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PERSONAL MASTERY
1. Introduction
2. Result Orientation
3. Ownership and Accountability
4. Collaborative Ways Of Working
5. How To Be A Good Team Player
6. Ability To Work With Various Stakeholders
7. Agile Mindset
8. DevOps Mindset
9. Developing The Consultative Mindset
10. Stress Management
11. Continuous Learning Culture
Introduction
• Personal Mastery is one of the 5 Learning Disciplines first promulgated by Peter Senge.
• Personal mastery is the discipline of continually clarifying and deepening our personal vision,
of focusing our energies, of developing patience, and of seeing reality objectively. People with a
high level of personal mastery are able to consistently realize the results that matter most deeply
to them.”-Peter Senge-The Fifth Discipline Fieldbook
• An essential ingredient for super-happiness in life is discovering personal mastery. It is
about our journey towards continuous improvement and seeing life from a different
perspective.
• “You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer and forge yourself one.”
―Henry David Thoreau
➢ Personal Purpose : In many ways precedes Personal Vision. We all crave meaning in
our lives. We want to feel our lives matter and know how we make a difference, what
our special gifts, talents and contributions are and why we do what you do. Purpose
fuels passion. It’s energising.
➢ Personal Values : Being clear on values you consciously choose to hold – and
changing them if they ill-match – is at the heart of attributes like integrity and
authenticity.
➢ Personal Alignment : Is the degree to which our personal vision, purpose, values and
behaviours are congruent with each other. When these things match-up closely, huge
amounts of positive power and energy can be unleashed. and we find the creative
capacity to re-shape and re-new ourselves.
➢ Personal Perception : It’s also about your ‘self-identity’ and ‘self-concept’, which is
the source of your ‘self-esteem’ and the degree to which you learn to perceive yourself
accurately.
As we focus outwards, another question comes into focus: “Is how I see myself and what
I stand for the same as others see me?” This relates to how accurately leaders see
themselves, which also extends to how you see other people, events and situations too.
Our way of seeing impacts our way of being which links to personal awareness.
➢ Personal Awareness : Is how much you know (or are willing to know) about yourself
what makes you the way you are, your wants, drives, needs, desires and preferences. It’s
being able to step back and become an observer of what you’re really are.
➢ Personal Transformation : Is the creative capacity we all have to re-shape, re-new or
re-invent ourselves to be more in harmony with our personal vision, values and purpose.
The ability to bridge those unavoidable gaps between personal vision and present reality
is a key action-element of Personal Mastery.
• Ownership & Accountability means individuals and teams taking accountability for the
quality and success of both the output and outcomes of their work. Both of these are
important, as ownership doesn’t mean perfection. It means knowing why you are doing
the work (the outcome) and making sure that what you produce (the output) is fit-for-
purpose. It also means understanding, learning, and challenging rather than mindlessly
following instructions.
• Accountability is to be held to account for the fulfillment of your duties and
responsibilities. Accountability requires answers and entails consequences.
Accountability is not a feeling like ownership or responsibility, rather accountability is a
process that is usually external. Someone holds you accountable, although a sense of
ownership means that you will also hold yourself accountable as well.
• Collaboration is defined as the action of working with one or more people to produce an
output or reach a goal. If used well collaboration brings in strong synergy in teams and
helps achieve results much higher than what could be achieved by the individuals.
• “Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is
success.” –Henry Ford
• 10 most common barriers to effective team communication:
➢ Physical Separation and Lack of Contact Among Team Members.
➢ Gender Differences.
➢ Generational Differences. ➢ A lack of Trust.
➢ Cultural Diversity ➢ Noise
➢ Language Differences ➢ Information overload.
➢ Differences in Values and Beliefs. ➢ Personal Biases and Prejudices.
• Communicate
• Be a problem solver
• Know your role and your limits
• Take initiative
• Stick to your deadlines
• Know your strengths
• Support your teammates
• Share information
• Ideal Team Player have the below characteristics: 1. Humble 2. Hungry 3. Smart
• Behaviors of cohesive team - ● Trust ● Conflict ● Commitment & Result
● Accountability
• A good team player has following characteristics :- ● Accountability ● Flexibility
● Positivity ● Commitment ● Integrity
• Identify stakeholders
• Determine stakeholder interests
• Manage conflicts
• Prioritize outcomes
• Organize communication
• Establish reporting methods
• Be adaptable
• Use a stakeholder management platform
Agile Mindset
• “Growth mindset is based on the belief that your basic qualities are things you can
cultivate through your efforts. Although people may differ in every which way in their
initial talents and aptitudes, interests, or temperaments, everyone can change and grow
through application and experience. This is important because it can actually change
what you strive for and what you see as success” – Carol Dweck
• “If you imagine less, less will be what you undoubtedly deserve,” - Debbie Millman
• “The more you seek the uncomfortable, the more you will become comfortable” -
Conon McGregor
• Ways to develop growth mindset :-
➢ Acknowledge and embrace imperfections - Hiding from your weaknesses means
you’ll never overcome them.
➢ View challenges as opportunities - Having a growth mindset means relishing
opportunities for self-improvement.
➢ Try different learning tactics - There’s no one-size-fits-all model for learning. What
works for one person may not work for you.
➢ Follow the research on brain plasticity - The brain isn’t fixed; the mind shouldn’t
be either.
➢ Replace the word “failing” with the word “learning.” - When you make a mistake
or fall short of a goal, you haven’t failed; you’ve learned.
➢ Stop seeking approval - When you prioritise approval over learning, you sacrifice
your own potential for growth.
➢ Value the process over the end result - Intelligent people enjoy the learning process,
and don’t mind when it continues beyond an expected time frame.
➢ Cultivate a sense of purpose - Dweck’s research also showed that students with a
growth mindset had a greater sense of purpose. Keep the big picture in mind.
➢ Celebrate growth with others - If you truly appreciate growth, you’ll want to share
your progress with others.
➢ Emphasise growth over speed - Learning fast isn’t the same as learning well, and
learning well sometimes requires allowing time for mistakes.
➢ Reward actions, not traits - Tell students when they’re doing something smart, not
just being smart.
➢ Redefine “genius.” - The myth’s been busted: genius requires hard work, not talent
alone.
➢ Portray criticism as positive - You don’t have to used that hackneyed term,
“constructive criticism,” but you do have to believe in the concept.
➢ Dissassociate improvement from failure - Stop assuming that “room for
improvement” translates into failure.
➢ Provide regular opportunities for reflection - Let students reflect on their learning
at least once a day.
➢ Place effort before talent - Hard work should always be rewarded before inherent
skill.
➢ Highlight the relationship between learning and “brain training.” - The brain is
like a muscle that needs to be worked out, just like the body.
➢ Cultivative Grit- Students with that extra bit of determination will be more likely to
seek approval from themselves rather than others.
➢ Abandon the image - “Naturally smart” sounds just about as believable as
“spontaneous generation.” You won’t achieve the image if you’re not ready for the work.
➢ Use the word “yet.” - Dweck says “not yet” has become one of her favourite phrases.
Whenever you see students struggling with a task, just tell them they haven’t mastered it
yet.
➢ Learn from other people’s mistakes - It’s not always wise to compare yourself to
others, but it is important to realise that humans share the same weaknesses.
➢ Make a new goal for every goal accomplished - You’ll never be done learning. Just
because your midterm exam is over doesn’t mean you should stop being interested in a
subject. Growth-minded people know how to constantly create new goals to keep
themselves stimulated.
➢ Take risks in the company of others - Stop trying to save face all the time and just
let yourself goof up now and then. It will make it easier to take risks in the future.
➢ Think realistically about time and effort - It takes time to learn. Don’t expect to
master every topic under the sun in one sitting.
➢ Take ownership over your attitude - Once you develop a growth mindset, own it.
Acknowledge yourself as someone who possesses a growth mentality and be proud to let
it guide you throughout your educational career.
• There are many definitions of an Agile mindset, but the general consensus is that it:
To me, an agile mindset is "There is no failure, only feedback." It's about taking
everything as lessons, adjusting actions according to the feedback, and proceeding
toward desired outcomes, resulting in continuous improvement.
• Attributes Of Agile Mindset -
DevOps Mindset
• DevOps Culture -
➢ Clan culture : It is centered at collaboration within the team. The main thesis is that
keeping the team members satisfied and committed to a common goal is crucial to
ensuring high IT performance of the business. The main source of effectiveness is the
participation of the team members in the decision-making process and the team leaders
are the mentors and coaches, centered at helping the individuals and teams to improve
and move forward.
➢ Adhocracy : This is the breeding force of startups when the biggest value is given to
the innovative solutions that open new business opportunities. The teams with this
culture should be agile and adaptive, quick with adopting innovations, and the leaders
are innovators and visionaries able to inspire their staff.
