IS LOVE AND DATING? BEING IN LOVE 😍😍 •You are having a strong feeling for ssomeoe . The problem is that we confuse it with the real love DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE OF BEING IN LOVE AND THE REAL LOVE? NOTE: ANYONE CAN BE IN LOVE BUT, ONLY A PERSON WHO IS EMOTIONALLY AND SPIRITUALLY MATURE CAN REALLY LOVE.
Being in love Real love
• Focuses on our own happiness. • Focuses on well being of the other person. • Craves immediate satisfaction. • Is patient and willing to • Wants pleasure and intensity.. sacrifice. • Is a feeling • Seeks to grow in trust and friendship. LET’S READ
1 COR. 13: 1-13
LEARN: GOD IS LOVE • That’s why he wants us to follow the way of love • He wants us to have relationships that are based on real love not only on being in love. • Real love is patient, it’s not envious or self seeking THAT’S WHY WE SHOULD THINK AGAIN ABOUT HOW WE GO ABOUT DATING. • Do you date people because you are lonely, and you need to look or feel good, or because of what you can give for the others for their good? • Do you judge people based on their looks, or do you at their character and relationships with God? • Do you treat people like Jesus would treat them? • Are you ready for real love – the kind of love that will stick with one person for life? If not, then why date? REMEMBER . It’s much Better to be single until you’re really ready, remember you don’t need someone to be someone.