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Anushka Joshi
Student Id- 1202724
Friday, 8th April 2022
Social media plays an integral role in deteriorating women's mental health by
promoting unrealistic beauty myths. Just a coin, social media has two sides, averse and
buoyant. Some influencers are trying their best to change the social stigma and reverse
people's perspectives by promoting self-love. Howsoever, we can not look through the actual
lives of the models and television personalities. This only results in comparing our lives with
discourage people from taking beauty tests on women. Since this film was significantly
marketed, it must have touched thousands of other people like me. The film walks us through
the lives of five women in the matchmaking process. Their so-called "flaws" became the
subject of mockery for the Groom's family. These women were humiliated for not being
Mahek is a plus-size female who can be seen getting ready for her matchmaking
ceremony. When she was almost done, one of her relatives walked over and mocked her
mother since her "fat" was visible. This mockery instantly ruins the smile on Mahek's face as
she feels humiliated. The second case is of Noor, who has dusty skin. When she comes out to
meet the Groom and his family, the Groom's mother ridicules her because of her skin tone.
The following story is about Rajeshwari, who is petite. The Groom's mother mocks her by
stating that she would probably need a ladder to talk to her son. This comment on
Rajeshwari's height leaves her father appalled and helpless. The fourth story is about Hemali,
who is curly-haired. Her future sister-in-law jokingly refers to her hair as "noodles." The fifth
story is about Deeksha, who has a mark on her face. A lady can be heard pitying her for
The commercial, which criticizes the practice of shaming brides, tries to emphasize
that such criticism is neither helpful nor conducive to healthy transformation. To be deemed
appropriate, women are expected to whirl, serve tea, sing, and perform a variety of other
things in front of in-laws. This test includes a significant portion of beauty. We are supposed
to be tall, fair-skinned, scar-free, and possess various other physical characteristics over
which we have no influence. A bride doesn't appear to have the right to feel attractive or
enjoy her marriage unless she looks like Angelina Jolie or Anne Hathaway.
However, these ideologies got embedded in young minds because of the media. Technology
and Media are the culprits of this negative development of Beauty standards. In its true sense,
the word 'media' means "the main means of mass communication." The primary means of
media are presented to its viewers visually means that the viewer grasps the first knowledge
of the content through their eyes. This creates an opportunity of attracting viewership through
means which does not truly justify the need for media. A sharp rise in the existence of
"beauty standards" can be seen since the 1840s. That is when people started idealizing what
Naomi Wolf, in her book, "Beauty Myths," has made a remarkable comparison of
Charles Darwin's theory of "Survival of the fittest" with the Beauty myth of "Survival of the
most beautiful." Beauty has now become nothing but a competition. In the arranged marriage
process, the Groom keeps on meeting different women until he finds the perfect match. In
this short film, nobody has once questioned the flaws in the males. External appearance
The rhetorical question, "how much beauty is enough?" compels me to think that you
would never be completely satisfied no matter how much you gain. There will always be a
cell in your head that would shout for more. Moreover, launching a campaign like such is
ironic since Dove started with just "beauty bars." For more than one instance, Dove as a
brand has a history of racial advertising. The brand's message is admirable, yet the motives
look dubious. At the end of the commercial, a voiceover tells viewers to accept individuals
for who they are, and then "#Stop the beauty test" appears on the screen. In the last few years,
we have seen an ideological shift in the mindset of the people. People have now started to
accept reality and have begun praising body positivity. This realization that beauty is not just
about flaws will diminish the beauty myths. This short film would act as an eye-opener for
References
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEpTa2cMl_I