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A Word of Thanks
Finally, I wish to thank Rev. Dr. David Wong for
his belief that this book could be possible. I pray that all
those who read this book will enter into a lasting pact with
our Master and create an everlasting impact in the lives of
people through the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Arthur Dhanaraj
Acknowledgments
Training exercises are part of our oral tradition
– trainers make up an exercise, show it to someone else,
other people adapt it, and the exercise takes on a life of its
own. These exercises have inspired, impacted and trans-
formed many lives.
I must acknowledge the trainers I have never met.
Original source of some of the exercises could not be
traced. However, I like to give credit to those who pro-
duced them.
I would also like to acknowledge Albert Selva-
nayagam and Jeyakar Chellaraj who sowed the seeds of
training into my life; and other fellow trainers, Jacqueline
Bahn-Henkelman, Jim Henkelman-Bahn, Anand David,
Shakuntala David, Poonam Nijawan, Lethi, and John
Landge, who nurtured in me several skills of training.
Contents
Part One: Training Leaders
Chapter 16 Mentoring
Part One
Training Leaders
Chapter : 1
Leaders as Learners
“…transmit and entrust [as a deposit] to reliable and
faithful men who will be competent and qualified to teach
others also”. 2 Timothy 2:2b (Amplified Version)
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1. Motivation
Many factors serve as sources of motivation for
leaders to learn:
• The sense of purpose that comes from their
obedience to Christ’s call and commission.
• The opportunity to make new contacts and the
need for association and friendship.
• The responsibility to comply with the expectations of
their organisation.
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2. Overcoming Barriers
Leaders have many responsibilities that they must
balance against the demands of learning. The best way
to motivate them is to enhance their reasons for learning
and decrease any barriers that might stand in the way of
the process. This means understanding what is keeping
them from learning, so that as a facilitator, one can plan
motivating strategies. A successful strategy includes show-
ing the learners the relationship between training and an
expected outcome.
Unique Pace
Learning occurs within each individual as a con-
tinuous process throughout life. People learn at different
speeds. Positive reinforcement by the faculty can enhance
learning, as can proper timing of the training.
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Different Senses
Learning results from stimulation of the senses. Dif-
ferent people utilise different senses to learn or recall informa-
tion. By presenting materials that stimulate as many senses as
possible, this increases their chances of optimal learning.
Establish Rapport
The faculty must establish rapport with the par-
ticipants and motivate them to learn. Faculty should try
to establish a friendly, open atmosphere that assures the
participants they will help them learn.
Appropriate Tension
The faculty must set an appropriate level of con-
cern. The level of tension must be adjusted to meet the
level of importance of the objective. If the material has a
high level of importance, a higher level of tension/stress
should be established in the class. However, people learn
best under low to moderate stress – if the stress is too high,
it becomes a barrier to learning.
Appropriate Difficulty
The faculty should set an appropriate level of difficul-
ty. The degree of difficulty should be set high enough to chal-
lenge participants but not so high that they become frustrated
by the information overload. The interaction should predict
and reward participation, culminating in learning.
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Specific Feedback
The faculty must give the learners appropriate
feedback on how they are learning. Feedback must be spe-
cific, not general. It assures the learners of their progress.
Sufficient Interest
The faculty must ensure that the participant re-
mains interested in the subject. Interest is directly related
to reward. The faculty must also enable the participants to
see that there are rewards for learning. The reward does not
necessarily have to be monetary; it can be a demonstration
of benefits to be realised from learning the material. This
helps the learners see the benefit of learning in order to
motivate themselves in the process.
3. Reinforcement
Reinforcement is essential in the teaching/learn-
ing process; through it, faculty members encourage correct
modes of behaviour and performance. There are two types
of reinforcement:
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4. Retention
Learning only takes place when participants retain
information effectively. All verbal information goes first
into the primary memory (short-term memory). When
it is rehearsed (recited), part of it enters our secondary
(long-term) memory. The rest of it – usually the part we
are least interested in – returns to the primary memory
and is then forgotten.
Whether new information is “stored” or “dumped”
depends on our reciting it out loud and our interest in
the information.
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5. Transfer
Transfer of learning is the result of training; it is the
ability to use the knowledge, attitude and skills taught in
the course in another setting. Like reinforcement, there are
two types of transfer:
• Positive transfer occurs when the trainees use
the behaviour taught in the course in a
new situation effectively.
• Negative transfer occurs when the trainees do
not do what they are told to do. This results in a
negative (undesired) outcome.
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6. Pass it on!
Further, we also look at the transfer of learning to
others; in other words, the trainee takes an effort to train
others by transferring the learning from himself to others.
In the Great Commission, transfer is highly em-
phasised: “Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptising
them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the
Holy Ghost; teaching them to observe all things whatsoever
I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even
unto the end of the world. Amen” (Matthew 28:19-20).
The Bible commands us to teach/train others what-
ever we have learnt from Jesus and His Gospel. So too, in
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2 Timothy 2:2, the Bible says, “And the things that thou
hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit
thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also”.
When you are trained to “equip others to effec-
tively evangelise their own people and train others to do
the same” you need to realise the following reasons for
training others:
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but thou and thy father’s house shall be destroyed: and who
knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a
time as this?” (Esther 4:14).
Paul says in Romans 1:14 that he is the debtor to
Greeks and Barbarians. You too are a debtor to the people
who trained you because they trained you to train others so
that your nation will know the Lord.
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Chapter : 2
What are you trying to
achieve?
“Learning is a treasure that will follow its owner
everywhere”. Chinese Proverb
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Physiological/Ageing
Socio-cultural/Life Phases
Psychological/Development Stages
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brain. The left half of the cortex controls the right side of
the body and the right side of the brain the left side of the
body. Also, the right brain is more spatial, abstract, musical
and artistic, while the left brain more linear, rational, and
verbal. Targeting each section of the brain during a session
helps make the learning effective.
This model of the brain, distinguishing and associat-
ing thoughts and behaviours with the different regions of the
brain, is a helpful model for facilitators and learners as well.
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ed. They also tend to think on their feet. They talk more
than listen. Extroverted learners learn by teaching others.
They do not normally understand the subject until they try
to explain it to themselves or others (working in groups).
Problem Based Learning and Collaborative Learning are
good teaching techniques for this group.
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1. Individual Needs
These are related to the participating leaders’ indi-
vidual spiritual level, academic excellence, personality types,
learning style, the role and performance in the organisation.
This is to analyse the status of the participants
against the benefits of the training before commencing on
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2. Global Needs
These are generated from the context in which the
participants live and work. Also, they emerge from the
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Points to Note
A Needs Assessment alone may not enhance
training effectiveness and outcomes, so it must be placed
within the wider process of world evangelism, focused on
the mission of the training organisation, planned learning,
relevance to practice and reinforcement of learning in the
appropriate context.
A formal Needs Assessment can only identify a
narrow range of needs and might miss certain needs, so
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This sets the tone for the entire seminar and builds
an advantageous climate for teaching and learning. Partici-
pants feel respected and trusted due to their involvement
in generating the expectations from the course and the
facilitators. It helps them to own the programme and stay
motivated in directing their learning.
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Part Two
Learning Objectives
Chapter : 3
The Difference between
Training and Teaching
“I cannot teach anybody anything; I can only make
them think”. Socrates
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Teaching Training
STUDY MATERIALS Textbook based
Tailored, follows
presentation
ASSIGNMENTS Much outside Minimal out-
of class side of class
INSTRUCTORS Academicians “Experts”
COURSE DURATION Long-term Short-term
PRESENTATION Information based Skills-based
INTERACTION Mostly individual Group work,
work audio-visual
technology in
and out of class
TESTING/ASSESSMENT Grades, tests, etc. Outcomes mea-
sured mostly
through perfor-
mance
LEARNER MOTIVATION Individual goals Individual and
common goals
Teaching
Most instruction is textbook-based, relying heavily
on independent work by each student outside the class-
room: homework assignments, research projects, creative
projects and study for tests. The instructor serves largely as
a transmitter and interpreter of information.
