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Adolescence
Adolescence
their parents as having turned harsh, controlling, and irrational. Parents may wonder why their
formerly cooperative and responsible children now seem hostile and destructive. Many parents
Many of the changes that define adolescence can lead to conflict in parent-adolescent
relationships. Adolescents gain an increased capacity for logical reasoning, which leads them to
demand reasons for things they previously accepted without question, and the chance to argue
The dramatic changes of puberty and adolescence may make it difficult for parents to rely
on their children's preadolescent behavior to predict future behavior. For example, adolescent
children who were compliant in the past may become less willing to cooperate without what they
following (Steinberg, 2001). First, in order to further understand their child's behavior, parents
obtain basic information about the developmental changes of adolescence. Second, in order to
adapt to their child's changing needs, parents have basic information about effective parenting
during the adolescent years (see Baumrind, 1991). For example, research has determined that
although authoritative parenting styles are effective both in childhood and in adolescence, that
-- that is, the extent to which parents permit adolescent sons and daughters to develop their own
opinions and beliefs. The opposite of psychological autonomy granting, namely psychological
understanding how their adolescent children are changing, parents need to understand how they
students. It requires flexibility on the teacher's part. If you are not flexible, you are just going to
repeat the same concept in the same way over and over. We all had teachers who would explain
one thing in the same way over and over, and it wouldn't help you understand. Then we had
some teachers who were more flexible and helped us by changing the way they explain the same
concept.
Now, to be able to do this, you need to know what the learning process is like for different
people. I, for example, am a visual-space learner. I see things, I need pictures and colored
schemes and important words. One of my students is the auditory kind of person, they remember
what they listen to, so I must make an effort to keep it in mind. Other students need examples
and a lot of exercise, repetition is more their thing. So off we go and we do more exercises. It is
By knowing the different styles, the different approaches, the way learning works for all of these
people, made me a better teacher. I won't repeat one concept the same way, I will look for
different things which could help. My auditory student understood verbs because we created a
method together, based on beats and other music-related things. I know it sounds weird, but it
works for him, which is all I care for, since I really want my students to understand and be able
So I suggest any teacher look into the different styles of learning and how the learning process
works for different people, before saying that someone who struggles is stupid. They might just