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---------------------------------------How did you know my FB________________

Your Facebook account was suggested to me by Facebook, sorry to have barged into your profile, I'm
deeply sorry for that.

_______________________ I m from_________________________________

Hello beautiful lady, Its an honor to meet you.

My name is David M. Ryal.

I'm a dual citizen of Canada and Vietnam, my father is from Canada and my mother is from Vietnam,
how about you?

I have heard very little about Vietnamese culture and way of life and I love it very much because is also
my mother hometown

I have not been to Vietnam before, but my mom was from Hanoi in Vietnam. my mom's family didn't
want her to marry my dad because my dad was poor then. So when my mom died I was 3 years old she
was buried in Canada. and my mom's family didn't attend her funeral. But I would love to visit Vietnam
someday...

Okay, what is your name

You really have a nice name and you look So beautiful, may I ask how old you are?

Ok, I am 45 years old, you look so young and beautiful, are you married?

______________________If she Is a widower________________________


I am really sorry for the loss of your husband, I want you to know that your husband really wants you to
be happy every day. You don't have to think much about him because doing that can make you very
depressed, You really need to forget about your past and look forward to the future!

______________________If she Is divorce________________________

Oh, I am really sorry for your divorce. I want you to know that Is not all men that know the value of a
woman In a man's life. some men are very heartless!

As for me, I am a single father with 1 daughter, I lost my wife 6 years ago when she was about to give
birth In the hospital.

My child name is Allison, she is 10 years old, she is attending a private boarding school in Canada.

A day after my wife died the child was diagnosed with vertebral abnormality and cerebral deformation
that cause severe haemorrhage and loss of cognitive functions, the child died.

I intend that when I come to Vietnam, I will open a big private hospital so that I can employ a lot of
people. I love Vietnam as a country because the people are very sincere, lovely, caring, Honest and very
respectful people.

___________________________work _________________________

I'm an orthopaedic surgeon and doctor, I work under the health humanitarian NATO, and I'm presently
working with the NATO troops here in Syria on a peacekeeping mission.

So my friend, what what do you do for a living, I mean your occupation

Oh, ok, I hope you like your work and hope it doesnt stress you out too much
Ok, my work here is to take care of the wounded soldiers and also the NATO troops and citizens here we
do help them out.

my field is to do treatment, prevention and rehabilitation of disorders, injuries and diseases of the
musculoskeletal system of the body, I take care of the bone ...

_____________________________FRIENDSHIP_____________________________________

I hope we can be good friends, Can we be friends?

Thank you for accepting me as your friend.

So tell me, what do you think about long distance friendship

In my opinion, I don't think there Is any problem with the distance as long as we respect and be honest
with each other. I just want us to be good friends and see what the future holds for us because I believe
the future holds something special for us.

Well, I don't think that the age difference between us should be a barrier, rather, the most important
thing is for us to be sure if we really find understanding, happiness and joy within each other.

I just want us to be good friends that really understand and sympathize with each other!

___________________ a bit questions and answers__________________

What's your favourite colour?

My favourite colour is white and red because white stands for a pure heart and red stands for love, so
when you add both of them together you have a pure-hearted love, that is me because I do have a pure
heart for love.
What are Your Hobbies?

I love swimming, dancing, cooking, writing poems, singing, walking on the beach, fishing, camping, and
just hanging out with my friends and family.I am a very Family oriented person

What are your favourite drinks?

I like coffee and fruit juice. Occasionally, I drink red wine

What's your favourite food?

I like Pasta, fried rice, salad and chicken. I like seafood and noodles

My dear friend, you are so nice and resemptive

People like you who listen to strangers without discrimination are very special and appreciated people

i may not know you in person but from our brief chats I can tell that you are a good and honest person.

Can I ask you something?

Do you have a chat app called whatsapp on your phone?

I'd appreciate it if we could continue our nice conversation via whatsapp since I spend most of my time
on there writing my paperwork and reports, so it will be easier to talk to you when I'm free.
I would be honored to know more about you on WHATSAPP if that's okay

Can you please download the chat app?

Whatsapp is more secured and safer to call and chat with friends and family thats why we are
recomended to use it here in the camp as Facebook is not allowed to be used here due to the too much
exposure of the site.

Okay friend, please send me your WHATSAPP number so I can add you up to chat.

________So tell me do you know about where I work In Syria_______

Syria, officially the Syrian Arab Republic, is a Western Asian country located in the Eastern
Mediterranean and the Levant.and is currently going through a great war and terror killing people
including children.

I signed a 5-year contract with the NATO and I've only been here 2 years, which means I still have about 3
years left to stay here. I don't think I'll survive here for 3 years

Life in Syria is really hard for me here because of the terrorism because thay kills and kidnaps people
everyday and I have lost many of my colleagues in this mission and I hope and pray I will leave syria and
settle in Vietnam and marry the woman I love.

