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SELF-CONTROL
Self-regulation Failure
(Part 1): Goal Setting and
Monitoring
Procrastination: Quintessential self-regulation
failure.
Posted February 16, 2009
I'll use the next few blog postings to share some thoughts on
self-regulation failure. What I will attempt to show is that there
a number of places at which our self-regulation can and does
fail leading to procrastination (or any other number of self-de‐
feating problems like overeating, overspending, drug and al‐
cohol abuse, problem gambling). In the end, I will not leave
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you with a mechanistic model. It won't surprise regular read‐
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ers of this Don't Delay blog that we'll return to a fundamental
notion of what motivates you in life.
Standards
The simple standard we set with our thermostat is tempera‐
ture, but standards for self-regulation are the concepts we
hold of our possible selves (our ideal or ought selves) as well
as our overall expectations, values and goals. With that said,
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it's pretty obvious that the first place that our self-regulation
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can fail is simply when we set unrealistic or inappropriate
standards about our possible selves or our goals..
New years resolutions are one obvious place where our stan‐
dards are often unrealistic. Overly optimistic and hopeful, we
imagine ourselves going from no exercise this year to exer‐
cising everyday next year. A recent example of this can be
found in Marissa Kristal's PT blog, "Shake your beauty" with
her blog entry "Re-do your resolution to get fit" She argues
that we may need to re-do our resolutions in February. And,
while she notes a program that draws on social support to
maintain motivation, a key first step is ensuring that you have
a reasonable goal. Enough said, I think we all recognize the
importance of setting attainable, realistic goals. Without this
starting point, self-regulation is impossible from the outset.
THE BASICS
What Is Self-Control?
Concluding thoughts
The implications are clear, we need to set well-defined, at‐
tainable goals (standards) and pay attention to our goals as
an ongoing process in self-regulation. If you want to know
more about paying attention, self-regulation and procrastina‐
tion, you may want to read my previous PT Blog, "Mindfulness
Meditation: Thoughts on paying attention."
"Good intentions pave the road to hell" they say, and we all
know that we need the willpower to act on our intentions
and goals. The surprising thing that recent research has
shown is that willpower is like a muscle, and it's a limited re‐
source (no surprise here I guess) . . . more on this next time
where I'll explore how the "operate" phase depicted in the
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strength. We'll also consider an answer to the question: How
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can we maintain our "willpower" in spite of depleted self-reg‐
ulatory strength?
References
There are many sources you may wish to consult, but here
are three favorites from a preeminent colleague and PT blog‐
ger, Dr. Roy Baumeister (and his colleagues).
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