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Personal Relationships of
Adolescents
The Social Self:
Adolescents’ lives revolve around
themselves as well as the people around
them.
How you feel, how you think, and how
you behave can all have an effect on
your family members, your friends, and
even that new person you find yourself
liking.
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Personal Relationships of
Adolescents
The Social Self:
Try completing the sentence: “I am ____.”
Your answer – what you know or believe about
yourself – will give you an insight into your self-
concept.
Your self-concept consists of two elements.
First, is self-schemas or how you define yourself.
These greatly affect how you perceive, remember,
and evaluate yourself and others.
The second element is your possible self or who you
might become.
It includes the self we dream of becoming someday.
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Personal Relationships of
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Development of the Social Self:
What determines self-concept?
Although genetic influences play a part, social
experience is also a factor, such as your roles as a
high school student or friend.
Your social self is also influenced by social
comparisons, or comparing yourself to others and
seeing how you differ.
Self-concept is also determined by how other
people think of us.
Culture also plays a role in defining one’s identity.
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Personal Relationships of
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Self-Knowledge:
How well do you actually know yourself?
Why did you fall in love with that person?
When asked why we feel or act the way we
do, we are usually able to give accurate
answers.
But when influences upon our behavior are
subtle or unconscious, our explanations may
differ because we may dismiss factors that
matter and focus on ones that don’t.
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Self-Knowledge:
Self-esteem is the overall sense of self-
worth that we use to evaluate traits or
abilities.
You may have low or high self-esteem.
Social rejection motivates us to meet
others’ expectations, therefore
maintaining or increasing our self-esteem.
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Personal Relationships of
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Perceived Self-Control:
Stanford psychologist Albert Bandura defines self-
efficacy as how competent and effective we feel
when doing a task.
How does it differ from self-esteem?
It is worth noting that self-efficacy, like self-esteem
grows with accomplishments.
Locus of control is the extent to which people
perceive control.
The internal locus of control refers to the belief that
you are in control of your own destiny while external
locus of control refers to the feeling that outside
forces determine your fate.
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Albert Bandura is a
Canadian-American
psychologist who is the
David Starr Jordan
Professor Emeritus of
Social Science in
Psychology at Stanford
University.
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Perceived Self-Control:
The perceived lack or loss of control over a
situation may also lead to learned
helplessness, which occurs when multiple
attempts to improve a situation have no
effect and there is a subsequent sense of
resignation.
In contrast, self-determination is developed
when you are successfully able to practice
personal control and improve your situation.
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Seligman’s
learned
helplessness
experiment.
Learned
helplessness
occurred when
dogs perceive
they could not
escape the
shocks, even if
they were given
opportunities to
escape after the
experiment.
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Self-Serving Bias:
Most people exhibit self-serving bias, or the
tendency to see yourself in a favorable light.
We often take credit for our success and attribute
failure to external factors.
This phenomenon is called self-serving attributions.
We also have this sense of optimism that leads to
believe we are immune to misfortune, so we tend not
to take precaution.
However, defensive pessimism, or anticipating
problems and lowering expectations to prepare for
the worst, can help us avoid unrealistic optimism.
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Personal Relationships of
Adolescents
Self-Presentation:
Self-presentation refers to our desire to present a
favorable image to other people (external) and to
ourselves (internal).
We adjust our words and actions to create an
impression that will suit our audiences.
One example of this phenomenon is self-
handicapping, wherein you protect your self-
esteem with behavior that will conveniently
excuse failure.
False modesty, self-serving bias, and self-
handicapping prove how important self-image is
to us.
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Adolescents
Social Beliefs and Judgments:
How we perceive information, as well as how we
process it, is guided by our preconceptions.
Through our beliefs, we construe reality and
respond to it as such, and not as how it actually is.
Priming can unconsciously affect how people
think as well as how they would act.
Preconceptions are powerful, because they
influence our attitudes, our perceptions of others,
and others’ perception of ourselves.
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Social Beliefs and Judgments:
How we interpret everything is a result of our
beliefs.
They are so strong, as shown by a
phenomenon called belief perseverance,
and they persist despite contrary evidence.