Sessions may be self-contained units; more fre-
quently, they are part of a continuum, providing a great
deal of flexibility in pacing. Sessions tend to focus on a
single activity such as lectures, tests or guest speakers’
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Training
Training, by contrast, tends to be highly structured
so that all components fit together well. The effect is of
a total, self-contained “package”. With the exception of
basic technical skills acquisition, most workplace training
is relatively short in duration. Courses (“workshops”) tend
to have a narrow focus, concentrating on an easily defined
and articulated specific topic or skill.
Sessions tend to be self-contained, requiring mini-
mal work outside the classroom. Independent research and
projects are rare, as are homework assignments. Instructors
may be in-house or visiting experts on a particular subject.
While the term length may not be significant,
instructors are respected as professionals. Little instructor-
student interaction outside of class takes place unless they
plan it differently.
Workbooks and other materials follow the instruc-
tor’s presentation almost verbatim and are directly related
to the work environment. They may contain minimal
reading text and are formatted to allow participants to “fill
in the blanks” during the presentation.
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General
• Doctrine – The Greek meaning of the word doc-
trine in KJV is διδασκαλία (didaskalia). did-as-kal-
ee’-ah. It means doctrine, learning, teaching, that is,
teaching the ignorant dogmatic truths which they
cannot otherwise know.
• Instruction – The Greek meaning of the word
instruction is παιδεία (paideia). pahee-di’-ah. It
means tutorage, that is, education or training; by
implication disciplinary correction: chastening,
chastisement, instruction, nurture.
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Knowledge
Knowledge is not just a package of information, data
or theories alone – it is a combination of both content mate-
rials and the process of mind to acquire those materials.
Process involves development of intellectual skills.
This includes the recall or recognition of specific facts,
procedural patterns, and concepts that serve in the devel-
opment of intellectual abilities and skills.
There are six major categories of knowledge devel-
opment (see chart below), starting from the simplest men-
tal skill to the most complex. This particular categorisation
and nomenclature were developed by Dr Benjamin Bloom.
Training must equip the trainees with these mental
skills so that they will be in a position to make use of the
knowledge in any new situation and develop skills of learn-
ing, which will help them become lifelong learners. When
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Attitude
It is a complex mental state involving beliefs, feel-
ings and values and dispositions to act in certain ways. It
is your mental response to a particular situation based on
your beliefs, values and expectations. Attitude of a per-
son is displayed in his behaviour, including his verbal and
non-verbal messages. While training people, the aspect of
attitude must be included in the curriculum and the appro-
priate modules need to be designed to bring about changes
in the attitude of the trainee.
Ultimately, the attitude of the trainee will over-
power his aptitude if it is not properly dealt with. When
the aptitude of the trainee synergises with his right atti-
tude, it will raise him to greater altitudes.
Look at the attitude of the man who was lying near
Bethesda pool (John 5:1-15). When Jesus confronted him
with the question, “Do you wish to get well?” his response
was about other people who made it impossible for him to
get into the pool first, rather than his wish to get well.
What kind of attitude the man was communicating
to Jesus? Was it positive or blaming? In the process, he did
not even know who healed him! He missed the delight of
his healing by the Son of God.
The statement “attitude is everything” has almost
become a cliché these days. It need not be a slogan, it must
be your “in” thing – a positive state of mind, filled with
God’s Word, generating the attitudes of compassion for
people, passion for evangelism, “I can do it,” encourage-
ment, empowerment, openness and willingness to learn.
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Skills
Through the acquired knowledge and with the re-
quired attitude, trainees need to be equipped with the skills
of communication, evangelism, training and management.
Remember what the Bible affirms us in Exodus 31:3-6. He
is the one who fills us with the Spirit of God in wisdom, in
understanding, in knowledge and in all kinds of skills so that
we will be able to accomplish what He has commanded us.
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Chapter : 4
How Leaders Learn
“Teach me to do Thy will; for Thou art my God”.
Psalms 143:10
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Student-Centred Instruction
Most of the instructors are not exposed to adult
learning theories. This is probably why instructors often
teach the way they learn.
Classroom teachers who are skilled in adult learn-
ing principles and have experience with theories about
student-centred learning and constructivism are more
likely to adopt student-centred instruction (Stitt-Go-
hdes, Crews, and McCannon 1999), even if it is not the
way they had learnt or prefer to learn. These teachers
have broad views of how teaching can occur and strong
beliefs about the need to engage learners in the learning
process. They are aware of the changing demograph-
ics of classrooms and the influence of technology on
students’ ways of learning (Glenn 2000; Stitt-Gohdes
2003). They are more likely to substitute self-directed
learning opportunities and interactive learning environ-
ments for the traditional lecture and make use of “varied
resources to create personally meaningful educational
experiences” (Glenn 2000, p14).
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Curriculum
The curriculum is an institute’s primary means
of changing participants’ focus and providing directions
valued by the institute. Curricula should be reviewed and,
if necessary, revised on a regular basis, to better serve the
changing needs of both the trainee as well as the society
around us.
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Theory-Based Process
Appropriate training techniques (see Chapter
6) should be selected based on their ability to deliver or
develop the desired outcomes, as indicated by different
studies and learning theories.
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Rational Sequence
Training activities are carefully structured in a de-
velopmental sequence to form a coherent curriculum based
on the stated intended outcomes of both the curriculum
and the entire training course.
Quality Enhancement
Valid and reliable assessment is pre-planned to
monitor on a continuing basis the effectiveness of the cur-
riculum in fostering the transformation of the participants
and also the actual achievement of defined institutional
and curricular outcome goals.
To develop a good curriculum, there is one more
important component, which we shall address in the
next chapter.
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Chapter : 5
Training Objectives
“Objectives are not fate; they are direction.They are
not commands; they are commitments.They do not determine
the future; they are means to mobilise the resources and ener-
gies... for the making of the future”. Peter Drucker
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1. Communication
They are written for the purpose of communicat-
ing to everyone – teacher, learner, evaluator and the world
outside – what is expected of the learner at the end of a
given period of study.
Hence, the teacher can plan appropriate learning
experiences; the learners may prepare themselves more
adequately for what is to come; the evaluator can employ
relevant tools to measure these outcomes; and others can
consider participating in the programme with a clear idea
of what is being offered.
2. Learner Involvement in Learning
Educational objectives are written in terms of the
learner’s interests, not just what the teacher wants to teach.
Just because the teacher covers the course in the class does
not mean the learner will learn what is being taught.
By stating objectives clearly – that is, defining what
kind of mental skills the learner is expected develop in
relation to the course material, the teacher can involve the
learner appropriately to master these skills.
When the learner knows what he is expected to
do as a result of the course, he is able to do more than just
memorise the information. It also enables the learner to
use his out-of-class time most efficiently, for he has a pur-
pose and goal in working on his study materials. With clear
objectives in mind, the learner may be able to do many
learning-centred activities himself without relying on the
teacher to spoon-feed him. Anthony Robbins says, “Setting
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goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible”.
It’s true because it makes the first step. But to get the end
result, the teacher must motivate the learner to work on it.
As Dr. Paul J. Meyer says: “Crystallize your goals. Make a
plan for achieving them and set yourself a deadline. Then,
with supreme confidence, determination and disregard for
obstacles and other people’s criticisms, carry out your plan”.
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Chapter : 6
Why Experience is Central
“And Laban said unto him… I have learnt by experi-
ence that the LORD hath blessed me for thy sake”. Genesis
30:27, KJV
“One learns by doing the thing; for though you think
you know it, you have no certainty until you try”. Sophocles
“Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not
enough; we must do”. Goethe
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Goals
The facilitator must clearly write his GIO and
SOLs for the exercise he is going to conduct. He needs to
ask certain questions:
• Why do I conduct this exercise?
• What am I trying to achieve through this exercise?
• Is it the right time to do this exercise in this context?
Context
The context refers to the positioning of the exercise
at the right stage of the teaching-learning process and the
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Directions
The directions are the instructions the participants
receive as they stand at the threshold of the exercise. The
context and directions provide an initial view about what
participants will be allowed to do and not do in the process.
Processing
Debriefing is the bridge between the activity and
participants’ learning – between their experiencing the
activity and their conclusions through logical analysis of
their behaviours in that exercise. The facilitator stands as a
guide on this bridge, to assist participants in making con-
nections between what they just experienced in an activity
and the principles to be learnt.
Processing is the most difficult part of the exercise.
The facilitator, like the ringmaster, has to deal with the
experience of the participants carefully and cautiously,
keeping it within limits while drawing out those thoughts
and emotions that are the outcomes of that experience.
