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Abigail Neeley
SOWK 341
Uri Reisman
16 November 2022
The person that I chose to interview on their stages of development throughout their life
will go by the name of “John” to protect anonymity. John is a bisexual, cisgender male who has
two sisters and one living parent. He identifies as mixed races, with half being African American
and the other half being Hispanic, and he enjoys embracing his Hispanic culture through
language, food, and music. John is a practicing Buddhist and considers the most important aspect
of his life to be his friends, family, and spirituality. To best explain John’s development of his
life as of today, Fowler’s Theory of Faith Development and Erikson’s Stages of Psychosocial
Development will be used to analyze how the events of John’s life have shaped his personality
The first theory that applied to John’s development of his life was Fowler’s Theory of
Faith Development due to John’s dedication to religion and faith throughout his life. Fowler’s
Theory uses seven stages to attempt to explain how someone’s faith or spirituality changes
throughout their lives based on where they are at in developmental stages of life. The first stage
of the theory, primal or undifferentiated faith, ranges from birth to about two years old and
encompassed infant’s trust in the world and in others (Ford, 2006). Stage two, intuitive
projective faith, includes preschool aged children and is seen when experiencing faith or
Mythic-literal faith, stage three, incorporates six- to 12-year-olds who are now beginning
to differentiate between mythical and factual events. Children at the end of this stage are also
now able to understand that other people can have different beliefs than them and begin listening
to friends and others about their beliefs. In stage four of Fowler’s Theory of Faith Development,
adolescents aged 12 to 18 are in the synthetic-conventional faith stage of their lives (Karesh,
2013). During this stage, adolescents are able to think about abstract concepts about religion and
begin to claim their faith as their own rather than simply following along with their parents’
faith. Stage five, individuative reflective faith, includes those in young adulthood who are now
questioning their faith and will sometimes leave the religious community that they had
During stage six, conjunctive faith, those in their thirties are becoming comfortable with
unanswered questions from the previous stage. Those in stage six are open to learning more from
different communities and other faiths to evolve their understanding of their spirituality and
faith. The final stage of Fowler’s Theory is universalizing faith, also known as enlightenment,
and this stage can be reached generally after the late thirties until death (Glass, 2021). Albeit
difficult to reach, people such as Count Leo Tolstoy or Mahatma Gandhi are believed to have
Fowler’s theory of faith development was selected to be one of the best fits for explaining
John’s development throughout his life because during the interview, he explained how much of
an impact Christianity, Buddhism, and spirituality have had on his life. Because John is 21 years
old and has been recently questioning and discovering his faith, he is in stage five of Fowler’s
Theory: individuative reflective faith. John had not always practiced the Buddhist faith, and he
had grown up in a Christian Baptist household. He stated that his parents were “very religious,”
with both of his parents volunteering in the church and his entire family being extremely
involved with church activities. “Religion has always been a big part of my life,” he said after he
was asked about how religion has impacted his everyday life, “it makes me who I am. My goals,
values, morals, and other parts of my character are almost entirely reflected by spirituality in
some form.”
When asking John about the timeline of how he felt his faith evolved throughout his life,
he began to explain how quickly he had progressed into a deeper understanding of what
spirituality was. “The second I was born I was basically thrown into church,” he said after asking
him where he felt like his faith began, “I picked up on more complex ideas really quickly.
Probably a lot younger than most people.” He said that for the majority of his younger childhood,
he was going along with what his parents told him to do and believe, but then he began to think
about abstract ideas about spirituality and religion around the age of seven when he thought a lot
about other religions. John’s ability to think abstractly about his spirituality through Christianity
at such a young age was different than Fowler’s projection of where he should have been at this
point in his life, especially when John was faced with different perspectives on religion. He had a
friend in elementary school who was Muslim, and the two discussed different aspects of their
religions and what they believed in. “After talking to this guy, I had a lot of questions,” John
remembered after talking more about his childhood friend, “like what made his religion wrong
and mine right? Why was my friend, a good person, going to hell just for picking the wrong
religion?”
John continued to discuss how his questions about spirituality quickly increased as he
aged, leaving him more confused yet increasingly dedicated to religion. His dedication to
religion in his life despite his many questions confused me, so he elaborated further when he said
that “most of [his] dedication came from fear of going to hell. Later on in life [his] commitment
to spirituality turned into something different, but spirituality has always been a major part of
[his] life. Through fear or a sense of a higher connection, it has always been a part of [himself].
