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4. Neglecting - Neurotic, abuse substances. → People high in openness are highly motivated to learn new
skills, and they do well in training settings. They also have
an advantage when they enter into a new organisation.
Their open-mindedness leads them to seek a lot of ✓ Personal branding is not just about marketing but about
information and feedback about how they are doing and to being your marketer. It is about standing for yourself and
build relationships, which leads to quicker adjustment to your business to command respect and confidence from
the new job.
your peers and customers. The word “branding” can have
a negative connotation when used in the context of
2. CONSCIENTIOUSNESS- The degree to which a person is
businesses.
organised, systematic, punctual, achievement oriented,
and dependable.
However, applying the correct principles and strategies will
help you create a brand identity for your business and help you
→ Conscientiousness is the one personality trait that
stand out from your competition.
uniformly predicts how high a person’s performance will
be, across a variety of occupations and jobs.
Why Is Personal Branding Important?
→ In addition to their high performance, conscientious people
In an era where people’s attention spans are getting
have higher levels of motivation to perform, lower levels of
shorter by the minute, the need to make an impression is more
turnover, lower levels of absenteeism, and higher levels of
important than ever. And the best way to do this is by creating a
safety performance at work.
solid and memorable brand identity.
Allen Gannett, chief strategy officer at Skyword and author 5. Be ready to fail.
of The Creative Curve explains it best:” The most effective ✓ Failure is tough, and all of us generally want to avoid it
personal branding strategy these days is to build a true narrative – that’s human nature. However, to have a personal
– single character monologues are boring in Tinseltown, and brand that rises above the rest, you need to have a
even more boring for your personal brand.” failure.
No one wants to hear you shout about your brand into
the social media void, so create a story around your brand that Walt Disney spoke of this often when he reminisced about his
your audience can engage with. Allen regularly meets and chats failed first attempts at creating an animation brand. “I think it’s
with his audience in airports around the world, further important to have a good hard failure when you’re young. I
developing his warm and friendly personal brand. learned a lot out of that. Because it makes you kind of aware of
what can happen to you.” And what can happen is never as
One of the best ways to tell that story is through written frightening as not trying at all.
content or video. For Pelpina Trip, social video strategist, this
is definitely the case. Her own video channel on LinkedIn sees When Timothy Hoang, CEO of Stories By Tim, Inc.
some of the highest levels of engagement across the platform. Develops his influencer clients, he likes to tell them: “You’ll
“The most personal way to communicate online is with video. never achieve the best branding until you fail a couple times
Simply use your smartphone to video message your clients, while pushing past your comfort zone.” The very best brands
make a personal connection with prospective clients and always come from repeated trial and error, mistakes and
connect with co-workers. After all, you always have your failures and not from instant perfection.
smartphone on you!”
6. Create a positive impact. “Your personal brand should follow you everywhere you go. It
✓ After you’ve developed your personal brand over a needs to be an authentic manifestation of who you are and
period of time, there are generally two ways to amplify what you believe.”
continue to build your brand – hop over others and
burn bridges or steadily grow a community around With this in mind, your personal brand is not only a
your brand. reflection of a series of job functions like marketing, finance or
creative but also ideals like giving back, thoughtful leadership
Jacob Shwirtz, head of social partnerships at WeWork, who or mentorship.
has worked with many of the top influencers in the world,
including makeup personality, Michelle Phan, gives us this 9. Let other people tell your story.
wisdom. ✓ The best PR is by word of mouth. Creating a personal
brand in the public sphere is no exception to this rule.
My quick tip on personal branding is to remember you
are your brand, no matter what your current job is, what project Aaron Orendorff, editor in chief at Shopify Plus, tells his
you happen to be working on at any one time or whatever the personal story through lively videos and the occasional bunny
priority happens to be today... always keep in mind the impact co-host or two and his audience remembers. They’re able to
you leave on others and remember all we have is our own recall the bright outfits and the animal friends and tie those
reputation and that’s our brand, so be awesome to each other! pieces of the story to their interpretation of his brand.
Keeping a positive attitude and helping others will only help As he eloquently states: “Personal branding is the
healthily grow your brand in the long run. story people tell about you when you’re not in the room.” Jessie
Maltin, co-host of Maltin on Movies works with her father,
7. Follow a successful example. renowned film critic Leonard Maltin and has watched him
build his career over the past several decades. “All you have in
“People interested in personal branding need to start marketing your life is your name and the reputation you garner.”
themselves like the celebrities and influential people that they
look up to every day,“explains Jason Wong, CEO of Wonghaus 10. Leave a legacy.
Ventures. ✓ Once you’ve built your personal brand with a
reputation and community behind it, the next step is
His own personal brand has gone viral several times, to think about the legacy that you’ll leave behind.
over subjects like ice cream in Japan, inflatable pool toys and
memes, earning him the title of the “Meme King.” His success What are the keywords and actions that you want to be
often comes from studying trends and popular individuals on known for?
different social media platforms and then implementing them Blake Jamieson, artist at Blake Jamieson LLC, who
with a twist. Creatively dissecting social analytics and paints pop art portraits of famous tech and sports heroes
establishing the next big trend can be within your grasp too, if reminds us that: “Building a personal brand is much bigger than
you pay attention across all social media platforms and not building a business. The only exit strategy is legacy.”
simply focus narrowly on one of them.