➢ Market culture : This approach to business culture honors competition, both internal
and external above all. The teams are aimed at constantly improving their results
through devoting more effort in over to grow as a team and gain a competitive
advantage over other market players. The leaders in this culture must be good at
multitasking and invigorating their teams to achieve the goals despite any obstacles.
➢ Improve beyond the limits of today's processes - Strive to always innovate and
improve beyond repeatable processes and frameworks.
➢ No new silos to break down silos - Inspire and share collaboratively instead of
becoming a hero or creating a silo.
Stress Management
• The VUCA (Volatility, Uncertainty, Complexity and ambiguity) world we live and
operate in, brings with it a typical health hazard of stress. Between juggling work,
family, and other commitments, one can become too stressed out and busy. No matter
how stressful your life seems, there are ways you can follow to relieve the pressure and
regain control. Learning how to manage your stress takes practice, but you can -- and
need to -- do it.
➢ Have realistic expectations: There is a limit to what one can do or achieve within a
fixed period. Set targets that are realistic and achievable for yourself as well as for your
team. Understand the fine line between a challenge and pressure. While accepting more
responsibilities can be challenging, ensure that it does not put undue pressure on you.
When the going is tough, learn to say “No”.
➢ Plan in advance: When planning a project or work, make provision for roadblocks
and delays in work. This ensures that you have time to troubleshoot or address problems
and yet meet the deadline. Anticipating problems will prepare you to handle them better
thereby causing lesser stress.
➢ Prioritize your tasks: Prioritize your tasks into what needs immediate attention, what
are routine and what can wait.
➢ Think delegation: Remember that you don’t have to do it all. There are others who
can pitch in to speed up things for you. Delegate tasks that can be done by others.
➢ Adapt to change: Sometimes, individuals find it hard to accept changes that take
place around them. They remain unwilling to adjust to the changing demands of the
organization. This only increases the stress factor. Being flexible helps to have an open
mind and ensures that you adapt to change smoothly.
• Dealing with stress (fight & flight) - ● Action based approach ● Acceptance based
approach ● Emotion based approach
1. Introduction
2. Problem Solving Process
3. Analytical and Creative Skills
4. Framing The Problem
5. Problem Solving Tools and Techniques
6. Inventing Option
7. Holistic Approach
8. Multi-Dimensional Approach
Introduction
• This article written by Wharton magazine covers the fundamentals of problem solving -
➢ Define the Real Problem ➢ Keep the solution simple
➢ Solve the Root Cause of the Problem ➢ Do not re-invent the wheel
➢ Use a Hypothesis ➢ Gain momentum in problem solving
➢ Get the Facts ➢ Consider time
➢ Focus on the Solution, Not the Problem ➢ List out as Many Solutions as Possible
➢ Adapt 5 Whys to Clearly Define the Problem ➢ Think Laterally
➢ Simplify Things ➢ Use Language That Creates Possibility
• Problem-solving Styles
• Barriers to problem-solving :
➢ Assumptions/Unnecessary constraints: When dealing with a problem, people can
make assumptions about the constraints and obstacles that prevent certain solutions.
Thus, they may not even try some potential options.
➢ Functional fixedness: This term refers to the tendency to view problems only in their
customary manner. Functional fixedness prevents people from fully seeing all of the
different options that might be available to find a solution.
• Problem-solving strategies :
➢ Algorithms – An algorithm is a step-by-step procedure that, by following certain
"rules" produces a solution.
➢ Heuristics – Heuristics are shortcut strategies that people can use to solve a problem
at hand. These "rule of thumb" approaches allow you to simplify complex problems,
reducing the total number of possible solutions to a more manageable set.
➢ Trial and Error - A trial-and-error approach to problem-solving involves trying a
number of potential solutions to a particular issue, then ruling out those that do not
work.
➢ Insight - In some cases, the solution to a problem can appear as a sudden insight. You
are facing an issue in a relationship or your career when, out of nowhere, the solution
appears in your mind and you know exactly what to do.
• Biases of problem-solving :
➢ Confirmation bias - This occurs when we favour information that confirms our
existing beliefs. For example, during an election, people tend to seek out positive
information that puts their favoured candidate in a good light. The media use this to their
advantage all the time. They provide compelling points to encourage us to formulate an
opinion. Any other evidence that might contradict this is usually undermined, or not
reported.
➢ Recency bias - This is when we place greater importance on information that we’ve
recently acquired. A classic example of this is financial traders looking at only the most
recent events whilst disregarding older pieces of information which are equally
important (and sometimes more important).
➢ Framing bias - This concerns how we are influenced by the way information is
presented, as opposed to the information itself. For example, a yoghurt could be labelled
as 90% fat free or, alternatively, as containing 10% fat. Similarly, a burger could be
‘framed’ as being 75% fat free as opposed to being labelled as containing 25% fat.
Which of those options sounds the most appealing?
• Critical thinking is the ability to think clearly and rationally, understanding the logical
connection between ideas. It includes the ability to engage in reflective and independent
thinking.
• Debating an argument is part of reaching a logical conclusion and solving problems.
One needs to use strategic thinking to identify and judge arguments, recognize logical
fallacies and persuasion techniques, and make effective arguments of your own.
• Critical thinking and creative thinking go hand-in-hand
• Creative thinking is the ability to look at things with a fresh perspective to be able to
generate new, unorthodox ideas which can help in solving problems. Creativity and the
need for it is not limited only to artists, designers or those in a creative profession. Each
of us can develop and benefit from it.
• Articulating a problem requires asking the right people the right questions.
• Root Cause Analysis - Root cause analysis helps identify what happened, how it
happened, and why it happened. It should not be mistaken for fault diagnosis, which is
the first level of investigation. For example, if the line has stopped operating, the first
step is to diagnose what has caused it to stop: is it the motor, the gearbox, the power
supply, a sensor? Conversely, RCFA (root cause failure analysis) recognises that
complete prevention of recurrence by one corrective action is not always possible.
• Norman Vincent Peale, who stressed the need for analysing a problem in detail, once
said, 'When a problem appears, study it until you are completely knowledgeable. Then,
find the spot, break the problem apart and the rest will be easy.' A fact-based, honest
analysis happens at two main steps in the problem-solving process: first, when you
analyse problems to identify the root causes and then, when you evaluate and analyse
potential solutions to determine the one that has the maximum chance of success.
• Objectives
➢ Identifying the real problem
➢ Generating possible solutions
➢ Selecting the best solution
➢ Recall how to keep a problem well defined using logic maps.
➢ Recognize how to use a 2x2 matrix to prioritize solutions
• Problem-solving and Problem analyzing tools -
➢ Problem data gathering tools
Brain storming
Gap Analysis
Employee surveys
➢ Potential problem analysis
FMEA Analysis (Failure Mode and Effective Analysis)
Plan Do Check Act Cycle (PDCAC)
Potential problem analysis to identify other problems or risk
➢ Problem Analysis tools
Fishbone diagram Pareto principle and Pareto charts
5 whys Process flow charts
Root cause analysis Problem Trees
Inventing Options
• Before generating alternative potential solutions to a problem, it's helpful to have a sense
of the 'ideal state' – what the situation would look like if people had a magic wand. This
provides some direction to those coming up with new ideas. Once ideas and alternatives
are on the table, evaluating which ones are the best to implement can be a daunting task
• Idea Generation Techniques : -
Multi-Dimensional Approach
• Design thinking is a creative approach to problem solving with a human centered core.
The focus of this approach is on the user and it starts with asking the right questions.
• The five stages to design thinking process are :-
➢ Empathize
“To create meaningful innovations, you need to know your users and care about their
lives.”
Empathy is the centerpiece of a human-centered design process. The Empathize mode is
the work you do to understand people, within the context of your design challenge. It is
your effort to understand the way they do things and why, their physical and emotional
needs, how they think about world, and what is meaningful to them.
➢ Define
“Framing the right problem is the only way to create the right solution.”
The Define mode of the design process is all about bringing clarity and focus to the
design space. The goal of the Define mode is to craft a meaningful and actionable
problem statement – this is what we call a point-of-view. This should be a guiding
statement that focuses on insights and needs of a particular user, or composite character.
Insights don’t often just jump in your lap; rather they emerge from a process of
synthesizing information to discover connections and patterns.
➢ Ideate
“It’s not about coming up with the ‘right’ idea, it’s about generating the broadest range
of possibilities.” Ideate is the mode of the design process in which you concentrate on
idea generation. Mentally it represents a process of “going wide” in terms of concepts
and outcomes. Ideation provides both the fuel and also the source material for building
prototypes and getting innovative solutions into the hands of your users.
➢ Prototype
“Build to think and test to learn.”