By later adolescence, John was fully committed to the Christian Baptist faith, regardless of the
many questions that had still been left unanswered. By this point in his life, John said that he
begun to ask new questions that he had not previously thought of before. He stated that these
questions were mostly asked to dive into a deeper understanding of the Christian faith rather than
questioning if he believed in Christian morals at all. “I found myself thinking about it almost
constantly. I was doing lots of reading, talking to leaders of the church, everything I could do to
While in stage five of Fowler’s theory, John converted to Buddhism right after high
school when he made some new friends who had practiced the faith. He left the Christian faith
because he felt that there were too many questions that were left unanswered, and the death of
his mother the same year caused him to despise Christianity. “After my mom passed, I was angry
with the church and with God. I did not understand how something like this could happen to
someone like her, I was confused,” John stated when asked what his main reason for abandoning
Christianity was. Remembering back to his adolescent years, John then explained that his
struggle with depression is what caused him to cling so tightly to religion. When his mother
passed, John experienced severe levels of depression and anger that drove him to find hope once
again in spirituality. “It reminded me of being a teenager again and needing hope during my
darkest times, except this time I could not go back to Christianity. That was when I started
exploring Buddhism.” John then stated that he felt that most of his questions had been answered
with regards to his spirituality, and he was at peace with the ones that had not been answered.
Another theory that impacted the development of John’s life was Erik Erikson’s stages of
psychosocial development. Erikson divided development into eight stages based on psychosocial
challenges that one faces throughout their life, and these crises would have either a positive or
negative outcome on someone’s character (Mcleod, 1970). The stages are labeled with positive
and negative virtues, which are viewed as individual needs versus societal needs. Erikson
believed that after going through all eight stages successfully, one would come out with positive
virtues and strong moral character. If one did not complete the stages successfully, they might
Stages one and two of Erikson’s stages of psychosocial development include the ages
from birth to three years old. During these stages, the virtues of trust and will are either learned
and built into one’s character or rejected (Kerpelman, 2001). Stage three, ages three to five, and
stage four, ages five to twelve, focus on purpose and competency through the psychosocial
challenges of initiative versus guilt and industry versus inferiority. Stage five, identity versus
role confusion, is a key factor in development due to the transition from childhood into
adulthood and highlights the virtue of fidelity. From the ages of 18 to 40, stage six is taking place
through intimacy versus isolation where close connections with others can either be formed or
isolation can occur (Kropf, 2017). Until the age of 65, the psychosocial crisis of generativity
versus stagnation takes place where the virtues of care and accomplishment are either learned or
uselessness is felt in the world. The final section of Erikson’s stages is after the age of 65 until
death and consists of ego integrity versus despair. During this stage, older adults are reflecting on
their lives and can either feel fulfilled or unaccomplished with their lives and can achieve the
virtue of wisdom.
development throughout his life because he feels that some stages of his life caused a negative
impact on his character. John was adopted by his current parents when he was about two years
old, and he had previously lived with his mother who struggled with substance abuse at the time.
“I have almost no memory of my birth mother other than a few short memories here and there. I
know she wasn’t around often, even though I was an infant.” John was taken away from his birth
mother due to neglect, and he stated that he feels there is a part of himself that will always be
hurt by her abandonment. John’s situation as an infant is Erikson’s first stage of psychosocial
development where he experienced mistrust rather than trust due to the neglect of his birth
mother. He then stated that he still struggles with abandonment anxiety today and believes that
the cause for his mistrust of others is due to what he experienced as an infant. John also claims
that his father has helped him work through this struggle by always being there for him and
Through stage three, autonomy versus shame, and stage four, initiative versus guilt, John
stated that he felt there were no major events or issues that caused him negative impacts on his
personality. However, during stage five, John explained how he felt inferior to his peers due to
the impact asthma had on his athletic abilities. “I had asthma really bad as a kid to the point
where I really could not participate in sports. This also meant that I could not run around with the
other boys during recess, and I was made fun of for breathing so hard and coughing when I tried.
It was humiliating.” John then continued to explain how always feeling inferior to his peers in
elementary school had an impact on him several years later through his self-confidence levels. “I
eventually made friends with some of the girls who were always on the swing sets,” he said
when asked if he had any support through these challenges at school, “they always made sure to
One aspect of Erikson’s Stages that did not align with John’s development during his life
was stage five, intimacy versus isolation (Kerpelman, 2001). John has been with his fiancé for
six years and was recently engaged about five months ago. He has known his partner since
preschool, and they began dating once the two reached high school. “Her and I have known each
other our entire lives, we have been best friends for years,” John said when asked to describe
their relationship, “we’ve had this commitment to each other for so long. I have never been
worried about being lonely because I have always had her by my side. One thing about me is that
I am a loving person, and it has always been in my character.” John learned the virtue of love
outside of a friend or family relationship much sooner than Erikson had predicted, and John
reached intimacy rather than isolation before he reached his adult life.
Development, the positive and negative events throughout John’s life help to explain his
character, morals, and values today. Despite his struggles with the loss of both of his mothers,
mental health, and physical health, John had the support of his friends, family, and enduring
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