Before proceeding towards the ways to

improve our own personality, let’s unveil

the science behind our personality?
American Psychological Association
Personality refers to individual differences in
characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving
Personality is a defined pattern of how we behave under
different situations, how we feel or respond make us
intriguing and unique.
• The personality is the typical pattern of
thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a
person unique.
 Appealing Personality
• Aura is attractive , An aura is a colored
emanation said to enclose a human body or
any animal or object.
• interesting, ear soothing
• plays right emotional chords during the
conversation
• Mesmerizes the people
• Followed by the people
Normal Characteristics of Personality
• Good looks (but now it is shattered by latest
research)
• How to interact with others(In fact,
approximately 85% of success and happiness
will be a result of how well one interacts with
others.)
• Cuddle others behavior psychology
 Neuroticism
• One of the negatives of this personality type is a
tendency to feel negative emotions such as
anger, anxiety and vulnerability.
• People high in neuroticism are often prone to
feeling intense stress.‫مر گئے مر گئے‬
• Mood swings are seen in such personality.
• to experience such feelings as anxiety, worry,
fear, anger, frustration, envy, jealousy, guilt,
depressed mood, and loneliness.‫میں اور میری تنہائی اک ثر باتیں کرتے ہیں‬
 Extraversion
• Extraversion is one of the five personality traits
of the Big Five personality theory. It indicates
how outgoing and social a person is. A person
who scores high in extraversion on a personality
test is the life of the party.
• A person who scores high in extraversion on a
personality test is the life of the party. They
enjoy being with people, participating in social
gatherings, and are full of energy.
• Energetic, assertive and socially confident.
• Eat drink and be merry for tomorrow we die
 Introversion
• One of the major personality traits identified
in many theories of personality. People who
are introverted tend to be inward turning, or
focused more on internal thoughts, feelings
and moods rather than seeking out external
stimulation
• Lack of courage, confidence
• Hypersensitivity
 Openness to experience
• Openness to experience is one of the 'Big Five'
factors and is used to study and measure
individual differences in personality.
• A person with a high level of openness to
experience will often enjoy venturing beyond his
or her comfort zone.
• usually adventurous, very imaginative, creative,
lots of weird and wacky ideas, but may
unpredictable, impulsive, tend to be risky, have
courage to face the music
 Conscientiousness
• Conscientiousness is the personality trait of
being careful, or vigilant.
• It implies a desire to do a task well, and to take
obligations to others seriously.
• Conscientious people tend to be efficient and
organized as opposed to easy-going and
disorderly.
• These individuals prefer to follow a plan, rather
than act spontaneously.
• A high level of self-discipline we see in such
people
• But if things do not go as planned they can be
very stubborn and obsessive. It means they
may struggle to change their plans if needed.
 Agreeableness
• A person with a high level of
agreeableness in a personality is usually
warm, friendly, and tactful.
• Optimistic, very kind and considerate,
quite generous , put others first,
• But fail to stand up for themselves to void
confrontation and hurting others.
• Get along well with others.
‫یہ دوستی ہم نہیں چھوڑیں گے‬
 Personality develops with time
• Nothing is permanent but change.
• Do not fear to change your personality for
better things.
• Recognize yourself through introspection and
self reflection.
• Figure out your own personality.
• Ask yourself , what do you want to be, and
chalk out an action plan.
 Be Grateful
• Being grateful is about being able to
recognise the significance of valuable people
and things you own in your life. ‫الحمد ہلل‬
• Research suggests that gratitude is related to
your personal growth and well-being.
 Time Management
• Overcoming procrastination, effective
delegation, learning to say NO, efficient
planning
 Empathy
• Empathy is an experience of stepping into the
other person’s shoes and recognizing how
they are thinking and feeling
 Expand your interests
• It is always a wonderful thing to discovering
your interests at every stage in your life.
Exploring what you like and pursuing your
passion will give you indispensable amount
of satisfaction and joy.
• It will make you knowledgeable, confident
and attractive as you will always have new
things to talk about to everyone.
 RESPECT for All
• The biggest thing that adds to your
personality is showing respect to others,
irrespective of the
post/designation/age/gender of the person.
• Treat others as you wish yourself to be
treated.
 Improve your communication
• Quran says ‫وقولوا للناس حسنا‬
• To enhance your persona , improve your
communication skills.
• When and where and how you speak, it plays
a crucial and vital role in your success.
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 PRESENTATION
• The way you project yourself to the world
will define your personality.
• . People perceive you from what they can see
and if you know how to show all the good
ones in you, Dressing Sense,
 Be a better listener
• cultivate the skill of being an exceptional
listener.
• hang on others every word, and make them
feel important.
• It is most appealing quality you may develop.
Read more and expand your interests
• Reading and writing make a strong
personality, full of information along with
maximum possible solutions for each every
ones problems.
• Buy new books , read and write online, show
your creativity and uniqueness.
• Share and exchange your views
 Have an Opinion
• Do not be shy and show and express your
opinion and unique outlook.
Meet New People
Make the effort to meet new people especially those
unlike you. It not only exposes you to different
cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it
broadens your horizons.
 Be positive in your Outlook and
Attitude
• None wants to be around people who are
negative, complain a lot, or have nothing good
to say?
• Smile warmly, spread good cheer, and enliven
others with your presence.
Be supportive of others
Being supportive is probably the most
endearing quality you can integrate into
your personality.
 Have Integrity
• Being honest and true to your word will bring
you the admiration, respect and gratitude of
others. Nothing improves a person's personality
more than integrity
Remain Happy and Lighthearted
Try to see the joy in the world. Laugh with others,
but not at them. Everyone appreciates someone
who is jolly and jovial. Smiling and laughing a lot
is a huge part of having a good personality.
 Stay calm in Tense situations
A lot of people seem like they have a good
personality until you see them in an
emergency or tense situation. Then they lose
their cool. Don’t be this person! If you are in
a tense situation, try to remain relaxed and
see what you can do to resolve the situation.
 Develop Modesty in you
• You could be the most talented,
extraordinary person in the world, but if you
don’t have any modesty than you probably
won’t have a good personality. Always keep
yourself level and balanced. Nobody likes a
big ego.
 Remain Loyal
Don’t betray those who are close to you. Your
loved ones will appreciate you more and
more if you remain loyal. Stick with the
people you love through thick and thin. You
can push through a rocky part in your
relationship if you remain loyal to the person.
 Don't have Multiple Faces
• You might face situation where you might
feel embarrassed to be your true self but
be YOU. Always act like yourself never keep
yourself mum. Don't bluff , or cheat others.
 Develop Hobbies
• Having hobbies is a big part of having a good
personality. You want to be a well-rounded
person, not a cliché. Try to throw yourself
into the things that you enjoy doing. You
don’t even need to be good at them – just
passionate.