_______________When your woman has met a scammer before______

With all due respect, I ask you not to justify your past experience we just met, you don't know much
about me so it is wrong that you are in the prison of your thoughts about a stranger, each of us has had a
bad experience that does hurt but we are still alive believing that one day we will meet those who will
melt our hearts and who will understand us better. Anyone who deceive people with words to get what
they want I guess they did that as a result of personal interest but in addition to that, we still have real
people who have real-life situation and predicament that needed human help.

____________________Question and answers_____________________

How long have you been on the Facebook site?

I have been on the site for 4 months now. I want to find a woman that is honest and faithful, someone
we can spend the rest of our lives together

Do you plan to remarry again?

- I believe people can meet their soul mate through a dating site if they have faith and they are ready, to
be honest with each other and love each other

Do you believe that people can meet their soul mate through a dating site?

- I believe that I will find the woman we can spend the rest of our lives together forever

Do you believe that you can find a man you want to spend the rest of your life with?

- I am new on the site and you are the only woman I am communicating with

Do you have any negative experiences ever since you have been using the online dating site?
- Where were you born? Have you ever travelled out to other countries?

I was born in Canada, and I have travelled to places like France, Spain, Italy, Holland, California, and
Dubai.

- Are you willing to relocate to be with your soul mate if you find him or do you want your soul mate to
relocate and come over to your country?

I am willing to relocate to my soul mate when I find her. I am ready to spend the rest of my life with her
forever

- Do you believe in God? What's your religion?

I am a pagan I'm a gentleman with a big heart and a beautiful personality! I am a well-educated
professional man. I am Cool and respectful. I am a man of true character who believes in giving everyone
a fair chance. I am not self-centred. I am a nice man looking for a virtuous woman. Ask yourself a
question: What can I offer another person in a relationship besides money and sex

(14) How often do you like to go out?

I am a very laid-back type. I don't go out much.

(15) Which sports do you most enjoy watching?

ANSWER...I do enjoy watching, football, and table tennis. Golf, volleyball and a host of others.
(16) Are You left or right-handed?

ANSWER...I am a right-handed person

(17 How many brothers and sisters etc. you have? (How big is your family?)

ANSWER... Well, I am the only child of my parents, I lost my mom when I was 3 years old. It was my dad
who take care of me, but I later lost my dad when I was 20 years old.

ANSWER...when my dad died, I was 20 years and I was already a legal adult so all that was left to do was
for me to focus on my studies at the prestigious Goethe University where I studied orthopaedics under
medicine and surgery.

there is not much to the story but this is a short comprehension of what transpired during that time

(18) What are your goals or dreams in life?

ANSWER...My goals and dreams in life are to be with the woman of my life whom I will call my wife who I
will love and we will both live together, and we will both have our own company together.

(19) So tell me my dear what languages do you speak?

ANSWER. I speak 2 languages; they are English and German, I do speak English very well, while in
German I do speak a little and understand little.

(20) Describe some of the most important things in your life?

ANSWER...Making everyone around me happy including my kids and my friends and also serving my
God.
(21) Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

ANSWER...I do not smoke, NOR drink I also don't do drugs, my dear.

(22) would You like to re-marry again?

ANSWER...I can remarry again when she loves me and love my kid so much that she cares about the
family being together as one big family with so much love and unity.

(23) Have You ever been in Love after your past relationship?

ANSWER...Nope, this is my first time searching for a soul mate since I got Divorced

(24) Tell me what do you like and dislike?

ANSWER...I like it when everyone around me is happy, it is one thing that keeps me moving forward, I
dislike liars, racists, cheaters, gossip, and oppression.

(25) Do You have a Boyfriend, I mean someone who you are in love with now?

ANSWER...I have no one yet, but I would love to have a special someone...but I am just being careful

(26) what Is Your Best Moment?

ANSWER...My best moment was the day I went to the hospital when my wife was giving birth and I
heard the voice of my daughter cry (Emee) and then I knew I was a father with so much joy in my heart
was so happy that day, I felt like running round the whole world.

(27) what is your Worse moment in life?

ANSWER...My worst moment in life was the day I will never forget in my life when I was told that my
father had passed away. I actually cried a lot that day and I was so devastated.

(28) What is Your Favorite type of Music?

ANSWER...Rnb, AND blues.

(29) What are your favourite TV shows, or movies you like watching?

ANSWER...I love watching movies such as Romance, comedy, thrillers, action and adventure, my
favourite TV Shows, I love watching the likes of Oprah Winfrey TV show, Jerry Springer, NCIS,
Supernatural, Legend of the Seeker, 24, Smallville, Heroes, Everybody hates Chris, I also love listening to
news like that of CNN, BBC, FOX news.

I need a woman that I will share my ideas with and have a good time with, someone to share all the
blessings of God and challenges that life would bring. I'm adventurous, romantic, sweet, caring, honest,
loyal, God-fearing and some would say sexy. I suppose it depends on your definition of sexy, however. I
love a good conversation and a great debate. And trust me; I know the difference between a debate and
an argument. I am A lover, not a fighter. But, I will fight very hard for my loved ones. Family and close
friends mean the world to me, and I would do anything for the people in my life. I get bored easily, so I
try to keep things exciting both in my career and my personal life. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy a
quiet evening at home, cuddled up in front of the TV and watching a good movie. With the right person,
anything can be fun, I’m silly and goofy, but also understand there is a time and a place for fun.

