18 Life Lessons Every Christian Girl must know

1. Spending time with Jesus is the most important thing you can do.

Seriously. If I’ve learned anything in the past 36 years, it is this. Time with Jesus is never wasted and
every moment is so precious! When you don’t spend time with Jesus, you are more prone to
temptation and sin. Life just isn’t as meaningful!

2. You do not need a guy to complete you.

Jesus completes you as a person. Just because you do not have a boyfriend does not mean You are less
than. You are whole in Christ and your identity is found in Him!

3. Sin is sin. There is no sugar coating it.

We live in such a tolerant culture when it comes to sin and that is just not okay. Sin is sin and I think it is
very important that we search the Bible for guidelines and boundaries.

4. Christian music is just the best. Pick the right music to Listen to.

Remember you are what you listen to, if you listen to music that promotes suicidal thoughts, or overly
emotional or sensitive your brain becomes adapted to it and it can affect your attitude and becomes
who you are.

Christian music is so encouraging! Still remember life is a choice and what you choose today will be you
tomorrow.

5. Family unity is so worth fighting for.

I am not saying that I get along with my parents and siblings all of the time, but I am saying that family is
so important! The people in my family really are my best friends. Fight for that unity and make sure to
spend time with them! It means try to fully understand them, try to truly listen to them be more of them
and less you you, if I knew this before I might not have the same folish and stupid decisions before.
Remember your family might be your contra Bida today but they will always accept you no matter what
you will become or who you will be yes! It's painful to be corrected but it's better than to be loved in
front and hate behind your backs by someone you thought you have from the outside,I did not mean
that all friends are not good but they have limitations and expirations, people change situation change
that can affect your friendships but family they are not a choice They are "there" all the way Every steps
of your life.
6. Community within a church is one of the most encouraging things ever.

Be present, be available this people helps you to grow and will bring you closer not only to God but to
your own family. They will help you understand your own family when you don't understand them they
will pray with you, it will correct you,build you and teach you.

7. Waiting for God’s best when it comes to guys is hard, but it’s so worth it.

You might not know, I went through a somewhat tough experience with guys, and I was forced to trust
God with my love life. It is so hard, but God knows us better than we know ourselves. He knows what
He’s doing , trust Him! Don't rush, remember rush items are easily broken, quality relationship are best
when waited.

8. Godly friends are the best friends. Pray for it

I’ve had friends that pull me farther away from Jesus and it’s not a good experience. But godly
friendships are such an encouragement!! There's this saying, If you want to become successful surround
yourself with successful people, same with friends if you want to be closer to God surround yourself
with godly people.

9. When we are faithful in the little things we are faithful in the big things.

Don’t believe the lie that these things you are doing in elementary school, high school, or college, or
anywhere, don’t matter. They do more than you know. Setting the foundation for being faithful in
everything is such an important life lesson! Be faithful with little things and surely God will in trust you
great things in the future, be honest with little things habang Bata ka pa sanayin mo na Ang sarili mo
maging honest because if you will see honest ones are the most trusted and the trusted ones are the
ones people love to be with.

10. Grades matter but they aren’t everything.

Study as hard as you can for your tests but don’t worry so much when you get a bad grade. Do your
best and leave the rest up to God! You are worth more than your grades!

11. Finding something that you love to do is so important.

To be honest, Blogging, reading , writing, interior designing is that thing for me. Find something that just
sets your soul on fire and pursue it! Find a way to glorify God with it! Most likely, He gave you that
interest and talent on purpose to impact His kingdom.

12. Eating healthy effects so many areas of my life.

When I don’t eat well I am so emotional and don’t have the energy to do anything. For me, eating
healthy is so important and has to be a priority if I want to be the best version of myself before! While
you are young take care of your health, mentally and physically -be the best version of your self. By
starting to love you body and mind think twice of what you put inside your body and mind can it help
me does this bring nutrients to my body? Does this thing I'm reading or issues I'm intertaining good to
my mental health? If not discard! Do not give it a try!

13. Social media is such an awesome tool, but it can be so toxic. Less is more.

I love TikTok as much as the next person! But it has become dangerous for me. I compare my life to
others and spend too much time on there. Recently, I’ve begun taking longer periods of time away from
the app. And I never get on TikTok on Sundays! It is so refreshing and living my own life is so fulfilling!
Try social detox ones every week or twice a month. We need it

14. Comparison is the thief of joy. Never, ever compare yourself to others!

, this is so true. When we compare our lives to others it steals all of our joy. So remember, the grass is
not always greener on the other side. Water your own grass and be thankful for what God has blessed
you with!

Be grateful with what you have- because whatever you have others might just desiring it be thankful.

15. Age doesn’t matter as much as maturity.

In life maturity matters way more than age does. You can be 18 and yet a 5 years old is matured than
you, you can be 30 and yet 18 is matured than you.

Real mature people is someone who knows how to accept corrections. And knows how to change and
accept changes, they are people who also knows how to respect others, they respect not base on how
they are treated or base on position,they respect because they know respect is not an obligation but a
value that are applicable to everyone even a baby needs respect.even the baddest person they know
should be respected and off course the first hand receiver of your respect is your own family, circle,
Hindi pakitang tao because if your like that then still your are not matured...
Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid. -Proverbs 12:1

Proverbs 9:8

"Do not rebuke mockers or they will hate you; rebuke the wise and they will love you."

“Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit,
in faith, in purity.”

1 Timothy 4:12

Will we know that everything is not instant maturity takes time, but taking time is not an excuse for us
to act immature.be ready for the real world, while you are young choose to train yourself in the right
mentally because in the real world it will teach you many things some good ,more bad it's better to learn
to be good while you are young. Choose to be kind while you are still young mahirap Ang baliin Ang
matandang kawayan.

16. Being quiet is okay.

I am definitely an introvert and I’ve learned to love that about myself. But it is hard at times being quiet.
I feel like I should say more but I don’t know what! But you know, being quiet is okay. Be yourself. Just
remember to stand up for what is right!

17. It is so much better to get as far away from sin as possible instead of seeing how close you can get to
the edge.

Again, our culture loves to play with fire. We want to see how much we can play with it until we get
burned. But that is not the right perspective at all! We need to get as far away from sin as possible.

“But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of
greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.”

Ephesians 5:3
Not even a hint!

18. Jesus is just the absolute best and you would be nowhere without Him! He is enough.

Seriously though, this is a good one to end on! I don’t know what I’d do without Jesus. He is so good
and faithful. Life would be hopeless and meaningless without Him! He is enough for you.