Course Name : CB122-Character Building II

Year : 2010

Early Social Environment

Session 1
 Family and Group of Friend
Families and groups of friends / game is
the closest social environment and
have a great influence on our lives

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 Family
• It is the smallest unit of social
life of man as a social being

• families are formed through

Marriage or by ties of blood
relationship

• Diverse types of family

1. Nuclear Family
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 Marriage Forms
• marriage in terms of the number of husbands and wives
- Monogamy: Mating in which husband and wife each
consisting of one person
- Polygamy: Polygamous marriages where the husband or
wife of more than one person
Polygamy divided into two:
polygyny more than one wife, divided into: polygyny
sororat and non sororat
polyandry is more than one husband, differentiated
into fraternal polyandry and non-fraternal polyandry

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 Original terms of the husband and
wife
• Exogamy marriage outside
their own group
• Endogamy marriage within
their own group
• Homogamy marriage between
people with the same social
class
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 Another Forms
• Lineage
- Patrilinear
- Matrilinear

• Domicile
- Neolokal
- Matrilokal
- Patrilokal

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 • In Group
Members of this group have a special attachment, so
that they can influence each other
playmate example classmate friend group slang
profession etc.

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 Relationships within the family
• Every family has its own
distinctive atmosphere • However, and whatever our family
atmosphere, we still have a share in it.
Our atmosphere rather than something
that just happens but there are many
sources and is determined by the
presence of every member of the family

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 • Atmosphere of nearby groups
Like in a family atmosphere within a group are
also many sources and depends on the
existence of each of its members
• A good member will attempt to deliver the
best for the progress and development group

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 Build a good relationship with the early social
environment
• We have to maintain, build and develop the
peaceful atmosphere of harmony and love each
other so there is warmth and peace
• We also need to have an understanding and
appreciation of appropriate and adequate given
the basic functions that belong to the family as
the basic social institution

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 Family Function
• Sexual arrangements
• Reproduction
• Economic cooperation
• Education and
socialization values
• Care/ maintenance
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 Threat that undermines family life and how
to cope
• Every family has the possibility to get a disturbing threat
their harmony
• Internal threat
- what type and shape?
• External threat
- what type and shape?
• Is there a relationship between the two threats are?
• How to prevent and overcome threats in a more effectively?

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