POLISH YOUR SOCIALISING

SKILLS
Every person is different in his or her
behaviour and interaction with others
also differ from person to person.
We thus have categorised people in two
different ways. One is “Extrovert” for
whom interaction with others is total
fun. They are able to express themselves
very easily without any hesitation and
fear while the second category is of
whom we all call “Introvert” who always
find interacting with others a daring task
which is out of their comfort zone . They
love to spend their time alone and are
happy in their own company. They are
too shy and feel a kind of discomfort in
sharing their views and feelings in front
of others.
We all have certain misconception about
introvert people like they don’t love
socialising but the real fact is that they
are comfortable in their own company of
their family, friends and colleagues. They
just don’t get open with everyone. The
other misconception is that they are too
boring but reality is something else they
are super entertaining it’s just they need
their comfort zone to show others their
this side.
It’s not a sin to be a introvert person but
our little efforts to be open in front of
others will surely bring positivity in our
life .
So the list of efforts goes like this :-
 Stepping out of your comfort zone
The major task for an introvert is to
leave their comfort zone . It’s just like a
breaking the ice and it’s the toughest job
for them.
We often get nervous and anxious about
what to do but remaining calm is the
solution . Have faith on yourself and
don’t be too hard on yourself . Progress
slowly and see what miraculous changes
in your behaviour will be there.
 Explore your comfortable places
Introverts love and go for places that
are less crowded and is quiet. If they
are not comfortable at a particular
they tend to leave that place . Thus go
for your favorite place and start the
initials of interaction with others . It
may seem difficult at starting but once
you gather confidence and you are at
your comfortable place , interaction
process becomes much more easy.
 Building up your confidence
The foremost and important thing is to
gather the courage and boosting up
your confidence. Never lower your self
esteem. You must know the fact that
you are just different from others and
their is nothing wrong about that.
Errors are part of life and without
committing mistakes you won’t win the
situation so just gather confidence and
see what changes will it bring it to your
life.
 Go for hobby that’s socialising
It’s the best way to going out of the
cocoon of your introvert nature. Any
hobby you love like if you love playing
guitar then you must check out the
guitar classes . This will help you grow
your social circle with people of similar
interests. The process of socialising
becomes lot more easier if start
interacting and socialising with people
who share common interest.