(30) Do You have any Doctor's reports concerning Your Health?


ANSWER...I am clean. have no health issues.

(31) Tell me my dear how did you grow up and who did you grow up living with?

ANSWER...My growing up is a very very long story. so we gon leave that for another time.

(32) So my dear tell me Do you believe in distance relationships?

ANSWER...Yes, I do believe in a distance relationship, because I do have faith I will meet a woman who
will love and cherish me as I do.

(33) Are you seeking a particular age range?

ANSWER...I am seeking from 35 upwards, that Is what I am seeking.

(34) Tell me how has your present marital life affected you so far?

ANSWER...It has affected me a lot because me living lonely with only my kids and without a woman to
call my wife, is not making me happy, and my kids also are not happy with me too because they have no
one to call a mother, I need a woman who will make me happy for the rest of my life. their Mom died 8
years after our divorce.

(35) If you have one wish to make, what would it be and why?

ANSWER...My wish is for God to grant me a lovely and understanding woman because that will make me
happy for the rest of my life.
(36) Describe your current occupation; do you like what you do?

ANSWER...My current job is ok because I don't have to leave my family much, cause I work from home. I
only travel when I have a crude oil contract at hand.

(36) What is your dream job?

ANSWER...I am already in my dream job. lemme say I am now living my Dream. but I still have lots and
lots of work to do, for my company to stand right on its feet.

(37) Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?

ANSWER...I do believe in that because that is where you have to show that you love your partner very
much.

(38) if I may ask what went wrong in your past relationship(s)?

ANSWER...My Ex hurts me so much..she crumbled my company for her selfish gains. I filed for divorce.
and she wouldn't return all I have with her..I kept her in charge of my Finances. but she ran away to
Australia with everything Abandoning me and the kids.

(39) How do you feel when someone upset you and what will be your reaction?

ANSWER...I do feel unhappy for that moment, I will just try and tell the person, that what he or she does
did not make me happy but tell him or her never to do it again, that is all I will just do. I am a very calm
person, I don't like arguments.
(40) Whenever you are upset, what are some of the things you do to regain happiness again?

ANSWER...Singing will make me gain my happiness back OR I meditate on my Bible

(41) Do you know what you want in a new partner?

ANSWER...I want my partner, to be caring, understanding, God-fearing, with a good sense of humour,
who is loyal, honest and truthful to the call that will give me all her love as I will love her. I hope this
doesn't sound lame but here it goes. I am currently looking to have a long-term relationship That would
lead to marriage. I would like to meet someone who Is respectful. If you come home after having a bad
day you won’t even have to ask for a back rub. I will give you one because I care about you. I want that to
be a two-way street. A lady who is Humble and calm. I love children. If you have children then you
should actually enjoy being around them. I like someone who is NICE I would like to meet someone who
has a good relationship with her parents and siblings and children.

(42) Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?

ANSWER...I do I will hold her very close to my body.

(43) What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help you succeed in
future relationships?

ANSWER..mine is Love, trust, and understanding.

(44)Who is your mentor?

ANSWER...My mentor is my dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves and take good
care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self-discipline man, my dad is ready to risk
everything he has for his loved ones, but I do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was
really the best dad in the world.
(45) What is your biggest fear?

ANSWER...To lose the one I love and I don’t want to lose anyone close to me again.

I enjoy life in a quiet, peaceful and loving manner; I avoid conflicting situations that may interrupt my
inner peace. I enjoy the company of family, friends and my companion when I find one. Am searching for
someone with similar traits, who will enjoy at least some of the things I like, someone who will
appreciate me for who I am and will support me in all my endeavours to excel in life, who will be my
comforter and share most things with me good or bad, someone I can share my radiance and sunny
disposition with, if you feel you are that person don’t hesitate to go with your mind I can be all you want
and more.

(46) If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your mistakes?

ANSWER...I will admit myself, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences because I am a God-
fearing man, and I do abide by the truth.

(47) If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?

ANSWER. I would help in any way because God in heaven says it is good to help those that are in need,
and he loves a cheerful giver.

(48) In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money than the man?

ANSWER...A good relationship is where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for each
other and they respect one another, I don’t think that there will be a problem with that, to me is no
problem as far as they both love their selves.

(49) What gives you inspiration in life?


ANSWER...When everyone around me is happy, that is what inspires me in life.

(50) Are you financially?

ANSWER...well I would say I am Average

(51) How is life there on your own side of the world?

ANSWER...Over here life is fun when you are friendly to everyone you find out that everyone wants to
make you happy at all times, despite the bills, it is no problem with me, I will just say life here is just fun
and peaceful.

(52) Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

ANSWER...I can be trusted because I am ready to lay down my life for the woman I love.

(53) Have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the man you want to be with in the
future?

ANSWER...i have thought about it. because women here are very self-centred, and the Divorce rate is
very very high and I would not want to pass through a divorce again.

(54) How do you normally spend your leisure time?