We use schemas, emotional reactions,
expertise, and unconscious thinking in how we
judge the world and how we decide from
those judgments; how this all happens is partly
controlled and partly automatic.
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Personal Relationships of
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Attributions:
We endlessly ask ourselves why things happen
the way they do, especially when they are
unexpected or negative.
If someone you like smiles at you, would you
think that they are just being friendly or would
you rather think that they like you too?
Misattribution, or wrongly attributing an action
to an incorrect reason, happens more than
you think
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Adolescents
Personal Relationships of
Adolescents
Attributions:
Attribution theories analyze how we explain
and infer from people’s actions.
We attribute people’s behavior sometimes to
internal causes, or dispositional attributions,
and sometimes to external causes, or
situational attribution.
Traits are easily inferred from people’s actions,
or what we call as spontaneous trait
inference, as well.
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Attributions:
Three factors influence our attributions, according to Harold Kelly’s
theory of attributions or the covariation model: consistency,
distinctiveness, and consensus.
Attributions have three dimensions: stability, locus and control.
If you examine your attributions using these dimensions, you can
predict how you would respond to success and failure.
Using our “commonsense” to explain behavior logically (as
attributions are known as “commonsense psychology”), is not always
right.
People ignore possible causes of behavior if there are other, more
known causes.
We underestimate the importance of situations on behavior, as well
as overestimate the part dispositions play, such as attitudes and
traits.
The tendency to write off situations in favor of dispositions is called
the fundamental attribution error, or the correspondence bias.
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Personal Relationships of
Adolescents
Harold Kelley was an
American social
psychologist and professor
of psychology at the
University of California, Los
Angeles. His major
contributions have been the
development of
interdependence theory,
the early work of attribution
theory, and a lifelong
interest in understanding
close relationships
processes.
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Attributions:
We make attribution error because how we
observe others is different from how we
observe ourselves.
Because we know ourselves more than we
know others, we focus on how situations
influence our behavior.
If you are upset, the situation is making you
upset; but if you see another person upset,
you may assume they have a temper.
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Prejudice:
Prejudice is a preconceived negative attitude
(combination of feelings, beliefs, and behavior)
towards a group and its individual members.
Stereotypes are beliefs about another group that
may be accurate, inaccurate, or over-
generalized.
Discrimination is unjustified, negative behavior
towards a group or its members, and often rooted
in prejudicial behavior.
Racism and sexism are institutional discriminatory
behavior, but there may be instances that they
aren’t intentionally prejudiced.
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Prejudice:
Prejudice exists in explicit (conscious) and
implicit (automatic) forms.
People may retain from childhood
automatic fear or dislike of a group of
people, but this may change as we form
new habits through practice.
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Prejudice:
Prejudice comes in many forms including:
Race:
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Prejudice:
Religion:
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Prejudice:
Obesity:
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Prejudice:
Sexual Orientation:
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Prejudice:
Gender Identity:
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Prejudice:
Age:
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Prejudice:
Immigrant Status:
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Prejudice:
Socially, prejudice stems from unequal status.
Groups with social and economical superiority will often use
prejudicial beliefs to justify their privilege and position.
How does the way we think about the world influence prejudice?
Research shows that we simplify our environment by categorization
through stereotyping.
Sorting people into categories exaggerates similarities within groups
and differences between them.
The just-world phenomenon is the tendency to believe that the world
is just and that people get what they deserve.
Research suggests that this explains why people are indifferent to
social injustice not because they aren’t concerned, but because
they don’t see any injustices.
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Aggression:
Aggression is physical or verbal behavior
that is intended to cause harm.
It manifests in two ways: hostile aggression
which springs from anger with the goal to
injure, and instrumental aggression, which
is also meant to injure but as a means to
achieve an end.
There are three theories on aggression:
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Aggression:
Instinct Theory and Evolutionary Psychology:
Commonly associated with Sigmund Freud and
Konrad Lorenz, it argues that aggression is
instinctive (innate, unlearned, and universal).
If not released, it builds up within until it explodes or
a stimulus triggers it, similar to a dam bursting.
Aggression is biologically influenced by genetics
(a person’s temperament at a young age usually
endures), biochemical influences (alcohol,
testosterone, poor diet), and the brain.
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