Late Adolescence Thriving through the Struggle of Adolescence
Adolescence can be both arduous and
exhilarating. As the body prepares for maturity and prepares to perform adult functions, many difficulties arise among teenagers that often push them to the limits of their mental and emotional state. These changes may also invite expectations from family, friends, the school, and the community; which adds to the pressure that adolescents experience. Affirmations of Lovable and Capable Adolescents Emotional Development
• May stress over school and test scores.
• Is self-involved (may have high expectations and low self- concept). • Seeks privacy and time alone. • Is concerned about physical and sexual attractiveness. • May complain that parents prevent him or her from doing • things independently. • Starts to want both physical and emotional intimacy in relationships. Social Development • shifts in relationship with parents from dependency and subordination • to one that reflects the adolescent’s increasing maturity and • responsibilities in the family and the community, • Is more and more aware of social behaviors of friends. • Seeks friends that share the same beliefs, values, and interests. • Friends become more important. • Starts to have more intellectual interests. • Explores romantic and sexual behaviors with others. Mental Development • Becomes better able to set goals and think in terms of the future. • Has a better understanding of complex problems and issues. • Starts to develop moral ideals and to select role models • Encouragement is the key ingredient for improving your relationships with others. It is the single most important skill necessary for getting along with others – so important that the lack of it could be considered the primary cause of conflict and misbehavior. Encouragement develops a person’s psychological hardiness and social interest. Encouragement is the lifeblood of a relationship. And yet this simple concept is often very hard to put into practice