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Mentalizing
Mentalizing
Jon G. Allen, PhD
Conceptual foundations
Developmental foundations
Developmental milestones
Given an intact social brain, how does mentalizing develop? Much of
the burgeoning developmental research in this area falls under the ru-
bric of “theory of mind” (Carruthers & Smith, 1996; Gopnik &
Meltzoff, 1997). Although the term theory seems a bit pretentious to
characterize ways we learn to think about ourselves and each other in
childhood, Gopnick (1996) pointed out that “it is not so much that chil-
dren are little scientists as that scientists are big children” (p. 4). We are
not behaviorists; we learn intuitively to postulate hidden mental causes
to make sense of behavior, and behavior makes no sense otherwise. The
physicist fathoming subatomic particles started out as a psychologist
fathoming the interpersonal world. The developmental research on the-
ory of mind is vast, and I will merely highlight some key steps toward
becoming a full-fledged mentalizer.
Our colleagues George Gergely and his colleagues unearthed a piv-
otal developmental process that hooks infants’ attention into the social
world (Bahrick & Watson, 1985; Gergely & Watson, 1996, 1999;
Watson, 1994). Initially, infants’ attention is captured by perfect re-
sponse-stimulus contingencies, such as watching their limbs move. This
attentional preference enables the infant to differentiate the self from
the world, fostering a sense of bodily agency. In normal development, at
about 3 months of age, a switch occurs, such that infants become more
interested in high, but less than perfect, levels of response-stimulus con-
tingency. They do something, and something related happens just a bit
later. Gergely (2001) aptly dubbed this newfound interest as a prefer-
ence for stimuli that are “nearly, but clearly not, like me.” This clever
gimmick of nature that switches infants’ attentional preferences has a
profound consequence: Infants become attentive to others’ responses to
their actions, and they thereby become ensconced in the social world.
Autistic infants fail to make this switch, remaining fixated on perfect
control over stimulation, failing to get hooked on social responsiveness
(Gergely, 2001).
A perfect example of high but imperfect contingency is dear to the
clinician’s heart: emotional mirroring. Indeed, Gergely and colleagues
(Fonagy et al., 2002; Gergely & Watson, 1996) contend that the first
step toward mentalizing entails mentalizing emotions. Their focus on
emotion at the inception of mind is consistent with Damasio’s (2003)
view that “feelings of pain or pleasure or some quality in between are
the bedrock of our minds” (p. 3). Counterintuitively, taking the
Vygotskian perspective (Vygotsky, 1962; Wertsch, 1998), Gergely and
colleagues propose that infants learn about their emotional states from
the outside in. From our adult standpoint, it seems as if we know our
emotions from the inside through introspection. For us adults, this may
or may not be true—sometimes others may be more aware of our emo-
tions than we are. But infants do not come equipped to diagnose their
emotions on the basis of introspected feelings; they learn to make this
connection via the emotional responsiveness of others.
In fact, what we glibly call emotional “mirroring” is more aptly con-
strued as a process of social biofeedback (Gergely & Watson, 1996):
become language for young children when and only when they under-
stand that the adult is making that sound with the intention that they at-
tend to something” (Tomasello, 1999, p. 101). Hence mentalizing
implicitly—a sense of interacting with another mental agent—is the
ground on which language develops.
Clinical applications
We can best apply mentalizing to our clinical practice by shifting our fo-
cus from mental contents to mental processes, less concerned with what
is on our patient’s mind than with the way the patient is using his or her
mind. Focusing on mentalizing, I am now less worried about under-
standing the patient just right in my work as a psychotherapist, al-
though I am not about to give up on that quest. Rather, I am more
content just to be engaging the patient in the process of trying to under-
stand. Thus I am not so much attempting to unearth any particular con-
tent (specific feelings, thoughts, or insights) as I am trying to create a
capacity to mentalize more freely and flexibly—to foster involvement in
personal relationships, as Strawson (1985) put it, and to foster greater
awareness of mental states in self and others.
I will illustrate the process of mentalizing in two clinical domains,
trauma and depression. I will also note how the conditions that foster
mentalizing in our patients apply equally to us clinicians. Finally, I will
contrast the role of scientific psychology and folk psychology in our
clinical practice, returning us to the opening discussion of objectifying
our patients.
Treating trauma
The utility of the concept of mentalizing crystallized for me in the con-
text of treating trauma. Plainly, an interest in mentalizing is consistent
with mainstream trauma treatment, for example, as Edna Foa (1997)
articulated. Foa demonstrated the effectiveness of three essential ingre-
dients in trauma treatment: emotional engagement (i.e., feeling the feel-
ings), constructing a coherent narrative, and altering perniciously
negative views of the self and the world, the latter including inadequacy
(and sheer badness) of the self along with the dangerousness of other
persons. Plainly, all this entails mentalizing as we understand it.
But showing how one set of concepts (mentalizing) maps onto an-
other (Foa’s account) does not show the advantage of adopting the con-
cept of mentalizing. Although I might have come to the realization in
other ways, it was only after Peter Fonagy got me enthralled (indeed,
obsessed) with mentalizing that this idea crystallized in my mind: The
goal of trauma treatment is not to put trauma out of mind but, on the
contrary, to enable the patient to have the trauma in mind—to
mentalize it, to make sense of it, and to bear it without succumbing to
impulsive and self-destructive actions (e.g., drinking, bingeing, cutting,
or trashing a room). This, of course, is the gist of “exposure” treatment,
but the concept of mentalizing put this treatment in a new light (Allen,
2001); the procedure came to make more mental sense.
A: Looks horror-stricken.
B: Asks, “What happened?”
A: Tells the story.
B: Listens compassionately.
A: Mentalizes the trauma.
Treating depression
A novel twist in current treatment of depression also illustrates the clini-
cal application of mentalizing, albeit under the rubric of “mindful-
ness.” Teasdale and colleagues (Segal, Williams, & Teasdale, 2002;
Teasdale, Segal, & Williams, 1995; Teasdale et al., 2000) have demon-
strated that combining mindfulness meditation with cogni-
tive-behavior therapy prevents relapse in patients with highly recurrent
depression. Distinguishing two approaches to meditation helps eluci-
date the role of mentalizing in this approach (Goldstein & Kornfield,
1987). Concentration meditation entails focusing the mind,
prototypically, on the process of breathing. Insight meditation, by con-
trast, entails letting the mind wander freely, adopting a nonjudgmental
attitude toward the kaleidoscopic flow of mental contents and states.
Insight meditation also entails turning one’s attention toward rather
than away from distressing thoughts and feelings, then observing natu-
ral changes in these distressing thoughts and feelings. Importantly,
when observed nonjudgmentally, distressing states change for the
better; they wax and wane. Similarly, pleasant mental states change for
the worse; they wax and wane.
The mindfulness meditation aspect of Teasdale and colleagues’ ap-
proach aims not so much to change the content of patients’ thoughts
but rather to change patients’ experience of their mental states. As
Teasdale et al. (1995) stated, patients are taught that “emotional distur-
bance is caused by thoughts and cognitions that are ‘mental events,’ not
‘realities’” (p. 38). Patients might think of “the mental state in which I
view myself as utterly worthless” (p. 31). Segal and colleagues’ (2002)
thesis regarding the impact of their intervention captures the role of
mentalizing as I construe it: “Although the explicit emphasis in cogni-
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