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Sexuality and Intimacy 2009
Sexuality and Intimacy 2009
Louise Gyler
October 2009
HARDING 1991
Culture / Nature
Mind / Body
Reason / Emotion
Subject /Object
Masculine / Feminine
INFANT OBSERVATION
In its deepest, most basic, primal meaning the
woman is in distress and in need and in
danger; the man is her servant, her
benefactor, and her rescuer. She is in distress
at the plight of internal babies, in need of
supplies to make the milk for her external
babies and in danger from the persecutors her
children have projected into her. She needs
good penises, and good semen, and must be
relieved of all bad excreta. She will be
content, satisfied safe, while he will be
admired, exhausted, exhilarated triumphant
(Meltzer, 1973, p. 84).
A woman touches herself' constantly without
anyone being able to forbid her to do so for her
sex is composed of two lips which embrace
continually. Thus, within herself she is already
two - but not divisible into ones - who stimulate
each other. Woman has sex organs just about
everywhere. She experiences pleasure almost
everywhere the geography of her pleasure is
much more diversified, more multiple in its
differences, more complex, more subtle than is
imagined - in an imaginary centred a bit too much
on one and the same (Irigaray, 1985, p. 24).
HAS SEXUALITY ANYTHING
TO DO WITH
PSYCHOANALYSIS?
sexuality in general ceases to be a
major concept, a theoretical function of
heuristic value
Green (1995)
HAS SEXUALITY ANYTHING TO DO
WITH IDEAS ABOUT HEALTH
/PSYCHOPATHOLGY?
HETEROSEXUALITY/HOMOSEXUALITY:
1970s
Chasseguet-Smirgel (1976)
PRIMARY FEMININTY
THEORISTS
Freud Jones debate 1920s
Ernest Jones, Melanie Klein, Karen
Horney
Infantile attachment to the mother
The role of the female body
Continues unresolved re-emerged
in the late 1960s.
FEMININITY
However both the experiences of lack
and the experience of a basic positive
femininity seem to come back with
sufficient consistency as central and
determining to warrant thinking of
them as coexistent and conflictual
Breen (1993)
FOLLOWING FREUD
1. Devaluation of femininity and
debates re female sexuality
2. The normative dominance of
heterosexuality
3. Binary division of gender
4. The role of the body (the role of
object and drive) integrations with
attachment perspectives
GENDER
Goldner 2003
GENDER
Concept de Beauvoir (1949)
a woman is not born but made
Unfortunately, in Breens
formulation, although the
penis (symbolized as the
linking function) may not be
or have everything (unlike the
phallus), it still gets to do
everything (Elise, 1998).
Clinically useful description
Reinscribe normative social
evaluations
Oppositional equations:
female=mother=maternal function
male=father=paternal function
Phallic idealizations
My point is that to arbitrarily link a particular
trait with one gender is to engage in a form
of splitting. To believe that emphasizing is
feminine or that to be intellectually
penetrating is masculine is to split off each
of our complex and multiple capacities.
Terms like toilet-breast analyst or phallic-
penetrating interpretations should be used
to capture metaphorically the way in which
certain functions are experienced
unconsciously; they should not be taken to
imply that we believe that these functions
are intrinsically male or female (Aron,1995)
CULTURAL, HISTORICAL AND
SUBJECTIVE PREJUDICE AND BIAS IN
PSYCHOANLYTIC THINKING ABOUT
SEXUALITY AND GENDER
Countertransference, enactments,
disclosures and boundary
transgressions and violations
ANALYSTS PARTICIPATION
Programmatic intent general
theoretical propositions
Analysts unconscious/preconscious
biases, preferences, implicit judgments
INTERGENERATIONAL TRANSMISSION
OR
TRANSMISSION GAP?