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The Good Enough Parent PP FINAL
The Good Enough Parent PP FINAL
A subsidiary of
D.W. Winnicott
Imperfection
∞
Repair
∞
Resilience
Repair
The parental
relationship is a
buffer against toxic
stress when the
parent can be
curious about the
meaning behind a
child’s behavior and
there is a process of
mutual regulation
The ARC Model
Recognizing our own Stress Response
Describe it
Breathe through it
It comes from me so it is
not can not be stronger
than me
The Emotional Guidance Scale
Joy
Appreciation
Happiness
Optimism
Hopefulness
Contentment
Boredom
Frustration/Irritation
Overwhelm
Anger
Fear Adapted from Abraham Hicks
Guilt model of the emotional
Shame guidance scale
Attunement
The Holding Environment
Parent’s feelings of
calm are stronger
than child’s negative
emotion
“At many times throughout their lives,
children will feel the world has turned topsy-
turvy. It’s not the ever-present smile that will
help them feel secure. It’s knowing that love
can hold many feelings, including sadness,
and that they can count on the people they
love to be with them until the world turns
right side up again.”
-Fred Rogers
Resources
From Donald Winnicott to the Naughty Step. BBC Radio Sept 9, 2014.
Retrieved from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AswSBQZhTOs
Winnicott, D.W. (1964). The child, the family, and the outside world. New
York: Perseus.
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