A personal brand is a lifelong project that constantly evolves
8. Live your brand. and changes. Even the experts who build or enhance the biggest
✓ As mentioned before, one of the ways you can make brands in the business know that there are no hard-set rules for
building a personal brand difficult on yourself is to creating a personal brand.
separate your brand from your personal life. While
certainly doable, it’s easier when initially creating a
personal brand to have your actual lifestyle and brand
be one and the same.
Understanding these evolved positive aspects of human behavior Psychodynamic Perspective - Beginning with Freud, psychoanalytic
provides just as much insight into human nature as does understanding and then the more general psychodynamic approaches have focused
the pathological aspects. on the importance of early childhood experience and on relationships
with parents as guiding forces that shape personality development.
Existential theorists assume that not only are we driven by a
search for meaning, but also that negative experiences such as failure, 1. The Psychosexual Theory of Development (Sigmund Freud)
awareness of death, death of a loved one, and anxiety, are part of the Personality involves negotiating the tensions between our
human condition and can foster psychological growth. biological, sexual drives and the expectations and standards of the
society. Individuals go through five psychosexual stages.
3. Dispositional (Trait) Perspectives
✓ Trait Theory, also known as Dispositional Theory, is an approach Sexual or libidinal energies are focused on the different parts of the
to study human personality and behavior. It is the measurement body (Erogenous Zones) during each stage. Fixation occurs when the
of steady patterns of habit in an individual’s behavior, thoughts need during each stage is not met.
and emotions.
Freud’s theory of psychosexual development claims that as we
Dispositional theorists argue that the unique and long-term grow up, we pass through five critical phases.
tendencies to behave in particular ways are the essence of our Our sex drive, which Freud called the libido, focuses in a different
personality. These unique dispositions, such as extraversion or anxiety, erogenous zone at each phase. The phases are called: oral, anal,
are called traits. phallic, latency, and genital.
If our experience during any of these phases was traumatic, we
The field has converged on the understanding that there are five might develop fixations later in life, such as neurosis,
main trait dimensions in human personality. Traits serve the function of dependencies, addictions, or depression.
making certain behaviors more likely in some people.
Freud’s Psychosexual Stages
Trait theorists focus on the measurement of ‘traits’, which lead to a
better understanding of human personality. Over a period of time, traits 1. Oral Stage (From Birth to 12-18 Months)
become relatively stable, depending on the individual and his social The mouth is the center of pleasure.
and environmental surroundings, which influence behavior. Infants derives comfort from sucking, chewing and biting.
4. Biological Evolutionary Perspectives When needs are not met [i.e., early weaning] or are
✓ Behavior, thought, feelings, and personality are influenced by overindulged [i.e., prolonged thumb sucking], personality and
differences in basic genetic, epigenetic, and neurological systems behavioral problems occur. Oral fixation may be manifested by
between individuals. The reason some people have different gossiping and talking too much and overeating, smoking and
traits, dispositions, and ways of thinking stems from differences alcoholism.
in their genotype and central nervous system (brain structures and
neurochemistry). a. Oral Phase, Age 0-1 - In the first year of our lives, we discover the
world through our oral senses. Our main pleasure comes from sucking
Because they are based on evolved brain systems, human thought, our mother’s breast or a bottle. The conflict that occurs now is the
behavior, and personality have been shaped by forces of evolution weaning from our primary caregiver.
(natural and sexual selection) over millions of years.
2. Anal Stage (Between 12-18 Months to 3 Years)
The body, brain, and environment co-exist and coevolve, The child’s greatest pleasure involves the anus or the
and so more than any other psychological perspective, this one eliminative functions associated with it. The idea of toilet
emphasizes that what we think, feel, and do is always an interaction training. If toilet training is too harsh or demanding, or begun too
between nature (biological) and nurture (environment). early or too late, problems may occur.
Anal fixation results to: Freud claimed that our mind operates in 3 spheres, which we
✓ Being controlling, stingy, stubborn, and excessively can imagine as a submarine. The unconscious level operates the Id.
concerned with cleanliness and orderliness. The preconscious level operates the Superego. The conscious and
✓ Being messy, disorganized, extravagant and impulsive. preconscious level operate our Ego.
b. Anal Phase, Age 1-3: The primary focus of our libido at this age is the Young children are driven by the Id and demand immediate
control of the bladder and bowel movements. We have to learn how to satisfaction. At around age seven, we begin to develop a Superego and
use the potty. Competent personality and a good and balanced want to become good moral citizens and please others. The Ego is
relationship with authority. formed with adolescence to balance the two forces.
Anal-retentive personality- becomes an over-controlling
and stingy adult, with disgust for his own body and a Sigmund Shlomo Freud was an Austrian neurologist and the founder of
tendency to obey authority. Psychoanalysis. Freud theorized that the unconscious would
Anal-expulsive personality- becomes messy, disorganized, remember and store all our experiences, later they pop up from time to
inconsiderate of other people’s feelings, and rebellious time through dreams and associative thoughts.
against authority.
