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Journal of The American Academy of Psychoanalysis, Vol. 14, No. 1, 95-114 (1986)
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the cultural idea} of physical and mental health for contemporary fe
male adolescents is tied to the emergence of psychopathology in the
form of eating disorders. Research in female adolescent development
indicates that it is normal for girls to be excessively concerned with
their body and to have difficulty with the separation-individuation
process. Concerning the preoccupation with thinness that is the hall
mark of anorexia nervosa (Bruch, 1978), recent research in normal
female adolescent development suggests that it is both normal and
socially adaptive for girls to diet, regardless of any health-related need'
to lose weight. In the clinical literature, Goodsitt (1979) proposes that
anorexia develops in girls who are unable to accept their bodily im
perfections as they reach adolescence; in the developmental literature,
Rosenbaum (1979) suggests that female adolescents are socialized to
be unaccepting of their bodily imperfections. The conceptualization
of eating disorders as a failure to separate and individuate requires
critical analysis, for current research on female adolescent develop
ment suggests that it is appropriate for a girl to “ continuously expe
rience herself in issues of merging and separation” (Chodorow, 1978,
p. 166). In contrast to boys, for whom identity development is the
outcome of increasing experience of separation and gained auton
omy, the female personality develops through attachment to others
(Chodorow, 1978; Gilligan, 1977; Marcia, 1980). Perhaps a clue to
the etiological mystery concerning the current phenomenal increase in
eating disorders can be found in further analysis of the bridge between
normalcy and pathology, when theories of normal development are
viewed in a cultural context.
(Chodorow, 1978, p. 166). Thus, the identity process for the adoles
cent female becomes one of self-differentiation within the context of
relationships; in other words, to have a distinct sense of self but still
be connected to others (Gilligam 1978).
Much has been written about the large extent to which girls with
anorexia “ rely solely on acceptance from others as the criterion for
positive self-evaluation (Garfinkel and Gamer, 1982, p. 24). Since
females develop a sense of identity in the context of relationships,
girls are naturally more dependent on and vulnerable to external ref
erences impacting on their sense of identity. While viewed solely as
a disturbance in the clinical literature, research in normal female ado
lescent development reports that girls are socialized to rely heavily on
external acceptance and feedback to inform their identity.
Girls are encouraged to remain fluid and ambiguous between their
self-definition and external confirmation in self-definition; girls are
oriented toward an external audience for a sense of self, for making
judgments and for signs that will confirm her self-esteem (Douvan and
Adelson, 1966). Kagan (1969) also found that girls at puberty got
their self-concept from the relative success or failure that their social
skills brought them, making them again dependent on the external
audience.
Minuchin (1978) among others has written about the loyal and
peacekeeping familial role of the girl who develops anorexia. Family
systems theory describes girls who are vulnerable to eating disorders
as girls who avoid creating conflict within the enmeshed family sys
tem. Interestingly, the literature on adolescent development points to
a striking sex role difference concerning self-initiated family conflict
by an adolescent. Adolescent boys are encouraged to independently
make life decisions which often lead to crisis and conflict within the
family and with outside authorities; for boys, the experience of himself
in conflict with “ others” is often an identity confirming event. In
contrast, for the adolescent female (who is socialized to be proficient
in interpersonal relationships) to create interpersonal conflict by ini
tiating a decision or disagreement can be experienced by her as a
disconfirmation of the success of her identity formation (Marcia, 1980,
p. 179).
“ In any given society, feminine personality comes to define itself
in relation and connection to other people more than masculine per
sonality does” (Chodorow, 1978, p. 187). The socialization of girls
directs them to be involved with and concerned with others (Chodo
row, 1974, p. 51); and where girls are brought up to nurture and
assume interpersonal responsibility, boys are brought up to deny in
volvement and connection. In analyzing games children play, Lever
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(1976) found that the games boys play prepare them to take a role of
the generalized other and to detach themselves from individual con
nections, and simultaneously provide boys with the organizational skills
necessary for coordinating activities involving large and diverse groups
of people. In contrast, girls’ games did not teach girls to compete, to
autocratically lead large groups of people, or to take a more distrustful
view of participants. Girls’ games taught girls empathy, sensitivity,
and how to take the role of the particular other. By adolescence, girls
have been clearly educated through home, school, the media, and the
culture at large that compliance and dependency and interpersonal
sensitivity are expected of them (Kagan and Moss, 1962; Weitzman,
1975).
