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THE PUBLIC

VICTORY
BY: MACKENZIE CAMPBELL

How dose thinking


win-win create a
mutral friend for
everyone?

Life Additudes
Life Additudes
Win lose- this is something that
happens when you get what
you want but the person other
doesnt
Lose win- This is when you
dont get what you want but
the other person dose
Lose Lose- This is the worst
situation you and the other
person both dont get what you
want
Win win- this is known as the all
you can eat buffet because
everyone gets what they want
and there is no arguing

The Tumor Twins


COMPETING- THIS IS VERY HEALTHY, THIS PUSHES OUR SELF TO DO BETTER BUT WE SHOULDNT DO IT ALL THE TME IF YOU COMPETE ALL
THE TIME IT BECOME VERY UNHEALTHY, EVERYTHING YOU DO WILL BE AS A COMPITION. THATS WHY YOU SHOULD AVOID COMPETEING
MOST OF THE TIME BUT NOT ALL THE TIME.
COMPARING- YOU SHOULD COMPLETELY AVOID COMPARING. THIS WILL MAKE YOU THINK EVERYTHING IS WRONG AND NEEDS SHOULD
AVOID COMPARINTO BE BETTER THAN IT ALREADY IS. THIS IS WHY WE NEED TO AVOID COMPARING.

Helen Keller
HELEN KELLER WAS AN AMAZING WOMEN, SHE WAS BORN 1880 A BUETIFUL LITTLE BABY. WHEN SHE WAS JUST 1 SHE T VERY SICK AND THAT SICKNESS CAUSED
HER TO GO BLIND AND DEAF. BEING ONLY 1 IT WAS HARD FOR HER, SHE DIDNT KNOW TO SAY MANY WORDS SO GROWING UP THEY HAD TO TEACH HER. ONE DAY
HER TRAINOR TOOK HER OUT TO A WELL AND PUT HELENS HAND IN IT AND SPELLED OUT WATER. HELEN FINALLY GOT IT. DAYS WEEKS MONTHS AND YEARS WENT
ON AND HELEN GREW UP TO BE A AMAZING WOMEN. HOW DID SHE USE WIN WIN YOU ASK? WELL EVEN THOUGH SHE COULDNT UNDERSTAND MANY STUFF SHE
TRIED HER BEST AND BY THAT SHE WAS ABLE TO TALK. SHE MADE EVERYONE FEEL LIKE THEY COULD DO ANYTHING NO MATTER HOW HARD THE CHALLENGE.

How dose seeking first to


understand help us to build better
releashinships?

5 poor listing skills

Spacing out- when you are


talking to somebody and they
are in there own world and
not paying attention at all.

Selective listing- this is when


you are talking and the person
only listens to the part that
intrest them.

Pretend listing- this is when


you are talking and the other
person is not listing but
saying words like yeah and
uh huh.

Word listing- this is when you


are talking and the person
only listens to the words not
the emotions and tone of
voice.

Self centerd listing- this is


when we are talking and the
other person is listening from
there point of view they often
say you think your day is
bad or I know exactly how
you feel.
Judging- this is when you are
talking and the person s
paying attention but the
person is making small
judgments in the back of
there head.

Genuine Listening

Genuine Listening
this is a higher form of listening witch leads to real
conversation. To do this you need to do 3 things differently.
1. listen with your eyes heart and ears- dont just listen with
your ears, you have to know the body language and tone
that they are showing to you so you understand.
2. stand in there shoes- if you stand in there shoes it can
become a win-win situation. It can help everyone feel
happy and like a winner
3. practice mirroring- think like a mirror dont judge give
advice just listen to the person. It will make the person
think you care about them.

SEEKING TO UNDERSTAND!!!!!!

Traceys story
TRACEY WORKED FOR A SOFTWERE COMPANY AND LOVED IT BUT SHE HATED HER BOSS, ONE DAY SHE CAME HOME BICKERING ABOUT
HOW MEAN HER BOSS IS. HER HUSBAND SAID HAVE YOU EVER TALKED TO HER AND SEE WHY SHE IS MEAN? SHE SAID NO SO HER
HUSBAND SAID THEN WHY DONT YOU TALK TO HER AND SEE WHY. SO THE NEXT DAY TRACEY WENT INTO WORK AND TALK TO HER
BOSS, TURNS OUT HER BOSS JUST WANTED THEM TO WORK HARDER AND HARDER EVERY DAY FOR WHAT THEY DO. TRACEY AND HER
BOSS KEPT TALKING AND THERE RELESHIONSHIP GOT BETTER EACH DAY. NOW HER AND TRAACEY ARE GOOD FRIENDS.

How dose synergizing help us


meet the public victory?

Diversity profiles
The shunner

The tolerator

The celebrator

There scared of differences.


They think there way at life is
the best, or only way. They
will often join gangs, cliques,
or anti groups.

They believe everyone has a


right to be different but there
moto is you keep to yourself
and Ill keep to myself or
you dont bother me I wont
bother you. They never get
to synergize because they see
differences as hurdles. They
dont know what there
missing.

They value differences.


Theyve learned that 2
different people can achieve
more. They do realize that
celebrating differences dose
not mean you always have to
agree with them, only that
you value them.

Roadblock to differences
ignorance

cliques

prejudice

This means your pretty much


clueless. You dont know what
other people believe, how
they fell, or what theyve
been through. You have
trouble understanding people.
This stops us from synergizing
cause when we have trouble
understanding people and
how they work and were
igornet then it wont work and
make a soloution.

This is when you have a group


of people that act all the
same, they all have the same
interest and have all the same
hates. They only let people in
that are just like them. This
stops us from synergizing
cause they only work with the
people that are like them and
when someone is different
they cant work with them they
work with there people.

This is when you have a group


and they have to be PERFECT
and if other people arent then
they judge them for anything.
For there skin color, hair,
cloths, and sometimes family.
When it comes to synergizing
this is a problem you have
trouble working with a person
that is not as perfect as you
want them to be and you have
trouble getting things done.

Synergy in action!

Gabby douglas
GABBY DOUGLAS WAS ONLY 16 WHEN SHE WON THE GOLD MEDAL IN
THE OLYMPICS. WHEN SHE WAS 9 YEARS OLD SHE JOINED A GYM THAT
HELPED HER GET MANY SKILLS BUT WHEN SHE WAS 13 SHE MOVED TO
IWOA TO TRAIN WITH HER COACH LING CHOW. SHE HER TEAMMATES
AND HER COACHES WORKED HARD FOR 2 LONG YEARS AND ALL OF
THAT PAID YUP BECAUSE ON JULY 1ST 2012 GABBY PLACED 1ST. SHE
USED SYNERGY BY WORKING WITH HER TEAMMATES AND COACHES.

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The end!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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