By revealing traumatic memories and desires through
3. Phallic Stage (3 to 6 Years) conversation we can free ourselves from our neurosis and live a
From the “phallus” which means “penis” healthier and fulfilled life. He recommended: “we should not strive to
The focus of pleasure shifts to the genital area as the child eliminate our complexes but to get into accord with them: they are
discovers self-manipulation is enjoyable. legitimately what directs our conduct in the world.”
• Oedipus Complex- Rivalry between the son and the father to get the 2. Psychosocial Theory of Development (Erik Erikson)
attention of the mother. Focused on the individual’s social relations than sexual
• Castration Anxiety- The fear the son that his penis will be cut off by motivations. Different challenges people face throughout their lives
the father if his desires for the mother continues. This effectively have more to do with their relationships with other people and societies
crushes the boy’s incestuous desire for their mothers, which are then demand.
repressed to into the unconscious. Two major events at each stages of development:
• Penis Envy- The lack of penis of the girls. Blaming the mother for → Development of individuals competencies
such “shortcoming”. Resulting to the girl’s desire for their father. → Performing according to societal demands
• Electra Complex- The rivalry between the daughter and the mother • Struggle between the two leads to CRISIS.
to get the attention of the father. Named after Electra, a Greek
character who conspired to kill her mother. Erikson's theory of psychosocial development identifies eight
stages in which a healthy individual should pass through from birth to
c. Phallic Phase, Age 3-6: Our libido now turns to the genitals as we death. At each stages we encounter different needs, ask new questions
discover the differences between the female and the male gender. and meet people who influence our behavior and learning.
The boys' conflict in this phase occurs as a rivalry with their 8 Stages of Development
father. Also called the “Oedipus Complex”. Ernst and Hans desire to 1. Trust VS. Mistrust (Birth to 12-18 Months)
possess their mother and fantasize about getting rid of their father. But ▪ Infants need sensitive, responsive care from the caregiver. Each
they know that their father is stronger and fear being punished for their time the needs are adequately provided – whether these are food,
desire. Freud called this “castration anxiety”. “penis envy”- penis is the diaper change etc. – the infant develops a sense of trust and
key to power and domination and also wants one. security.
4. Latency Stage [6 to 11 Years] Hopeful and optimistic that his needs will be met by others
Sexual desires and impulses from the phallic stage are as well. If the care is inadequate, insensitive or inconsistent, the child
repressed during this stage. is likely to develop a sense of mistrust. He may withdraw from other
The child channels all his energies toward developing social, people for the belief that they cannot fulfill his needs. He may feel
intellectual, and moral skills. Focus on peer relationships and insecure and unworthy of responsive care from others.
school.
a. Basic Trust vs. Mistrust, Infancy (1-2 years) - As infants, we ask
d. Latent Phase, Age 7-13: In this phase, our libido is suppressed as our ourselves if we can trust the world and we wonder if it's safe. We learn
sexual energy is being sublimed into developing life skills. Our superego that if we can trust someone now, we can also trust others in the future.
strengthens and we strongly identify with social values, same-sex If we experience fear, we develop doubt and mistrust. The key to our
heroes, and friends. There is no real conflict in this phase. development is our mother.
5. Genital Stage [11 Years to Adulthood] 2. Autonomy VS. Shame and Doubt (Early Childhood- Between 12-
Puberty age. Individual’s sexual drives return and once again 18 Months to 3 Years)
focused on the genitals. ▪ Child assert his growing his growing independence and sense of
However, the object of the sexual desire is the opposite sex, self.
and the needs are gratified through mature, genital love If the adult’s set a balanced limit with the adequate
relationships. opportunities for the child to explore and do things on his own, then the
child develops a healthy sense of accomplishment, self-control and
e. Genital Phase, Puberty to Death: Once we reach puberty our libido self-esteem. If the child is overprotected, he may develop a sense of
starts to become active again and we develop an interest in sexual doubt regarding his ability to do things on his own or shame over his
partners. The needs of the “superego”’ to obey social norms. lack of control.
b. Autonomy vs. Shame & Doubt, Early Childhood (2-4 years) - In ▪ + loving and committed relationship. - cannot commit at risk to be
our early childhood, we experience ourselves and discover our body. lonely, isolated and withdraw.
We ask: is it okay to be me? If we are allowed to discover ourselves,
then we develop self-confidence. If we are not, we can develop shame f. Intimacy vs. Isolation, Early Adulthood (20-40 years) - As young
and self-doubt. Both parents now play a major role. adults, we slowly understand who we are and we start to let go of the
relationships we had built earlier in order to fit in. We ask ourselves if
3. Initiative VS. Guilt (Preschool Age, or Between 3 and 6 Years) we can love? If we can make a long-term commitment, we are
▪ Greater challenges due to the expansion of social world including confident and happy. If we cannot form intimate relationships, we
peers and other relationships outside the family. might end up feeling isolated and lonely. Our friends and partners are
Greater sense of responsibility for themselves – cleaning up now central to our development.
