My Bossom Friend

In loving tribute to the woman who was not just my

bossom friend’s mother, but a second mother to my
family. Her love knew no bounds, She welcomed my
family into her home with open arms, treating us as her
own with unwavering support at all times.

Her passing leaves a void in our lives

Yet we find solace in the beautiful legacy she leaves
behind.

Mrs. Chigolum Adeniyi

Tribute To A Worthy Mother

You were a mother that cared.
A mother that truly loved and gave her all
to prove her love.
You were a mother per excellence.
Mama,we will miss your jokes and wise
counsel.
We will always love you.
ADIEU MAMA DISCIPLINE
ADIEU MAMA DO GOOD.

Pst SUNNY/Dcns NGO KALU.

It's sad to loose a loved one like you mama Ekanem
Esuanbana, but we celebrate you and thank God for
the special moments we shared with you. You didn't
consider where who came from but was always ready
and willing to lend a helping hand... yes, this 'panya'
daughter of yours is a grateful heart for your warmth
and kindness. May the Lord receive your soul with
open arms in His place of eternal rest, amen. Sanga
sung oo mma.

From: Esther Akapo-PelaMalabo,

Equatorial Guinea (panya)

Dear Mrs Esuabana, It was really sad to hear about your

passing. Your personality was larger than life, and your
heart, overflowing with love. In the time I knew you, you
showed me nothing but kindness. You were graceful, firm
yet fair.My sympathies lie with those for whom your
absence will forever be felt.Rest on Mam.

May the Peace of God that passes all understanding be

with you forever, and may the warm comforting arms of
Jesus keep your family as they grieve your passing,
Amen.

Idara Assam.
 TRIBUTE TO MOM
We would have wished we were writing this tribute to your
loving memory mummy, maybe in another 20 years from
now. Indeed, you were a loving mom and grandmother to
us and the kids for you graced our lives with boundless love,
unwavering care, and an infectious zest for life.

And though you may have left this earthly realm, your spirit
continues to illuminate in our heart's memories of your
kindness, infectious laughter, and generosity.

We offered countless prayers for your health, a testament

to the deep affection and concern you inspired in us, but
God needed you now. For if your joyful presence wasn't
needed in Heaven, our dear Lord knew we still needed you
here.

So, while we mourn your physical absence, we take solace

in knowing that you only embarked on a new journey,
guided by the hands of the author of life itself and surely, we
all will meet again on resurrection morning.

Your legacy of love and compassion will live on in our hearts

forever. Your kind words, encouragement, and motherly
advice, we will never forget.

Rest with our dear Lord peacefully mommy knowing this,

Lynda, the kids, and I will always cherish you beyond
measure.

We will always love you.

Emeka Osbert family

 13B Nyong Agbor Street, (PRINCE OF PEACE PLACE),
Ikot Ansa, Calabar.

08037070762 mtikwen@gmail.com

Date: 13th April, 2024.

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED FRIEND ELDER MRS EKANEM ESUABANA

I received the sad news of the death of my friend and colleague, ELDER
MRS. EKANEM ESUABANA with rude shock . I would recall that since after
she had a fractured leg, she had not been her usual self. For many months her
lines were not connecting, I got disturbed and tried her daughter's but still got no
response. I concluded that my friend might have travelled out of the country.
Then one day I got a call from the daughter and in excitement I asked, ... Affi,
so how is my friend? I heard like a bomb shell "Mummy is gone". I asked how? and she narrated
the traumatic last days of their mother. Oh, what is life but a passing shadow and man but a breathe,
who like a flower blossoms in the morning and fades away by the evening.

I recalled our days in the late 1990s at the Department of Local Government Affairs in New
Secretariat, Calabar. Eka, as I used to call her while she called me May, was not just a colleague but
a sister encouraging and so supportive in our daily work routine. Whenever she went on official
assignments to the LGCs and was in Obanliku she visited my mother. On return, she spent time
giving me details about my home including the reception by my family.