Even though the experience and associated
thoughts and feelings are real and genuine, the facilitators
must be able to guide the discussion sensitively to its conclu-
sion without ignoring where the participants are coming from.
The facilitator also guides participants to make
connec¬tions between the experience and the more
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Part Three
Experimental
Learning Techniques
Chapter : 7
Role-Playing
Role-playing is a tool for bringing a specific skill and
its consequences into focus and thus is vital for experiential
learning. It is a way in which the learners can experience
concretely the type of interaction under examination.
What is Role-Play?
An imaginary life situation is set up in which they
act and react in terms of the assumptions they are asked to
adopt, the beliefs they are asked to hold, and the character
they are asked to play.
Role-playing is intended to give them experience in
practising skills, as well as discussing and identifying effec-
tive or ineffective behaviour. The outcome of a role-play-
ing situation is not determined in advance, and the situa-
tion is not rehearsed. Initial instructions are given, and the
role-players determine what happens.
While participating in a role-playing exercise, the
participants have to remain themselves and act as they
would in the situation described. They do not have to be
good actors or actresses to play a role – they only need to
accept the initial assumptions, beliefs, background, or as-
signed behaviours and then let their feelings, attitudes, and
behaviour change as circumstances “require”. The role-
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Simulation of Real-Life
What happens in group role-playing may lead to
change of behaviours and attitudes, and they may have
unexpected emotional experiences. The more real the
role-playing the more effective the exercise, the more
emotional involvement they will feel, and the more they
will learn. The simulation of real-life situations through
role-playing makes it possible for them to try new ways of
handling things without suffering any serious consequences
if the methods fail.
In role-playing, questions may be raised in discus-
sions that are not covered by the instructions. When this
happens, role-players are free to make up facts or experi-
ences that agree with the circumstances; they should avoid
making up experiences or facts that do not fit the role.
While participating in a role-playing exercise, they
should not consult or look at their role instructions after
they have used them to start the action; they should be
themselves. They should not act according to what they
think the person described in the instructions should be-
have; rather, they should act as naturally as possible while
adhering to the guidelines of the instructions.
To help the players get involved emotionally, the
facilitator should pay attention to how the introduction is
made, such as by using name tags and asking questions to
help them get a feel for their part. Introduce the scene to
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Ways to Role-Play
As a training technique, it is possible to use role-
play in two ways. Participants can be presented with a situ-
ation and asked to take up roles and improvise. Following
the role-play, the rest of the class will discuss the positive
and negative actions that happened in the role-play and
discuss possible alternatives. In this way, role-play provides
insight and possible solutions to a specific situation.
Another way of using role-play is to create a situa-
tion in which we ask participants to practice specific skills
to resolve a situation. In this case, what is more important
is not the solution, but skill practice. Participants’ involve-
ment is limited to a particular skill or set of skills, and they
are not required to be innovative.
Sample Exercises
Here are some role-plays I have employed in my
communication sessions, which you can reproduce or adapt
for your own teaching sessions as well.
Role-Play Instruction: Based on the situations de-
scribed, prepare a “three-minute” role-play to present to
the class. One of your team members will be the “Effective
Communicator”. One will play the role of the “Person in
Need” and others will play the roles of mutual friends/col-
leagues/family members/other characters mentioned.
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Situation 1:
Mr. Kim is a professional. He attends church and
tithes regularly. He does not have time for any other
church activities beyond the worship service.
You are a church member. Demonstrate how you
would lead the “person in need” to get involved with the
other activities in church.
Situation 2:
Mr. Ray is a colleague at your office. He is very
proud of his religion. He thinks Christians are not fit to live
in this country as they promote the religion of the whites.
Demonstrate how you would lead the “person in
need” to accept Christ.
Situation 3:
Your teenage eldest son is angry that you were not
available on his birthday. Even your wife supports his point
of view. You are very upset with this because you were absent
only because you had gone to baptise new believers that day.
Demonstrate how you would deal with this situation.
Situation 4:
You are the chief pastor of a large church in the
city and have a good reputation as a shepherd. Your junior
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Situation 5:
Carl is a college student and a member of your
church. He sings and plays the guitar well. He attends the
Evangelical Students’ Fellowship regularly. During church
services, he is found chatting and singing with other young
people outside the church.
Demonstrate how you would lead the “person in
need” to be involved in the church.
Situation 6:
Mr. Finny is the head of another denomination.
Someone has told you that Mr. Finny has been complain-
ing about you that you are very critical of his church.
Demonstrate how you would deal with this situation.
Situation 7:
Mr. Aziz has been your neighbour for 10 years. His
family is close to yours. Suddenly, Mrs. Aziz became unwell
and is in the Intensive Care Unit.
Demonstrate how you would lead Mr. Aziz and his
family to peace.
Situation 8:
Mr. Row runs his own ministry and worships at
your church. He hardly takes part in the church activities.
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Situation 9:
You are a businessman and have come to a govern-
ment office to seek permission for a crusade in a public
place. The officer is not cooperative. However, he indicates
that he can oblige if he is “taken care of”.
Demonstrate how you would deal with this situation.
Situation 10:
You are invited by the professional group of your
city to share with them your experience in Maui. Prepare a
communication outline with SOC (Specific Outcomes of
Communication) and also make a three-minute presenta-
tion. Include “question time” in your presentation.
Situation 11:
This is your first preaching assignment after train-
ing at Haggai Institute. How are you going to organise your
sermon on the basis of your learning in the Communica-
tion class? Prepare a lively, innovative three-minute ser-
mon outline with SOC (Specific Outcomes of Communi-
cation). Explore the question, “Do you communicate while
preaching?” in your preaching. Also present the sermon.
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Chapter : 8
Case Studies
Case studies are used as a technique to get more
“real-life” into the training programme and classroom. It
helps the participants explore problematic situations more
objectively and creatively than it is usually done in the
actual incident.
Participants analyse such situation with lot of inter-
est and enthusiasm, as on most occasions, they associate
themselves with the situations in those cases. It also devel-
ops wider perspectives.
Trainers can prepare such cases based on their own
life experiences, so long as the case study can meet the needs
and objectives of the session. Care must be taken to describe
the situation without adding opinions and perspectives of
your own. Use fictitious names and change the situation
slightly so that participants will be focused on the learn-
ing rather than become curious about the persons and the
whereabouts of the cases.
David’s Integrity
Dr. (Mrs.) David is the Professor and Head of the
Department (HOD) of Physics in a reputed college. She
maintains high academic standards. Her knowledge of the
subject is up-to-date, and students always look forward to
her classes.
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Anil’s Anxiety
Mr. Anil is a professional. He attends the church and
pays his tithe regularly. He does not have time for any other
activity of the church beyond the worship service.
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Daniel’s Dilemma
Mr. Raj Daniel is a faculty at Union Theological
Training College. The institution takes special measures
for invigilation (supervision) of examinations. As a devout
Christian, Mr. Daniel believes in the honesty and integrity
of young people. He prefers to rely on the trainees’ sense
of responsibility and does not believe in the value of strict
invigilation (supervision).
Recently, a trainee who had been sick came to him
to take the examination he had missed. Mr. Daniel gave
the trainee several questions, provided him with facilities in
his room and left for the class after telling him to leave the
examination paper on his desk when he was done.
Daniel returned an hour and a half later to find the
trainee gone. Reading the examination paper, he found
that answers had been copied from several books lying in
his office.
Daniel had the authority to give the trainee a failing
mark for the paper, fail him for the course, or even report
him to the Dean. “However,” he thought, “I knew this
trainee was getting poor grades when I left him alone in my
office. Did I not put temptation in his mind? Am I – rather
than the trainee – chiefly responsible for his dishonesty?”
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Sarah’s Scope
Ms. Sarah is a homemaker. She had once been an
active participant in the church. She was in the forefront of
every activity of the church. For the past year, her involve-
ment has declined. Recently, she was found as a worship
leader in another church.
What were Sarah’s unmet needs? What should
be done?
Secretary
You are the pastorate committee secretary of a large
congregation. There are few rival groups in the congregation.
Your concern is to bring them into the mainfold of the church
so that you can all work towards the mission of the church.