their toys and brushing their teeth. When the adult support such
initiative, the child develops a greater sense of purpose and 7. Generativity VS. Stagnation (Middle Adulthood, or 40s to the 60s)
responsibility. Feelings of guilt and inadequacy about initiating ▪ Most adults are preoccupied with raising a family, and /or
activities may develop, for fear that these may be met with disapproval establishing themselves in their vocation or career.
by their parents and teachers. ▪ Adults develop a concern for the welfare of the future generation or
younger generations, and the need to pass on or leave a “legacy”
c. Initiative vs. Guilt, Preschool Age (4-5 years) - In preschool, we regarding what they have learned.
take initiative, try out new things, and learn basic principles like how ▪ Generativity take the form of parenting, mentoring, teaching or
round things roll. We ask: Is it okay for me to do what I do? If we are engaging in sociocivic work.
encouraged, we can follow our interests. If we are held back or told that ▪ Stagnation may stem from the inability to establish intimacy in the
what we do is silly, we can develop guilt. We are now learning from the previous developmental stage.
entire family. ▪ Without the experience of true mutuality and selfgiving in the
context of a personal relationship, an individual would find it
4. Industry VS. Inferiority (Middle Childhood-Between 6 & 11 Years) difficult to share himself with the bigger society.
▪ School, learning and developing knowledge and skills. More ▪ Midlife crisis – period of reassessing his life and the decisions he
serious hobbies, extracurricular activities. has made.
▪ +develops a sense of competence and motivation to learn and
improve himself further. g. Generativity vs. Stagnation - Adulthood (40-65 years) - When we
▪ -If the child’s effort are frequently met with criticism and failure, reach our forties, we become comfortable, use our leisure time
then he is vulnerable to feeling inadequacy and inferiority. creatively and maybe begin contributing to society. Our concern is
Generativity. If we think that we are able to lead the next generation into
d. Industry vs. Inferiority, School Age (5-12 years) - Now we discover this world, we are happy. If we did not resolve some conflicts earlier,
our own interests and realize that we are different from others. We we can become pessimistic and experience stagnation. People at
want to show that we can do things right. We ask if we can make it in home and at work are now who influence us most.
this world? If we receive recognition from our teachers or peers, we
become industrious, which is another word for hard-working. If we get 8. Integrity VS. Despair (Late Adulthood - 60s And Beyond)
too much negative feedback, we start to feel inferior and lose ▪ Marked by gradual decline in physical and cognitive abilities.
motivation. Our neighbors and schools now influence us the most. ▪ Psychosocially, this is the time when the elderly, confronted with
their morality, look back on their lives.
5. Identity VS. Identity Confusion (Adolescence- Between 11 & 20s) ▪ When an individual feels that he has lives well, coped satisfactorily
▪ Central task of the adolescent is to establish an identity or a sense with life’s struggle, he develops a sense of integrity and wholeness,
of self in which her past, present and future are integrated. Main the virtue of wisdom, and the readiness to face death.
question is “Who I am?” ▪ However, if a person looks back at his life and sees a series of
▪ Identity crisis – characterized by the intense experimentation with missed opportunities and failures, he will live his final years in
possible roles and alternative values and lifestyles. despair. Fear of death.
▪ Moratorium. “time-out”-freely exploring various lifestyles, roles, or
career possibilities without having to make any premature h. Ego Integrity vs. Despair, Maturity (65-death) - As we grow older,
commitments. we tend to slow down and begin to look back over our lives. We ask:
▪ + Sense of fidelity or commitment to one’s value, vocation, how have I done? If we think we did well, we develop feelings of
ideology, sexuality. - Identity confusion, or a sense of not knowing contentment and integrity. If not, we can experience despair and
who one is or where one headed. become grumpy and bitter. Time to compare us with mankind.
e. Identity vs. Role Confusion, Adolescence (13–19 years) - During ❖ Erik Erikson was a German-American psychologist who together
adolescence, we learn that we have different social roles. We are with his wife Joan, became known for his work on psychosocial
friends, students, children, and citizens. Many experience an identity development. He was influenced by Sigmund and Anna Freud and
crises. If our parents now allow us to go out and explore, we can find an became famous for coining the phrase "identity crisis." Although
identity. If they push us to conform to their views, we can face role Erikson lacked even a bachelor's degree, he served as a professor
confusion and feel lost. Key to our learning are our peers and role at Harvard and Yale.
models.
Humanistic Perspective - The primary assumption of the humanistic
6. Intimacy VS. Isolation (Young Adulthood, From the 20s to 40s) (currently known as “positive psychology”) approach is that people
▪ Considered sharing his unique self with other individual. Intimacy strive toward meaning, growth, well -being, happiness, and
in a mature heterosexual relationship characterized by genitality, or psychological health.
self-sacrifice and compromise. States of positive emotion and happiness foster psychological
health and pro -social behavior.
Abraham Maslow Hierarchy of Needs - believed that Motivation Theory - need for achievement, affiliation and power. In the
people strive for a positive view of the self to realize their own early 1960s, McClelland built on Maslow’s work-described three
potentials fully. Believed these needs were innate but without a human motivators.
supportive, nurturing environment, this essential striving for full
potential could not take place. Learned Needs Theory- McClelland (Arnold et al., 2005) claimed
In other words, he believed we all strive to work at our fullest that humans acquire, learn their motivators over time
potential. We all want to become “self-actualized” that is reaching and McClelland affirms that we all have three motivating drivers, and
using our full potential in our vocational and personal life it does not depend on our gender or age.
