WEDDING DANCE AMADOR TAGUINOD DAGUIO (JAN. 08, 1912- APRIL 26, 1966) AGE: 54 Every parting is a form of death, as every reunion is a type of heaven." - Tryon Edwards SYNOPSIS
"The Wedding Dance" by Amador
Daguio is a short story about a husband and wife, Awiyao and Lumnay, who had been married for seven years. In spite of being in love with his wife, Awiyao feels the need to marry again in order to have a son. SYNOPSIS: At his second marriage celebration, Awiyao goes to check on Lumnay, knowing she is upset. Awiyao thought the answer to Lumnay's sorrow would be to have her join the other women during the wedding dance. Lumnay was in fact at his wedding, but left. She could not stand the idea of her husband marrying another woman because she could not give him children. RELATIONSHIP OF THE STORY TO THE AUTHOR He and his wife, Estela, endured 10 years without a child but finally did have one. Feelings played a big part in his writings. The ending of Wedding Dance have envisioned what Lumnay's future would have been. The author does not state things exactly but uses descriptive words to imply the same meaning. ("they say that from the bamboo we had our first birth“) What makes “Wedding Dance” a classic?
It begs an answer to the
question: “What eventually happened to Lumnay?” It leaves a lot of clues with the words that the author used. ON FAMILY AND TRADITION Pre-arranged marriage and divorce due to childlessness were observed by various Cordillera tribes in the past, until "education" and "religion" began to obliterate these practices. FACTS AND TRIVIA ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Born on 8 January 1912 in Laoag, Ilocos Norte, but grew up in Lubuagan, Mountain Province. A class valedictorian in 1924 at the Lubuagan Elementary School. When he was in high school, he moved to Pasig to attend Rizal High School. Too poor to afford his college tuition and did not enroll in the first semester of 1928. Failed to qualify for a scholarship. FACTS AND TRIVIA ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Worked as a houseboy, waiter, and caddy at Fort McKinley to earn his tuition. Later enrolled at the University of the Philippines on the second semester. Mentored in writing by Tom Inglis Moore, an Australian professor. In 1932, he graduated from UP as one of the top ten honor graduates. After World War II, he went to Stanford University to study his masters in English which he obtained at 1952. It was at Stanford when he wrote Wedding Dance. (1953) FACTS AND TRIVIA ABOUT THE AUTHOR: In 1954, he obtained his Law degree from Romualdez Law College in Leyte. After he graduated from UP, he returned to Lubuagan to teach at his former alma mater. He then taught at Zamboanga Normal School in 1938 where he met his wife Estela. He was the chief editor for the Philippine House of Representatives. He also taught at the University of the East, University of the Philippines, and Philippine Women's University for 26 years. He died in 1966 from liver cancer at the age of 54. ON HIS WIFE:
“Lumnay”, he said tenderly.
“Lumnay. If I did this it is because of my need for a child. You know that life is not worth living without a child. The men have mocked me behind my back. You know that. -Awiyao to Lumnay ON HIS DEATH:
To you O' Death laurelled by the sun's fire;
To you whose dark face is forgetfulness; To you whose grim, dread presences, make still the lips of loveliness; To you, swift, unfathomable, To you wholly unsurpassed and pale,
I'll someday give my youth to die, under a
shining April sky. -HYMN TO DEATH (AMADOR DAGUIO) THE DAGUIO FAMILY; CIRCA 1955 AMADOR T. DAGUIO Amador T. Daguio and Estela Fermin Daguio with their 4 children from eldest Daniel, Jenny, Francis and youngest Malinda. “Just being a woman is God’s gift. The origin of a child is a mother, a woman. She shows a man what sharing, caring, and loving is all about. That is the essence of a woman.”