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I’m incredibly grateful that you requested a copy of our Top 100 Dating Tips.
I’m sure you’ll be thrilled to devour them one by one. They will help you get your dating life
under control faster than you might think.
Don’t get me wrong: these are tips, not a training manual. So you might have to stop for a
minute and ask yourself, ‘Where, when, and how could I best use this tip?’ But as you’ll see,
they’re pretty straightforward and the answer to that question will be quite obvious.
As a way of thanking you, I’d like to give you 10 Unannounced Bonus Tips. Yes, you read
that correctly. In this document you’ll not find 100, but 110 of our best dating tips.
Why? Let’s just say that our motto is to always over-deliver. That’s what you can expect from
everything that comes from us.
Whether you read our VIP newsletter, or you buy our products or our coaching sessions, we
ALWAYS over-deliver.
And I think you’re really going to dig the 10 extra dating tips that I’ve added for you, because
they’re all about sealing the deal! ;-) You can find them at the end of this document.
Also, for your convenience, we’ve categorized all the dating tips.
1. Dating hacks.
These are hacks that you can use to get lightning-fast results without breaking a sweat.
I hope you’ll enjoy reading these dating tips as much as I enjoyed writing them for you.
Dating Hacks:
1. Did you know that if you look at a woman’s lips, she will start to have sexual thoughts?
So next time you’re on a date and you want her to get aroused, start looking at her lips.
2. Did you know that most men blow it with women within the first minute of approaching
them by turning their full body (hips and shoulders) toward women? This telegraphs too
much interest too soon.
3. Only turn your full body (hips and shoulders) toward a woman after she has turned her
full body toward you first.
4. Point one foot away when talking to a woman you just met. She will start working for
your attention. Unconsciously, she will register that you’re about to walk away.
5. Did you know that if you look a woman in the eyes and you imagine having sex with her,
she’ll also start to have sexual thoughts? (This works only when you have a good
rapport with the woman.)
6. Emotions are contagious. Did you know that you can transfer your emotions to women?
You can make them feel whatever you want them to feel. Make sure you feel the
emotion first, and keep looking into her eyes while you feel the emotion. She’ll feel the
same.
7. Did you know that just putting a man and a woman close to each other builds attraction?
8. Did you know that looking a woman in the eyes does two things: it builds attraction and a
connection at the same time? So make sure you learn how to keep eye contact when
talking to or listening to women. That’s a great, natural way to build attraction.
9. Did you know women give you proximity when they want you to approach them? This
means that they’ll start to hover around you. Next time you’re at a bar or club and you
see this happening, you know you can approach a woman and get a warm welcome.
10. Did you know that when a woman breaks eye contact with you by looking down, she’s
REALLY, HEAVILY into you?
11. Did you know that when a woman touches you when you are in a conversation with her,
she’s interested in you? It doesn’t matter where she touches you. It can be your hand,
arm, shoulder, leg, etc.
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14. Learn dating methods that are adapted to the venues you like to go to.
It makes no sense to buy a dating product that is focused on picking up women in bars
and clubs if you prefer to meet women during the day.
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15. Learn dating methods that are adapted to the kind of woman that you want.
This is a biggie.
Approaching a young rocker chick type requires a different approach and vibe then
approaching a more mature, classy type of woman.
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18. Don't listen to what women say they want in a man. Look at who they are sleeping
with instead.
20. Don’t wear silly hats, feather boas, or strange outfits to get a woman’s attention.
PUAs will typically tell you to do this. If you do this, you will look like a fool. You’ll only
get low-quality and psychologically damaged women.
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26. Did you know that women are attracted to men with skills?
Look at artists. Many are broke, but women are attracted to them. That's because they
have skills. Skills mean potential. Women love men with potential.
27. Did you know that it doesn’t matter what your skills are? As long as you are great
at something, women will be attracted to you.
The real challenge is to arrange a situation where she can see your skills in action.
28. Did you know dating skills are the best skills to have because you can show them
off anytime and anywhere?
So invest in developing dating skills. Remember, a skill is a skill. If women see you are
great at dating, they will be attracted to you.
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30. Never learn from authors that are not dating specialists.
For example, never learn from popular men’s magazines. Their writers write articles on
dozens of different subjects. One week they write about dating, the next they write about
cars, then about gardening. These writers know as much about teaching dating skills as
a ten-year-old knows about teaching the theory of relativity. Their job is to write about
things that people want to hear about. Their job is not to be an expert. They have great
writing skills, but no subject matter expertise.
32. Did you know that fashion and style is what makes you look good? Go to a stylist and let
this person upgrade your look. This is probably the easiest and fastest way to get more
attention from women.