The Prototype mode is the iterative generation of artifacts intended to answer questions
that get you closer to your final solution. In the early stages of a project that question
may be broad – such as “do my users enjoy cooking in a competitive manner?” A
prototype can be anything that a user can interact with – be it a wall of post-it notes, a
gadget you put together, a role-playing activity, or even a storyboard. Ideally you bias
toward something a user can experience. Walking someone through a scenario with a
storyboard is good, but having them role-play through a physical environment that you
have created will likely bring out more emotions and responses from that person.
➢ Test
“Testing is an opportunity to learn about your solution and your user.”
The Test mode is when you solicit feedback, about the prototypes you have created,
from your users and have another opportunity to gain empathy for the people you are
designing for. Ideally you can test within a real context of the user’s life. For a physical
object, ask people to take it with them and use it within their normal routines. For an
experience, try to create a scenario in a location that would capture the real situation. If
testing a prototype in situ is not possible, frame a more realistic situation by having
users take on a role or task when approaching your prototype. A rule of thumb: always
prototype as if you know you’re right, but test as if you know you’re wrong—testing is
the chance to refine your solutions and make them better
Holistic Approach
• The first step to any successful conversation is the ability to build a sense of trust.
• Let’s explore the key elements to building trust and its importance.
• The article below introduces some ideas about how you can work towards building or
restoring trust.
• “To earn trust, money and power aren’t enough; you have to show some concern for
others. You can’t buy trust in the supermarket." – His Holiness the Dalai Lama
• Six Building Blocks of Trust :-
➢ Reliability and Dependability: A person or group that is true to their word and
fulfills their commitments encourages trust.
➢ Transparency: People are anxious about unknowns and tend to assume the worst
when they’re not informed about a new development. When management meets in
secret or does not share important information, team members can easily become
distrustful. On the other hand, when people share their thoughts, feelings and
considerations, or when an organization, usually through its leader, tells its members
what is going on, everyone knows where they stand and trust can flourish.
➢ Competency: This is another element that is central to building trust. If you think a
person, leader or organization is not capable of doing what they are supposed to do, you
cannot trust them. Therefore, even when a person has a good heart or good intentions
and we like them personally, they cannot win our trust if they’re not capable of doing
what they promise.
➢ Sincerity, Authenticity and Congruency: People can often sense when someone
says something that is not aligned with what they are feeling inside. When a leader is
insincere or inauthentic, people don’t believe what he or she is saying. A leader who
says one thing but who acts differently is not congruent. For example, it is hard to
believe someone who says they want to listen but does not give you a chance to speak,
or someone who says she is concerned about people yet seems to have a plan to lay
people off. People may think they can hide their true feelings or contradictions, but
others can quickly detect a lack of sincerity or congruency. That’s when trust is eroded.
➢ Fairness: Some people act as if the needs and desires of others are not important, or
they don’t truly listen to or respect both sides. Trust cannot grow in a relationship where
it’s all about one person or in a workplace where all the energy is focused on the
company or leader.
➢ Openness and Vulnerability: If a person never says they are wrong and apologizes
or acknowledges their mistakes, other people do not feel comfortable disagreeing with
them or sharing their own thoughts. A leader who is “never wrong” never gets the truth
from others. Yet a timely apology or admission of being wrong is a powerful weapon to
build or rebuild trust.
• Once we have acquired the ability to quickly build trust with stakeholders, we can use it
to:
– Persuade
– Influence
– Negotiate
– Manage Conflicts
– Overall – have an excellent communication with client and partners
• The Greek philosopher Aristotle introduced a concept called the three “modes of
persuasion” He coined the terms Ethos, Pathos and Logos referred to as the three modes
of persuasion. They are means of persuading others to believe a certain point of view.
Aristotle’s modes of persuasion should be at the heart of almost every speech. They
build credibility, stir emotions, and prompt action
• Modes Of Persuasion - Ethos, Pathos, and Logos are modes of persuasion used to
convince audiences. They are also referred to as the three artistic proofs (Aristotle
coined the terms), and are all represented by Greek words.
Ethos - the ethical appeal, means to convince an audience of the author’s credibility or
character. An author would use ethos to show to his audience that he is a credible source
and is worth listening to. Ethos is the Greek word for “character.” The word “ethic” is
derived from ethos.
Ethos can be developed by choosing language that is appropriate for the audience and
topic (this also means choosing the proper level of vocabulary), making yourself sound
fair or unbiased, introducing your expertise, accomplishments or pedigree, and by using
correct grammar and syntax. During public speaking events, typically a speaker will
have at least some of his pedigree and accomplishments listed upon introduction by a
master of ceremony.
Pathos - or the emotional appeal, means to persuade an audience by appealing to their
emotions. Authors use pathos to invoke sympathy from an audience; to make the
audience feel what what the author wants them to feel. A common use of pathos would
be to draw pity from an audience. Another use of pathos would be to inspire anger from
an audience, perhaps in order to prompt action. Pathos is the Greek word for both
“suffering” and “experience.” The words empathy and pathetic are derived from pathos.
Pathos can be developed by using meaningful language, emotional tone, emotion
evoking examples, stories of emotional events, and implied meanings.
Logos - or the appeal to logic, means to convince an audience by use of logic or reason.
To use logos would be to cite facts and statistics, historical and literal analogies, and
citing certain authorities on a subject. Logos is the Greek word for “word,” however the
true definition goes beyond that, and can be most closely described as “the word or that
by which the inward thought is expressed" and, "the inward thought itself" (1). The word
“logic” is derived from logos.
Logos can be developed by using advanced, theoretical or abstract language, citing facts
(very important), using historical and literal analogies, and by constructing logical
arguments.
• In order to persuade your audience, proper use of Ethos, Pathos, and Logos is necessary.
Example of Ethos:
“Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in
10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company
with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh —
a year earlier, and I had just turned 30...
During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named
Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went
on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the
most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple
bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the
heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family
together.”
"I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations.
Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. And some of you have come from
areas where your quest -- quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of
persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of
creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive.
Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to
Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities,
knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed."
Example of Logos:
"However, although private final demand, output, and employment have indeed been
growing for more than a year, the pace of that growth recently appears somewhat less
vigorous than we expected. Notably, since stabilizing in mid-2009, real household
spending in the United States has grown in the range of 1 to 2 percent at annual rates, a
relatively modest pace. Households' caution is understandable. Importantly, the painfully
slow recovery in the labor market has restrained growth in labor income, raised
uncertainty about job security and prospects, and damped confidence. Also, although
consumer credit shows some signs of thawing, responses to our Senior Loan Officer
Opinion Survey on Bank Lending Practices suggest that lending standards to households
generally remain tight."
The Economic Outlook and Monetary Policy by Ben Bernanke. August 27th, 2010.
• Essentially, persuasion is the ability to get another person to act on your request or need.
• Persuasion is about making sure your ideas get a fair hearing and get acted upon.
• It is crucial to be persuasive in a subtle way that takes advantage of natural human
psychology, and that doesn’t make you feel manipulative.
Principles Of Influence
• Persuasion is ethically winning the heart and mind of your target. Basically, you alter the
behavior of someone through reasoning.
• Influence on the other hand, is the ability to affect the manner of thinking of another.
• If persuasion is an action, influence is a state or condition.
• Influence is the ability to personally affect the actions, decisions, opinions, or thinking
of others.
• The ability to influence others is often a crucial factor that determines professional
successful.
• Understanding how you influence others is an important step as it identifies areas for
potential improvement.
• However, being able to influence in your workplace may require a variety of styles,
depending on the situation. Research suggests that successful leaders typically use 5
influencing styles. The following article defines those and illustrates how and when to
use them.
➢ Bridging
People who use a bridging style of influence tend to motivate by using reciprocity,
consultation, and personal relationships.
Identifying this style in yourself: Are you comfortable drawing on the connections of
friends and colleagues? Do you bring people together and invite relevant stakeholders
into your conversations to build consensus?
Scenario for identifying and working with this style: Your succession plan rests on
developing one particularly talented junior advisor. However, when you ask him to join
the advisory board, he says he's hesitant to take on too much at once, citing other junior
advisors who aren't participating. His referencing of peers tells you that he might be a
bridging influencer.
Because bridging influencers respond well to social proof, you decide to invite his
mentor to share her experience of serving on the board. After hearing about the value it
offered her, he now feels more confident in pursuing the opportunity. By bringing more
people into the conversation, you've used the bridging style that most resonates with the
junior advisor.
➢ Rationalizing
People with a rationalizing influencing style tend to use logic and reasoning to try to
persuade others.
Identifying this style in yourself: Are you analytical? Do you often use facts and data to
support your point of view?
Scenario for identifying and working with this style: A prospective client wants to
reorganize his retirement portfolio, but you feel that his specific strategy is at odds with
his long-term goals. When questioned, he cites data trends and all his research, revealing
that he might be a rationalizing influencer.