ANSWER...Reading novels, watching TV, singing, or cooking


(55) How much do you enjoy walking in the park?

ANSWER...I enjoy it a lot, feeling the fresh air of nature, viewing the beautiful green trees

(56) If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do?

ANSWER...I will have hope and never give up.

(57) What do you dream about at night?

ANSWER...I dream about the future seeing myself in a happy mood.

(58) From your own point of view how do you feel someone can be romantic?

ANSWER...I feel the best way for a person to be romantic is by being your own self; Don't let others tell
you what to do. Pay careful attention to what your mate tells you. It's a very easy thing to do, but it is
often overshadowed by personal thoughts or wants Tell them that they are the best, Kiss often and
comfort each other by holding each other, you can Come up with something no one would expect. Like,
ask your spouse to make love under the kitchen table. Do something creative. Show who you are, Tell
your spouse how you really feel about him/her, that you love them from the inside not just the outside.
Say sweet and loving things like: 'Your eyes can make the sunrise, or words like 'You’re the reason my
heart beats,' or 'You look so good, I wish I could grow a whole field of you, Often the greatest way to
show your love is by giving someone your trust. Open up and tell your mate something about you that
no one else knows.

(59) What are the things you have learned you learned something about yourself from every past
relationship?

ANSWER...Never listen to gossip,


(60) Have you narrowed down your specific desires as to what type of person you want to meet?

ANSWER...I Am looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me, communicate her feelings to me, I
would make her laugh always, hold and comfort her in need, stand by her side, and respect her because I
believe respect is reciprocal in a relationship, passionate lover in every way, support her in every way,
love her and only her because I hate cheating, make her smile, protect her when needed, romantic time
to time, constantly relative, and treat her right... I know you will think what is a handsome man like me
doing on here; Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the
love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is that I do not have the time to meet others out in a
public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has
to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better
understanding of someone than you

would probably otherwise, I am Looking for my soul mate the right woman for my Life someone I will
spend the rest of my life with and a serious relationship that will possibly lead to marriage, someone I
will love and share the Good and bad times together with, that someone I will love and treat as my
Queen and someone to love me and treat me like a King, that lady who will take my kids to be hers and I
will take hers to be mine, I need someone I will call my Wife and someone willing to accept my kids into
her life as she will love me and want me in her Life and I will be very happy if she gives me the chance to
be the father of her Children and take them as my own, I will Love her with my Heart and work as a team
and family happily together.

(61) Have you talked about your feelings with someone else?

ANSWER...I only share my feelings with my Mom and kids for now..but when we get to know more about
each other, I will share my feelings with you

(62) what's Your Favorite Way To Be Touched?

ANSWER...When I don’t know, through my back!!!!

_____ WHEN YOU WANT TO TELL YOUR WOMAN ABIUT FIRST SIGHT LOVE___
My opinion on "Love at first sight." Well ok, what is love? My feeling on what love is, is when you love
someone for who they are, not what they aren't. Also, love is when you think that the person your with,
is your whole world. When they call you on the phone, you get that tingly feeling inside, every time you
get a message from them, you smile and your heart beats a thousand times a minute! Love is, when you
hold his or her hand, and knowing that there is nothing better in the world, than being with him or her. I
think the following terms really sum things up on what love is, which are; Communication, Commitment,
Faithfulness, Understanding of each other, and most of all, Trusting each other. This is what I consider
love , then again I am only 15 years old when i started having a date , but I don't think you're ever to
young or old to know what love is. I also don't think people would ever forget what love is. It's just when
you're not with someone special, you tend to think that you won't find that special person. Sooner or
later the love of your life will come along, and you will never feel the same way about anyone, or
anything! When your in love, it's not just your face that lights up, but it's also your heart!

By saying all of that, on what I thought love was, I would imagine it would take some time to develop,
that kind of an emotion for somebody. Having said that, "Love at first sight" would be almost impossible
to achieve. That's just my little thought on "What love is," but it makes me wonder if it's possible, to truly
all out love somebody, at first sight of seeing them.

Not to go to far off the topic of "Love at first sight," I have my very own little love story. I'm hoping you
have some coffee beside you, to keep you awake as you read this! Just thought I'd warn you!

Well way back in the beginning of grade eight, I started to like this girl. It really wasn't love at first sight,
but I really started to like this girl a lot. As weeks passed, she found out from a friend of mine, that I liked
her. Nothing really happened from there on, I mean I still had the same feelings for her. I was getting
ready to move on, and try to forget about her, but I said to myself that, I think I'll wait awhile see where
it gets me. I waited for quite some time, and nothing happened. I was quite okay with that, in fact I still
kept liking her. I was very shy at this day and age, my friends would try to convince me to confront her,
and actually talk to her for once. I just never got the confidence to go talk to her.

It's about the end of May now, I found out that the girl I liked, liked this dude in the same grade as she
was. Well this dude, didn't really like her back, and he had said something that was rather very rude. I
don't really want to mention what he had said to her, but put it this way, I think the total opposite of
what this dude said to her.

