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Destructive
How can or Constructive?
we manageDes the energy of conflict?
Resolving
Conflict
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Destructive Constructive
Disagreement about ideas
Disagreement about and approaches
personality and
character Issue focused
Attacks individuals Respects differences tries to
resolve with hurting personal
Resolving Personal antagonism
sentiments
fueled by difference of
Conflict opinion Constructive and ensures
Destructive to group group performance and
progress and cohesion cohesion
Characteristic of low Characteristic of High
performers performers
Escalating Eliminating
Showing anger, threatening Being calm and collected
Hitting, throwing things Keeping anger in control
Shouting, Yelling Avoiding personal attacks
Escalating
Using abusive words Agreeing to the extent
Eliminating Insulting, ridiculing possible
conflicts? Being rigid & refusing to Being flexible and willing to
change or compromise change and compromise
Demanding Emphasising
SOLUTION NEED
Sister: (to her brother Sister: Hey guys!
who is playing music Nice Music! I need a
loudly and dancing with
his friends) Monkeys! quite atmosphere
Can’t you go out and because I am
Other ways of jump and babble on preparing for my
trees? I need a peaceful exam tomorrow . . .
Resolving atmosphere.
Conflicts Brother (and friends):
Brother: You goose, we We will leave soon
are just freaking out,
you can find a peaceful and you can work in
place yourself! peace!
Emphasising NEED instead of Demanding SOLUTION
Demanding Emphasising
SOLUTION NEED
Wife: To do my Yoga I
Wife: (to her husband) I need a calm place.
like it calm. Can’t you Husband: (1) OK I will
switch off the TV and do switch off the TV and
something meaningful?
Other ways of read that novel. (2) OK.
Husband: But, my I will use the Bluetooth
Resolving favourite program is headphone (3) I will
Conflicts going on, it will take just leaving for jogging
time. Why don’t you go now. (4) Never mind, I
upstairs? can watch the program
on the internet later!
Intergroups
Intragroups
Interpersonal
Intra Personal
Toughest conflict resolution skills are
needed for dealing with
intra-personal ones!
Stress is
Mental pressure,
emotional worry,
physical strain caused
due to imbalance
between situational
demands and
individual’s ability to
handle it.
What is stress?
Imagine a situation that you will have to reach the airport
in an hour. But before that you need to sign on 50 files,
talk to 10 people, wait for someone to finish a task, on the
way your car is moving slowly in the traffic jam . ..
meanwhile, your wife is unwell and wants to know whether
you have some time to go with her to the hospital.
Do only human beings get stressed?
Do only certain types of human beings get stressed?