You shift to a rationalizing style, acknowledging the thinking that went into his strategy
and asking him again what his retirement goals are. You outline the costs and benefits of
several scenarios, allowing the prospect to follow the logic and conclude on his own that
his strategy may not be as ideal as he thought. By appealing to your client's trust in data,
you've helped open him to other options.
➢ Asserting
Those with an asserting influencing style tend to use authority and assurance as their
way of motivating others.
Identifying this style in yourself: Are you a straight shooter? Do you use your
confidence to help motivate others to act?
Scenario for identifying and working with this style: You're speaking with a professional
colleague to establish a new source of referrals. When you ask about his approach to
client service, he says, "We work with people who want to work with the best." From his
confident and direct manner, you recognize that he has an asserting style.
Rather than go deeply into all the reasons why you'd make a good fit, you meet his
asserting style by congratulating him on what he's built and stating your position
succinctly: "We specialize in what your clients need. I'm certain we're your ideal partner.
Let's put this in motion and get to work."
➢ Inspiring
Those with an inspiring influencing style use example and comradery to motivate
others.
Identifying this style in yourself: Are you a compelling speaker? Do you use stories and
metaphors to help people understand complex ideas, to offer encouragement, or to instill
a feeling of shared purpose?
Scenario for identifying and working with this style: You're in an estate-planning session
with your client and her 25-year-old son. Not long into the meeting, you notice the
young man looks bored because the discussion doesn't feel relevant. He's looking for
inspiration, but he's getting a dissertation.
To make the information more relatable, you shift to an inspiring style and tell a story
about another young client who put properties into a trust, which opened up possibilities
he hadn't considered. You explore the idea that the young man may have kids someday
and may want to take them on adventures to his family's vacation properties. He
becomes emotionally invested in the conversation, and you've found a way in.
➢ Negotiating
People with a negotiating influencing style tend to search for a middle ground as a way
to motivate others.
Identifying this style in yourself: Are you a strong collaborator? Do you proactively seek
ways to satisfy different interests, make room for all voices to be heard, and create
consensus and harmony?
Scenario for identifying and working with this style: Your client is concerned that she's
not achieving the results she wants with her current investment strategy. But you're not
comfortable with the new approach she suggests. You notice that she isn't demanding as
much as seeking agreement—a negotiating tactic. There are hints she might be open to
changing course incrementally and testing the waters.
Rather than try to convince her that she's making a mistake, you look for a way to satisfy
her desire to explore something new while also protecting the long-term strategy. You
offer a complimentary portfolio audit and a timetable for switching strategies. This way,
if she doesn't see the results she's looking for, all is not lost. By taking a negotiation style
and creating an approach that includes compromise, your client feels heard and is
pleased with this new plan.
One of the most basic principles of influence is to simply give that which you want to
receive. In other words, doing right by others is a good way to get others to do the same
for you. This idea of reciprocity is a powerful one.
There are a couple of ways to have this reciprocity work for you. Giving others small
gifts, treating others with respect, and doing favors for those in need, are all things that
can win you points with other individuals.
So a good approach is to always help others and be kind when you have the opportunity,
because you never know how it may help you down the line. Moreover, it is these small
acts of kindness that will be remembered and come in handy when you’re in need of a
favor yourself.
➢ Consistency
The principle of consistency is based on the power of active, public, and voluntary
commitments, which results in people actually sticking to their word. Let’s walk through
these requirements in a little more detail. The first part is an active commitment. By
active, Cialdini means something that is written or spoken to other’s. Having people say
they will do something is a start, but when they actively commit to it they’re much more
likely to follow through.
The next piece is making it public. When other’s witness this commitment, it adds a
level of accountability to the statement. And no one wants to go back on their word.
So how do you use this? Once you’ve persuaded someone to do something, get them to
make these types of commitments to implement the principle of consistency and ensure
there is a legitimate commitment to their words.
➢ Social Proof
People rely on social cues from others on how to think, feel, and act in many situations.
And not just any people, but peers. People they believe are similar to them. This is a key
point and what is called social proof.
So if you wanted to influence your interns or a particular team in your department or the
new hires, you need to get one of them to buy in first. When they see an employee like
themselves seemingly taking action on their own or following a new directive, they are
more probable to follow suit.
Having that first person take action makes all the difference and unlocks the power of
social proof.
➢ Liking
People like those who like them or who they perceive as friends. It’s a simple, yet
powerful idea. The principle of liking can be used in a few different ways.
One method is finding common ground with the people you meet. If you can connect
with them on their hobbies or interests, you’ll have a solid ground to build from. Being
observant of people is a great way to pick up on any clues that may lead you to such
common ground.
The other approach is genuine praise. Paying compliments and being charming can go
along way to building a positive rapport with others. A word of warning though, don’t
go overboard. The key here is genuine praise, don’t manufacture it to the point that
you’re clearly trying to butter them up.
➢ Authority
When you are perceived as an expert in an area, other’s will be more likely to defer to
you. Why? Often because experts are able to offer a shortcut to good decisions that
would otherwise take a long time to devise themselves. The idea then is to establish that
credibility of authority and expertise.
Many often miss this opportunity because they assume others will identify their
expertise automatically. You can’t leave it up to interpretation because it will often be
overlooked.
There are a number of ways to establish such authority. A quick and easy one is to make
visible all diplomas, credentials, and awards in the office or workplace to establish your
background. Of course this may not always be an option. Another approach is to convey
expertise through short anecdotes or background information shared in casual
conversations.
Just remember, your expertise isn’t always a known quantity, so be sure to convey it
when you get the chance.
➢ Scarcity
People value what is scarce. It’s just basic supply and demand. As things become more
scarce, they becoming more valuable to others. There are a few ways that you can use
the principle of scarcity to persuade others. One is simply to make offers limited-time,
limited-supply, or one-time, which immediately creates a sense of scarcity.
At the same time, how you present such opportunities matters too. If you focus more on
loss language, or language that demonstrates what you will lose out on rather than gain,
your message becomes more powerful.
• Real influence is about forging deep connections quickly, stepping into someone’s world
authentically, and striving for consistent win/win outcomes.
• We all have encountered situations like getting worried when certain things go wrong.
We blame, complain and decide nothing can be done. Instead, why don’t we try and
influence the situation or the person?
- Stepping out of our cultural bubble
- Cultural awareness in an age of digital transformation
- Soft skills – a catalyst for reflection
• “Culture-savvy” refers to the ability to recognize cultural factors that influence people’s
thoughts and behaviours and to use this information in order to modify our approach
when interacting with others.
• “It is important to keep our culture-savvy skills sharp and in practice. It’s not something
we have but something we do.” says Louis Lima.
Building Reciprocity
• One of the most crucial principles amongst those that we have seen so far is - Building
Reciprocity.
• Has an old-time friend called you suddenly to just check on how you are doing?
• Did you receive a surprise gift from someone, unexpectedly? These people did
something nice for you and now you would like to return the favor by doing something
nice for them too. However, do you feel almost obligated to return the favors? Think
about it !
• This is the basic Principle of Reciprocity - we try to repay, in kind, for the favors
extended to us. Human’s thrive on this give and take relationship. Let us understand and
explore more examples about reciprocity and its principles.
• Reciprocity is a process of exchanging things with other people to gain a mutual benefit.
The norm of reciprocity (sometimes referred to as the rule of reciprocity) is a social
norm where, if someone does something for you, you then feel obligated to return the
favor
• The reciprocity norm operates on a simple principle: People tend to feel obligated to
return favors after people do favors for them.
• There are three main types of reciprocity:
➢ Generalized reciprocity: This form often involves exchanges within families or
friends. There is no expectation of a returned favor; instead, people simply do something
for another person based on the assumption that the other person would do the same
thing for them. This type of reciprocity is related to altruism.
➢ Balanced reciprocity: This type involves a calculation of the value of the exchange
and an expectation that the favor will be returned within a specified time frame. For
example, someone might exchange something they have, whether it is a skill or tangible
item, for something of perceived equal value.
➢ Negative reciprocity: This form of reciprocity happens when one party involved in
the exchange is trying to get more about it than the other person. Selling a much-needed
item at an inflated price is one example of negative reciprocity.
• Research indicates that, while reciprocity may initially cause people to make a charitable
donation
➢ A salesperson giving a freebie to a potential customer, hoping that it will lead them to
return the favor by purchasing something
➢ A leader offering attention and mentorship to followers in exchange for loyalty
➢ Offering customers some valuable information in exchange for signing up for future
marketing offers
➢ Picture this. You’re planning a party, and you’re mailing out invitations. You address
one to a co-worker who you don’t particularly like. You don’t actually want him to come
to your party, but he invited you to his party earlier this year, so you feel obligated –
even compelled – to invite him.