After all of that took place, I don't think she didn't like him afterwards, I don't blame her! It was the end
of the school year, and I can still picture that day, I got to see her last before the summer time. Over the
course of a few weeks in July, I had my first conversation with her. I was very happy to have had that
conversation with her, but we never really said much. Well, we kept in touch, chatting back and forth,
but I can remember, that night when she told one of my friends, that she was starting to like me. I was
tickle pink! So, we began to really get to know each other, and I have to admit, I was liking her more and
more, every day! We were counting down the days, to when school would start. I have to say, so far that
was the best summer I have ever had!

That first day of school was awesome, because I got to see her again! During the first few days, we were
kind of shy to even look at each other. I can remember trying to avoid her a couple of times, but her best
friend, and all of my friends, made me stand there! I was really shy, from what I was told, I was quite red
in the face, so was she. After a few minutes, we started talking, all of my friends left, and her friends left
too. Well we over came being shy, and started to hang out, and talk. About a week passed now, I asked
her out on the 12th of September. She said yes, right after I asked her! She was my very first girlfriend
that I've ever had.

I'd say about a week after I asked her out, couple of my friends took a picture of me and her, I really
didn't like that, but the picture turned out great. The first dance was on October 11th , I believe. Any way
that was a lot of fun, dancing with her all night, and having a few laughs with all my friends! I couldn't
see her the following day, because I had a presentation to do at another school, which kind of sucked,
cause I never got to see her on Friday. Our relationship grew stronger every day, or so it felt that way. Her
parents found out about me, from what she told me, they asked her about million questions! Our first
kiss, was just before the long weekend, in October, and yes that was awesome!

November the 2nd, was when I got her a rose, you should have seen the look on her face! It was
priceless! Only if I had a camera on hand, it would have been an awesome picture. The following week,
was another school dance. We had as much, if not more fun than the last dance there was!

Well, the next week, was the last week we were together. It was a whole misunderstanding, but later on,
she said to me, she just didn't feel like having a boyfriend in her life right now. I was completely okay
with that, I mean it certainly wasn't easy, but I managed to live through it. There was a dance in January,
it was really uncomfortable, because I wasn't used to going to a dance, and not having a good time.
It was a lonely three months. I still liked her. I never gave up on her, I hung out with her, and talked to
her. Well, February came around, and then Valentines Day. The dance was good, but still not even as
good as the last dance, that we were together. That very night, her best friend, came over to me, and
told me to ask her out again. Well, then two minutes later, I was told to wait till tomorrow, so I did. I
asked her out at recess time, she said "I'll have to think about it." Well when she said that I thought, man
she's going to say no. Around the middle of lunch she comes up to me, and says, yes I will go out with
you! That sure took all my worry's away.

The March dance was totally awesome, because we were together, and having lot's of fun! My March
break flew by, but on Thursday night she called me, and we talked for about an hour and a half. That was
fun! I really missed her though, but it made it more exciting to see her, the following week.

We Still are together till this day, and I now tell her, that I Love her, and she says it back. I feel over the
course of a year, I developed a strong relationship, and feel as though I truly do love her! It's not exactly
"Love at First Sight," but oh well! In my opinion, I think its better than love at first sight!

_____ when you want to Toast your woman_____

Actually there is this whole thing going on in my mind since we met.

First let me ask you

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Love at first sight is not just with the physical appearance hope you know that?

Am telling you this because i have study you just for few time we have being chatting, your Character is
what i admired and likes so much,You look Honest and straight forward and that is what i like.

remember what i told you the other day when we were talking about the quality that your partner
should possess
What i wanna say to you is not a thing of joke or play, is something serious and very important to me and
if it does not really come from your heart to accept it, is not a crime you can just tell me okay, So that no
one will be hurt at the end of it all.

I wanna let you know that something has being ringing in my heart since first time after i finish chatting
with you, i have not meet you but i feel for you

You have really touched my heart with your actions, your thought keeps on coming my heart that won't
let me have a break

I like you , let me not talk about love for now, but from here we will get to that I want you to believe
every word am saying to you today, and i mean it from the dept of my heart

I want you to tell me your view and what you feel Can you accept me to be your hero?

Don't bother about the distance for now, the relationship is what i want us to build first before we can
start talking on how we will meet later if it all goes well for us

Although we haven't met but my heart choose you

This is what i feel so i decide to let you know about it

____when you want to give your woman trust____

Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness..... No matter how much you love someone if
you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed.

Say what you mean and mean what you say. Keep and follow through on commitments you make. Be
consistent. Listen empathetically, be present with your partner, and ask questions to better understand
them and your relationship with them.

To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can never find love
through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your
heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your
heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.

Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone
realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help Love makes not everyone,
but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to
make her realize how much you really love her....

Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust
in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.

You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it
never lies trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with
your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.

For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can
only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your
trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient.

Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud.......... It is not rude. It is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the
truth.

It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and
everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and
shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people.......

relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love. Loving
relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a
desire to compromise, and open an honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental
qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire.

We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time.. When your loved one does not offer you
their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love.
We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to
your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many
forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a
phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it.

