Cogjjqgpjcj4fjQn_Sloclcttt or Roadblocks

1. Interrupting
-Rutting in while a speaker is trying to say something

A: ‘I’m having trouble with the math we are doing ant

9: ‘That last test was horrible, wasn’t it? Good thing I got
a decent mark!”

2.Advising
-Giving a lot of unasked-for advice

A: ‘I’m having trouble with the math we are doing and”

8: ‘Well, if I were you I’d get a tutor. Or ask the teacher
for extra help. Actually, maybe you should Just drop math.”

3Srobing
-Getting nosey, asking questions in a demanding way

A: ‘I’m having trouble with the math we are doing and”

8: ‘What did you get on the last test? Have you always been
bad at math? Who have you asked for help? Who’s your
teacher this semester? What did you get last year in math?”

4.Confronting
-Verbally attacking, putting the speaker on the spot, making
accusations

A: ‘I’m having trouble with the math we are doing and”

8: ‘Well, so what? You’re Just over-reacting. You always
say something like that then you get the best mark in the
class. Why do you always have to find something to
complain about?”
S.Judging
-Making judgments as the person speaks
-Judgement about the speaker him/herself and/or about what
the person is saying

i: “I’m having trouble with the math we are doing and”

8: “rhat sucks. You must be so upset. You look like you’re
going to cry. I thought you seemed weird earLier today.”

6. Interpreting
-Putting your words into the person’s mouth
-4dding your own ideas and conclusions

1: “I’m having trouble with the math we are doing and”

8: “You must hate math! But then again, no one in your
family is good at math so I guess that’s normal. Maybe you
have math phobia.”

7.Dominating
-Taking over the conversation, not Letting the other person
get a word in
-An avalanche or flood of words

A: “I’m having trouble with the math we are doing and”

8: “I am too. I just can’t seem to understand what the
teacher is saying. I’ve asked my brother for help and all he
said was that I need to pay attention. So then I decided to
goand. .

8.Putting Down
kn negative or arcasfk comments about the ersan nm
erseif md/or about what the person s

A: “I’m having trouble with the math we are doing and”

8: “What?! Are you stupid? It’s only the beginning of the
semester, we’re just doing review right now!! Its so easy.”
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