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The ten things that ladies want you to do are detailed in this post. If you
follow this advice, you’ll become more desirable to ladies right away.
Initiate and participate in activities that will aid in the development of the
connection — Investing in the mental, emotional, and physical well-being
of your relationship will strengthen the bond and attractiveness between
you and your girl.
Finishing what you start — This is for little tasks and can establish a
pattern of dependability.
Being at ease doing things could indicate that you are enthusiastic about
the connection. You’re putting in a concerted effort to show that you want
to be there.
Women say an average of 20000 words per day, whereas men speak
roughly 7000 words per day, according to Louanne Brizendine, MD
(Professor at the University of California — San Francisco).
As a result, women talk nearly three times as much as males. Guys, I’m
sure you’ve learned this via experience.
It’s important that you mention something useful. Make sure what you’re
saying is worthwhile. You don’t have to be a philosopher, but you do need
to be careful with your words because you’ll be speaking less.
When you speak less, you have less time to explain yourself if you say
something incorrect or disrespectful. However, using fewer words may
not always allow you to be as specific as you might like.
I’m not recommending you speak up more. However, I recommend that
you speak more intently.
It’s crucial to remember that the needs of a relationship change with the
seasons of life, and you’ll need to learn how to communicate those
changes.
Last but not least, learn how to “speak her language.” Your lady will have
distinct tells that denote distinct meanings. She has them regardless of
whether they are nonverbal or vocal. Concentrate on such subtle
communication techniques. She will enjoy it more if you notice them, and
you will gain more points with her.
Honesty and integrity — demonstrate that telling the truth and having a
good character are not optional.
What could be worse than hanging around with someone who has a bad
attitude? A person who is oblivious to proper etiquette. It doesn’t matter
if you grew up in a predominantly male household or participated in
exclusively male-dominated sports. A simple “thank you” and “please”
can go a long way.
Being courteous — Women are delicate and tender beings who deserve to
be treated with respect. Harsh comments used in an unpleasant tone will
make her shut down. Being courteous will always work in your favor
while interacting with a woman, whether it’s your first or 50th
conversation.
Guys, pull out her chair in dating etiquette. Wait until her plate arrives
before eating. Focus on her face rather than her chest, buttocks, or legs.
It’s fine to look and admire, but don’t become a pervert by staring all
night.
Although not all women want to marry and start a family, the vast
majority of them want. Being a man who wants a family or who has
children and is present with them boosts your appeal by a factor of ten.
Being a great parent and provider for your children demonstrates to her:
Being a family-oriented man also means that she will see you prioritizing
her as your wife during chats and dating.
Allowing her to observe how you and your family interact is another
approach to demonstrate that you are a family man. Even if you don’t
have a close relationship with your family, tell her you want to rewrite the
story. Tell her you want to be close to your kids and don’t want to go back
into the same pattern as before.
They must see and feel that you are comfortable with them being candid.
Allowing her to see you at your most vulnerable will build trust.
It demonstrates that you entrust her with your deepest and darkest
secrets.
Do not do this while you are just getting to know someone. That can often
be too much, too soon. When the time is right, you’ll know. Remember
that being vulnerable allows you to be fearless.
7 Women are attracted to a man who is well-informed and
educated.
Keeping up with what’s going on in the world and being able to talk about
it is a trait that demonstrates that you are a global citizen. You don’t need
to be a political analyst or a philanthropist to make a difference.
You must, however, demonstrate that you are interested in learning about
and understanding other cultures. This does imply that the discourse is
shifted away from job or family from time to time to something else of
equal importance.
Not the kind of vulgar, insensitive comedy, or even the kind that makes
jokes about everything. But he has a great sense of humour that is always
on point.
A man who enjoys a good laugh and who can balance the gravity of
important issues with the gift of lightheartedness through laughing is a
rare discovery.
Having a good sense of humor indicates to her that you will be able to
grin even when things are difficult. It will also help to establish her trust
in you as a confidante.
Women admire a man who isn’t afraid to take risks. Men have been
labeled as creatures of habit who prefer a set schedule. If you can throw a
monkey wrench in that perception, your beauty will soar to new heights.
The overall point is that no one wants to get stuck in a rut, so being
adventurous or adopting a mindset that appreciates trying new things
every now and again may work wonders for a man attempting to capture
a lady’s eye or maintain her interest.
#10 Women Expect You To Correct Errors
Don’t just consider the words “cheap” or “frugal.” In fact, ladies despise
the term “cheap.” Resourceful is a cross between a master networker and
a MacGyver. The important thing is that you know how to get things
done, not that you know how to do everything. Alternatively, you may
know someone who knows someone who can help.
This is very useful during difficult times. This is also a good method to
reassure your wife that you don’t have a lot of pride. “Ask for aid” is a
clever way of saying “leverage relationships.” Your relationship is in
trouble if you are too proud to admit that you need help and your ego is
too enormous to accept it.