One of the major challenges that the adolescent female faces is to
confirm the worth of her interest in relationships, and in so doing,
develop a sense of her own self-worth as an individual (Gilligan,
1982). It follow then that the negative or positive value with which
any culture regards relationships will affect the developing female
identity. There is no doubt that girls are socialized to value relation
ships; the significant question is: Are girls also socialized to value the
values they are given for relationships?
In the last 20 years, a shift in cultural values toward women has
led to a situation that is perhaps confronting today’s teenage females
with a developmental double bind. By adolescence, today’s girls have
simultaneously been socialized to devalue the importance of relation
ships, and value independence and autonomy, toward which males
are socialized. In evaluating the qualities that adolescents attribute to
stereotypically masculine and feminine identities, Broverman and
Broverman (1972) found that by the time youngsters reach adoles
cence, their sex-role stereotyping concéming typically female and male
identities is firmly established. When asked to rate personality strengths,
boys and girls (and mental health professionals) both listed typical
male characteristics asjpositive (strong, competent, fearless, domi
nant) and typical female characteristics (weak, incompetent, anxious,
passive) as negative. Men were valued for being rational and emo
tionally controlled; women were devalued for being overly emotional,
sympathetic, and dependent. To be a valuable human was equated
with being male, and masculinity was defined as being independent.
While it is clear from previously cited findings that adolescent girls
are primarily concerned with the establishment and maintenance of
relationships, neither they themselves, their male peers, nor the current
culture at large condones and supports their poncem. How can the
female adolescent value parts of herself that society suddenly teaches
her to devalue?
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Rather than help the girl relate to her body, own her body, and live
in her body in a creative way that honors the cyclical nature of women,
this example magnifies the pervasive cultural reaction to females which
teaches them to deny the validity and reality of whom they are as
young women. In other words, it is not “ healthy” or socially adaptive
or rewarding for a girl to accept her body; in fact society tells ado
lescent girls that to compromise on their looks is pathological.
Based on the literature on normal female development, it seems
plausible to speculate that any culture that does not support the rela
tional component of female identity development jeopardizes the healthy
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Measures
ANALYSIS
RESULTS
Clinical Interview
Thinking about our society today, what do you think society values in
women?
Oh, well. This is I think the 80s. In the early 80s and the late 70s, they
have developed the idea of the superwoman. And now this woman, she’s
incredible. Not only does she have a gorgeous husband, but she also has
three beautiful children who attend nursery school;- she is beautiful herself.
She’s in perfect shape, and at the same time, she is making $50,000 a
year.
able to take a stand apart from the culture is the capacity for reflective
thinking about the self, which comes through in an emphasis on self-
awareness.
Forty percent of the sample responded in a pattern labelled the Super
Woman pattern (because of the girl’s frequent use of the term “ Super
Woman” ). The Super Woman pattern consists of (1) not identifying
exclusively the new cultural values of autonomy and success in women
but rather attributing to society the more traditional values of caring
and sensitivity toward women and sometimes mentioning some of the
newer values; (2) identifying the independent and autonomously suc
cessful Super Woman as society’s ideal image; and (3) identifying
with the societal image of the Super Woman for their own ideal image
(Table 2 presents an example of Super Woman responses). The pri
mary quality that makes the Super Woman superior is her total inde
pendence from people: she is a “ self-made” woman. Part of being a
self-made woman in this ideal image includes remaking the body to
fit a rigid beauty ideal. The image of the Super Woman is most often
associated with a tall, thin body, a briefcase, and a high level of
independent achievement. Relationships are described more as accom
plishments or appendages— for example, “ She has a lover but she
Thinking about our society today, what do you think society values in
women?
I think they value their ability, their gentleness, and their soft-spokenness.
doesn’t need him.” Missing from the Super Women pattern is a re
flective perspective enabling the self to comment upon and criticize
social convention and values.
The key difference between the two patterns centers around their
visions of adulthood and what will be fulfilling. When asked to imag
ine their lives in the future, Super Women used a lot of superlatives:
a famous actress, fabulously wealthy, a corporate president. This is
very different from Wise Women who talk about the future in terms
of self; “ self-fulfillment, self-satisfaction, believes in herself.” Wise
Women who reject the cultural image of the Super Woman are able
to envision an ideal of adulthood that makes connectedness to self and
others central. It is a vision that supports maturation. Super Women
who identify with the cultural image of an autonomous, independent
woman are unable to hold for themselves a vision of adulthood that
integrates the relational aspect of themselves. For them, maturation
becomes a process of loss, not gain.
