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Each time you encourage your employees, you are a leader. “Eat healthier” becomes “eat one piece of fruit” or “eat two bites of raw spinach before dinner.” “Work on my novel” becomes “write one sentence.” “Wake up early” becomes “wake up 5 minutes earlier.” “Save more money” becomes “save $5 per month.” “Meditate every morning” becomes “meditate for 60 seconds.” “Be more productive” becomes “focus on one task with no distractions for two minutes.” “Walk 10,000 steps each day” becomes “Put on my shoes.” “Keep the house tidy” becomes “put one item of dirty clothing in the laundry.” “Be a better partner” becomes “make my partner a cup of coffee every morning.” “Get straight A’s” becomes “set my books out on the desk when I get home.” “Read before bed each night” becomes “Read one page.” “Do thirty minutes of yoga” becomes “Take out my yoga mat.” “Study for class” becomes “Open my notes.” “Fold the laundry” becomes “Fold one pair of socks.” “Runeasy. very three Your miles”ultimate becomes “Tie my ambition running might shoes.” be to lose 100 pounds, but your gateway habit is to eat one bite of spinach at dinner. per day is very easy. 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If you If you want want to to drink remember more to sendfill water, more up athank-you few waternotes, bottleskeep eacha morning stack of and stationery on your place them desk. in common locations aroundBy to your lifestyle. thecomparison, house. if the gym is off the path of your normal commute—even by just a few blocks—now you’re like Headspace – ongoing “out of your the homebar way” of your to getrather phone, there. than filling it with distractions like email or social media. Put together a home gym setup. That way, even if you don’t have time to get a full workout at the gym, you can still do a few sets at home. Use automation: Get healthy meal kits delivered to your door with a service like Green Chef or Hello Fresh. Clear trip to your work wipe the store, spacedown of distractions thatafter the counters will take you off-task. you finish each meal, and put dishes in the dishwasher after eating. Want to Want to be wake up organized more early? Remove the TV fromLay and productive? theout bedroom and charge your notebook your phone or planner alongacross the room. with your favorite pen to write a to-do list as you sip your coffee every morning. Want to encourage your employees to think more creatively in meetings? Set up the conference room to be bright, spacious, and free from distractions. Want to Want to encourage meditate more? your Set up a to children comfortable, read more?quiet Helpplace them in yourahome make where reading nookyou practice in their meditation. bedroom with some comfy pillows and plenty of age-appropriate reading material. Want to paint more? Set up your easel, paints, and brushes beforehand so you can walk in and get straight to work. Want to sleep better and develop a wind-down routine? Move your phone charger out of the bedroom and place a white Want to draw noise more?machine, Put your your favorite pencils, pens,candle, and aand notebooks, couple of books drawing toolson onyour nightstand. top of your desk, within easy reach. Want to Want to improve exercise?your Setdiet? out your Chopworkout clothes, up a ton shoes, of fruits gym bag, and and vegetables water bottle on weekends ahead and packofthem time.in containers, so you have easy access to healthy, ready-to-eat options during the week. Step on the treadmill, open up your favorite book or turn on your preferred show on Netflix on your phone. Only turn on your favorite TV show while you’re folding laundry. Only listen actually findtoityour favorite easier podcast to make when healthy you’re choices thevacuuming rest of theor running day or cooking because dinnermy junk cravings. … I've satisfied At this rate, my first draft should be done just as I run out of soda.” Only watch your favorite TV show when you’re preparing healthy meals for the week. Only go to the movies after you have contributed to your monthly savings goal. Only use social media after you’ve meditated for 60 seconds. Only allow yourself to eat your favorite candy when you sit down to work on your book. Only for read lover a food tabloids likeor watch me. reality the By asking shows when you’re restaurant at the to divide mygym. meal, my future calories are being decided ahead of time. Remove your television from your bedroom to lock in better sleep habits. Delete games and social media apps on your phone to lock in better focus habits. Enrolla.m. 5:55 in an automatic each savings morning. And ifplan and set he he doesn’t, up has automatic a tweetbill pay to lock in automatically better finance scheduled habits. that says, “It’s 6:10 and I’m not up because I’m lazy! Reply to this for $5 via PayPal (limit 5), assuming my alarm didn’t malfunction.” Pay for exercise classes in advance to increase the likelihood you’ll show up to “get your money’s worth.” Use a you When website go toblocker to lock the doctor you out always or dentist, of distracting websites. schedule Or, appointment your next delete distracting beforeapps youoff yourNow leave. phone. it’s on your calendar. Leave your phone at home when you’re going to an important meeting or going to catch up with a friend or loved one so it can’t distract you. Hostan Use a weekly gathering automated of friends savings programsothat you’re forced takes to tidy money fromup at least your once and paycheck per week. moves it to a separate account every month. You can You can voluntarily reduce overeating byadded ask to be purchasing to the food in individual banned packages list at casinos rather poker and online than insites bulktosize. prevent future gambling sprees. I’ve heard of athletes who have to “make weight” for a competition choosing to leave their wallets at home during the week before weigh-in so they won’t be tempted to buy fast food. If you’re If you’re excited feeling motivated about the to get in shape, business schedule you want to start,a email yoga session and pay ahead an entrepreneur of time. you respect and set up a consulting call. Schedule a date night at a nice restaurant. Donate to a cause you’re passionate about. Book a massage. Get a pedicure or manicure. Cook a nice meal for yourself. Get a new haircut. Take a weekend trip to somewhere new. Take a Friday afternoon off work. Buy a new jacket. Go for a walk in the woods. Stop by the pet store and pet a dog. Take a bubble bath. Plan a cozy afternoon with a book and your favorite candle. Go to a movie with a friend (or solo). Take a nap. Bake a cake. Go to a concert or a sporting event. Add a few Hoping bucks to do oneto a splurge hundred fund, which pushups you can each day? use Start to spend with on whatever ten paper you want. clips and move one over each time you drop down and do a set of ten throughout the day. Need to send twenty-five sales emails every day? Start with twenty-five paper clips and toss one to the other sideif each Not sure you’retime youyour taking press Send. medication three times per day? Set three paper clips out and flip one into the bin each time you swallow your pills. One woman tracked how many pages of her book manuscript she wrote each day by adding a hairpin to a container after finishing each page. Another man tracked each set of push-ups by adding marbles to a jar. A successful stock broker used paper clips to track his sales calls. accomplishment every 15 minutes while continuing to work on the large task of writing a book. Each small win and fed her his motivation doctor realizedand thedesire to keep headaches working. arose about one week before her menstrual cycle began. They changed her medication to adjust her hormone levels and the headaches vanished immediately. If you’re If you’re surrounded surrounded by by productive artists, you’re andmore likelycoworkers, efficient to believe you’re it’s reasonable to create more likely every to develop day. time-management habits that help you become more productive and efficient too. If you’re surrounded by readers, you’re more likely to consider reading to be a common habit. If you are surrounded by fit people, you’re more likely to consider working out to be a common habit. If your If you’rechild surrounded by people is surrounded who recycle, by friends you’re who value more and studying likelygetting to startgood recycling too.he or she will likely grades, develop studious habits too. If you’re The surrounded comedian by jazz Margaret Cholovers, writes you’re a joke more likely or song to believe every day. Sheit’sdoes reasonable to play the “song jazz a day” every day. challenge with a friend, which helps them both stay accountable. 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