Creating Mental Setup

by Prof. Q. H. Jeevaji

Successful people maintain a positive focus in life, no matter what the circumstances around them. them. They stay focused on their past successes than on past failures. They are proactive in the failures. pursuit of their chosen objectives. They dont objectives. rest till success comes their way. way.

Start with a Dream

What is the single most important key to success? There is no single key but a bunch of keys, a group of strategies and techniques that can be used by any one to achieve levels of target you have. You have to ignite all the have. engines to lift the rocket and put it in orbit. orbit.

Go Ahead and Make Your Day

You can never meet an achiever who settles for mediocrity in the pursuit of his or her dreams. In the contrary, every achiever is known for his or her overpowering inner drive for achieving excellence. Such people go on learning lessons form life, gain vision of a project and never take anything for granted. Thy always use their talents and learning to achieve excellence and very often achieve it. Even when they fail, they learn more and try to succeed in their future attempts.

Start with the P A R A D I G M I CAN DO IT



If we want big changes in our lives, the key is to change our Paradigm Paradigm of life
     

Friend Centered Boy friend / Girl friend Centered Parent Centered Hobby Centered Sports Centered Principle Centered (The Real thing Decide today to make principles your life centre or paradigm)

Baby Steps to reach the Goal

The next time you look in the mirror say something positive about yourself. Show appreciation for some ones point of view today. The next time you are in a tough situation and dont know what to do, ask yourself what principles should I apply (i.e. honesty, love, loyalty, hard work, patience)? Now follow the principle and dont look back.

The Personal Bank Account

- Possible Symptoms of poor P B A
  

 

You come in to peer pressure easily. You wrestle with feeling of depression and inferiority. You are overly concerned about what others think of you. You act arrogant to help hide your insecurities. You self destruct by heavily in to drugs, pornography, vandalism. You get jealous easily, specially where some one close to you succeeds.

Possible symptoms of Healthy P B A

     

You stand up for yourself and resist peer pressure. You are not overly concerned about being popular. You see life as generally positive experience. You trust yourself. You are goal driven. You are happy for the success of others.

Deposits vs. Withdrawals

P B A Deposits Keep promises to yourself Do small act of Kindness Be gentle with yourself Be honest Renew yourself Tap in to you talents

P B A Withdrawals Break Personal Promises Keep to your self Beat yourself up Be dishonest Wear yourself out Neglect your talent

Habit I Be proactive


I am the force, I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I am responsible for my happiness or unhappiness. I am in the drivers seat of my destiny, not just a passenger They are Calm, Cool, and in Control If pays to be Proactive Are not easily offended Take responsibility for their choice Think before they act Bounce back when something bad happen

 
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Habit II Begin with the End in mind clear picture where you want to go in you life setting goals. Habit III Put first thing first (learning to prioritize) Habit IV Think win-win winHabit V Seek first to understand then to be understood Habit VI Synergies Habit VII Sharpen the Saw

         

Identify your weakness Play to your strength Accept critical comments and act to remedy faults Form long term ambitions to help you notice chances to move forward Be a learner, failures are the pillars of success Remember to give yourself credit Make it a rule never to give up easily, but to keep on trying Imitate somebody with drive and energy to develop those qualities Keep fit Aim at perfection

World Class Quotations

1. Always bear in mind that your own resolution to success is more important than any other one thing Abraham Lincoln

2. The secret of getting ahead is getting started - Mark Twain

3. Self-trust is the first secret of success - Ralph Waldo Emerson 4. Nothing great has ever been achieved without enthusiasm - Emerson 5. Put your heart, intellect and soul even to your smallest acts, this is the secret of success - Swami Sivananda

6. Take a chance! All life is a chance. The man who goes farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare - Dale Carnegie 7. The human spirit is to grow stronger by conflict - William Canning 8. Attitude is a small thing that makes a big difference - Emerson

9. Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom - General George Patton

10. To move, without halt, Thats the secret of success - Anna Pavlov

Every Beginner Is a Winner

There will never be Another nownowIll make the most of today !

There will never be another memeI make the most of myself.

Dont kill The dream - Execute it

The me I see Is the Me Ill be !

Never Let a Problem Become an excuse ! Todays Decisions Are Tomorrows Realities.

The one battle most people lose is the battle over the fear of failure.. Try Start Begin And youll be assured you won the first round !

With a mountain, I will not quit I will Keep on striving Until I climb over, Find a pass through, Tunnel underneathunderneathor simply stay and turn the mountain into a gold mine, with gods help!

Better to Do something Imperfectly, than to Do nothing flawlessly.

Thank You for your patient hearing !

ALL THE BEST !