One of these drives or needs will be dominant in our behavior.
He believed a person must satisfy the needs at the lower levels before McClelland’s theory differs from Maslow’s and Alderfer’s, which
moving on to tackle the ones at the top. For example, if you don’t have focus on satisfying existing needs rather than creating or
enough to eat, or scared you may lose your house, you probably won’t developing needs.
strive as much for personal accomplishment. This dominant motivator depends on our culture and life
experiences (but the three motivators are permanent).
➢ This is very difficult to test. Also, some of the most creative people have Prioritization and importance of these motivational needs
lived in poverty. Edgar Allen Poe for example. characterizes a person’s behavior.
Self-actualization- desire to become the most that one can be Three Motivators
Esteem- respect, self-esteem, status, recognition, strength, 1. Achievement Motivation
freedom • It is a need to accomplish and demonstrate competence or
Love and belonging- friendship, intimacy, family, sense of mastery.
connection • It pertains to a person’s need for significant success, mastering of
Safety needs- personal security, employment, resources, skills, control or high standards.
health, property • It is associated with a range of actions.
Physiological needs- air, water, food, shelter, sleep, clothing, • Individuals seek achievement, attainment of challenging and
reproduction realistic goals, and advancement in the school or job.
• This need is influenced by internal drivers for action (intrinsic
Humanistic Perspectives motivation) and the pressure used by the prospects of others
(extrinsic motivation).
Hierarchy of Needs by Abraham Maslow - Maslow's Hierarchy of • Low need for achievement could mean that individuals want to
Needs is a theory in psychology. It argues that there are five stages of minimize risk of failure, and for this reason, people may choose
human needs that motivate our behavior. very easy or too difficult tasks, when they cannot avoid failure.
• In contrast, high need for achievement means that humans try to
Abraham Maslow proposed his theory in 1943 after studying choose optimal, sufficiently difficult tasks, because they want to
what he called exemplary people such as Albert Einstein or Eleanor get the chance to reach their goals, but they have to work for it,
Roosevelt. they need to develop themselves. Individual with high need for
achievement like to receive regular feedback on their progress and
Stage 1 - First, there are physiological needs, such as the need to achievements; and often like to work alone; seek challenges and
breathe, eat, drink or sleep. The moment we got enough of that and we like high degree of independence.
feel awake and our bellies are full, we get motivated by the next thing.
• Sources of high need for achievement can be praise for success,
goal setting skills, one’s own competence and effort to achieve
Stage 2 - Now we want safety. We try to earn money, build up
something, and it does not depend only on luck; of course, positive
resources and look for shelter that protects us against dangers. Once
feelings and also independence in childhood.
we are satisfied and feel safe, we have time to think about what we
• McClelland said that training, teaching can increase an
want next.
individual’s need for achievement. For this reason, some have
argued that need for achievement is not a need but a value.
Stage 3 - At stage three we seek love and belonging. We desire to be
close to family and friends, belong to a society or join a gang. But the
2. Affiliation Motivation
moment we feel completely part of a group we already wish to be a
• It is a need for love, belonging and relatedness.
little different than the rest.
• These people have a strong need for friendships and want to
Stage 4 - At stage four we look for esteem, self-confidence, and belong within a social group, need to be liked and held in popular
respect from our peers. We want to be someone. If we have money, we regard.
buy a fancy watch. If we have a brain, we write or think or work a lot. • They are team players, and they may be less effective in
Motivation to perform and compete is now at its highest. Students, leadership positions.
sportsmen, and inventors excel. Neil Armstrong even flew to the moon. • High-need-for-affiliation persons have support from those with
whom they have regular contact and mostly are involved in warm
Stage 5 - Only if we breathe and drink and eat and sleep enough and interpersonal relationships.
we feel safe and part of a group and still special, only then we can reach • After or during stressful situation, individuals need much more
level five: self-actualization. Now we can relax, be creative, accept affiliation. In these situations, people come together and find
facts for what they are, give back or do whatever we want. No more security in one another.
pressure, unless of course there is trouble below. • There are times when individuals want to be with others and at
other times to be alone—affiliation motivation can become
increased or decreased.
• Individuals do not like high risk or uncertainty.
3. Power Motivation - It is a need for control over one’s own work or Trait Psychology (Organization of Traits into a central group of
the work of others. terms or spectrums)
Self-Determination Theory: 3 Basic Needs that drive our behavior. 1. Gordon Allport - 4500 words that could be considered personality
Self-determination theory was developed by the two American traits. Nowadays, 18000 traits descriptive adjectives
psychologists, Richard Ryan and Edward Deci, in the 1970s.
Self-determination theory argues that we do what we do, because Three Types of Traits
we are motivated by three basic needs that drive our behavior a. Cardinal Traits - These traits and behaviors rule how you
more than anything else. approach things you’re passionate above.
