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LEADER PREP
Honesty is one of those areas that students that we serve can see Christ very clearly or
vice versa.
Teenagers really do watch us, and that’s one of the reasons that honesty is so
important.
Ask yourself honestly - what was the last lie that you told? (And if you are trying right
now to reason with yourself that ‘it was just a white lie or an omission’ - yes, count that
one).
I don’t know about you, but this is one area in which God is constantly sharpening me.
When I go to God and really ask him to search my heart, my words, and to let me know
how I might have failed - these are the times that I have been not only truly humbled,
but I also find that I hear God more clearly.
Each of us can probably think of a story of a teenager that we’ve known who was
dishonest and it caused them a lifetime of hurt.
This lesson today just might be something that a student will remember in a key time in
which they can make a decision to be honest and save them and others from hurt.
SUPPLIES
Boxes with crazy and creative things to put in boxes for the game (see below)
Choose 2 contestants, one to be the guesser and the other to either tell them the truth
or a lie.
You could even have 2 other youth volunteers hold up a sheet leaving the top open for
the 2 contestants to be able to see one another’s faces.
Try to come up with the most random and strange items to put in shoeboxes.
They will explain or lie and give a made up explanation to the other contestant of the
contents of their box.
Their opponent will guess whether they are telling the truth or lying.
Who surprised you the most with their ‘performance’ in this game?
Share a story from your life, funny or serious, in which you told a lie and the
consequences that followed.
This game and my story show a funny side of lying and being dishonest, but let’s be
honest: It really is a big deal.
I am not going to ask you to share and don’t worry, your parents aren’t hiding in the
back to catch you.
Just think about a lie that you’ve told: Why did you lie?
Now, whether others figured out that you lied—you knew right?
See, that’s the lie that you can tell yourself about lying: That no one will know.
Read the Scripture and have students act it out as you are reading.
When you get to the part where they bring in other debtors, just have the manager grab
people from the crowd!
Jesus told parables to share deep kingdom ideas in simple ways……so what do you
think that Jesus was trying to say with this parable?
I am going to have you get into groups of 5-6 and I want you to come up with 2 theories
of what you think Jesus was trying to teach: and yes, one will be a truth and the other
will be a lie.
We might all be completely confused by the time this lesson is over, but have fun with it.
Give the group about 5 minutes to think of their theories and then, if time allows, give
them a chance to present their theories to the large group.
Try to guess which is the truth, and which is the lie, or if there are more than 6 groups,
have groups pair up to try to guess on each others’ theories.
Jesus actually does go on to give us more clues into what he was trying to get at with
his parable:
So, which of our theories do you think was the closest to what Jesus was trying to say?
The world deals in money and profit, getting ahead and protecting yourself, and
covering your back.
We begin to say, do, and think things are ok that we never would have before, and
sometimes we even come up with rationalizations that sound good to us.
They probably sound good to the world and others might even tell you that what you are
doing is just fine.
By the world’s standards it might be fine, but those aren’t the standards that matter to
God.
Can you think of an example in our culture in which lying is actually ‘ok’?
If you are not honest with a small thing like an answer on a test or telling your parents
what time you REALLY got home, can you be trusted to be honest when the stakes are
much higher?
Does it matter?
Because if we played that game for days and days on end, training ourselves to lie and
how to not give away that we are lying….lying does get easier.
There are probably some of you in this room who can really convince someone that you
are innocent. Right?
Today, I hope that you take some time to look into your own heart.
Don’t worry about the person who is here that you know has lied this week, because
that is not the point, here.
The point is to be honest with yourself about how you have been dishonest.
God knows the truth and he is actually looking for people He can trust to be honest with
themselves.
The more we lie, the more we dull the ability to hear His voice and be led by His
example.
Take some time tonight to be quiet and honest with God and then, this week, when you
are tempted to lie, remember that when you are honest in small things….God can trust
you with big ones.
It says more about you and your character than you can ever know.
Close in prayer.
Can you think of another example of how our culture seems to make it easy to tell lies?
Is it ever ok to lie? If the answer is yes, how do you know when it is ok or not?
What do you think Jesus meant when he said that “if you are faithful in little things, you
will be faithful in large ones” (Luke 16:10)?