Professional Documents
Culture Documents
as a Caregiver
By: Skylar Rowe
Stress of Caregiving
● Studies show that a certain amount of stress is helpful
● Stress while good sometimes can overwhelm our ability to cope and cause a feeling of “distress”
or “burnout”
● Caregiving is unique because what is stressful for one person may not be stressful for someone
else
● Stress can increase or decrease depending on how a person perceives their circumstances.
Factors that Affect Stress
● Whether caregiving is voluntary or involuntary
● All of these different situations can cause more stress or less stress.
○ The caregiver may resist accepting help from others, even when it is needed
○ Others may be willing to help but do not offer because they are uncomfortable around the
ill person, scared of the illness, or don’t know what they can do to help
○ Increased irritability
○ Fatigue
○ Lack of energy
Step 2
Identify Your Source of Caregiving
Stress
● Not all stressors are the result of caregiving
● It is important to identify the causes of stress before they overwhelm the caregiver
● Caregivers can't wait until they develop a health problem to get help
● People may be able to change a situation, how they respond to it, the perception of it, but
someone cannot change another person
● Some situations cannot be changed but changing the caregivers outlook on the situation can
make all the difference
Step 3 continued
Accept the reality of your caregiving situation
Identify what you still have, rather than focus on what is lost
● Self-talk-what we say to ourselves. It can be negative or positive. Positive statements are the best
for caregivers (Affirmations/Supportive statements)
Practicing Self-Care
● To be an effective caregiver people need to maintain their health by
nurturing themselves
○ Attending to your own health care needs ○ Seeking counseling when needed
● Meditation
● Humor
Develop an Action Plan
● Action plans are tools for change
● Finding meaning and hope can help caregivers make sense of their circumstances
2. Reflect
4. Write
Take responsibility
Take action
Change situation
Change perception
Change response
3. Communicating Feelings, Needs and
Concerns
Good Communication
Prevents misunderstandings
Builds relationships
Consequence
Aikido Communication Style
Align- Ask yourself, “What does this person want or need from me to feel better?”
Redirect- Move the conversation forward in a positive direction based on the areas of common ground
Resolve- Seek to resolve differences through: a) middle ground b) a common concern or c) agreeing to
disagree
5. Learning from Our Emotions
Feelings are a normal response to a situation
Consider a facilitator
Powerful Tools for Caregivers. (2013). The caregivers class. Portland, OR.