Punctual
1. Autonomy- We desire to have freedom of making our own choices It is usually influenced by some desire to impress or to
and not be forced to do something we don’t want. be ready to get work.
Machiavellian, Freudian, Christ-like
2. Competence- We want to feel that we have the skills required to do
the work ourselves, and not confronted with tasks that we don’t b. Central Traits - These traits are found to a certain degree in
understand. almost every person.
Honesty, agreeableness, or jealousy
3. Connection- We want to experience a sense of belonging, of being
needed, and not useless or like an outsider. c. Secondary Traits - These traits may apply to different situations
• We can think of motivation ranging from “non-self-determined to depending on the context of that situation.
self-determined”. (quality: lower forms to higher forms)
2. Cattell - 1960s-4500 words to 171 traits to 16 most influential traits
Amotivation - It refers to the lack or absence of volitional drive to ➢ 16 most influential traits: Warmth, Reasoning, Emotional
engage in any activity Stability, Dominance, Liveliness, Rule-Consciousness, Social
Boldness, Sensitivity, Vigilance, Abstractedness, Privateness,
Extrinsic Motivation- is when someone feels motivated to do Apprehension, Openness to Change, Self-Reliance,
something to gain a reward or avoid a punishment. Perfectionism and Tension.
a. Externally Regulated. It occurs when an individual performs a 1. Eysenck- First personality traits (PEN)
task or behavior to receive some type of external reward.
a. Psychoticism- Whenever an individual engages in risky and
b. Introjected Regulation. It refers to performing an action due to a irresponsible behavior. People with high psychoticism are usually
sense of obligation rather than an internal desire or for enjoyment. more aggressive.
b. Extraversion- When an individual engages in a lot of social
c. Regulation through Identification. The person has identified with activities. Extrovert is considered under aroused, and their
the personal importance of a behavior and has thus accepted its cortical arousal can be measured with skin conductance.
regulation as his or her own. c. Neuroticism- When an individual’s mood and emotions fluctuate
more than normal.
d. Integrated Regulation. Integration occurs when one has fully • Our personality traits come from our genetics.
taken in the reason for action, i.e., a person has examined the
cause and found it compatible with their own values and needs. Learning (Social Cognitive) Perspective
If you want to understand behavior, then focus only on
Intrinsic Motivation - It is defined as the doing of an activity for its behavior, not on hypothetical and unobservable internal states such as
inherent satisfaction rather than for some separable consequence. thoughts, feelings, drives, or motives.
All behaviors are learned through association and/or its
Dispositional Perspectives consequences (whether it is reinforced or punished). To shape desired
behavior, we have to understand and then establish the conditions that
Trait Theory-History of Personality Psychology bring about those particular behaviors.
A neutral (conditioned) stimulus is paired with an unconditioned Skinner, born in 1904, was a professor of Psychology and subscribed
stimulus a number of times until it is capable of bringing about a to Behaviorism. He argued that you can only study behavior that is
previously unconditioned response visible and that anything happening only within the mind is either a
➢ Simplest of all forms of learning. An organism learns that one misconception or irrelevant to science.
event follows another.
➢ When the pairing of these two is repeated it creates a CS and He thought free will was an illusion because behavior is
CR. either random or a reaction to the environment. His work became the
foundation for behavioral therapy, military drills, and animal training.
Stimulus Response
Unconditioned Stimulus Unconditioned Response
Neutral Stimulus No Response
Neutral Stimulus, Unconditioned Response
Unconditioned Stimulus
Conditioned Stimulus Conditioned Response
3. Lastly, levels of emotional intelligence are not fixed genetically, nor Social Intelligence Hypothesis - The social intelligence hypothesis
does it develop in early childhood. Unlike IQ, which changes little after states that social intelligence, that is, complex socialization such as
our teen years, emotional intelligence seems to be largely learned, and politics, romance, family relationships, quarrels, collaboration,
it continues to develop through life and learn from our experiences. reciprocity, and altruism,
was the driving force in developing the size of human brains and
Context for the EI Concept: Cultural Influences today provides our ability to use those large brains in complex
❖ The ancient Greek Stoic idea that reason was superior to emotion social circumstances.
(described in Payne, 1986; Solomon, 2000, p.5) That is, it was the demands of living together that drove our
❖ The European Sentimentalist movement's idea that there need for intelligence generally.
existed innate, pure, emotional knowledge (Reddy, 2001)
❖ The Romantic movement's emphasis on emotional expression in Chapter 4.2-Transactional Analysis and Ego States
the arts (Solomon, 2000), and
❖ The political turmoil of the 1960s and the public discussion it Ego States
elicited of the proper balance between feeling and thought. Parent: caring, protective, critical, telling off
❖ Debates as to the relative importance and rationality of emotion Child: excitable, curious, petulant, genuinely friendly
and cognition were carried on within modem psychology and Adult: logical, rational, neutral, problem- solving
philosophy (DeSousa, 1987; Nussbaum, 2001)
Parent, Child, Adult
Theory of Emotional Intelligence - The term emotional intelligence 1. Parent: collection of recordings of external events experienced as
itself was used in the 1960s in an incidental fashion in literary a child – be nice to others, sit properly at the table, don’t tell lies.
criticism (Van Ghent, 1961) and psychiatry (Leuner, 1966).