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Prebyter
You are the presbyter of a big congregation and have
four other churches to look after. Under your charge, there
are two assistants to support you in the pastoral ministry.
The Pastorate Committee Secretary of the big congregation
tends to oppose everything you bring up in the meeting,
even though he relates with you well outside the meeting.
Since there are few rival groups within this congregation,
you initiate dialogues with them so they can also take part
in the ministry constructively. As a shepherd, you tend to
spend more time with these lost ones.
Your needs are:
1. To make the secretary understand his role to
bring the people together rather than create
division in the church.
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Ice Breakers
Participants often arrive at teaching-learning situa-
tions or training programmes with some measure of anxiety.
This is true of teachers/trainers as well.
Ice breakers play a crucial role in helping both train-
ers and trainees reach a level of comfort and motivation that
will contribute to the learning environment.
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Trainer’s Tip
In the beginning, give less time for them to share; it
is better to cut short rather than standing idle with nothing to
share. Once they are intimate, increase the time and depth of
sharing. If the group finishes early, ask them to move around
and at the same time if they are busy sharing wait for them to
complete. Play by ear.
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Trainer’s Tip
This exercise is a lot of fun and produces lot of noise at
the beginning of a training programme while letting participants
get to know each other’s names very well. It reduces the anxiety
of a new setting and meeting new people. Keep the energy level
high. If it gets dull, add some variety such as, “start from you and
proceed in the reverse order”.
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Trainer’s Tip
For many people, ringtones are an expression and exten-
sion of their personality. Avoid evaluating/blaming statements
about the ringtones. Human beings – handle with care!
Trainer’s Tip
This exercise can be a deeper sharing exercise; it depends
on the level of personal disclosure that the trainer reveals in the
beginning. Encourage participants to listen to each other since
there will be anxiety in the group regarding their own sharing.
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Trainer’s Tip
It is a challenge for you to understand the correct answer. Yes,
there is only one right answer. Devise your own procedure to
convince the participants!
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Trainer’s Tip
Often, the best place to check on personal growth is at
coffee breaks and before or after sessions. Sometimes, participants
will ask to speak with you, but more often than not, you must
check out the observations you have made during class by inviting
them to talk. Don’t force people to talk, but be an available and
active listener.
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Trainer’s Tip
The intention of the sharing is not on the content, but
the spirit of involvement. Encourage participation and freedom.
Avoid putting pressure on people to share even if someone chooses
not to open up. As a facilitator, note the person with special needs
and reach out to him in a non-threatening way.
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Special Exercises
These exercises have been modified for my training
needs drawn from different situations. I encourage the train-
ers to continuously search for valuable exercises.
VOLUNTEER EXERCISE
This exercise can be in the middle of any subject
matter, while you experience resistance from the partici-
pants to change, innovate, and look at possibilities.
1. Invite two volunteers to come to the front of the class.
It will be interesting to observe a sudden silence in the
room and people prompting others to go.
2. When you get two volunteers, thank them and cheer
them for their coming. Ask them to get back to their
seats with a reminder that they will be called to per-
form a task later.
3. Go around the class asking the non-volunteers,
“Why didn’t they come forward?”
4. List those responses on the flip chart. Some of the
standard responses from the participants were:
• I am not sure why you are calling us
• Facing the unknown
• I may be asked to do something and I may
make mistakes in that new situation
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• FEAR
• My shoes are off
• I wanted to give the chance to others
• I am locked up here at the back
• I am OK in this position – “comfort zone”
• I thought, “Someone else will go”
5. Focus on these responses – the excuses – a kind of
resistance to the invitation to come forward, which
was an invitation for “change” from the present
position/role.
6. Lead the discussion around these responses that you
had and “Why” of those responses.
7. Listen to understand them.
8. Call again those volunteers and assign them the fol-
lowing task:
i) Ask one of them to close his fist tightly
ii) Tell the other person, “Try and open his fist”. He
should try to apply all his force to open the fist.
iii) Encourage the opener not to give up and cheer
him on. The extent to which the person refused to
open the fist, the other person should apply more
and more pressure (and vice versa) to the extent of
breaking their rapport.
vi) Call it off when they are at their peak.
v) Ask the person who tried to open the fist, whether
there were other options to open his fist.
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Trainer’s Tip
Zaccheus’ story will be an appropriate illustration (Luke
19:1-9), explaining how Jesus facilitated change in Zaccheus.
TEACHING-LEARNING
1. Write a statement with the combination of letters
and numbers that has a personal meaning to you (e.g.
Write “ADMSO761976AH3C” that means Arthur
Married Selvam On 7 June 1976 And Had 3 Chil-
dren) on the flipchart in bold type.
2. Tell the participants that you are going to give them
30 seconds to memorise that statement. They are
to keep it in their heads and not write it down. Tell
them you will ask them to recall it in a few minutes.
3. Flip that sheet.
4. Now continue to tell them about the importance of
communication and how you need to communicate
effectively with your family members, your colleagues
and the people in society, especially as a communica-
tor of the Gospel.
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Trainer’s Tip
Some participants will break the statement into three or
four groups because it is easier to remember three separate three-
digit sets. Most will have related portions of the statement to let-
ters/numbers that have meaning in their own personal experience,
i.e. the initials of their brothers and sisters, or ages of grandpar-
ents. Some will have made no attempt to remember. According
to research, retention of what has been memorised is about 80
percent after one hour; less than 50 percent after one day; and
less than 10 percent after a week. When lecture and dictation of
notes is the primary teaching method, then focus is on the content
materials and lot of effort is made on remembering the data given.
Lead the discussion around, “Presentation of the learning mate-
rial in the right form, in the right method at the right time” (since
it is a discussion statement). As long as the statement appeared to
be a set of nonsense syllables, it was alien and did not make any
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Trainer’s Tip
Never use this exercise to intimidate people! Don’t laugh
at them! Move quickly to the learning. Let them understand,
everybody slips. We take things for granted! We assume certain
things and decode the message in our own way. It could be a good
communication exercise.
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Chapter 11:
Games
These games can be used to facilitate learning in
various situations. However, remember, games are only
tools; they function like rockets to push the satellites into
their orbits. So do not give more importance to the games
and their results.
You need to make a quick shift from the enjoyment
of the game to the purposeful learning. Otherwise, it will
be fun and entertainment, and you become a good “Enter-
tainer” rather than the “Trainer”. The skill of the trainer is
not in the way he conducts the game alone, but in the way
he processes the game and leads the participants towards the
change in attitude/behaviour.
If you are a beginner, you can always administer
these games for fun. Later, reflect on the following ques-
tions after each game to develop your own goals and pro-
cesses for debriefing.
If you are an experienced trainer, you can review
the game after the sessions so that you may find new in-
sights and new avenues where you can utilise this game for
greater learning.
The success of the game is not in the material but
in the way you process it. So do not stereotype your meth-
odology; contextualise each game to the situation and the
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Trainer’s Tip
After the game is over, collect the coins and let them
remain in their groups. Draw out the feelings of each group.
You complete the score card and declare the loss/gain of each
group. Lead the discussion around the following points. There
will be lot of defences and justification. As a trainer, you listen
empathetically. Avoid preaching at this point.
1. What was the choice of your Group in the first round?
RED/GREEN. Why? What was your role in this deci-
sion making process?
2. Did you change your choice in the subsequent rounds? YES/
NO. What made your group to do so? What was your role
in influencing this change or to maintain status quo?
3. Did your group honour the decision taken in the first
“Central Committee Meeting”?
YES/NO. Why? What was your role in honouring/dis-
honouring this decision?
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LEADERS’ PUZZLE
1. Select at least four pictures from magazines. Cut each
of them into five or six pieces. If you have more than
25 participants, you will need to make additional
puzzles. You should have one piece for each partici-
pant.
2. Mix the various puzzles together and distribute one
puzzle piece to each person. If you have more puzzle
pieces than participants, give two pieces to some so
that all of them have been distributed.
3. Tell the participants that the pictures of the maga-
zines are cut and shuffled together.
4. Ask the participants to find the matching pieces to
form a picture.
5. This should be done without talking.
Trainer’s Tip
After the game is over, ask the participants to share the
various behaviours they observed among them. List them in flip
chart. You would have seen people who initiated, helped each other,
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ROPE IT SQUARE!
1. Prepare a 10-metre long rope without any
entanglement.
