THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES

Profile

Instructions: This profiling system, a modified version of that which was developed by
Jim Toole in coooperation with Gary Chapman, will asist you in discovering your primary love
language. For those who already know their love language, the profile will serve as a confirmation.
For those not quite sure which love language is their primary one, the profile will bring clarification.

You will be presented with 30 pairs of statements. Read each pair with this question in mind:
Which of these would I prefer to receive from my significant other?
You may enjoy both expressions of love, but if you could only have one, which would you choose?
After you have made your choice, encircle the X at the end of the statement. Be sure to encircle
only one X for each set of statements.

A B C D E

1. I like it when you send me love notes. X

I like being hugged. X

2. I enjoy just being with you. X

I feel loved when I am given practical help. X

3. I like receiving gifts from you. X

I enjoy taking long walks with you. X

4. I feel cared for when things are done to make me at ease. X

I especially enjoy getting a massage from you. X

5. I feel loved when you hold me in your arms. X

I feel special when you bring me tokens from your trips. X

6. I like to go places with you. X

I like holding hands with you. X

7. Material signs of thoughtfulness are important to me. X

I feel important when you say that you like me. X

8. I like to sit close to you. X

I like it when you tell me that I look good. X

9. I like to go out on a date with you. X

I like it when you buy me my favorite cologne/perfume. X

10. Your words of appreciation are important to me. X

I know you care when you do errands for me. X

11. I enjoy working with you. X

I am touched by your kind remarks for me. X

12. Actions speak louder than words for me. X

I feel whole when you embrace me. X

13. I try to avoid your criticisms. X

I treasure the cards you sent me. X

14. I feel close when share with me your day. X

I love it when you kiss me. X

Sub-total scores for this page:

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 THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES
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A B C D E
15. I feel important when you praise me. X
I feel loved when you go out of your way to help me. X

16. I like you stroking my hair when you pass my chair. X

I feel cared for when you listen to me sympathetically. X

17. I like it when you help me with the household chores. X

I feel special when you bring me flowers. X

18. I it when you verbalize your approval of what I do. X

I feel good when you try to understand how I feel. X

19. I feel secure whenever you hold me closely. X

I like it when you bring the kids out so I can rest. X

20. I appreciate it when you bring our clothes to the laundry. X

I liked it when you gave me a CD of my favorite singer. X

21. I really enjoy your undivided attention. X

I appreciate your bringing my PC to the repair shop. X

22. I felt loved when surprised me with a party on my b-day. X

I feel secure when you tell me you love me everyday. X

23. I appreciate it when you bought me a new book. X

I liked it when you accompanied my Dad to the doctor. X

24. I appreciate your not interrupting me when I talk. X

I like it when you give me my favorite drink. X

25. I like it when you cook for me my favorite food. X

I enjoy vacationing with you. X

26. I like it when you squeeze my hand. X

Surprising me with little gifts excite me. X

27. I like to be told that you I'm okay. X

I like it when we discuss things together. X

28. I cherish the very first gift you gave me. X

It feels good when you caress me. X

29. I feel supported when you help me get ready for work. X
I feel respected whenever you say "Thank you." to me. X

30. I feel loved when you give me a back rub. X

I like it when you encourage me whenever I feel insecure X

Sub-total scores for this page:

Grand total:
A = Words of Affirmation; B = Quality Time; C = Receiving Gifts; D = Acts of Service; E = Physical Touch

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