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Mate preferences received a lot of attention in the recent decades due to their importance in
sexual selection, which plays a key role in human evolution (Zietsch, B. P et al., 2012).
Individuals tend to choose partners who possess certain likable traits. Some examples of such
traits are intelligence, attractiveness and certain skills (Buss, D. M. 1989). There are many
theories on the domain of human mating. One of those is Freud who proposed that people
seek mates who resemble their opposite sex parents (Buss, D. M., & Schmitt, D. P. 2019).
For this instance, individuals’ tend to be drawn to a partner who treats them like their
opposite sex parents where they feel secured and loved the same way the parents make them
feel (Buss, D. M., & Schmitt, D. P. 2019). Another example will be Winch who proposed that
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people seek mates who possess the qualities that they lack in themselves (Buss, D. M., &
Schmitt, D. P. 2019). For this instance, individuals’ tend to be drawn to partners who has the
particular qualities that the individual lacks to make them feel completed. (Buss, D. M., &
Schmitt, D. P. 2019). These preferences are believed to have evolved as a result of natural
During the process of evolution, individuals with higher desired qualities have a higher
mating advantage as compared to individuals who have lower desired qualities (Buss, D. M.,
& Schmitt, D. P. 2019). Many evolutionary psychology studies have addressed the topic of
mate preferences focusing mainly on gender and cultural factors (Marzoli D et al., 2013).
Individual’s mate preferences show some similarities across different cultures, both sexes
preferring partners who are intelligent, kind, understanding and healthy, and that share their
values (Marzoli D et al., 2013). However, women and men faced rather different selection
This essay discusses the roles of evolutionary, sociocultural, and other contextual factors in
determining human mate preferences. Currently, the evolutionary theories and sociocultural
theories are the two theoretical framework that provide more in-depth knowledge into the
proximate factors which related to the mate selection process. These factors play a
potential mates. Five predictions were made about sex differences in human mate
human reproductive capacity, and sexual asymmetries regarding certainty of paternity versus
maternity (Buss, D. M. 1989). Results from the research in which 37 samples were used from
33 countries show that females were found to value cues to resource acquisition in potential
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mates more highly than males (Buss, D. M. 1989). The research also showed that
characteristics signalling reproductive capacity were valued more by males than by females
(Buss, D. M. 1989). However, Research has consistently shown that women's mate
preferences can vary throughout their reproductive cycle, particularly during the ovulatory
phase (Gangestad et al., 2007). During this phase, women may exhibit distinct behavioural
During the fertile phase, women tend to exhibit a greater attraction towards masculine traits
in potential mates (Gangestad et al., 2007). These traits often include physical strength,
dominance, and symmetrical facial features such as strong jawline, muscular physique, and
facial symmetry. This shift towards masculinity might be an adaptive strategy driven by
evolutionary instinct to select mates with high genetic quality and the ability to provide
offspring with good health and survival advantages (Gangestad et al., 2007). Conversely,
during non-fertile phases of the menstrual cycle, women tend to show a preference for more
nurturing and reliable characteristics in potential partners (Gangestad et al., 2007). This shift
in mate preferences may reflect a desire for stable long-term relationships and investment in
offspring care (Gangestad et al., 2007). It is believed that during ovulation, women are
biologically wired to seek partners who possess genes associated with good health and high
fertility. Masculine features are often indicative of these qualities, as they suggest
reproductive success. The observed changes in women's mate preferences across the
ovulatory cycle have significant implications for understanding human mating behaviour
and its evolution. These shifts in preferences suggest that women may be adapting their
choices to maximize reproductive success during different phases of their menstrual cycle.
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Sociocultural factors play a significant role in shaping mate preferences as well. Cultural
norms, values, and socialization processes influence what individuals find attractive in
potential partners (Karandashev et al., 2020). For example, in societies where arranged
marriages are common, mate preferences may be influenced by family and community
expectations rather than personal choice. Media and popular culture also play a role in
shaping mate preferences. Images portrayed in movies, television shows, and advertisements
often reinforce certain beauty standards and idealized notions of romance. These influences
can shape individuals' perceptions of attractiveness and influence their mate preferences
Other factors can also influence mate preferences. These factors include personal
such as personality traits and attachment styles, can also influence mate preferences. For
example, individuals with a high need for affiliation may prioritize warmth and emotional
intimacy in a partner, while those with a high need for achievement may prioritize ambition
and success. Situational factors, such as proximity and availability, can also impact mate
preferences. People are more likely to form relationships with individuals they come into
Physical proximity is defined as the physical nearness or psychologically creates chance for
two people meet each other. It is one of the factor that affecting human mate preferences that
bring two person the male and female interacting or placed themselves closer to a liked
person (Jonason et al., 2017). Physical proximity plays a pivotal role in shaping initial
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attraction between potential mates (Jonason et al., 2017). Research has consistently shown
that individuals are more likely to develop romantic interest in people they encounter
frequently or are physically close to. This phenomenon, known as the mere exposure effect,
suggests that familiarity breeds attraction. When individuals are in close proximity, they
have increased opportunities for interaction and observation, allowing them to gather more
information about each other's physical appearance, behaviour, and personality traits
cues such as body language and scent, which heavily influence initial attraction. Hence, the
study of mate preferences and physical proximity reveals a complex interplay between
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Bereczkei, T., Varos, S., Gal, A., & Bernath, L. (1997). Resources, attractiveness, family
commitment; reproduction decisions in Human Mate Choice. Ethology, 103(8), 681-699.
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/j.1439-0310.1997.tb00178.x?
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