2. Get the participants to stand in a circle.
3. Tell the participants that it is an important activity
and they need to follow the instructions carefully.
They may talk with one another but they must close
their eyes and keep them shut until the group agrees
that they have completed the task. Ask if everyone
agrees to keep their eyes shut until they have com-
pleted the task. Get their commitment.
4. Ask them to close their eyes. Hand over the rope
in their hands while their eyes are closed and ask
the participants to catch hold of the rope. It is not
necessary that the two ends of the rope should be
tied together; the trainer could add challenges by
being creative.
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Trainer’s Tip
This exercise is rich with learning. You may observe that
everyone tried to offer suggestions and ended up in chaos. Usu-
ally, there would be counting of persons and they would give up
on that also.
Always begin with affirmations and complimenting the
participants for their efforts. Build a climate of listening. Such
games put people off because they continue to fail. You cannot
build the learning while they are feeling defeated.
Lead the discussion around the following points:
1. Need for a leader.
2. Acceptance of the leader.
3. Resources available within the group and making use
of them.
4. Communication skills of a leader.
5. Negative attitude of some of the participants.
6. Leader’s ability to visualise, draw resources and execute.
7. Purpose of the rope in the game.
It is always better if you ask the participants to write
down the lessons they had learnt from the game and give enough
time for the same. Encourage them to share what they have
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change in behaviours.
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Trainer’s Tip
There is no time limit for the game. Go around and
ensure that the rules are followed in the game. As soon as a group
finishes, ask them to put the pieces back into the envelopes and
let them discuss their performance. Discourage them from mov-
ing around and visiting the other performing groups. After all the
groups have finished, lead the discussion around these points.
1. The dynamics in the group
2. The focus of the participants on their own square/on
others’ squares
3. The sharing of their pieces with others
4. The breaking of rules
5. Someone’s unwillingness to break his square after it is done
6. Someone’s giving away of all his pieces
7. Making others’ squares
8. Task-orientedness vs. people-orientedness
9. Individual goal vs. group goal
10. Interdependency
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11. Cooperation
12. Conflict of goals
Trainers’ observations are valuable if they are brought
out at the right time in the right context. It is better if you note
down all your observations while the game is on.
POSITIVE STROKES
1. Organise the participants to sit in “U” shape with a
writing pad and markers/crayons.
2. Distribute A4 size white sheets; Let each one have
a sheet.
3. Ask them to write their name on the top of the sheet.
4. While you say PASS, you pass the sheet from the
left extreme participant to the right extreme partici-
pant; at the same time, let the other participants pass
their sheet to the person sitting on their right.
5. Ask the participants to write their compliments to
the person whose name is on the paper.
6. Again, PASS as done earlier; let them write the
compliments.
7. Continue in this manner until they get the sheets
with their own name.
8. Gather all the markers/crayons. This will preserve
the anonymity of the comments.
7. Let the participants go through the sheet of posi-
tive strokes.
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Trainer’s Tip
When you conduct this exercise at the end of a training
seminar, it enables the participants to fill their self-esteem pots and
leave the seminar confidently to practice what they have learnt.
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Chapter 12:
Various
BRAINSTORMING
Brainstorming with a group of people is a powerful
technique. Brainstorming creates new ideas, solves problems,
motivates and develops teams. Brainstorming motivates
because it involves members of a team in bigger manage-
ment issues and it gets a team working together. However,
brainstorming is not simply a random activity.
Brainstorming needs to be structured and must
follow brainstorming rules. The brainstorming process is
described below, for which you will need a flip-chart or
white/black board or any other public writing/displaying
facility. This is crucial, as brainstorming needs to involve the
team, which means that everyone must be able to see what’s
happening. Brainstorming places a significant burden on the
facilitator to manage the process, people’s involvement and
sensitivities, and then to manage the follow up actions.
Use brainstorming well and you will see excellent
results in collecting different perspectives, data and ideas
that can be used in problem solving and team development.
Here is the procedure:
1. Appoint the facilitator.
2. Appoint the recorder, who will record publicly.
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Trainer’s Tip
You can use this as a good opener for your evangelism
class. Ask participants not to get into the discussion on whether it
is feasible or not. Focus on the “number of ways”. You will have
good data to build on.
PANEL DISCUSSION
It is a technique, usually, used in latter half of the
course. A panel of four or five members is prepared to lead
the discussion based on the input given in the class earlier.
They organise among themselves, each one choosing one
portion of the subject matter being discussed. They also
prepare some significant questions and responses in advance
and share among themselves.
One member of the panel begins with a question to
the other members. The person who has chosen that partic-
ular part of the subject will respond. Then he will ask anoth-
er question to the panel and the other member will respond
and likewise the discussion will continue. Remember, all the
questions are asked on behalf of the large group and also to
their interest.
Depending upon the momentum, the questions
could be invited from the floor also and any one of the panel
members will respond to them. The main advantage of this
discussion is to lead the group of learners on the insights
and applicability of the lessons learnt in the class and also to
clarify their doubts and remove apprehension.
Since the questions are formulated in advance by
the faculty and the members of the panel and also invited
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FISH BOWL
It is an exercise of Group Discussion (G.D). But it is
different from the usual group G.D. This will be more effec-
tive if the number of participants is not more than 25.
About eight to 12 participants are seated in a circle
with one empty chair in that circle. The rest of the
participants are seated around this circle. The topic of
discussion is given to the inner circle participants and
they discuss the issue.
While the discussion is on, if anyone in the outer
circle wishes to take part in that discussion, he goes and sits
in the empty chair. After he makes his point, he gets back
to his original position. Then someone else from the outer
circle goes to the empty chair when he wants to take part in
the discussion and it goes on.
It is a great exercise for wider participation and at
the same time, well organised, monitored and disciplined
process. It is an appropriate tool to use at the end of a train-
ing programme to get feedback regarding the faculty, facili-
ties, schedule, content and methodology.
Trainer’s Tip
Select enthusiastic members for the inner circle who can
initiate discussion quickly. Instruct them clearly in the beginning
that the outer circle participants are observers and they can speak
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only when they sit on the empty chair in the inner circle. The
“empty chair person” must get back to the outer circle as soon
as he finishes his discussion. Call off the exercise as soon as the
objectives are met. Don’t drag!
FORUM
It is much different from the previous discussion and
it is usually called “Open Forum”. This is a public discussion
with two groups having conflicting views.
There will be two teams, A and B, and each team
will have two to four participants to speak on their stand on
the issue. There will be a moderator.
Moderator begins with the introduction of the dis-
cussion and two standpoints. (2 mins.)
Then the speaker from team A will speak on his
view point (3 mins.) followed by speaker from team B. (3
mins.). No questions are allowed from the public now.
After B, the speaker from A continues alternately
until all the speakers finish.
Then the floor is open to the public for questions.
Questions are invited alternately for teams A and B. The
respective team speakers respond to the questions.
Finally, the moderator sums up the discussion with-
out any judgement.
Trainer’s Tip
Give sufficient notice and time for the team to prepare
well. Let the moderator be well versed in the issue. This exercise will
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be ideal for any general topic beyond the class hours. Sample
topic: ‘Culture hinders communication of the Gospel’. It will
be an excellent opportunity to know the cultural heritage of
participants and also to clarify the cultural issues from the
spiritual matters.
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Chapter : 13
Diagnostic Tests and
Inventories
PERSONALITY TESTS
Many personality related tests/inventories lead to
greater self-awareness. You must be qualified to use these
tests, which are copyrighted and require professional ac-
creditation. You can always qualify yourself to be one. I give
below some of them that are suitable to our context. Please
contact me for further details on these.
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STEWARDSHIP CHECK
I have found this helpful in my Stewardship sessions.
Before you close the session, this could be used to make
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suitable decisions/action plans. You can also use this for your
workshop session in Stewardship. You don’t require any
license for this tool. I developed it.
The purpose of the questions under each title is to
provoke you to think. You need not respond in words. Rate
your response in the 10- point scale (1 for 100% not okay
and 10 for 100% okay) and tick the suitable box in the
Score Sheet provided below.
1. State Of My Body
How often do I consult a doctor for my health? How
does my body react when I go for a long, brisk walk? At
the end of the day, do I feel that I have enough health and
sustained energy to continue to work for long hours? When I
get up in the morning, how fresh am I?
