxiety, it is always important to identify activities that may exacerbate or
intensify your symptoms. While everyone's triggers and sensitivities may vary, here are some
activities that individuals with anxiety often find it beneficial to reduce or avoid:

Excessive Caffeine Intake: High caffeine intake, found in coffee, energy drinks, or certain sodas, can
contribute to increased anxiety symptoms. Consider reducing your caffeine consumption or
switching to decaffeinated options.

Alcohol And Substance Use: Alcohol and recreational drugs may temporarily numb anxiety
symptoms, but they can also exacerbate them in the long run. It's advisable to limit or avoid alcohol
and illicit drug use as they can disrupt mood, sleep, and overall mental well-being.
Isolation and Avoidance: Withdrawing from social interactions and avoiding situations that trigger
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anxiety may provide temporary relief, but it can perpetuate anxiety over time. While it's important to
respect your boundaries, gradually exposing yourself to anxiety-provoking situations with support
from a therapist or trusted individuals can be helpful for overcoming anxiety.

Excessive Screen Time: Spending excessive time on screens, such as smartphones, computers, and
TVs, can contribute to feelings of anxiety and stress. Set limits on screen time, take regular breaks,
and engage in other activities that promote relaxation and connection with the present moment.

Negative Self-Talk And Rumination: Dwelling on negative thoughts, self-criticism, and excessive
worrying can intensify anxiety. Practice self-compassion, challenge negative thinking patterns, and
focus on positive aspects of your life.

Overcommitment And Stress: Taking on too many responsibilities and feeling overwhelmed can
heighten anxiety levels. Prioritize self-care, set realistic goals, and learn to say no when necessary to
avoid excessive stress.

News Overload: Constant exposure to distressing news and media can increase anxiety levels. Limit
your news consumption, be mindful of the sources you choose, and allocate time for activities that
bring you joy and peace.

Unhealthy Lifestyle Habits: Poor sleep, inadequate nutrition, and lack of exercise can contribute to
increased anxiety. Prioritize healthy lifestyle habits, including regular sleep patterns, balanced
nutrition, and physical activity.

Remember, everyone's triggers and coping strategies may differ. It's important to listen to your body
and seek professional guidance if needed to develop a personalized plan for managing anxiety and
identifying activities that are most beneficial for your well-being.

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