➢ Here’s another scenario. Crazy Aunt Susie sends you a Christmas card. You haven’t
heard from her in years. You’re not close to her, and considering her age, you might not
ever see her again. Still, you automatically add her to your Christmas card list.
➢ A website visitor who receives valuable information for free is more likely to feel
obligated to buy from that website or company
➢ You probably encounter scenarios like this all the time. You feel obligated, indebted
and duty bound to act a certain way. Why is that? The reason is because you’re a human
being governed by human psychology.
• Reciprocity is a widespread practice in organizations because it permeates human
exchange of every kind, thus promoting learning, improving productivity, and building a
climate and culture of trust at workplace. Reciprocity is an easy and powerful technique
to implement at work because most people, enjoy the experience of helping others.
• 3 Keys to Reach the Reciprocity Master Level
➢ Whenever possible, give first. Don’t wait to be asked for something. Be proactive in
giving.
➢ When it comes to gifts, make the employee feel special by giving things that are
unique and personal, making sure that they are unexpected. Remember, a “gift” is
different from a “reward.” For example, a Starbucks gift card would be appreciated by
your team coffee fanatic, but the latest bestselling business biography would be a better
fit for your team bookworm.
➢ Don’t be coy. Let the employee know the resource, reward or assistance is from you.
Reciprocity won’t work when the receiver can’t put a face with the kindness.
Story Telling
This first step is crucial and will determine how long the story should be and what
language you should be using. Before beginning your story, spend 5 minutes thinking
about who you're targeting.
Who are you speaking to? How old are they? What do they care about? Are they looking
for a luxe experience or a budget-friendly one? Do you need to come across more
professional or will a friendly tone work better? Will it be published as a blog post, on
Facebook, or another platform?
These are very important aspects to consider to help you set the right tone and achieve
the best effects with your audience.
Why should they be interested in the story? How is it relevant to your audience? Does
your story touch on themes beyond travel such as sustainability, free speech, climate
change? Make this clear in your mind when crafting the story, because if it isn’t clear to
you, it will not be clear to the reader.
We experience the world through our senses and so, if you want to fully capture your
audience, you must engage their senses. Set the scene and provide your audience with
context for the story.
Where did the story take place? What did the air smell like? Did it smell like pine cones
at the edge of a forest? Or like the sea by the beach?
By engaging the senses of your audience and setting the scene, you will achieve a more
immersive experience for your readers.
Sometimes you can choose to catapult the reader straight into the midst of all the action,
or to the end of the story to catch their attention. It is also one of the easiest ways to
arouse curiosity, suspense and tension in your story. Since your reader does not know
what is happening, they will continue reading to solve the missing pieces of the puzzle.
However, keep in mind that people do not want to play Sherlock Holmes on their
iPhone, so don’t make your story the new Rubik’s Cube.
What is the purpose of telling the story? Do not forget that although you are doing this
to eventually sell a product or service, it should not feel that way to the reader. The story
can be funny, meaningful, emotional or a mixture of these, or something completely
different. Be creative, but don’t forget to always make it relevant and interesting.
• Erase the boundary between your reader and your story. Engage them with a question
(or two) and put them in the center of the story. This way, you create a first-hand
experience of the narrative, igniting the desire for the reader to actually have that
experience in real life.
➢ Use tension
Ever read a book that was so intense you simply had to read until you finished,
completely forgetting about time and space? This is what you are trying to achieve with
your story. Be descriptive when telling about the climatic moments in your story.
If you're telling the story in person, perhaps when sharing your first whitewater rafting
experience, be expressive and get excited about the story you're telling.
Unless the story is to continue and you are intentionally building up the suspense, there
should be closure in the story. Whatever plot you've built should be finished and leave
no questions hanging in the air.
Add magic to your story by leaving your audience with a sense of awe, the sort of
feeling you get when you leave the cinema after a great film. You can do this by leaving
them with a "big question" about humanity or something similar to ponder about as they
make their way back to their hotel.
A picture is worth a thousand words and videos all the more. They can support your
written stories and vice-versa. This is also to mean that you can create new words,
provided that they make sense and their meaning is well explained to the reader.
Through this, you not only surprise and entertain your readers, but you can also build
your brand by using cleverly coined words and phrases, even turning them into unique
hashtags to promote your tourism business.
As much as you enjoy creating the experience, you should also enjoy reliving the
experience in your stories. Think about it this way: the adventure you provide can live
on forever and can be enjoyed vicariously by everyone who reads or hears it.
• Based on Chris Anderson’s findings of what makes a story captivating, here are some
different storytelling techniques. These are used by many TED presenters, who are some
of the most inspirational speakers in the world. Remember to:
1. Immerse your audience in the story.
2. Tell a personal story.
3. Create suspense.
4. Bring characters to life.
5. Show. Don’t tell.
6. Build up to S.T.A.R. moment.
7. End with a positive takeaway.
• “A successful talk is a little miracle—people see the world differently afterward.” -Chris
Anderson,TED curator
• Story Telling Techniques : (TED Presenters)
➢ Immerse your audience in the story. - Richard Turun
➢ Tell a personal story. - leslie Morgan Steiner
• Story telling isn’t just for fiction, it’s vital for your business too. In these courses the
authors walk you through the storytelling strategies, including, identifying your
audience, brainstorming, nailing down details, and turning your story into a reality. Be
heard, be remembered and create the change you wish to see in your communication
with dynamic and entertaining storytelling.
• In other words, these are the three ingredients to a good story
- Holding Interest
- Building Connection
- Providing a Satisfying Conclusion.
Negotiation Skills
• Negotiations are formal discussions between people reaching a common ground. They
have different intentions during which they come to an agreement eliminating their
differences.
• Negotiating can be a challenging prospect for some people, especially if you go with a
“Win the War” approach. A key method to help us in such situations is to develop a
proper negotiation mindset.
• Interestingly , while you may not realize it, you probably already have a lot of
experience negotiating things in your everyday life. After all, negotiation is just another
form of communication, a means of problem-solving.
• When it comes to business, negotiation has become one of the most important skills and
ability. There must be a meaningful give and take that should happen in negotiation.
However, the most effective negotiator will be both competing as well as collaborating.
• Negotiation Skills :
➢ Discover The Other Person’s Interests
Instead of focusing on the position of the other person or what it is that they are saying,
really ask questions to learn about the real interests that they have. Get under the surface
and really understand what it is that they really need out of the negotiation so that you
can find a win-win solution. By getting to win-win, both parties will feel good and get
what they need. - Monica Thakrar, MTI
➢ Don’t Be Adversarial
Don’t have an adversarial, competitive mindset about negotiating. Instead, approach it
with the goal of achieving a mutually satisfying outcome for both sides. Conduct
yourself as though you’re certain that a great result can be achieved if you and the
person on the other side of the table work together as members of a team. Maintaining
positivity and an affable demeanor throughout is critical. - Carroll Welch, Carroll Welch
Consulting
➢ Believe In The Value You Bring
If you go into a tough negotiation feeling like someone will be doing you a favor by
giving you a raise or investing, you’ve already lost. Going in knowing the value you
deliver will give you the confidence to advocate for yourself. Put yourself in the other
person’s shoes and ask yourself what would impress you about that person who is asking
for the money. - Tim Ressmeyer, Ressmeyer Partners
➢ Study And Practice
It’s important to recognize that if you don’t negotiate for a living you likely aren’t aware
of all the things you might negotiate, their dollar value and the opportunity for upping
your salary. No one wants to excitedly take a job and realize they shorted themselves
tens of thousands of dollars annually! So, be sure to find a resource, such as a well-rated
book or coach, and learn and practice. - Laura DeCarlo, Career Directors International
➢ Always Ask For More
I’ve learned that when it comes to negotiations, always ask for more. If the employee
asks for more money, ask them for more productivity. If a client asks for a lower price,
sell them more products. It’s much easier to negotiate after the other person thinks they
won. Let them win the first negotiation, and they will usually be happy enough to let
you win two to three more. - Ryan Stewman, Break Free Academy
➢ Find Out What’s Really Possible
People can’t negotiate to provide things they don’t have. Figure out what the other
person has the power to provide. For example, I once negotiated around an impending
acquisition, trying to get off the “stay” list onto the “layoff” list. During the critical
conversation I realized the person had no power to change outcomes. So I quickly
shifted to negotiate our continued working relationship. - Ronica Roth, CA Technologies
➢ Manage Yourself First
Becoming an effective negotiator in any situation begins with ego and mouth
management by the negotiator. The good negotiator knows herself and her triggers well
so that nothing said or done can derail her objectivity or her goal of win-win for the
parties involved. - Judy Nelson, Judy Nelson Executive Coach
➢ Role Play The Other Side
If you practice or rehearse, do what is taught in school through improv and additional
techniques. Understand, articulate and play out the role of the person you intend to
negotiate with. Understand the points of the so-called “opposition” during or even
before you intend to argue your case for a raise, for investment or for any promotion.