2. Financial Status
How often do I run out of money? How many bills
do I have outstanding? What is the status of my credit
cards? How much do I save in a year? Am I happy with my
financial condition?
3. My Professional Competence
How far have I updated myself with the latest devel-
opments in my professional area through reading journals/
books and do I equip myself accordingly? Do I set goals for
my professional development?
4. Use Of Time
How effectively do I use my time? Which major time
wasters, such as TV, socialising, etc., are found in my life?
How often do I procrastinate? Can I distinguish between
URGENT and IMPORTANT things in my life?
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5. Spiritual Life
Do I have a sense of meaning and direction in my
life? How clear am I about God’s purpose for my life? Do I
spend personal time with the Lord through reading God’s
Word, praying and meditating? Do I lead a holy life?
6. My Giving
Do I give every area (my talent, time, treasures, etc.)
of my life to the Lord? How is my financial giving to my
church, to missions and charity?
7. The Gospel
How conscious am I of witnessing Christ in my life?
Am I personally involved in evangelism? How do I equip
others to evangelise my nation effectively?
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Trainer’s Tip
You should encourage participants to be honest and
open with themselves. Tell them that the scores will not be
demanded. They will find this exercise more fruitful that way.
Administer the test prayerfully.
A MOTICHECK
I developed this test to such a level from a crude
form. I used it among different cross sections of people and
found it helpful in determining their motivational needs un-
der the hierarchy of needs developed by Abraham Maslow.
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A
B
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Sl.No. 1 2 3 4 5
16.B. Healthy and good working conditions. 1 2 3 4 5
17.D. Being trusted to do my job the way I 1 2 3 4 5
think it should be done.
18.C. Acceptance as a worthy group member. 1 2 3 4 5
19.D. Knowing that I am in an important
1 2 3 4 5
profession.
20.A. Having the opportunity to show off or
1 2 3 4 5
impress the opposite sex.
21.E. Being able to do work that gives me the
opportunity to learn and know more 1 2 3 4 5
than my peers.
22.C. Working with people having common 1 2 3 4 5
backgrounds and beliefs.
23.A. Fear of losing my job. 1 2 3 4 5
24.E. Being given a new and exciting job. 1 2 3 4 5
25.A. Having rest breaks and plenty of good
1 2 3 4 5
coffee/tea available.
Trainer’s Tip
Tell them it is not a test. Encourage them to be honest!
They have an opportunity to know themselves better.
COMMUNICATION CHECK
Communicator: Observer:
Please circle the number based on your observation
of the Communicator.
1 = inappropriate, 5 = appropriate
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1. Subject Matter
Specific Objectives of Commn. 1 2 3 4 5
Introduction 1 2 3 4 5
Organisation/flow 1 2 3 4 5
Biblical Basis 1 2 3 4 5
Closure 1 2 3 4 5
Comments:
2. Methodology
Illustrations 1 2 3 4 5
Personal sharing 1 2 3 4 5
Sense of humour 1 2 3 4 5
Use of Visual aids 1 2 3 4 5
Comments:
3. Body Language
Facial Expression 1 2 3 4 5
Eye Contact 1 2 3 4 5
Gestures 1 2 3 4 5
Dress 1 2 3 4 5
Comments:
4. Verbal Codes
Words (Image Provoking) 1 2 3 4 5
Voice Modulation 1 2 3 4 5
Pause 1 2 3 4 5
Comments:
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Directly jumped into the content _____
Did not listen to the answers _____
Interrupted the answers _____
Filled the silences inappropriately _____
Asked only closed questions _____
Comments:
Trainer’s Tip
This check is used usually in the Faculty Development
Seminars for observing the trainees during their micro-teaching
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Trainer’s Tip
There are many versions and modifications of this profile
available. A personality test is not going to tell you all about what
you are. Even the best psychological tool can give you only 80
percent accuracy.
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Part Four
Keys to Effective
Ministry
Chapter : 14
Being an Effective
Facilitator
Lecturing is usually the style of teaching in higher
educational levels and has been considered the only method
until recently.
However, lectures have their place in training as a
tool to present information or some principles or to give an
expository talk. Lectures are also suitable for large audiences
where participation of the trainee is not possible because of
the number of people present. The advantage is the informa-
tion to be given can be worked out exactly beforehand, even
to the precise word. The timing can be accurately structured.
The lack of participation on the part of the audience
throughout the lecture leads to a lack of total understanding
and assimilation.
However, to make lectures more effective, the fol-
lowing elements are essential:
• Decide the why and what of your message.
• Analyse your receiver’s potential response
• Construct a plan
• Purpose statement
• Introduction
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• Body
• Conclusion
• Discover, create, gather, interpret and evaluate
materials for your message
• Personal proof
• Evidence
• Logical reasoning
• Explain
• Make them feel what you feel
• Organise your message
• Deliver your message
• Conversational mode
• Deal with stage fright
• Language
• Evaluate and revise
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Day 1
08:30-10:00 Ice Breaking Introduction (Video Taping)
Objectives: At the end of the session, the partici-
pants will be able to:
• Shed their inhibitions and establish openness with
the trainers and peers.
• View their baseline in expression, voice modulation
and presentation skills.
• Establish intimate relationship that facilitates
learning.
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Methodology:
• Learning Style Inventory filling
• Graphical representation of one’s own learning style
DAY 2
08:30-10:00 Management of classroom dynamics 1
Objectives: The participants will be able to
• Frame suitable questions to draw out the learnings
from participants.
• Listen to the responses of the participants and em-
power them.
• To model facilitating attitudes and skills.
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Using Audio-Visuals
Experience and studies have shown that audio-visual
techniques can significantly increase and reinforce learning.
Since they engage more than one of the senses, they not
only add interest to a presentation but also facilitate learn-
ing and remembering. While teaching abstract concepts or
unfamiliar subjects, the creation of mental images can be
essential to understanding.
Audio-visual aids are only tools and should not dom-
inate the teaching environment. They will not automati-
cally increase teaching effectiveness; they must be carefully
designed to support a lesson and to suit a particular audience
and situation. It demands more time in the planning and
preparation of such aids that also requires adequate thought
and imagination for the following:
• Selection of points to be visualised
• Translation of ideas into suitable visual forms
• Choice of the most appropriate medium
• Design layout and choice of colour
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Team vs. Group
Katzenbach and Smith defined a team as “A small
number of people with complementary skills who are com-
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Dynamics
“The process of working together” and “what is to
be achieved” are the two important dimensions in a team
and they need continuous attention. In an effective team,
“how to work together” doesn’t interfere with the task to be
achieved since they automatically function as a team to-
wards the goal without much argument.
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Forming
When the participants come together to live and
learn in a venue far away from their place of life and min-
istry, Stage 1 takes place as they are introduced. You can
also observe the Ice Breakers enable this process of coming
together as the members of a team from the status of indi-
viduals from different places/nations.
During this stage, you can find feelings of excite-
ment, anxiety, anticipation and also little reservation in
people to get connected with others. For this reason, some
of the inputs given in the first few days are not really inter-
nalised effectively by the participants. They are hearing but
not listening; they are receiving but not learning. Therefore,
as facilitators you need to devise a mechanism by which the
opening inputs need to be recycled in the subsequent ses-
sions to ensure that the learning takes place.
Our Lord Jesus Christ was constantly telling his
disciples about his suffering and death, in spite of that Peter
told him, ‘Lord this should not happen to you’. This is a
normal behaviour of the participants during the first stage.
Storming
When the team moves from where it is to where it
has to be, it enters the second phase. This stage is probably
the most difficult stage for the team. The members resist
collaborating, probably on a competitive mode that affects
their learning.
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Norming
Soon they are beginning to understand each other
and to reach the next phase. The Norming phase is when
the team reaches a consensus on the process for attaining
their destination. Commitment and unity is strong. The
team may engage in fun and social activities. The team dis-
cusses and develops its processes and working style. Enthusi-
asm is high. By this time, they realise each other’s abilities,
talents, gifts, strengths and weakness, which enable them to
develop their own ground rules to play their roles effectively.
Therefore, the facilitators should lead the trainees
around God’s purpose for their lives, their personal mission
and ultimate purpose for being a participant in this pro-
gramme. This enables them to reduce emotional conflict as
competitive relationships have become more co-operative.
