The author was a victim of bullying in school. They felt frustrated that their classmates did nothing to help and may have encouraged the bully's behavior. The bully spread rumors about the author and told others not to be friends with them. However, the author realized that you cannot control how others treat you, even if you are nice, and some people may dislike you regardless. Though an unpleasant experience, the author learned from it and became stronger, and advises focusing on self-improvement rather than dwelling on others' unkind behavior.
The author was a victim of bullying in school. They felt frustrated that their classmates did nothing to help and may have encouraged the bully's behavior. The bully spread rumors about the author and told others not to be friends with them. However, the author realized that you cannot control how others treat you, even if you are nice, and some people may dislike you regardless. Though an unpleasant experience, the author learned from it and became stronger, and advises focusing on self-improvement rather than dwelling on others' unkind behavior.
The author was a victim of bullying in school. They felt frustrated that their classmates did nothing to help and may have encouraged the bully's behavior. The bully spread rumors about the author and told others not to be friends with them. However, the author realized that you cannot control how others treat you, even if you are nice, and some people may dislike you regardless. Though an unpleasant experience, the author learned from it and became stronger, and advises focusing on self-improvement rather than dwelling on others' unkind behavior.
at first because all my classmates are bystanders, they did nothing but make me feel more depressed and hurt. I even think that they all are reinforcers. What the bully did to me was not only spreading rumors about myself, but also calling others to not be friends with me. That being the case, I came over it and you may ask why. The main reason is that I realized and understood that people are not meant to treat you as how you treat them, even if you treat them in a very nice and polite way, they can still find any point to hate you if they don’t have a good or favorable first impression on you. I won’t say this is a bad experience although it is unpleasant, it is an invaluable one. I learnt a lot from this case and became a stronger and tougher person. If I was you, I wouldn't waste my time feeling sorrowful or dejected. You weren’t born yesterday and you should know that you can’t control others ongoing unkind behaviour. Enhance and improve your psychological quality by focusing on yourself instead!