I am Amerry-gale San Mateo Echavari, I was born on
February 05, 2003 at Pacac Grande Amulung Cagayan. I am the second child of my mom and dad. My mom is Loriebelle San Mateo Echavari while my dad Arnel Salud Battuelo.Their first child is Mark Arnel Echavari Battuelo. You might get curious because my brother and I have different family names despite of having the same parents. Here is a simple explanation for that, our parents got separated when we were young because my father got into relationship with his mother’s laundress. As our aunt’s and neighbors said, I was 3 or 4 months old when that happened.the moment my mom decides to cut the ties with my dad was the moment my brother and I got separated.my mom decides not to put my dads family name to me since she was the only one who took care of me. Our dad get my brother to live with them to complete their family while I was left with my mom whom soon after left me to her parents to go to abroad in order to provide my needs. As I got older, I learned to live independently. I was at the 6th grade when I was chosen to compete and represent our school in a district competition which I have to go to another school. Every contestants before attended the event together with their parents while I am only with the assigned teacher. As a kid, I got a bit jealous but I think I got immune already so as time goes by I just felt nothing every time I had to compete without my parents support.it was enough for me that they support me financially since its the only way for me to survive. Thankfully, I survived the primary school and graduated at Pacac Grande - Tana, Elementary School. Then, I took another step in learning and enrolled at Pacac Grande, National High School. Nothing changes, I stepped on the stage and grabbed hands of my classmates parents whom I barely know just to have a so called parent to be with me whenever my name was called for an academic achievement. I graduated in Junior & Senior High school without even one sign of my parents in the assembly’s attendance sheet. Its normal for me to hear some insults like, brain is useless if no one is proud of it. And I just let it slip in their tongues and trigger them more for I am not just an academic awardee but also receive awards for having such a great service in the community. Every achievements and knowledge seems to fade the moment I enter in the university I am enrolled right now. Not because of teachers capability to teach but because of my capability to learn. Maybe I just got used to enter in classrooms, sat in my chair and read the books or anything written in my notes. But now, it seems like I got locked in my comfort zone. In the four corners of this room whom witnessed my breakdowns, witnessed how I cried, how I hurt myself from overthinking, how I blamed myself for being not old enough to stop the separation of my parents, for telling how cruel the world for giving me such a catastrophe at my very young age.I was locked in the room which serves as my comfort zone but also the place which reminds me how deem and dull the life I had. It was 5th of February year 2021 when I celebrated my 18th birthday. For others its a very special occasion but for me its just a time to gather and let others know that I am an official lady or woman, which might result to more expectations and more disappointments. I celebrated it with my mom and some relatives. Then after that, no more important events happen. Every day is a normal day for me. Not until I had given the opportunity to be elected as SK kagawad, became an officer of the three youth organizations and lead the youth in different activities of our community. I was also employed as a SPES Beneficiary (Special Program of Employment for Students). I thought the moment I entered the world of legality would give more struggles and ups and downs. But never thought that the very moment I stepped on this legal world was the start of opportunities and lessons. Instead of staying in my room for entirety, I had given the chance to mingle with youth like me to enlighten them in the world of darkness. Despite of the catastrophe’s that I had faced in the past 19 years, it taught me the passion and the desire to become a lawyer. To give guidance to the children like me who lived to be a victim of adultery. Having this dream might lessen my pain and might helped those innocent minds to get through the dilemma’s they are facing because of rudeness acts of their parents. I lived living the consequences of my dad’s mistake. Now, I am taking up Bachelor of Science in legal Management at Cagayan State University-Andrews Campus. To pursue my dream and my goal in life.