In exploring the roles of Vietnamese and Western mothers, we uncover both shared traits

and notable distinctions shaped by cultural contexts. The diverse landscape of motherhood,
influenced by history and societal norms, provides insight into unique parenting styles. Despite a
common commitment to nurturing, differences emerge in cultural influences, communication,
and attitudes toward individuality. While both Vietnamese and Western mothers share a
commitment to nurturing their children, their distinct parenting styles differ in cultural
influences, communication methods, and attitudes toward individuality, showcasing the diversity
of maternal experiences worldwide.

To begin with, both Vietnamese and Western mothers share a deep love and devotion for
their children. Regardless of cultural differences, mothers always prioritize the well-being and
happiness of their offspring. To illustrate, Vietnamese mothers are known for their selflessness
and willingness to make sacrifices for their children. Nguyen Thi Yen (Ha Noi) is a typical
example. During her pregnancy, she was diagnosed with terminal nasal cavity cancer by doctors.
They advised her to abort the fetus to save her own life. However, she decided to sacrifice
herself so that the baby could be born. At the same time, Einstein’s mother is an example. When
Einstein was expelled from school for asking what were assumed foolish questions by his
teacher and peers. His mother, a teacher herself, educated Einstein until he grew up.

In contrast, there are differences between Vietnamese mothers and Western mothers.
Vietnamese mothers communicate with their children in a more direct and authoritative manner,
requiring compliance and attention to regulations. Communication may become more formal and
hierarchical, with less focus on open debate or negotiation. However, in Western, mothers instill
in their children free communication and independence. They may communicate in a more
democratic and collaborative manner, engaging their children in decision-making and
encouraging them to share their thoughts and feelings.

Additionally, on one hand, Vietnamese mothers believe that academic achievement

reflects successful parenting so they strongly emphasize education as a means to secure a
successful career. Vietnamese culture traditionally places a high value on academic success.
Parents, including mothers, often have strong expectations for their children to excel in school
and achieve high grades. On the other hand, Western mothers encourage children to pursue their
interests and recognize the importance of non-academic activities for personal growth. They
acknowledge that diverse experiences contribute to a well-rounded education, and they
understand that achievements alone do not assess the true value of an individual. Western
educational expectations often include a focus on holistic development, emphasizing not only
academic success but also the development of creativity, critical thinking, and social skills.

In conclusion, while each country has its distinct education system and perspectives,
mothers universally share an unconditional love for their children. The shaping of similar and
different ideologies depends on circumstances and worldviews.