You know, all this approaching without outcome,

this is great and all, but you know, Jeff,

I wanna get laid.
What is this doing for me?
The thing is, we realize it's simply carrying you
towards a place of social momentum.
Every approach you do on a given evening,
or day, as the case may be,
is carrying you towards a place of social momentum.
So that's the first stage of the night,
is social mingling time.
Second stage of the night
is kind of what we call trench time.
And that's from, I guess from here,
that would probably be from like midnight,
or 12.30 to like, you know, 2.30 or something,
maybe three.
And that's where you're just in there fucking,
like just banging, you know,
you're just in there fucking trading the blows,
like going hard.
Now you're starting to escalate super hard.
Well, we escalate super hard from the beginning,
on the old ladies, Patrick's and dudes.
But you start like really trying to,
you start making an active effort to pull.
And then the third stage of the night
is what we call the twilight zone.
And that's kind of like where the club
started to clear out.
Everyone's shit faced.
And kind of the scores are getting settled.
You might be doing a lot of street game.
And that's when we just go utter,
just fucking completely aggressive.
You know, there's very little finesse for me
at that point, at least.
Like when twilight zone hits, this is my opener.
Oh my God.
You are amazing.
I love you.
Hug, go for immediate make out.
And I will do this like 50 times in a row.
Like boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
Because they're shit faced and most likely
one's gonna be like, ah, ah, let's go, boom.
Okay.
So those are kind of the three stages of the night.
The great thing about social momentum is this.
And the concept of it is this.
The more that you attain this state of social momentum,
and this is kind of aimed more towards the newer guys.
The more you attain the state of social momentum,
the more comfortable you will feel
at the beginning of the night when you don't have it.
Why do you think this is?
Because you know you'll get it?
Yeah, because you simply know that it's a simple matter
of doing the approaches.
It's not like, it's not some unknown variable.
You know, oh yeah, I just have to go through
and perform the right actions, okay?
And it'll happen.
Now the thing is, dude, you know,
I have this saying that I've,
it's a brilliant saying, action is always the answer.
If I'm sitting in the club and I'm feeling like,
shit, what's the answer?
Action is always the answer.
Because I'll get guys on boot camp who come up
and they're like, Jeff, I'm having a state crash.
What do I do?
Duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, blah, blah, blah.
But I just feel like this, man.
I just feel, duh, duh, duh, duh.
I'm like, I'll just look at them.
I'll be like, why are you trying to analyze a state crash?
You think that's gonna help you?
Like sitting there and analyzing it?
In fact, I won't even say this to them.
You know what I'll say to them?
They'll be like, Jeff, I'm having a state crash.
I'll be like, oh, what?
Ha, ha, suck my dick.
Ha, ha, ha, ha, come here, bruh.
Like start jumping around with them and shit
and just like rip some girls over and throw them out.
Because that, again, analyzing it would simply
dig you deeper into the hole.
The thing is you take action.
And the thing is instructors will have state crash
all the time at various points through the night.