33. Did you know that body language is the most powerful way to make a woman attracted
to you?
34. Did you know that a big part of your presentation is based on your reputation? If you
have a cool reputation, women will be attracted to you before they even meet you. And it
won’t matter if you’re not handsome, tall, or rich.
35. Get a great haircut. It will make a hell of a difference. If you don’t have much hair, don’t
worry. Just shave it off completely. Women love bald men.
36. Did you know that health is a very strong attraction trigger? If you eat healthy, that will
show in your skin, hair, and energy level. Start eating healthier and start working out.
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53. Even if you did find a good girl in a club, she probably would’nt want to become your
girlfriend. They don't want to tell their friends they met Prince Charming in a club. It's not
romantic.
54. When on a date, check if she’s a quality woman by probing into her past relationships
and relationships with her family.
55. Ask about her previous relationships. Does she complain about all her exes? Not good.
Does she say her ex is a great person, but they just weren’t compatible anymore? That's
a good sign.
56. Do her parents have a good relationship? If her mother treats her father poorly, then
she'll probably do the same to you. Women learn how to treat a man from their mother.
57. Does she has a good relation with her father? If she has a cold, distant relationship with
her father, chances are she will have a cold relationship with her man. Women learn how
to treat a man from their mother, but they learn how to have a relationship with a man
through their father.
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Approaching Tips:
58. Did you know that women (and people in general) will make up their mind about you in
less than one second? That’s right, all it takes is a blink! In fact, it’s called the blink
factor. That means that she’ll decide if she likes you or not in the blink of an eye.
Literally.
59. Did you know that body language is what women look at to judge you in that first
second? So make sure to have great body language all the time. Women are always
watching, even when you don’t see them.
60. Did you know women give off subtle signals that are called approach invitations? For
example, they smile at you, make eye contact with you, or just nod when you walk by
them. These are obvious, but most of the time their signals are more subtle. In fact, they
are so subtle that most men don’t even notice them. There are more than 60 signals
women give off when they are attracted to a man.
61. When you see these approach invitations, you have to make an approach. You will get a
warm welcome.
62. Did you know there is a specific kind of body language that triggers uncontrollable
attraction in women? Learn this secret body language and you’ll get a TON more
approach invitations effortlessly.
63. If you don’t get approach invitations, you need to learn the skills to force approach
invitations. This enables you to force approach invitations from a distance.
64. Did you know when you are on the phone you get more approach invitations from
women? So if you want to increase your success meeting women in the daytime, walk
down the street while you’re on the phone. Next, approach all the women that gave you
approach invitations.
65. Did you know that women give off more attraction signals when they are with their
boyfriends? That’s because they feel safer, knowing that you won’t approach them when
they are with their boyfriends.
66. Did you know pre-selection is the second most powerful attraction switch within women?
That means women find a man attractive if other women find that man attractive. This is
way more powerful than being good-looking, tall, or rich. If you have female friends, take
them with you to the bar or club. You’ll get more approach invitations than you could
possibly handle. The next step is simple: just approach all the girls that gave you an
approach invitation.
67. When approaching a woman, imagine you have known her for years. Experiments have
shown that if you do this, you get a warm welcome.
69. Did you know that the venue in which you approach women has a profound impact on
how they will evaluate a potential relationship with you?
70. For example, did you know that most women don’t want to get into a serious relationship
with a guy they met in a club?
71. If you want a girlfriend, approach women in Serendipity Venues. These are the places
where women meet their Prince Charming in romantic movies. Women often daydream
about meeting their Prince Charming in one of these venues.
72. Here are three Serendipity Venues where you should approach women: the
supermarket, a coffee shop, a bookstore. Just the fact that she met you in one of these
venues will maximize your chances of turning her into your girlfriend. Seriously.
Dating tips on first conversations.
73. Did you know the first 30 seconds of a conversation are the hardest? Make sure you
have a conversation structure and topics ready for the first 30 seconds. After that, it gets
easy.
75. Seed possible date ideas. So you like art? Great! I know this great art gallery. We should
go there sometime. It gives her something to think about when you’re gone. She’ll
imagine you and her together in those places.
76. Keep your first conversations short, and get her phone number. Be in, be excellent, be
gone. She’ll start wondering… who is that mysterious stranger that I gave my number to
so fast?
77. Make sure you end the conversation first. That way you keep the power. Women love
powerful men.
78. End conversations on a high note. That will leave her wanting more.
80. If you had a good conversation, break it off first and say, “Hey, this was a great
conversation, but I really have to go now. We should continue this another time.”
