I decided to prove a point to him that if you want to become well-known in your field, to Get Slightly Famous,

then you have to accept that your life is going to become much more public. Now, I'm no private detective, and
definitely not a hacker, but within five minutes, I knew his address, his phone number, his approximate age, his
income bracket, two former employers, the position he held at them, and his bosses' names there.
Have you typed your phone number into Google lately? Odds are it produces a map to your house. Or your
name and city? Unless you're unlisted (and have been for some time), it produces your phone number, address,
and a map. Now, you can request that this information be removed from Google, but that same information is
still available on dozens and dozens of other sites, each of whom has to be contacted individually. If you have
your own web site, your address, e-mail, and phone number most likely available to the general public. Once
they've got your address, many local property tax authorities have all their records online, and people can find
out who owns the property you live in.
And that's just if you haven't tried to be in the public eye. If you've been prominent in your field, your name is
probably scattered across dozens, if not hundreds, or even thousands of Web sites. Now, maybe not a lot of
personal information is in those references, but the names of your former employers, college, and even high
school very likely are. Combine that with the information above, and you can see that unless you've been a
hermit, your life is already probably more public than you realize.
Given this, you have three possible choices:
1. Don't worry about it at all.
2. Do everything you possibly can to protect your privacy.
3. Strike some sort of sensible balance in which you take reasonable, low-effort precautions and just get
comfortable with the rest of it.

I choose option (3). For me, one of the keys to making peace with this is to realize that none of this information
really ever was private in the first place - it just took a lot more work to make the connections. Reverse
telephone books were around for years befor the popularity of personal computers. CD-ROMs with that
capability were first published in the late 80's, shortly after the invention of the CD-ROM. Other records have
been available at the courthouse or the public library for anyone so inclined to go find it.