This will allow you to build your case convincingly. - John M. O’Connor, Career Pro
Inc.
➢ Conquer Your Fear First
Most of the time when you have trouble negotiating it is either fear of conflict or fear of
being told “no” that stops you. First, identify what you are afraid of. Then ask yourself,
“If that happens, will I be okay?” This calms your brain’s automatic amygdala hijack
and allows you to be present in the conversation. Then, before you go into the
negotiation, write out the case for your deserving the money. - Janet
Zaretsky, Empowered Women Enterprisess, LLC dba Janet Zaretsky
➢ Make More Eye Contact
Make more eye contact. By looking them in the eye and holding their gaze, you will
signal you are serious and committed to your ideas. Eye contact also helps you analyze
the other person’s body language and gestures to determine how they perceive you so
you can adjust how you deliver your message. - G. Riley Mills, Pinnacle Performance
Company
➢ Remember Negotiations Aren’t Personal
People often worry that they will be perceived as greedy, demanding or ungrateful when
they go into a negotiation, but negotiations aren’t personal. Negotiations are an
opportunity for everyone involved to get more of what they want. Ask for your desired
outcome confidently, with no attachment. Once you find out what the other person wants
and has to say, you’ll be able to meet in the middle. - Amanda Frances, Amanda Frances
Inc.
➢ Know What You’re Willing To Lose
A key for any negotiation is being able to know not just what you want, but what you are
willing to lose. Are you willing to lose an investor to keep a greater share in your
company? Are you willing to lose a chance at a promotion if it means you can get more
vacation time? If you know what you are willing to lose or give up, you will be better
prepared to push for what you are unwilling to yield. - Billy Williams, Archegos
➢ Be A Good Listener
Negotiations require two sides working together to arrive at a compromised outcome.
The best negotiators present their request and then listen, really listen, for feedback from
the other side. They listen for clues and cues and use the information to structure and
negotiate accordingly. When both sides feel they have received benefit, the close comes
easier. - Deborah Hightower, Deborah Hightower, Inc.
➢ Make It A Conversation
We’re negotiating for things all the time — where we want to go to eat for lunch, or how
much time we should spend on a project. We have these micro negotiations with
ourselves and others all the time. To become more comfortable, remember that you are
simply having a conversation to come to a consensus on what “right” will look like for
you and the other person. - Lynda Foster, Cortex Leadership Consulting
➢ Stay On Top Of The Latest Tactics
I highly recommend podcasts, books and even classes to stay on top of the latest
negotiation and sales tactics available today. My team trains every Tuesday for an hour
and then another hour one-on-one with a professional sales trainer who knows sales and
negotiation techniques. We currently use Sandler Training, but there are many to
recommend. - Gene Russell, Manex Consulting
• Negotiation Techniques :-
➢ Nibble
The nibble technique is used when a negotiator asks for concessions in small
“increments”. Your opponent is ready to close the deal, but you throw in one more
nibble.
➢ Vice
This technique asks the simple question, “Is that the best you can do?” The opposition
may come back at you with a lower price, and you haven’t even begun to negotiate.
Some sellers will ponder this question, and come back with a lower price. Or, the seller
may consider adding some concession to the deal. I use this on my children sometimes.
➢ Salami
It's called the salami because people eat salami in thin slices, and the person using the
tactic takes thin slices off the other person, just asking for small concessions, one after
another, and gradually, bit by bit, most of the value is taken off the other person before
they realize.
➢ Quivering pen
In quivering pen technique, you ask for something extra just at the end, but the big
difference is that you ask for the extra before you sign the deal, before you shake hands.
In fact, just before
• Negotiation Types : -
➢ Distributive Negotiations – The Fixed Pie
The term distributive means a giving out or a scattering of value. By the nature of the
business, there is a limited amount of what’s being distributed or divided. So, this type
of negotiation is often referred to as “The Fixed Pie.” There is only so much to go
around, and the proportion to be distributed is limited and variable.
How often has somebody shouted out, “Who wants the last piece of pizza?” Everyone
looks at each other, then two or more hands rush to grab the last slice.
In the real world of negotiations, two teams enter discussions with the goal of claiming
as much value as possible. The seller wants to go after the best price they can obtain.
The buyer wants to pay the lowest price to achieve the best bargain. It’s good old-
fashioned haggling.
A distributive negotiation usually involves starting talks with no pre-existing
relationship. A long-term relationship is also unlikely to develop. Everyday examples
include buying or selling a car or a house. The purchasing of products or services is a
simple business example. Here, distributive negotiation bargaining is often employed.
------Distributive Bargaining Basics
- Play your cards close to your chest
- The opposite is equally true
- Let the other side know you have options
- Make the first offer
- Be realistic
➢ IntegrativeNegotiations- EveryoneWinsSomething(Usually)
Integrative negotiations need a more developed type of business negotiation skills. For
this reason, we typically start our negotiation skills training with simple distributive
bargaining role-plays. We then build up to more complex team-based integrative
negotiation role-plays.
The word integrative means to join several parts into a whole. Integration implies
cooperation, or a joining of forces, to achieve something together. It usually involves a
higher degree of trust and a forming of a relationship. Both teams want to walk away
feeling they’ve achieved something that has value. Ideally, this means each team
achieving what they want.
Handling Conflict
• At times negotiations and discussions can take a turn for the worse and head into
conflict. What should we do in such a scenario ?
• It’s all around us. Most of us aren’t comfortable dealing with conflict when it happens,
especially if it is at work. However, conflict is natural and happens, so we must learn to
manage it. Whatever be the disagreements and disputes, learning how to manage can
keep your personal and professional relationships strong and growing
• When conflict happens at work, do you jump to silence or violence? Neither are very
good options. Many of us don’t always handle conflicts well. And by handling it “well”
we mean handling conflict in an assertive, productive,respectful way. It would help if
you could use some new conflict management skills. Here are a few tips for you to
practice and follow. Check out the blogs and course to understand and learn how to
handle workplace conflict.
• 2 major causes of conflict:
- Communication
- Emotions
• The following tips will help to more effective handle conflicts in the workplace:
➢ Define Acceptable Behavior: You know what they say about assuming…Just having
a definition for what constitutes acceptable behavior is a positive step in avoiding
conflict. Creating a framework for decisioning, using a published delegation of authority
statement, encouraging sound business practices in collaboration, team building,
leadership development, and talent management will all help avoid conflicts. Having
clearly defined job descriptions so that people know what’s expected of them, and a well
articulated chain of command to allow for effective communication will also help avoid
conflicts. Clearly and publicly make it known what will and won't be tolerated.
➢ Hit Conflict Head-on: While you can’t always prevent conflicts, it has been my
experience that the secret to conflict resolution is in fact conflict prevention where
possible. By actually seeking out areas of potential conflict and proactively intervening
in a just and decisive fashion you will likely prevent certain conflicts from ever arising.
If a conflict does flair up, you will likely minimize its severity by dealing with it quickly.
Time spent identifying and understanding natural tensions will help to avoid
unnecessary conflict.
➢ Understanding the WIIFM Factor: Understanding the other professionals WIIFM
(What’s In It For Me) position is critical. It is absolutely essential to understand other’s
motivations prior to weighing in. The way to avoid conflict is to help those around you
achieve their objectives. If you approach conflict from the perspective of taking the
action that will help others best achieve their goals you will find few obstacles will stand
in your way with regard to resolving conflict.
➢ The Importance Factor: Pick your battles and avoid conflict for the sake of conflict.
However if the issue is important enough to create a conflict then it is surely important
enough to resolve. If the issue, circumstance, or situation is important enough, and there
is enough at stake, people will do what is necessary to open lines of communication and
close positional and/or philosophical gaps.
➢ View Conflict as Opportunity: Hidden within virtually every conflict is the potential
for a tremendous teaching/learning opportunity. Where there is disagreement there is an
inherent potential for growth and development. If you’re a CEO who doesn’t leverage
conflict for team building and leadership development purposes you’re missing a
great opportunity. Divergent positions addressed properly can stimulate innovation and
learning in ways like minds can't even imagine. Smart leaders look for the upside in all
differing opinions.
Bottom line…I believe resolution can normally be found with conflicts where there is a
sincere desire to do so. Turning the other cheek, compromise, forgiveness, compassion,
empathy, finding common ground, being an active listener, service above self, and
numerous other approaches will always allow one to be successful in building rapport if
the underlying desire is strong enough. However, when all else fails and positional gaps
cannot be closed, resolve the issue not by playing favorites, but by doing the right thing.
• Tips to handle conflicts :-
➢ Talk Privately
➢ Listen to the Other Person
➢ Be Selective
Customer Conversation
• A key part of our role involves our interacting with the clients at various stages.