It is also the right time to instil the skills, such as
communication, which provide opportunities to practice
them among themselves by confiding in each other and
sharing personal concerns. It also opens a new arena to oper-
ate their skills to empower each other.
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Performing
After the team has worked on its relationships and
expectations, they begin to perform. That means, they begin
to internalise and the real learning takes place. Probably this
would be around the end of second week. They gain insights
into personal and group processes, and a better understand-
ing of each other’s strengths and weaknesses.
The team is now an effective, cohesive unit. This
is the time you need to expect a lot from them in terms of
equipping them and helping them to strategize for their
future activities once they get back home. This phase must
be well utilised by the facilitators for the maximum learning
and equipping them with the required knowledge and skills.
All the core subjects and inputs must be dealt with during
this phase.
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Adjourning
Slowly the trainees’ effectiveness goes down and it is
a great challenge for the facilitator to keep the tempo up. As
they come close to the end of the training programme, the
next phase sets in, which involves dissolution. Some authors
have described this stage as ‘deforming’ and ‘mourning’,
given the loss that is sometimes felt by the participants. The
process can be stressful.
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Chapter : 15
Evaluation Techniques
Continuous feedback is a requirement for any train-
ing programme. One way of receiving it is through feed-
back forms. Not all feedback is pleasant, but it is a great
opportunity to learn what the participants thought about
the programme, and how you can improve various aspects
the next time.
This process can be administered at the end of each
day and does not take much time. Participants like to know
that you value their feedback. Allowing for anonymity also
enhances the quality of the feedback.
Here are some sample feedback forms:
Sample 1: Daily Feedback Sheet
Please indicate how you feel about the usefulness of today’s
sessions by circling the number that best expresses your
assessment (1 = not at all helpful; 2 = not very helpful;
3 = so-so; 4 = useful; 5 = very useful).
First session 1 2 3 4 5
Second session 1 2 3 4 5
Third session 1 2 3 4 5
Fourth session 1 2 3 4 5
Fifth session 1 2 3 4 5
Any comments or suggestions:
We value your feedback!
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Level 1—Reaction
Goal: Measure participants’ reactions to the training
programme.
This should be done immediately after the pro-
gramme. Level 1 evaluation should not just include reac-
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How It Is Done
Level 1 evaluation relies on the measurement of
attitudes, usually through the use of a questionnaire. It is
important to include closed-ended items and open-ended
items as well as rating scales on your questionnaire. I have
found a five-point rating scale more useful and realistic.
The open-ended items can be as follows:
1. In your view, what were the three most important
weaknesses of the programme?
2. In your view, what were the three most important
strengths of the programme?
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Level 2—Learning
Goal: Determine what the participants learnt during the
training programme.
From the onset, the training facilitator should
have specific learning objectives, so it is good to find out
what learning outcomes have been achieved. Level 2
evaluation should be done immediately after the training
event to determine if participants gained the knowledge,
skills, or attitudes.
Learning outcomes can include changes in:
• knowledge: For example, What are the key differ-
ences between Christian leadership and secular
leadership?
• skills: Can the participant share Christ effectively
to people of other faiths?
• attitudes: Are the participants open and willing to
share the Gospel? How is their attitude toward pay-
ing tithe to the church?
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How It Is Done
How shall one measure knowledge, skills and at-
titudes, and what research design should be used to demon-
strate improvement in Level 2 outcomes?
Measuring Knowledge
Knowledge is typically measured using achievement
tests that are designed to measure the degree of learning
that has taken place. In the training environment, these
tests are usually criterion referenced. Criterion-referenced
tests are constructed to determine whether learners have
mastered one or more learning objectives and these tests
include a cut-off point to determine pass/failure.
In constructing a criterion-referenced test, you
should develop a pool of items potentially measuring the
content, have a panel of experts examine the items, pilot-
test the selected items and analyse each item for:
• item difficulty: i.e., the percentage of people who
answer the item correctly
• item discrimination: i.e., the high performers should
be more likely to get the item correct than low
performers if it is a good item
• distracter effectiveness: Are the distracters working well?
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Measuring Skills
Skills typically require some kind of manual re-
sponse on the examinee’s part, therefore, a performance
test is used. A performance test requires the test-taker to
create a product or demonstrate a process. The goal is to
determine whether each person can demonstrate the skills
they have been taught in the training programme.
For example, if the learning objective was to learn
to share Christ effectively to people of other faiths, a
performance test would be required to determine whether
a participant could share Christ to people of other faiths in
a way that leads to the intelligent decision regarding the
acceptance of Jesus Christ as their Lord and Saviour.
If the learning objective were to learn how to
prepare effective sermons, the participants would need to
be evaluated on actual sermons that they preach. Some
performance elements can be included on traditional
paper-and-pencil tests for goal setting, sermon preparation,
lesson-plan preparation, etc. In the training environment,
performance tests are likely to be criterion referenced
where participants’ scores are compared to a cut-off point.
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Measuring Attitudes
Attitudes are measured with questionnaires simi-
lar to the questionnaires described for Level 1 evaluation.
You will typically have the participants give their ratings
for various items responding with Strongly Agree, Agree,
Neutral, Disagree, or Strongly Disagree or with other rating
scales, and you should include some open-ended items to
allow participants to respond in their own words: How do
you feel about the person who left your church and went to
another church? How do you feel about paying your tithes
to the church?
Kirkpatrick also suggests that you include a control
group in your design when possible and using a pre-test
measure when possible. There are several experimental
research designs available, but the study of these is beyond
the scope of this book.
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Level 3—Behaviour
Goal: To find out if participants have changed their
behaviour as a result of their having attended and participated in
the training programme.
If the behaviour change does not occur, it is im-
portant to find out why. Level 3 evaluation specifically
involves measuring the transfer of knowledge, skills and at-
titudes from the training context to his ministry situation.
The Level 3 question is, “Did the training have a positive
effect on the performance of the trainee?”
Remember that Level 1 and Level 2 outcomes are
still important because participants generally need to react
positively to the training programme (Level 1 outcome) and
they need to learn the material (Level 2 outcome) if they are
going to be motivated and able to apply what they have learnt
when they return to their respective places of ministry.
Participants are likely to transfer the learning only
if they have internalised the learning and the conditions
back home are favourable for transfer. However, while
these conditions must be met, there are obviously many
things that trainers can do to increase the likelihood of
transfer. In other words, transfer is affected by “training
factors” before trainees go back home, as well as “back
home factors” that operate in their place of ministry when
they return.
These are some factors that can facilitate transfer
of learning:
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A. TRAINING PROGRAMME
1. Let the Personal Mission Statement of the partici-
pants reflect the transfer of learning that emerges
from the training. Let it focus on evangelism!
The training or learning environment or context
or culture is made to be similar to the actual back
home environment or context or culture of the
organisation. Sometimes we tend to create the
training environment so ideal and artificial. Learn-
ing that takes place in “authentic” contexts is more
likely to be used later.
2. Provide practical ministry examples and actual ex-
perience performing and practising the behaviours.
Make sure trainees understand the dependency on
God for this transfer (John 15:5b).
3. Explain the importance and applicability of the
learning from the perspective of God’s purpose in
their lives.
B. HOME SITUATION
1. The culture and climate back home (foundation
on the rock, Matthew 7:24) support change.
2. The fellowship that they have with other trainees
(Alumni Association involvement) helps fulfil
God’s plan for their lives.
3. The participant gains intrinsic reinforcement by
applying his or her new knowledge, skills or at-
titudes (i.e. he or she likes what was learnt and
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How It Is Done
Probably the most common design used for Level
3 evaluation is the one-group pre-test/post-test design
(i.e. get a baseline measure of the behaviour you plan
on training, train the participants and then measure the
participants’ behaviour again after the training). If you are
able to include a control group, you will be able to use the
pre-test/post-test nonequivalent control group design (i.e.
in addition to measuring the training participants before
and after the training, you should also find a set of similar
people who do not undergo training for the control group
and measure these control group participants’ behaviour
before and after the training programme).
Kirkpatrick also discusses another popular design
for measuring transfer of learning, also known as the ret-
rospective survey design. This is done by surveying (using
questionnaires or interviews) the training participants,
their supervisors or managers, as well as their subordinates.