When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not
agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met.
This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It
might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with
more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that
both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not
willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely
not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.

Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a
relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid
certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume
if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like everything your
partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be
open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful,
because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.

There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and honest
communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship. Engage only in
relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice.
Remember loving relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your
needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These
three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with your partner.

honey you have to trust and believe in me the way i trust and believe in you..

I am honest simple man,i hate lies and dishonesty!i don't wanna encounter with liars,i am interested to
meet good honest and faithful lady and have sincerity

honey some people believe what their fellow mate tell them instead of what their heart tell them..
honey you have to trust and believe what your heart tell you than that of what your fellow mate,
magazine or internet say because they can be wrong at times okay.

_____Mybe she Is thinking why you are giving her love online________

How are you? I hope this letter finds you well and in a space to receive it. I can only imagine what you
may be thinking at this point. Your thoughts may range from “Why is he writing a letter to me when he
probably hasn’t met me yet” to “Why doesn’t he just wait to tell me this face to face”? All valid thoughts
that I hope this letter will explain at some point.

Where do I begin? Well, I want you to know that I have been doing a lot of thinking about you, me and
us. I know it might seem strange to think about something that I don’t have yet but actually it is not.
Before I made my first jump shot, I thought about it. Before I scored my first touchdown, I thought about
it. Before I got behind the wheel of a car for the first time, I thought about what it would feel like to
drive. So you see it is not that difficult to think about you, my future wife.

I want to you know in advance that I am not perfect. But I want you to know that I will always do the
best I can for you, me and us. But it doesn’t mean that I won’t make my mistakes along the way because
no one Is perfect. When I say I will do my best, it simply means that I will try my hardest to make sure
that you and our family don’t have to pay for my mistakes.

I have a past. So do you. I don’t want either of our pasts to potentially damage our great future, my
future wife. My growth as your future husband is incumbent on several things. Don’t keep me out
emotionally when you are confronted with things you think I won’t understand. Allow our future
relationship to be your place of rest and refuge. Talk with me not at me. Have faith in me even when you
are struggling to find it. Always tell me the truth even when you think it might hurt my feelings. Believe
that we as one can conquer anything this world throws our way. Trust me even if you have struggled to
trust men of your past.

I am marrying you because I have faith that you are the woman who was created for me. I am marrying
you because you are everything I want and need in the future. I am marrying you because you are
perfect for me. You will give me a sense of purpose that I never thought was possible before I met you. I
started contemplating that purpose when I first thought of you – but once I find you, I will be on the path
of something greater. I will be grateful to walk that path with you.

My future wife, our children will benefit from our relationship. Material items are nice and I am sure we
will have them for our family. But the real benefits they will receive won’t be material. Our children will
know how to love because they see it from us every day. I will kiss you in front of our kids (even when
they go “ewww”). I will dance with you in front of our kids so they know it is okay for mommy and daddy
to have fun too. We will laugh a lot. They will also learn how to resolve conflict from us. They will learn
that respect starts at home. We, as their future parents, will respect them as the future individuals they
were made to be. We will teach them character and morals, not in what we say but how we act and
what we do. They will learn what a great relationship is like not from TV or music or the internet, but
from us. They will know that they are important to us. But they will also know that no one is more
important on this earth to me than you, my wife.

I hope you are emotionally preparing yourself for what is to come. I don’t want you hold bitterness or
anger from the last guy you wanted to be with in a relationship. I am not him and I don’t want to feel like
I will pay for his transgressions. Those happenings had to happen to bring you to me and me to you. My
future wife, sometimes I may do something that will remind you of him. Let me be clear – I am not him.
I am me. Please remember that. If you haven’t already, forgive the things he did to you for you. If you
struggle with that, I will do my best to support you through it.

My future wife, as I close this out, I want you to know that I can’t promise you that our relationship
won’t have its bumps. It would be disingenuous for me to suggest otherwise. What I can promise is that
our future will be filled with more smiles than frowns, more happy cries than sad ones, more joy than
pain, and more accomplishments than failure as long as we have each other and allow nothing to get in
the way of it. Always know that I have love in my heart for you long before you become my future wife. I
hope and pray our future always is truly forever.

___THE CONTRACT WITH THE UN____

The contract with the United Nations is the biggest contract of my life and everyone's dream because it
is the biggest contract in the world. they paid me 6 million euros before I moved to syria and I bought a
house with this money, my house costs 1 million euros. And now all my money is in Germany because
we are not allowed to go to Yemen with our credit or debit cards because of the bad behaviour of some
soldiers and doctors who used to work here before...

_____My Dad's Investment


My dad invested in an oil company in Qatar, Ever since my dad died I have not been able to access It. the
money is worth 100 million euros. But I plan to take care of that when I leave Yemen. I have been living It
for a long time because the more you live It It the more the money you Invested Increases.

______The kids that are fighting In Yemen. VIDEO CALL FMT

Honey, these little kids are fighting for life there and their parents live here in Yemen, I don't want to put
lives there in jeopardy by video calling you because if I call you terrorists in Yemen use video call to
locate UN staff and kill them.