• While some may be transactional exchanges like sending a report, there are times when
we need to have some crucial conversations with our clients like understanding a
requirement better or getting an update or even a collaborative brainstorming session.
• Also, at different times the channel of communication would be different, like an email/
phone call/ face to face.
• We need to be prepared to ensure that we can leverage these situations to our maximum
benefit.
• Focus on the problem • The first thing to understand
• Define customer archetypes • Understand their role
• Develop an agile mindset • Agility will help keep the interview going to collect more
relevant and meaningful information.
• Be prepared to listen and learn • Stay fully engaged in the conversation while ensuring
you capture all the information
• Preferably conduct inperson interviews • Phone calls and video chats are convenient, but
nothing replaces face-to-face interviews.
• Asking the right questions and the questions in the right manner are both equally
important.
• While we are typically used to asking more of close-ended questions, it is the open-
ended ones that are best to start off with.
• Eventually, as we probe based on the information gathered in the open-ended questions,
we can move to close-ended questions.
• This is also referred to as the funnel technique
Interviewing Skills
• If you want to find the best person for a job, then it is essential that your interviews are
as thorough and well thought out as possible.
• Conducting an interview isn’t as simple as it looks and there are several things that you
must consider before meeting any candidate.
• Your judgment may be impacted by qualities or experiences that don’t necessarily align
with the role you are hiring for, or overlook a shortage of the required skills.
ADDITIONAL CONCEPTS
• TEDX TALKS
➢ Encourage critical thinking with 3 questions – Brian Oshiro
➢ 7 steps of creative thinking – Raphael Diluzio
➢ Creative thinking – How to move out of the box of generate ideas – Giovanni Corazza
QUOTATIONS
• “To be a model, Commit yourself to your own personal mastery” – Peter Senge
• “There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man, true nobility is being
superior to your former self” - Ernst Hemingway
• “Individual commitment to a group effort – that is what makes a team work, a company
work, a society work, a civilization work” - Vince Lombardi
• “Coming together is beginning, keeping together is progress, working together is
success” - Henry Ford
• “In complex problem solving, there is no recipe, there is only art” - Zafar Archi
• “Personal mastery is the discipline of personal growth & learning” - Peter Senge
• “Only type of leadership that will be counted in 21st century is personal leadership” -
Peter Drunker
• “Every sale has 5 basic obstacles no need, no money, no hurry, no desire, no trust” - Zig
Ziglar
➢ Who gave the idea of Personal Mastery in his book 'The Fifth Discipline?
1. Peter Senge
2. Peter Drunker
3. Sun Tzu
4. Henry David Thoreau
➢ Who said these famous Quotation “If I were given one hour to save the planet, I
would spend 59 minutes defining the problem and one minute resolving it.”
1. Oprah Winfrey
2. Peter Drunker
3. Albert Einstein
4. Steve Jobs
➢ Which of the following are not barriers to communication? Select All that apply.
1. Effective Communication
2. Clarity of Concept
3. Noise
4. Information Overload
➢ Which of the following would NOT influence your assessment of data, information or
evidence?
1. Assumptions
2. Conceptual Knowledge
3. Point of View
4. Implications
➢ Which among the following is not among the key aspects of Analytical Skills.
1. Attention to detail
2. Critical thinking
3. Negotiation Skills
4. Researching Skills
➢ Charities that send you lots of greeting cards along with a request to do donations for
them. Which mode of persuasion is used here?
1. Liking
2. Authority
3. Scarcity
4. Reciprocation
➢ Which among the following is the famous speech delivered by Dr. Martin Luther
King?
1. I have a dream
2. My Story
3. Life of black People
4. End of racial discrimination
➢ Which among the following are mental models for Agile software development.
Select all that apply.
1. Release based development
2. Decremental development
3. Continuous Improvement
4. Iterative development
➢ Which of the following would NOT influence your assessment of data, information or
evidence?
1. Assumptions
2. Conceptual Knowledge
3. Point of View
4. Implications
➢ Identify suggested techniques for overcoming time waste in the work environment.
Select all that apply.
1. Do the most important things later.
2. Be decisive and finish things.
3. Set a time limit for important tasks and projects
4. Perform multitasking of most important and least important tasks.
5. Procrastinate
➢ What happens when there is trust between people? Select all that apply.
1. Trust makes people comfortable in taking advantage of anyone with.
2. Trust makes people feel eager to be a part of a relationship or group that
depends on each other.
3. People willingly contribute in what is needed, not just by their presence, but also
talent, energy and honest thoughts on how the relationship or group can grow.
4. People can share their confidential information with each other as well.
5. Trust doesn't make people comfortable in taking advantage of any other person.
➢ What are some of the steps you can take to manage multiple stakeholders? Select all
that apply.
1. Observe and analyze
2. Communicate
3. Analyze and communicate.
4. Prioritize Outcomes.
5. Time to review who will own benefits and be affected by dis benefits.
➢ On his first day at work in the DIY Shop, Bill's manager asked him to sweep the
aisles
clean. In aisle three, a customer was examining two different decking products. "Excuse
me," he asked
the new employee. "Which one do you think is best? I want some decking that will last,
while looking
modern. Which one do you think is the best fit?" Taken aback and without thinking. Bill
answered, "I like the one in your right hand. It's a nicer color and seems pretty sturdy to
me."
Persuaded by what he thinks is an expert, the customer walks away with 50 pieces of
expensive decking. The above passage refers to which principle?
1. Reciprocity
2. Authority (Persuaded by what he thinks is an expert)
3. Social Proof
4. Liking (I like the one in your right hand)
5. Consistency
➢ It is Rubin’s 3rd year in the organization he already feels quite stressed out working
for more than his usual office hours the tasks that are assigned to him a repetitive and
the workload is high with strict deadlines however ruben’s Boss has high Expectations
on him and Rubin does not want to disappoint is boss proven expects a promotion the
next year while at the same time he has thoughts about quitting right away because of
the stress what should Ruben do in this situation
1. Ruben should sign up for a meditation course.
2. Ruben should take a one week vacation to an isolated hill station to assess his
mental Wellbeing. Get back with renewed commitments.
3. Ruben should cultivate a hobby like photography, travel, music or reading to avoid
monotony.
4. Ruben should enroll for the fit-for-life program.
➢ Peter is a hard-working team member and works more than 10 hours a day to
complete his deliverables. He has a faulty laptop but despite his technical challenges, he
manages to complete his task as per the deadline. His mother has also not been keeping
well and he, being the only breadwinner of the family, needs to lend his complete
support. Just a few days back he took few sick leaves. You are Peter's manager. How
would you like to support him?
1. You will assess his workload to see if he is overloaded, and if that can be delegated to
others.
2. Your immediate support will be to fix his laptop so that he is not stressed technically.
3. You will support him by giving him additional leaves if he requires.
4. You will pull him out of the project as he has personal challenges.
5. You will have a discussion with him and understand about his family health
status and provide him support.
6. You will give him less responsibilities so that he is a little relaxed.
➢ The "vice technique" is a tactic of one of the following options. Identify the correct
answer.
1. Conflict Resolution
2. Negotiation
3. Persuasion
4. Storytelling
➢ Identify the options that do not qualify as the feature of DevOps. Select all that apply.
1. It requires maximum downtime and minimal service backups.
2. Deployment needs less programming knowledge when compared to the development
of others.
3. Teams need to communicate in order to proceed to the next step.
4. There are separate teams for operations and developments.
5. DevOps is a tool which is solely automation
➢ Creativity is likely to occur when three components come together which involve
expertise, creative thinking skills, and.
1. Proper lightning in the work environment.
2. Extrinsically Motivating conditions in the work environment.
3. Right type of motivation
4. Stable economic conditions.
➢ Identify the aspects that could be improved by cultivating a growth mindset. Select all
that apply.
1. Rewards and recognition.
2. Performance and productivity
3. Performance and group think
4. Goal achievement and happiness
5. Connection and group think.
➢ Which of the following statements regarding delegation is false?
1. Some supervisors with a strong need for ego fulfillment try to do all the work
themselves so that they
get personal credit from their supervisors.
2. All team members should be delegated with all kinds of work with equal
responsibility for only then
they will get empowered.
3. A careful explanation of the task to be accomplished is important in successful
delegation.
4. Skillful delegating is bound to save time for a supervisor in the long run.
➢ Linda and her close friend were involved in an unhealthy argument recently, which
has caused a rift between the two. What should Linda do in this situation?
1. Linda should ignore the issue and move on with her tasks.
2. Should suppress her ego and invite her friend over for a cup of coffee or dinner.
3. Linda needs to wait for her friend to make the first move.
4. Linda should seek the help of a mutual friend to mediate.
➢ Some of the following are ways that can be used to improve your creativity, except a
few. Identify the exceptions, select all that apply.