2. Child: recordings of internal events associated with external
To address the concept of El seriously, one must understand events experienced as a child – emotions and feelings – the horse
something about both intelligence and emotion. made me feel scared, the car journey made me feel sick.
Intelligence - The study and measurement of El has its roots in the 3. Adult: weighs up both experiences and emotions from Parent and
work of such psychometric pioneers as Binet, Thorndike, and Child to come to conclusions about the world – I saw the dog bite
Wechsler, among (Fancher, 1985). the postman so I’m not going to pat that dog.
→ Intelligence can be viewed as representing, primarily, the capacity Ego States in a Nutshell
to carry out abstract thought, as well as the general ability to learn Parent: Taught concepts (external)
and adapt to the environment (Sternberg & Detterman, 1986; Child: Felt concepts (internal)
Terman, 1921; Wechsler, 1997). Adult: Learnt concepts (observed and reasoned)
Dealing With Emails: Time Structuring in Transactional Analysis
Take your time in replying It is the kind of communication that people use in day-to-day while
Break it down - find the Adult performing various strokes with many people in their lives.
Ask other people how they would respond This content varies from person to person. Several factors are
Be careful not to misinterpret the email - cultural differences / involved in time structuring, such as environment, education,
CAP LOCK SHOUTING character, and how to acquire strokes so far.
There isn't a font called Sarcastica
Six Categories of Time Structuring
Dealing With Face-To-Face Conflict:
Own up to a mistake if you made one--apologies go further than 1. Withdrawal- Fancying alone, drinking alone, not having any
arguing relationship with others. In other words, it intercepts strokes with other
If relevant, go find a quiet place to have the conversation so it's not people. Although it is not psychologically hurt by strokes from others,
in the middle of the office there may be behavior problems and/or physical symptoms.
Ask your colleague to take a seat (this changes the body language
and the dynamic of the confrontation) 2. Ceremony- Simple form of engagement, such as regular greetings
Use silence and let them talk (show you're listening) with others. It is an easy and safe way to get a stroke from outside
Make notes of what's being said without deep relationship from other people. However, the degrees of
Find the Adult--this is very hard as the compulsion is to react and the stroke are low.
to defend but remember that solving the problem is the priority
3. Activity- Involvement with superiors and subordinates for those who
Conclusion work outside. Housekeeping charge includes information exchange
Be aware of your ego states and those of others with local people. Each activity has a specific purpose associated with
Identify the right time to use / respond to / ignore certain ego states exchanges stroke.
Find the Adult and respond to the Adult in difficult situations
4. Chat- Light conversation without purpose or productivity for
Chapter 4.3-Analysis of Strokes and Life Position workplace and community. It has a distraction and stress relief effect,
low risk, superficial and light stroke exchange.
Transactional Analysis (TA) is the theory of personality,
communication and treatment system, which was founded by Berne 5. Psychological Game- Exchange of words repeated under certain
in the 1950s. One of the purposes of TA is to control emotions, conditions. In addition to superficial language interactions, negative
thoughts, and actions by noticing the ego state at any time. emotions always exist in “backward exchanges”. With repeated
psychological conflicts, unpleasant feelings and endings are
Analysis of Strokes - People always have certain relationship with characteristic.
others. In the transactional analysis, its behavior has been called a
‘stroke’. 6. Friendship- Ideal exchange pattern in TA. It is mutual affirmation
People are growing up with various process and situation since with trust and respect each other. There are various patterns of love,
they were born. In other words, relationship with parents in infancy, and such as love emotions with young couple, affection between married
interaction with people during child could make the foundation of couple, compassion of parents to children.
communication ability.
After that, important relationship would be formed during Physical Mental Conditional Unconditional
adolescence for school classmates and various people in extra- Direct Indirect Behavior/ Presence/
curriculum social activities. Attitude Character
Positive Strokes - People can grow up through various experience and Positive pat the head, good job,
listen to the nice guy, I love
acquire strokes in any opportunity. Among them, there are positive Stroke hold hands, brave
talk, praise you, happy with
strokes, such as love, praise, evaluation, reward and so on. hold behavior,
prize you
shoulders thank for work
Through these experiences children grow up with much
affection and care from their parents. Furthermore, many adults can
live everyday associated with evaluation and remuneration from the You must
Negative let’s divorce, leave
people around them. Clap, pinch, Scold despise study, you
Stroke the company, let
thrust away frown broke again,
him disappear
bad attitude
Negative Strokes - On the other hand, there are negative strokes, such
as anger, rebuke, accusation and so on. Some people live on negative
strokes as if food nourishments. Chapter 4.4-Developing EQ and SQ
For example, there are cases as follows: a child is scolded
because of mischief, a young person is accused of doing bad affairs, an Working with Emotional and Social Intelligence
adult is despised by intentional tampering. Such a person has Emotional intelligence or EQ is increasingly becoming a popular
continued such a negative stroke with accumulation of various strokes skill to have in the professional world.
since childhood. Emotional Competence is a learned capability based on
In the transactional analysis, the word ‘stroke’ means and emotional intelligence that results in outstanding performance at
includes several key words, such as attachment, intimacy, warmth, work.
tender loving care, need to belong, contact, closeness, Our emotional intelligence determines our potential for learning
relationships, social support, and love. Berne proposed that not only the practical skills that are based on its five elements: self-
positive stimulation, but also negative painful stimulation might be awareness, motivation, self-regulation, empathy, and adeptness
instrumental in maintaining health. in relationships.