_____So tell me, what are your plans for your kid's future?

They later grow up to become the youth of society. They are the future of the community and they need
to grow with inspiration and positivity as these will impact the way they live their lives. Give the kids
some good words and let them work on these phrases until they are older.

Motivational quotes can help children improve their sociability. It will give them ample knowledge of the
world and how to walk in it without fear. Plant positive words in their hearts and let them appreciate the
beauty, let them love the world, that love will help them ignore and understand the negativity that will
surround them when they grow up.

If you don't manage your child's behavior when he is young, he will have a hard time learning how to
manage himself when he is older and you aren't around. Any time of the day or night, you should always
be able to answer these three questions: Where is my child? Who is with my child? What is my child
doing? The rules your child has learned from you are going to shape the rules he applies to himself.

_____What do you think comes to stopping misunderstanding In RELATIONSHIP?

Honestly share. Don't hide even a small thing because over time it becomes a bad habit. Letting the
other party know will give birth to mental understanding. In my opinion, just tell the truth from the
beginning.

I understand that some ladies believe men are dogs and love is a scam, but can you give me a chance to
prove them wrong?

_____what Is love to your own understanding?

Essentially, true love means that you have an unwavering,, unbreakable and unparalleled fondness and
devotion for your partner. It's also defined by an emotional as well as physical connection with him or
her that runs immeasurably deep, and life without your significant other would be practically
unthinkable.

_____Do you know what women want In a man?


Do you know Most women love nothing better than to be assured of how deeply valued and cared for
they are. They want to know you cherish them like they are the only ones for you. Whether you choose
words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, or physical touch, it can never be too much when it lets them
know you care.Do you know Most women love nothing better than to be assured of how deeply valued
and cared for they are. They want to know you cherish them like they are the only ones for you. Whether
you choose words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, or physical touch, it can never be too much when
it lets them know you care.

_______Why did you come to work In Yemen?

I worked at a hospital before my wife passed away, and the name of the hospital was Nordwest Frankfurt
Hospital, while working there I always wanted to do more for people, I felt like I should do more.

more but my wife died and I was depressed and felt so lonely I was afraid that my kids would grow up
like me, without a mother and it broke my heart. whenever they ask about their mother, I can never tell
them their mother will never come back to them. but when they finally learned about the Incident, they
were both devastated and cried for days on end when I saw them cry, I broke into a million pieces. so
when I was offered to work for the United Nations and help the citizens of a poor country with medical
facilities and conditions, I thought of it as an opportunity to prevent other families from going through
the same things that my family and I went through.

because I don't want any child to lose a parent or loved one, the pain is indescribable and it never really
goes away.

but then everything goes straight to Hell with the arrival of the Terrorists and their killing and
kidnapping.

And it only gets worse with each passing day many of my friends died and some ran away and died every
day feeling hopeless and the only thing that could put a smile on my face was the joyful screams of
refugee children but suddenly you entered my life and changed my world changed for the better you
cured my depression and gave me hope

I fell in love with you and now you're all I think about, you've become my reason to live

___________________________________________________________________

LIFE LESSONS:

1. In any relationship, if you feel that you are not respected, leave whether it is friendship or love.

2. Sometimes we have to accept forgetting some people from the past. For one simple reason: They
don't belong in our future!
3. I'm not afraid of being stabbed from behind by someone. I'm just afraid when I look back at the
person who stabbed me, it's the same person that I've spent all my heart treating.

4. If someone hates you, scolds you. You just listen calmly and smile at them. That is the high man.

5. Time is the best answer for a love.

6. The more mature, the more lazy people are to explain. Sometimes when someone misunderstands,
we even want to let them find the answer on their own over time. We just need the people we love to
be enough, the rest, it's up to you! Life is to live, not to explain.

7. In the past there were many relationships that were considered forever, but eventually had to end.

8. Friends come and go, lovers also come and go. Only those who scrutinize and slander your stay and
more and more.

9. In life, you will definitely meet someone who breaks the rules, and changes your habits to become
your exception.

10. When you have a crush on someone, the brain automatically ignores all flaws, making us think that
person is "perfect".

11. Most relationships end because one person thinks too much, and the other is silent and doesn't want
to explain. Silence to say goodbye, sounds gentle but is actually painful.

12. When you completely trust someone, you will get one of two results: either a true soul mate or a
bitter lesson for a lifetime.

13. Good friends help you when you feel a fall, not wait until you're out of breath to light incense. New
Dharma Readers

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1. Trust

All relationships are based on trust. To build trust, you must be trustworthy and remain consistent and
dependable with everything you say and do. You should be the kind of person who is absolutely reliable
in every situation.

2. Respect

Take time to purposely express your respect for the people around you. You will find that it makes them
feel valuable and important. In addition, make sure you are a careful and attentive listener. When you
listen carefully, and with total attention, you demonstrate the respect you have for a person’s
uniqueness. This will greatly enhance the quality of your relationship.

3. Time

How much time you physically spend with another person is a critical and elemental factor in
communicating well with another person. The value of a relationship can increase for both you and the
other person depending on the amount of time that you invest in it.