We followed each other's career progress through and I learned a lot from her. As a well trained
Town Planner, she was ex cellent. There was no life without prayers and sometimes she would invite
me for special prayers in her house. My son reminded me how on my appointment as Head of Service
in 2012, she personally supervised the preparations in the house for my swearing-in reception. She
also ensured that I attended every celebration in her family. In 2017, she informed me that the
position of DG, SON was allocated to Cross River State and advised that I take it in her place due
to the protracted leg fracture, so I applied. Unfortunately, I was denied letter of recommendation
from my state so the position went to Delta state. Eka and I never stopped lamenting on that matter
but resigned to God who is the Author and Finisher of our Faith.

My Friend Eka, had such a golden heart. She was compassionate dispassionate, hardworking, sincere
and kindness personified. Therefore, I implore the children to be consoled by the good life she lived,
her dedication to God and Service to Humanity. Her loss is not only to the family but to her friends
as well as many others whom she had impacted upon their lives.

May the gentle soul of ELDER MRS. EKANEM ESUABANA rest in perfect peace. Amen.

Yours,
Ntunkae Dr. M. T. Ikwen, mni.
 Geraldine Akpet-Ekanem (MRS)
4 ETIM EKPO CRESCENT OFF OLD PARLIAMENTARY, CALABAR.

TRIBUTE TO A SENIOR SISTER

FROM ANOTHER MOTHER
MMA as I called you, your death is a real big blow to me. You have been a senior
sister to me since I first met you in 1986. You spontaneously and
unconditionally took me into your household and heart, something many
couldn't understand. I could walk freely into your house as I wanted. You were
there for me seeing me through the ups and downs of life. I cannot recount the
prayer sessions you had for me to see me through my life endeavours - from
Marriage, Children, Permanent Secretary and lastly Head of Service. I could tell
you alone my deepest pain and gossip and no one would hear.

You were a brave woman who offered me hope. A woman I drew a lot of
inspiration from. Yes, I understood you and took you as I saw you just as you
took me as you saw me.

May be in your usual fashion, you knew you were going and didn't want me to
mourn you too much. For I kept asking and worrying over you.

We cannot question God for He knows best.

Rest in Peace dear Mother! Sister! Friend! Confidant! Counsellor!!

Geraldine Akpet-Ekanem
aka Gee
 FAIR THEE WELL KOKO MI
Elder (Mrs.) Ekanem Esuabana, your death is painful, hhhhhhmmmm!!! this
pain is deep l cannot even summarize it in words.
Koko mi, your friendship was cherished, not just friends but family. You
were special to me and that's the truth. I still can't believe l am saying
goodbye.
Kokomo, l am short of words, l miss you dearly. Your kind advise, your
prayers l really miss. Koko mi, we would talk on phone for hours, even deep
into the night, distance was no barrier. If you did not hear from me in a
week, you would get in touch to find out how l was fairing. When l couldn't
get in touch as usual, l was alarmed, what is happening to Koko mi.
Koko mi, ,lover of God, my fashionista, woman of valour, defender of the
oppressed, loving, Amiable, Affectionate, Wonderful, Warm, Cordial,
Honest, Beautiful, Loyal, Adaptable, Affable, Amazing, Appreciate and
Amusing.
Koko mi good bye, rest in the bosom of Father Abraham till we meet to
part no more, Amen.
MRS. EKANEM OFFORSON
(UFANEKA)

Tribute To a Great Woman

Ma,
Finding the right words feels daunting, but I must begin with a simple yet
profound "thank you."

From gifting me with a wonderful friend, praying with and for me, to extending
your boundless motherly care to me and my family, your generosity and
kindness knew no bounds.

Your prayers and unwavering support have been a source of strength and
comfort through both joyous and challenging times. Your concern for others
was limitless, reflecting the depth of your compassionate soul.

Though the ache of your absence is keenly felt, I must remember that God's
garden must be beautified, and there, your spirit shines even brighter. Please
give my regards to my mum; I imagine you both sharing laughter and joy
together.

Rest peacefully until we meet again.

With love and gratitude,

Ogechi Njoku