Emotional Competence ➢ Motivation (Commitment) - People with this competence:
Our emotional competence, on the other hand, shows how much Readily make sacrifices to meet larger organizational goal
of that potential we have translated into on-the-job capabilities. Find a sense of purpose in the larger missions
For instance, being good at serving customers is an emotional Use the group’s core values in making decisions and
competence based on empathy. clarifying choices
Likewise, trustworthiness is a competence based on self- Actively seek out opportunities to fulfill the group’s mission.
regulation, or handling impulses and emotions well. Both
customer service and trustworthiness are competencies that can 4. Empathy - Sensing what others feel without their saying so
make people outstanding in their work. captures the essence of empathy.
Simply being high in emotional intelligence does not guarantee a Others rarely tell us in words what they feel; instead, they tell
person will have learned the emotional competencies that matter us in their tone of voice, facial expression, or other nonverbal
for work; it means only that they have excellent potential to learn ways.
them. The ability to sense these subtle communications builds on
more basic competencies, particularly self-awareness and
Enhancing One’s Emotional Intelligence self-control.
Empathy is our social radar.
1. Emotional Awareness: Recognizing One’s Emotions and Their Lacking such sensitivity, people are “off.”
Feelings- People with this competence: Being emotionally tone-deaf leads to social awkwardness,
Know which emotions they are feeling and why whether from misconstruing feelings or through a
Realize the links between their feelings and what they mechanical, out-of-tune bluntness or indifference that
think, do and speak destroys rapport.
Recognize how their feelings affect their performance One form this lack of empathy can take is responding to other
Have a guiding awareness of their values and goals people as stereotypes rather than as the unique individuals
that they are.
➢ Accurate Self-Assessment - People with the ability to self-
assess are: ➢ Empathy (Understanding Others) - People with this
Aware of their strengths and weaknesses competence:
Reflective, learning from experience Are attentive to emotional cues and listen well
Open to candid feedback, new perspectives, Show sensitivity and understand others’ perspectives
continuous learning, and self-development Help out based on understanding other people’s needs
Able to show a sense of humor and perspective about and feelings
themselves
➢ Empathy (The Art of Listening) - Listening well and deeply
➢ Self-Confidence - People with this competence: means going beyond what is said by asking questions, restating
Present themselves with self-assurance; have in one’s own words what you hear to be sure you understand.
“presence” This is “active” listening. A mark of having truly heard
Can voice views that are unpopular and go out on a limb someone else is to respond appropriately, even if that
for what is right means making some change in what you do.
Are decisive, able to make sound decisions despite
uncertainties and pressures. 5. Adeptness in Relationships
2. Self-Regulation means managing impulse as well as distressing ➢ Developing Others - People with this competence:
feelings. Acknowledge and reward people’s strengths and
accomplishments
Handling impulse and dealing with upsets – are at the core of five Offer useful feedback and identify people’s needs for future
emotional competencies: growth
1. Self-control: Managing disruptive emotions and impulses Mentor, give timely coaching, and offer assignments that
effectively challenge and foster a person’s skills.
2. Trustworthiness: Displaying honesty and integrity
3. Conscientiousness: Dependability and responsibility in ➢ Influence - People with this competence:
fulfilling obligations Are skilled at winning people over
4. Adaptability: Flexibility in handling change and challenges Fine-tune presentations to appeal to the listener
5. Innovation: Being open to novel ideas, approaches, and new Use complex strategies like indirect influence to build
information. consensus and support
Orchestrate dramatic events to effectively make a point
3. Motivation
➢ Motivation (Achievement Drive) - People with this ➢ Communication: Listening Openly and Sending Convincing
competence: Messages - People with this competence:
Are results oriented, with a high drive to meet their Are effective in give-and take, registering emotional cues in
objectives and standards attuning their message
Set challenging goals and take calculated risks Deal with difficult issues straightforwardly
Pursue information to reduce uncertainty and find ways Listen well, seek mutual understanding, and welcome
to do better sharing of information fully
Learn how to improve their performance Foster open communication and stay receptive to bad news
as well as good
➢ Conflict Management: Negotiating and Resolving
Disagreements - People with this competence:
Handle difficult people and tense situations with diplomacy
and tact
Spot potential conflict, bring disagreements into the open,
and help deescalate
Encourage debate and open discussion
Orchestrate win-win solutions
Conclusion
✓ Emotional intelligence can be learned. Individually, we can
add these skills to our tool kit for survival at a time when job
stability seems like a quaint oxymoron.
✓ For businesses of all kinds, the fact that emotional
competencies can be assessed and improved suggests
another area in which performance – and so competitiveness
– can be upgraded.
✓ What’s needed amounts to an emotional competence tune-
up for the corporation.