4. Politeness

When you say “please” and “thank you” on a regular basis to the people in your life, you make them feel
better about themselves. You raise their self-esteem, make them feel honored and important, and they
feel good about what they are doing.

5. Caring
The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance. Stop
criticizing, condemning or complaining to people or to others, and start thinking of yourself as a people
builder rather than a people basher.

People builders acknowledge others when they are doing something right. So, always look for ways to
make people feel more valued, respected, loved and appreciated.

7. Praise and appreciation

Remember, the three most powerful words in any relationship are the words “I love you.” Take the time
to show and tell the most important people in your life that you love them, and do it in many different
ways, and as often as possible. Never take for granted that you’re loved ones should “just know” you
love them…tell them! Most human beings have an almost infinite capacity for taking things for granted.

When you express your appreciation to another person for something they do for you, they feel better
about themselves, and they want to do more of it.

7. Cooperation

Be willing to share, contribute, and help each other while having a pleasant attitude. This is an important
facet of lasting relationships.

One of the easiest, most inexpensive ways to build empowering relationships is by always greeting
people with a smile. There is a Chinese proverb that says, “A man without a smiling face must not open a
shop.”

I say, “Smile! It increases your face value!”

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/5-key-principles-of-a-successful-relationship/
https://www.marriage.com/advice/love/how-to-love-someone/

______When you want to talk about Forgiveness In a reeltionship______________________

In relationships, a lack of forgiveness makes resolving conflict much less likely. Research has also shown
that a lack of forgiveness stirs up negative emotions and creates more conflict. Couples who don’t
practice forgiveness are more likely to engage in “negative interpersonal tactics ” and have a poor ability
to compromise or resolve issues. people who practice unconditional forgiveness are more likely to enjoy
longer lives.

It’s important to accept that we all have separate minds and points of view. Each and every one of us is
hurt, defended, flawed, and inevitably going to make mistakes. including you Keisha. Having this
perspective doesn’t mean we should sit back and withstand abuse. However, if we want to enjoy a
lasting relationship with someone we value and choose to spend our lives with, we may want to grow
our ability to forgive.

Couples who practice forgiveness show more behavioral regulation and have more positive motivation
toward their partner. In other words, they drop the case rather than holding a grudge or harboring
resentment. Instead, they put effort into maintaining a positive relationship, in which they are less
hostile or punishing. They inhibit their tendency to damage their relationship by using negative
interpersonal tactics like hitting, berating, or avoiding their partner. which Is very bad.

If you don't learn forgiveness. that might be Bringing anger and bitterness into your relationships An
inability to enjoy the present Depression and anxiety

Feelings that you lack meaning or purpose A loss of connectedness with others

If you are holding grudges for a long time, you will never learn how to love someone.

If you are holding onto anger or resentment, you are obstructing yourself as well from getting loved by
the other person.

Loving someone deeply means that you can easily move on and forgive.
______ when you want to give her some love______

Whenever I'm talking to you, I feel like the luckiest guy in the whole wide world. There's nothing that I
need to hide from you, nothing I can't tell you; there are no uncomfortable silences, no secrets, and no
reason to suspect anything unusual. Our relationship has none of the qualities that make other
relationships fail - it's almost too perfect, but just right at the same time, please i need your heart your
love for us all the time, never let anything weigh you down, keep being possitive in us

We compliment each other in everything we do, making each other stronger. You'll never forget to let
me know just how much you love me and I never forget to let you know just how much I love you as
well. You're the love of my life you're my soul mate.

When i think of what our lives could be like together in the future, I get butterflies and chills all over - it's
just so exciting! I think something like this does happen to everybody; I'm just so lucky it's happened to
me now.

You've filled all the cracks in my soul and you've made me a better person, Baby.....

If it weren't for you, I honestly don't think I could've made it to this day as successfully as I have the
grace of you made me to be where i am today, the contract everyone have been looking and praying for
where given to me the very moment we met each other,you are a blessing to me... I love you with all my
heart and soul, Baby; you know that, and Baby, don't believe for a second that anything could change it.
My happiness is prolonged only because of you.

You're basically all I think about, Baby; when I'm not thinking about you, whatever I'm thinking about has
to do with you. You're my everything, my existence, my love, my mental status, everything, and I want to
thank you for being the person you are ... no matter what people say, Baby. I love you!

From the very first moment I saw you I knew that we were destined to be together. It has been so long
since a woman has captured my attention so fully or made my heart beat the way it did that cool day in
May. Your smile lights up my entire spirit. Your laughter fills me with joy, and your mere presence will
warm any room. I have no doubt you are the woman Heaven has made especially for me.
Thank you for the comfortable conversations and for asking me to be yours. Most importantly, thank you
for sharing your love and wanting to make me your husband. No matter how slowly or at what distance
our courtship developes, I know standing before God and our future family, vowing to be your partner
for life, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.

Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be
apart, I know there is nothing that can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across
any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing
will stop me from meeting you.

You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more every day. I am here
with open arms where you will some day finally arrive... right where you belong.

___

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