The central finding of this research is that girls who are able to
identify contemporary cultural values and ideal images of women that
are unsupportive of core female adolescent developmental needs and
who are also able to reject these values in chosing their own female
ideal image are not prone to eating disorders. Girls who are unable to
identify the societal values that are detrimental to their developmental
needs, and who identify with the ideal image that if projected by these
values, are at risk for developing eating disorders.
This interpretation highlights a sequence in which cultural values
are perceived as influencing eating behavior. Although it is equally
possible that values resulting from eating disorders could affect girls’
perceptions of cultural values, this interpretation will focus on the
possible influence cultural values have on eating disorders.
This data can begin to address the theoretical question of whether
a continuum exists between normal female adolescent development
and the development of eating disorders. The results confirm the find
ings reported in the literature, that it is normal for today’s female
teenagers to be concerned with their weight. However, the consistent
differences in responses of Wise Women and Super Women to eating
behavior questions indicate that when thinness and dieting become
associated with an image of women that is based on autonomy and
that is not relational, girls become increasingly at risk for the devel
opment of eating disorders. In other words, Wise Women are con
cerned about their weight and looks but not in a way that leads them
to eating-disordered behavior. It seems safe to speculate that their
concern is more directed toward boy and the social arena and is thus
linked to psychosocial development. In contrast, Super Women seem
to associate thinness with autonomy, success, and recognition for inde
pendent achievement, which represent a specific cluster of new cul
tural values toward women. It is a vision of autonomy and independence
that excludes connection to others and a reflective relationship with
oneself. This preliminary study suggests that a continuum from normal
female adolescent development to the development of eating disorders
may exist when thinness and normal dieting become symbolically tied
to autonomous career achievement and a denial of the importance of
and need for interpersonal relationships. In this light, it is possible
that eating disorders emerge at adolescence because it is at this point
in development when females experience themselves to be at a cross
roads in their lives where they must shift from a relational approach
to life to an autonomous one, a shift that can represent an intolerable
loss when independence is associated with isolation.
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which prevents the initiation and transition into young adulthood, fur
ther resembles a hunger strike undertaken by a group who may have
a vision of impending calamity and danger.
On a cultural level, these adolescent truth tellers may be carrying
a critical vision— some, literally dying to communicate it—about the
impoverishment of a culture; a culture that does not nourish itself by
valuing interrelatedness. Our culture has a mythic image of independ
ence that does not include interdependence. This is most frighteningly
clear in our government’s proposal of an independent and isolated
nuclear war that would theoretically not endanger America. From looking
at the universal symbolism associated with the female body, and from
numerous conversations with adolescent females who have various
kinds of eating-related problems, a consistent picture has emerged:
On a personal level, in their familial relationships, these girls have
suffered from the kinds of unempathic, emotionally distant, and si
multaneously enmeshed family relationships described in the clinical
literature~(Bruch, 1978, Geist, 1982, Gordon, 1984). Equally impor
tant to them and as profoundly disturbing is each girl’s vision of how
their family situation is a miniature reflection of an equally disturbed
culture. It is important to emphasize in stressing the pathology of the
culture with respect to female development and suggesting that it is
difficult to explain the current rise in eating disorders without consid
ering cultural factors, this paper does not imply that eating disorders
are simply the result of cultural forces. Rather, it indicates how patho
logical patterns of experiences within the family and pathological val
ues in the culture join. It is precisely because the family and culture
mirror each other that the Super Women have difficulty finding a
critical perspective. In an enmeshed family system, growing up is
often associated with betrayal and isolation; for the girl with anorexia
nervosa, such differentiation from mother and father is often feared
as a loss of connection, a paradigm that parallels the cultural bias
which defines adulthood in terms of independence and not interde
pendence.
Girls with eating disorders have a heightened, albeit confused, grasp
of the dangerous imbalance of the culture’s values, which they cannot
articulate in the face of the culture’s abject denial of their adolescent,
intuitive truth, so they tell their story with their bodies. Perhaps, on
a cultural level, theirs is a story about the enormous difficulties of
growing up female in a culture that does not value the feminine “ voice”
which speaks about relationships and the importance of interdepend
ence. The girls will not break their fast until they are sure they can
gain adulthood without the loss of their relational values.
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