Professional Documents
Culture Documents
1. Learning to get along with friends of To learn to look upon girls as women and boys
as men; to become an adult among adults; to
both sexes.
learn to work with others for a common
purpose, disregarding personal feelings; to
lead without dominating.
2. Accepting one's physical body and
To accept one's body; to keep it healthy
keeping it healthy. through good nutrition, exercise, disease
prevention, and other health practices.
To develop affection for parents without
3. Becoming more self-sufficient.
dependence upon them; to develop respect for
older adults without dependence upon them.
4. Making decisions about marriage To explore attitudes toward family life and
having children; to acquire the knowledge
and family life.
necessary for home management and, if
desired, child rearing.
●Connection: Love
●Behavior Control: Limit
●Respect for Individuality: Respect
●Modeling of Appropriate Behavior: Model
●Provision and Protection: Provide
LOVE & CONNECT
The idea that children have the right to adequate food, clothing, shelter, and healthcare—
and that parents have a responsibility to provide or advocate for these basic needs—is
widely shared across cultures. Less widely recognized is the concept that adolescents
also need parents to help provide “social capital,” seeking out resources, guidance,
training, and support within the community that will prepare the child to enter a
widening world.
For parents, the challenge is to accomplish these tasks in the face of barriers such as
family poverty, racism, oppression, unemployment, domestic violence, and a lack of
community resources. It helps for parents to collaborate with teens in addressing the
problems they face. Mentoring also can be a significant means of providing adult
support, guidance, and training.
These strategies can be effective across a broad range of family circumstances.