The design is called a “retrospective” design because you
are asking the participants (or the others) to think back
(i.e. in retrospect) to their behaviour before the training
programme and then compare it to their current level of be-
haviour and, finally, to decide if the behaviour has changed.
Ask for specific examples of behaviour changes.
You can also use the retrospective survey design with the
training participants’ managers and subordinates, asking
them if the participant’s behaviour has changed. The more
confirmation you get across the board from different sourc-
es, the stronger the evidence of transfer.
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Level 4—Results
Goal: To find out if the training programme led to final
results, especially the results that contribute to the “bottom line”
(i.e., Alumni are transformed Leaders).
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How It Is Done
Ideally, the evaluation process must be as follows:
Programme
Reactions
Learning
Behaviour
Results
Alumni effectively evangelising and training leaders
for evangelism
Since this Level 4 process of evaluation is complex,
in our context, we can make use of first three levels to en-
hance the quality of the training programmes on the basis
of the evaluation outcomes of the first three levels.
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Chapter 16:
Mentoring
Someone told me this story many years back. It is
only fiction, but a thought-provoking story.
When Jesus ascended to Heaven, there was a red carpet
welcome for Jesus and a large press conference. Saints and
Angels and Archangels surrounded Him and asked lot of
questions: How was your experience as a human being?
How could you relate with the people there?
Later one of them asked, “Jesus! You went on a mission
to save the entire world; have you accomplished it?”
Jesus said, “Yes. I did”.
The person reacted, “But you were crucified in a re-
mote part of the world; only a few people saw and believed.
How about the rest of the world? How about people in the
coming generations? Who will go and tell them?”
Jesus said, “Who else? My disciples!” There was a
roaring laughter and whispers – “Is He talking about those
twelve disciples? One of them betrayed Him! The other
denied Him! All of them deserted Him!!”
“Jesus! We saw how weak they were! If they can’t
make it, do you have an ‘alternate plan’?”
Jesus replied, “I don’t have alternate plans. I have entrust-
ed my work to my disciples and I trust them. They will do it”.
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What is Mentoring?
Mentoring is an increasingly popular process
through which the individuals are developed systematically
providing appropriate support through a mentor on a one-
to-one basis. It is used for strengthening and supporting
processes of capacity building and organisational develop-
ment, and commonly applied across the educational, busi-
ness and health sectors.
The origins of the word “mentor” spring from
Homer’s classic The Odyssey, where Odysseus, off to war,
chose “Mentor” (who was the goddess Athena in the form
of Mentor), to protect and advise his son Telemachus.
Mentoring provides support in learning from prac-
tice and reinforcing positive results to build confidence.
Mentoring focuses on the personal development of a
leader, and in our context, particularly while training lead-
ers for evangelism; to go beyond the dimension of training
the person in the programme/seminar/workshop.
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Benefits of Mentoring
For mentors, it is an opportunity to build a relation-
ship and empower another person towards the fulfilment of
God’s purpose in one’s life.
The main objective of mentoring is to develop the
trained leader as a transformed person who is totally com-
mitted to evangelising the nation and training others to
be transformed like him. It is done through follow-up from
workshops and training programmes to enable participants
to apply their learning in their own context.
Mentor qualities include good listening skills, the
ability to relate, being supportive and non-judgemental,
to be confident about the development of the relationship
and when to have the appropriate intervention.
Good training can make all the difference to help
both mentors and their protégés to get the most out of
their relationship. Mentors and protégés need to under-
stand their respective roles and to be supported to review
the relationship and progress made.
Phases of Mentoring
The role of the mentor is to provide an environ-
ment that permits an individual to move along the devel-
opment continuum containing the following phases.
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Denial
Resistance
Search
Commitment
Discouragement
Competent
Transformation
Mentoring usually goes through seven phases. Each
of these phases is a combination of two factors – capability
and dedication. Capability is the knowledge and skills an
individual brings to a goal or task. Dedication is a combi-
nation of an individual’s attitude, motivation and self-con-
fidence on a goal or task.
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1. Denial
This is the spontaneous response of a person who is
called for a special ministry. “Who am I, that I should go
unto Pharaoh, and that I should bring forth the children
of Israel out of Egypt?” This was the response of Moses
when he was called by God (Exodus 3:11). You can always
experience this whenever you choose someone and intend
to equip the person for some special task.
During this time, the mentors must provide with lot
of information in order to clarify the ultimate purpose and
goal. It will always be an enriching process if the mutual
expectations are shared at this point of time.
2. Resistance
Having accepted that they have been called, people
still have a tendency to resist by giving many excuses, argu-
ing how it is not possible: “…they will not believe me, nor
hearken unto my voice: for they will say, The LORD hath
not appeared unto thee” (Exodus 4:1).
At this time, the mentors’ responsibility is to listen
and respond emphatically; accept their protégés’ feelings
and also elicit their views and responses appropriately.
They can also draw suggestions out of them and incor-
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3. Search
Moving through the second phase, they are in a
position to accept their calling. But they are confused how
to go about it. They tend to prove why they cannot be the
“person”. (Exodus 4:13). They search for clarity and under-
standing that they are worth of their calling and the respon-
sibility entrusted on them. But later they cooperate to the
extent of discovering avenues to realise the purpose of their
calling. It is the time to brainstorm with the protégés about
possible avenues. They should be helped to look at their
strengths, discover their potential and search options to
equip themselves such as the training that they could un-
dergo or the steps they need to take to empower themselves.
4. Commitment
This is an important phase during which the pro-
tégés demonstrate their commitment to submit themselves
to the calling. Even though they do not have the capability
to perform in the mission they are called in, they display
high levels of dedication. The mentors’ role is to capitalise
on the act of dedication and use lot of task-oriented behav-
iours to coach them in the knowledge and skills that they
have to master. It is also the time to explain the journey
of transformation and empowerment through which they
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5. Discouragement
At this phase, people realise they not only have to
acquire new skills, they also have to use them effectively
and, eventually, on their own. They begin to wonder how
long this process will take and how are they going to make
it? They still need both direction and support to address
these concerns.
Mentors need to respond honestly to the questions
their protégés raise. They should offer perspective about
how long it should take and whether their performance
is on track. They should recognise the progress and share
excitement, and thus encourage by providing opportunities
to experience small victories.
6. Competence
When people enter this phase, they feel competent
to handle situations. Mentors should provide support and
encouragement for them to perform independently. They
should continue to observe them and give feedback to af-
firm them adequately in order to empower them.
7. Transformation
At this final stage, mentors have to release their
protégés from their tutelage and delegate all responsibilities
so that they feel empowered and trusted.
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5. Be Deliberate
“My little children, of whom I travail in birth again
until Christ be formed in you” (Galatians 4:19).
Paul talks about how he undergoes the pain like a
mother in the pain of childbirth until Christ is completely
and permanently formed within them. He is willing to
experience the pain as an enthusiastic act. That shows his
faithfulness and loyalty towards them whom he preached
the Gospel. Remember! Mentoring is like a process of
childbirth and it is going to have lasting impact!
6. Be Authentic
“But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cher-
isheth her children” (1 Thessalonians 2:7).
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7. Be a coach
“Now you have closely observed and diligently followed
my teaching, conduct, purpose in life, faith, patience, love,
steadfastness…”(2 Timothy 3:10 Amplified version)
A coach provides a resource for reflection, learning
and thinking outside the box. The coach does not have
all the answers of “how to,” but offers the opportunity to
improve processes and decisions that will in turn improve
productivity and efficiency.
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HOW WE DO IT
We seek out influential Christians in developing nations.
We give them life-changing training at one of our world-class
training centers in Singapore or Maui. Then we send them
home with advanced leadership skills and a commitment
to train 100 other Christian leaders. We call this
THE EXPO FACTOR.
WHERE WE OPERATE
We have trained more than 64,000 Christian leaders,
representing 178 countries. Through these leaders we impact
almost every kind of frontline Christian ministry. Over 20
percent of our graduates work in regions, like the Middle East,
that are highly resistant to Christian faith.
WHO WE ARE
Haggai Institute brings together exceptional Christian
leaders—men and women, lay and ordained—from a wealth
of Christian traditions. Our donor base is international.
Thanks to THE EXPO FACTOR, all receive a huge return on
their investment in the Great Commission.