81. If she says yes, you say, “Great! Let’s trade numbers.”
82. Always make sure to call her when you get her number. This avoids errors.
83. Say “I’ll call you now, so you have my number too.”
84. If she says you don’t trust her, just say, “No, not at all. Just making sure I didn’t type it in
wrong.”
87. If you didn’t arrange the date right then and there, you’ll need to text her immediately
after you leave her. Otherwise, she might forget who you are.
88. Your first message is a feeler message. It’s something light and playful that doesn’t
require an answer. It enables you to engage while avoiding being needy. That’s because
you didn’t ask a question in your message.
89. If she replies to your feeler message, send her a second message. In this message, you
turn the tables on her and make it look like she hit on you. You end the message with a
qualification question that makes her qualify herself to you. Of course, it’s done playfully.
90. If she answers that message, you send the following message: So I guess you want to
get together sometime?
91. If she says yes, just send her the date, time, and place. Thursday, 7pm, The New Art
Gallery, Address (insert address). Do you know where it is?
92. Whatever you do, don’t text her anymore until the morning of the date itself.
You’ll do the complete opposite from all the needy and over-confirming guys. You’ll
stand out and she’ll start to wonder about you.
93. The morning of the day of the date, send her a message. See tip 86.
95. Once inside the venue, make sure she sits next to you, not opposite to you. It’s easier to
touch her and go in for the kiss later.
96. Make sure you start touching her from the very beginning of the date. Nothing is more
awkward than going in for a kiss if you’ve never even touched her.
97. Did you know that if a woman allows you to touch her hair without a pretext for doing so
(i.e. without pretending there is something in her hair), she is ready to be kissed?
98. Did you know that you can create a bond with a woman much more quickly by talking
about her past?
99. Don’t text a woman immediately after your first date. Most men text women after the first
date, something along the lines of “Hey, it was a great night! Text me when you’re
home”. Promise me you won’t ever do that! By not doing it you will stand out. She will
think of you because you didn’t text her. She’ll start to wonder if the date went well. Her
desire for you will grow.
100. The best time to text after your first date is the next day in the evening. That way
she had the whole night, and the whole day to think about you.
2. When she arrives at your place, invite her in. Once she’s in, ask her to take her shoes
off. If she does, she’s probably down for it.
3. After she takes her shoes off, give her a glass of wine. If she accepts the glass of wine
plus she took her shoes off, there is a really big probability she’s down for it.
4. If she doesn’t want to take her shoes off, then show her around the house so she gets
comfortable with your place. Next, go on the date. That way, after the date, it makes it
easier for you to invite her back in. She will have already seen your house and feel more
comfortable coming in.
5. If you invited her over for dinner at your place, don’t let her sit and watch while you’re
cooking. Give her tasks to do. That way you’ll be cooking together. That will evoke the
feeling of being a couple, which of course is a good thing.
6. After the dinner, or if you came back to your place after a date, ask her to light the
candles while you open the wine. The act of her lighting candles while you open the wine
sends strong signals to her subconscious mind. It’s something she’s only done with a
previous boyfriend when they prepared for a romantic evening. And we all know what
that means! ;-)
7. Next, give her some time to adjust. Don’t jump on her and kiss her immediately. Let her
sit in the sofa and talk for 15 minutes.
8. If she resists your escalation at a certain point, use the two steps forward, one step back
tactic. This means that you will take one step back and then go two steps forward. For
example, she might object when you touch her breasts. So, just go back to kissing her
and caressing her arms. Do this for a few minutes and then go back to her breasts for a
bit, and next go under her blouse. If you get resistance, take your hand away from under
her blouse and go back to touching her breasts over her blouse. Stay there for a few
minutes, then go two steps further a bit later.
9. Of course, if she firmly says, “NO, I don’t want this to happen”, then stop immediately.
10. Make sure you have condoms prepared next to the place you are escalating in. You
don’t want to ruin the atmosphere by having to leave the room to get condoms.
11. Surprise! Here’s one more tip! Yes, you get 11 bonus tips instead of 10. See, it pays to
read my documents all the way to the end.
This one is a very sexual one. So if you are easily offended, I apologize in advance.
When you are making love to her, when she’s having an orgasm… look her in the eyes
and tell her with a commanding voice: “You belong to me.”
Game over. You’re the man. I guarantee you, no man has ever done that to her. You just
claimed her with authority at her peak moment. She will see you as her man.
Thousands of the top men on team Introverted Badass have told me how great these tips are,
and even more are applying them in their lives.
I’m CERTAIN you will get the kind of success with women that you always wanted and never
thought was possible, but only if you get out there and TAKE ACTION, my friend.
Would you like me to help you find, get and keep, your most amazing woman in the world,
for FREE?
Your friend,
Nick Neeson