1. Discipline yourself to think laterally.
2. Embrace mistakes.
3. Conduct brainstorming sessions.
4. Concentrate intensely on the task at hand.
6. Stick to the traditional mental set.
➢ Why is communication an important skill in problem solving? Select all that apply.
1. Communication generally hampers the troubleshooting process.
2. Communication enables us to articulate our solution.
3. It’s not important - Managers can do everything through email or texting.
4. We need to make others listen to us when we tell them what to do.
5. Communication is not that essential while gathering information about the problem.
6. Communication is essential in order to gather information about the problem.
➢ When resolving an incident, what kind of decision making skills, operations team
(application and infrastructure) adopts in addition to business impact:
1. Risk assessment
2. Fact based quality
3. Time bound decision
4. Monetary impact
➢ Which Acronym is related to the GOAL setting? Select the appropriate option
1. TED (Tell me, explain to me, describe to me)
2. KISS (Keep it simple, stupid)
3. SMART (Specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, time-bound)
4. WIIFM (What’s in it for me)
➢ When negotiating asking for something extra at the end, right before you make your
agreement is ___________.
1. Quivering Pen Technique
2. Vice Technique
3. Nibble Technique
4. Salami Technique
➢ Which of the following would NOT influence your assessment of data, information
or evidence?
1. Assumptions
2. Conceptual Knowledge
3. Point of View
4. Implications
➢ Maki was part of a new project. She was anxious to meet new team members and
experience her first job. On the first day, her manager presented her with a meeting full
of tasks and responsibilities. She felt overwhelmed as she must get all of these done and
was not sure where to start. What should Maki do to ease her anxiety and manage her
time effectively?
1. Take a break for 10 minutes, get back and calmly list down tasks on priority and
start solving them.
2. Accept the tasks and try to delegate them to team members.
3. Seek help from a senior associate to complete her tasks.
4. Get prepared for such hectic pressure as a routine matter.
5. Talk to the manager and explain that she is very new to the team, and it is difficult for
her to handle
all these responsibilities.
➢ _________ appeals to the audience’s emotions and _________ shows credibility and
makes one seem trustworthy and believable.
1. Ethos / Pathos
2. Pathos / Ethos
3. Ethos / Logos
4. Echoes / Logos
5. Pathos / Logos
➢ A specific type of argument that is based only on principles of logic and reasoning is
called Persuasion.
1. True
2. False
➢ To develop your creativity you should _________. Select all that apply???????
1. Allow to have pressure to produce immediate results
2. Be willing to take risks
3. Reward your curiosity
4. Commit yourself to developing your creativity
5. Stick to your comfort zone and don't take new risks
6. Stick to the boundaries and go with the flow
➢ Aman’s team gathers for the monthly progress and problem report about reaching
individual and departmental objectives. Choose the option that best describes the
meeting.
1. Only a few team members are concerned about the impact of their presentation, they
attempt to
blame each other within the team
2. There is an open and realistic sharing of both progress and problems.
3. One clique exists within this team, and their presentations sound about the same
political stuff.
4. It is obvious that most members play the political game
➢ Ryan delegated some of his tasks to his colleagues. He carefully explained the tasks
to be performed and the performance standards by which the tasks would be judged.
How should Ryan follow up with his colleagues? Select all that apply.
1. He should set up a due date for the tasks and email reminders along the way.
2. He should appoint another senior employee to monitor the employee’s progress.
3. He should set a due date and allow the employee “space” to complete the tasks
without any interference
4. He should make himself available to answer further questions and provide
additional inputs if necessary
5. He should monitor the employee’s progress daily, correcting any performance issues
immediately.
➢ We have several theories of perception that are related to the head and the heart.
Select the most appropriate assumption.
1. People's behavior and action are extrinsically linked to their mother and father’s
parenting style, and
the behavior and actions of siblings.
2. People need a way to judge which stories are believable and which are not
3. How people process information about the world can play an important part in
what kind of message they find most persuasive
4. People need to understand messages regardless of who seeks to persuade them
➢ Tinoy and you are part of a project and you have been given certain responsibilities
to fulfill. Tinoy being a responsible team mate completed his task on time. He always
understands his role as a responsible team member and hence he flagged off his laptop
issue (some technical defect) much in advance so that when the project starts his work
can move seamlessly. You are also a highly responsible person and quite skilled. Your
work is to liaise with one of the team members from the COE team. However, due to
Poor health condition of the associate from the COE team, your work got stuck. This
impacted the overall project delivery. You are empathetic towards the associate from the
COE team as he stays all alone in Mumbai and hence you decided to be supportive of
him. Choose the correct option from below that fits into the above situation.
1. This situation tells us that you are a responsible person
2. We need to make choices many times. You chose to prioritize health, relationship over
work and
there is no harm in it.
3. You should talk to any other team member who is close to you and seek their help
4. You might be a responsible individual, however you did not display
accountability. You should have looked for an alternate option when you got to
know about the health issue of the team member from the COE team. Your timely
action could have helped the project to get completed in time.
➢ You are frustrated because your colleagues in North America keeps messaging you at
5:00 AM (your time). They send you seemingly urgent requests when you're sleeping or
just waking up, and you are sick of being bombarded with multiple requests even before
you start your day. You get the vibe that they do not like you much and you do not know
how to approach them. Which of the following statement fits to the above situation?
1. Rather than assuming one should have an open conversation with the team.
2. Does not know how to prioritize tasks.
3. Work comes first, hence time is irrelevant.
4. This Conflicting situation is because you have not understood the American culture.
➢ When an acquaintance of yours asks you, “How is business”? You respond saying
“stakes are up by 14% what about yours at this time?” What type of communication has
taken place between both of you?
1. None of the options are correct
2. Feeling
3. Opinion
4. Fact
➢ A few days after the sprint planning, the Product Owner finds that it makes sense to
develop another new functionality. Which two of the following statements are correct?
1. The Developers will add the new item to the Sprint Backlog
2. The Product Owner can add the new item in the product backlog in the next
sprint planning. Then the Product Owner can bring that up for the developer’s
selection.
3. If the Developers agree, the Product Owner can swap an existing functionality in
the current sprint, for the new functionality.
4. The Developers should obtain the Scrum Master’s approval to add this to the Sprint
Backlog
➢ How to apply analytical thinking while problem solving? Select all that
apply.????????
1. Adopt a creative approach.
2. Process and synthesis.
3. Be in this stage of gestation.
4. Think in layers.
5. Take a step back.
6. Always stick to the traditional approach.
7. Go with the flow of the problems.
➢ Understanding personality types helps to establish rapport and influence with others
in a business setting. Which of the following are the characteristics of the personality
type called regulators? Select all that apply.
1. Regulators may not seek formalized approvals of their achievements from those
in post.
2. Application of the regulator is logical and well-structured and the style lacks
emotions.
3. The first thing on the regulator's mind is how their ideas may affect their staff.
4. The regulator is extremely patient and does not expect immediate action.
5. The pure regulator is assertive and reserved in outlook.
➢ Teams are effective for complex tasks because they produce a great number of ideas
andCommitment to the decisions.
1. True
2. False
➢ One day a poet was requested to interpret an especially peculiar and obscure passage
within one of his own poems. His response was “at the time that I was writing that
particular verse, only God and myself knew its meaning. Now it is only God who
knows. What does the poet mean by his answer?
1. The poet has forgotten the meaning of his own words.
2. Poets do not often know where their creative inspiration comes from.
3. Most people cannot understand poetry.
4. God is much wiser than people are.
➢ The rule of reciprocity is a social norm in which a person feels obligated to return the
favor, if someone does something for them.
1. True
2. False
➢ Which among the following does not belongs to techniques of negotiation _______.
1. Quivering Pen Technique
2. Little Pie Technique
3. Nibble Technique
4. Vice Technique
➢ Which among the following are not the steps in the negotiation process.
1. Clarification / Justification
2. Brainstorming / Ideation
3. Evaluation / Feedback
4. Planning / Getting Ready
5. Behavior / Result
➢ Which of the following will you do while planning? If you are working towards
personal growth?
1. Give 80% of your time to 20% most important and urgent tasks.
2. Learn to say no to less important tasks.
3. Discuss with the mentor about your personal growth.
4. Fill your calendar with the most important tasks.
5. Make time to do something new.
➢ Agile software development is based on one or more of the following options. Select
all that apply.
1. Release based development
2. Decremental development
3. Incremental development
4. Iterative development
5. Linear development
➢ The technique of negotiation in which we keep asking for small items, one at a time,
until we are getting agreement that we have gotten a lot is Nibble Technique.
➢ From the given options , select the stages of successful ideation. Select all that apply
1. Implementation
2. Persuasion
3. Modification
4. Generation
5. Visualization
6. Collaboration
7. Selection