Slave-Applicant Questionnaire

With thanks to Jack Rinella’s Becoming a Slave

These questions and activities are intended to tell your Master-applicant important things about you. In the
process, you are likely to learn a lot about yourself. Some items require responses in separate documents.

# Question/Activity Your Response

1 What your first contact with the idea
of slavery. Was it in a book? A
movie? From a friend? How did you
feel about it then? How do you feel
about it now?

2 Why do you want to be a slave?

3 What myths and assumptions about

slavery do you think you have that
might not be based on reality?

4 Can you describe your greatest

obstacle to finding a dominant
partner?

5 What assets do you think you bring

to such a relationship?

6 Write a 1,000 (or more) word essay

describing your future life as a
slave. What do you do? Where do
you live? What do you say? What is
required of you? How does it feel?
Let your imagination go wild.

7 How do you have to change to be

what you want to become?

8 How will you be different when you

are a slave?

9 What things make you hesitate?

What are the doubts that you feel?

10 Write the names, e-mail addresses,

and phone numbers of possible
references. Contact them for
permission to use them as such.
Assure them of your discretion.
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11 Pretend that you have received an
e-mail from an applicant-Master
who says that he has felt betrayed
by people he has met online and
would like some assurances that
you are a trustworthy person. Write
a letter that you think will allay his
fears by giving examples of
experiences that show you are
trustworthy.

12 Are you ready and able to

surrender, given the right
conditions? What are those
conditions?

13 How have you experienced

surrender, either on the giving or
the receiving end?

14 What factors in your everyday life

obstruct your ability to surrender or
to make a commitment? How can
you reduce or eliminate these
barriers to developing an M/s
relationship.

15 What special characteristics do you

think your ideal master ought to
have?

16 Are they reasonable and attainable?

17 How is your ideal different from the

masters you have met thus far?

18 What special characteristics do you

have that make you unique and
desirable as a slave?

19 Think about your friends and lovers

(past and present) and list the
things about them that you found
attractive. Why?

20 Make a list of things that you fear

can go wrong in your search for a
master or that might happen once
# Question/Activity Your Response
you are enslaved.

21 How realistic is your list? Rate each

fear as serious, only lingering, or
completely unrealistic. Label each
fear as controllable, not worth
thinking about, or needs to be
addressed.

How will you "control" the

controllable fears and what might
you do with the ones that need
work?

22 What experience do you lack in

various BDSM activities, such as
flogging, bondage, or protocols?

What skills might you need to learn

in order to become a better slave,
such as housekeeping or cooking?

How can you learn about these

household or kinky activities? Who
might teach you?

Develop a plan to improve yourself

by gaining experience/skills.

23 What things about your non-kink life

do you enjoy? E.g. meeting friends
for coffee. Are they things that are
compatible with life as a slave?

24 There are those who deceive

themselves into thinking that slavery
is for the weak, the inept, and those
who are prone to failure. What in
your life proves that you are strong,
capable, and successful?

25 Some seeking to own a slave, seek

those who are "worthless scum."
What do you think of this and how
would you respond to such an
opinion?

26 What is your self-image like? Does

it need some work? What might you
do to improve it?
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27 Are you aware of any negative self-
talk? What might you do to remove
negative self-feelings or intrusive
self-talk?

28 When did you first experience

yourself as a sexual person?

29 Who have been your sexual

partners and in what kind of
relationships, and for how long?

30 What kind of sexual activities do

you most enjoy?

31 When, where, and how did you

learn about them and experience
them?

32 How often do you have an orgasm

and how?

33 What do you fantasize about when

you masturbate?

34 Libido varies greatly from person to

person. How do you describe
yours?

35 Have you ever experienced a time

of heightened sexual need? How
did you handle it?

36 Have you ever abstained from

sexual activity for an extended
period? How long was the
abstaining and why?

37 In general terms what do you earn

in a year? How large is your debt?

38 Do you have savings?

39 Can you afford to travel?

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40 Describe your drug use, including
Alcohol, Dope, Poppers, Meth,
Speecl, Coke, Cigarettes, Coffee

41 What are your thoughts on control,

obedience, worship, and service?

42 What kind of a relationship are you

seeking in terms of: Length,
intensity, domestic activities, part-
time/full-time/occasional?

46 Describe your readiness or when

you think you will be ready to enter
into a contract.

44 Are you willing to consider

relocating?

45 Full Name
46 Address
47 Phone number
48 Age
49 Height
50 Weight
51 Waist size
52 Color and amount of hair
53 Education level
54 Occupation/Job Title
55 How long at your present job?

56 What do you like and dislike about

your job?

57 What are the implications on your

career of relocating?

58 Are you single, partnered, married,

divorced? For how long??

59 Describe your previous long-term

relationships. Why did each end?

60 List the lessons you have learned

from past relationships, especially
the early warning signs that things
are not going well.
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61 What did you get out of staying in

relationships that were shaky or
unsatisfying?

62 How do you prefer your

relationships - open, monogamous,
polyamorous?

63 List any health conditions that you

have.

64 What medications do you take?

65 What are your personal guidelines

concerning safer sex?

66 Are your parents living? If so,

describe your relationships with
them.

67 How many brothers and sisters do

you have? Describe your
relationships with them.

68 To what extent do they know of your

participation in an alternate
lifestyle?

69 Read slave Patrick’s petition and

create one of your own.

70 Read the sample contracts and

compose one of your own that
speaks from your heart.