Module 04

Advice For The Cub At

Heart
No one can help their
feelings.
If you have willfully allowed
yourself to be packed up by
a cougar and is now in her
lair, there is nothing left to
do but make the most out
of your situation.
Consider these tips to
keep your relationship
sane:
Introduce Your Cougar To
Your Family
Don’t hide her in shame
for that will only feed
your family’s suspicions
and make her feel
resentful towards them.
The same goes when you
are out with your friends,
bring her along to
gatherings and never
make her feel left out.
Concentrate On Your
Relationship
It’s easy to be distracted
by people who are
whispering about you.
They can even have you
questioning your self-
worth.
Keep your chin up.
 People have a general
tendency to gossip and
criticize anyway so let
them be.
What is important is you
are with someone whose
company you enjoy
thoroughly.
Turning the whole public
scrutiny into a joke will
lessen the blow and will
be hilarious after awhile.
 Don’t Get Into A
Relationship Just For The
Fun Of It
Dating a cougar that you
are not into just to be
trendy is not cool.
You are only fooling
yourself and another
woman.
Being dishonest in a
relationship will
inevitably lead to
disaster.
 So unless you have a
spoken agreement to
keep things casual, don’t.
Breaking anyone’s heart,
not just a cougar’s, is
never easy.
Focus On Your Similarities
And Not On Your
Differences
 You are together with a
cougar because you share
something.
Be it a liking for dogs or
Indian food or a dislike
for country music.
Remember what brought
you together and nourish
it.
 Enjoy each other’s
company and realize that
you are lucky to have
found each other.
Learn As Much As You Can
From Your Cougar
 Even if you two don’t
eventually end up together,
know that older women are
very wise and always know
what they are talking about.
So stock up on what she
tells you, observe what
she does in the bedroom
and listen to her advice.
 These are valuable
lessons you can apply
when you do end up
wooing the woman that
you love.
 No matter what your
circumstances are in life, in
love or with the kind of
woman you are going out
with, remember that you
must think for yourself.
Only you know what will
truly make you happy.
And in the end, that is all
that truly matters.
8 Tips When Dating Older
Women:
Putting It All Together
 Age difference hardly
matters when the two
people in a relationship are
compatible and get on with
each other well.
 If you want to win the
affection of an older
woman, you have got to
show her that you have
more than your looks to
charm her with.
 Dating Tip #1
Show Some Maturity
Dating is a whole new
game when it comes to
older women.
 She’s ahead of you in
years and in experience
and it’s best to keep that
in mind.
She probably is finished
dealing with things that
you are still struggling to
come to terms with.
 Your older companion
doesn’t have time to deal
with little games that
younger women would
otherwise find charming.
Dating Tip #2
Be Confident
 You are probably dating a
successful and confident
woman and she will be
interested to know what you
want in the future and how
you’re planning to get there.
 She would want
somebody who has the
drive to succeed.
 Dating Tip #3
Know What You Want
Older women often know
where they want the
relationship to go.
If you agree with her, you
had better let her know.
Whether you’re ready to
commit or would want
more time, you have to
make a stand and be clear
about it.
 Dating Tip #4
Compromise And
Communicate
 Whatever kind of
relationship you are in
these two are the key
ingredients to make it
work and succeed.
 What age gap there is
between you becomes
irrelevant if you
understand each other.
 Dating Tip #5
Be Adventurous
 Remember that a lot of
older women are going
after younger guys because
they want to be introduced
to a world that is filled with
fun and energy.
 Take her out to your
usual hang out and don’t
hesitate to let her
experience things that
she’s new to.
Dating Tip #6
Indulge Her
So, you are her new boy
toy and she’s feeling
young again.
Let her relish that idea
and soak up the new
experience.
 You will be well
compensated and your
relationship will have a
bigger chance of
becoming a success.
 Dating Tip #7
Learn From The Best
Observe and learn.
She can give you valuable
insights on how to please
a woman, whether in the
physical aspect or
emotional aspect.
If your relationship is not
going to last, you will
have plenty of knowledge
to use going into the next
one.
 Dating Tip #8
Treat Her Like A Woman
 Even though she’s more
mature and doesn’t need
fussing over like young
women do, it doesn’t mean
you stop paying attention
to her needs.
 Like any women, your
date is looking for certain
qualities in you to give
her reasons to continue
with the relationship.
 Being in a relationship
with an older woman can
be a fascinating
experience.
There is so much to learn
and experience.
One day, you feel like you
have the relationship in
the bag.
 The next, you feel
uncertain whether you
can keep up with her
game.
 A lot of times, it’s not a
question of whether she
can outplay you but can you
outplay her?